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WHO WINS WHEN BROTHERS AND SISTERS SEE THEMSELVES AS STRANGERS? THE DANGEROUS PRICE OF A DIVIDED SOCIETY

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When people who share the same history, struggles, culture and aspirations begin treating one another as enemies, somebody is benefiting from their division. And more often than not, the people paying the highest price are those who can least afford it.**

There is something deeply disturbing about a society where brothers and sisters can live on the same land, share similar struggles and face the same challenges, yet look at one another as strangers.

People who should be working together to build a better future are busy fighting over religion, ethnicity, tribe, political affiliation, social class and personal interests.

The question we must ask ourselves is simple but uncomfortable:

**Who wins when brothers and sisters see themselves as strangers?**

## Division: A Powerful Tool of Manipulation

History has repeatedly demonstrated that divided societies are vulnerable societies.

When people are divided, they lose the ability to recognise their common interests. Instead of demanding accountability, good governance, economic opportunities and social justice, they become distracted by endless arguments over differences that should never prevent peaceful coexistence.

Those who understand the power of division can exploit these weaknesses.

They know that a population fighting among itself is less likely to unite around common problems. They understand that people consumed by hatred are easier to distract from the decisions that affect their lives.

And while ordinary people are busy fighting one another, those who benefit from the division can continue protecting their interests.

**A divided population can spend generations fighting battles that do not improve its collective future.**

## When Religion, Ethnicity and Politics Become Weapons

Religion should not become an excuse to hate another human being.

Ethnicity should not become a reason to discriminate against someone.

Political differences should not destroy friendships, families and communities.

Yet, in many societies, these identities have become weapons used to create suspicion, resentment and hostility.

People are increasingly judged not by their character, integrity, competence or contribution to society, but by the group they belong to.

A person’s religion becomes more important than their honesty. Their ethnic background becomes more important than their ability. Their political loyalty becomes more important than their commitment to the common good.

What kind of society are we building when identity matters more than character?

And what future can we expect when people are encouraged to hate one another simply because they are different?

## The Real Victims of Division

The consequences of division are not limited to arguments on social media or political disagreements.

They affect education, economic development, security, employment, investment, social cooperation and the future of younger generations.

When communities refuse to cooperate, opportunities disappear.

When citizens cannot trust one another, collective progress becomes difficult.

When families and communities are divided, the next generation inherits suspicion instead of solidarity.

Meanwhile, poverty, unemployment, insecurity, poor infrastructure and inadequate public services do not discriminate according to tribe, religion or political affiliation.

These problems affect ordinary people regardless of the identity they proudly defend.

The painful irony is that people who are fighting one another often suffer from the same problems.

## Who Benefits From Our Hatred?

This is perhaps the most important question.

Who benefits when neighbours become enemies?

Who benefits when people who should demand better leadership spend their energy attacking one another?

Who benefits when citizens defend politicians more passionately than they defend their own future?

Who benefits when religious and ethnic loyalty becomes more important than justice, accountability and human dignity?

We must be courageous enough to examine these questions.

Not every disagreement is manipulation, and not every difference is deliberately created. But history and experience show that division can be deliberately exploited by individuals and institutions seeking power, influence or personal advantage.

The danger begins when ordinary people become willing participants in a system that weakens their own collective interests.

## Unity Does Not Mean Thinking Alike

It is important to understand that unity does not mean everybody must belong to the same religion, speak the same language, support the same political party or share identical opinions.

A healthy society allows disagreement.

People should be free to question, challenge, criticise and defend their beliefs without turning differences into hatred.

True unity means recognising that our shared humanity and collective future are bigger than our individual differences.

We can disagree without becoming enemies.

We can practise different religions without despising one another.

We can come from different ethnic backgrounds and still work towards common goals.

We can support different political parties without sacrificing our relationships or our responsibility to society.

That is the foundation of a mature and progressive society.

## Africa Must Rethink the Culture of Division

For African societies to make meaningful progress, there must be a serious conversation about the destructive consequences of division.

We cannot continue demanding development while celebrating hatred.

We cannot complain about exploitation while allowing ourselves to be manipulated against one another.

We cannot demand responsible leadership while blindly defending people simply because they belong to our preferred political, religious or ethnic group.

Development requires cooperation, critical thinking, accountability, mutual respect and a willingness to place collective progress above narrow interests.

Our differences should enrich our societies, not destroy them.

The younger generation deserves something better than inherited hostility. They deserve communities where intelligence is valued above tribal loyalty, integrity above religious pretence, and competence above political connections.

## The Question We Must All Answer

Perhaps the greatest tragedy of a divided society is that people can spend so much time fighting those who share their struggles that they forget to question the systems keeping them in those struggles.

We must stop allowing differences to become instruments of destruction.

We must stop celebrating division as though it were a sign of strength.

And we must understand that no community, ethnic group, religious organisation or political faction can build a prosperous society entirely at the expense of everyone else.

**When brothers and sisters become strangers, the entire society loses. But those who profit from division may be the only ones celebrating.**

The time has come to look beyond our differences and ask a more important question: What kind of future are we building together?

Because at the end of the day, hatred will not build our roads, educate our children, create employment, secure our communities or put food on our tables.

**DIVISION MAY GIVE SOME PEOPLE POWER, BUT UNITY GIVES A PEOPLE A FUTURE.**

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**NEWSBREAK365 EDITORIAL**

*Our society does not need more enemies. It needs more people willing to think critically, challenge manipulation, demand accountability and recognise the value of collective progress.*

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