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Emir of Gumel dies in Cairo

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The Emir of Gumel in Jigawa State, Alhaji Dr Ahmed Muhammad Sani II, CON, has died.

Former Minister of Communications and Digital Economy, Prof Isa Ali Pantami, announced the monarch’s death in a condolence message shared on Thursday.

Pantami said the emir died in Cairo, Egypt, on Thursday.

The monarch reigned as the Emir of Gumel from December 16, 1980, until his death on September 3, 2026.

Pantami described the late emir as a distinguished scholar, a beacon of wisdom and a father to all, saying he dedicated his life to the service of his people, promotion of peace and education, and preservation of cultural values.

“On behalf of myself and my family, I extend my heartfelt condolences to the immediate family of the late Emir, the Gumel Emirate Council, His Eminence the Sultan of Sokoto, Alhaji Muhammad Sa’ad Abubakar III, CFR, the Government and good people of Jigawa State, and the entire nation,” he stated.

Pantami prayed for the repose of the monarch’s soul and for the family and people of Gumel and Jigawa State to have the strength to bear the loss.

Source: punchng.com

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SOME HUSBANDS SEE THEIR WIVES AS “BABY FACTORIES” INSTEAD OF LOVING PARTNERS

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Marriage is supposed to be a partnership built on love, respect, understanding, sacrifice, and mutual responsibility—not simply a means of producing children.

Sadly, some husbands treat their wives as though their primary purpose is to give birth to children. Once a woman becomes a wife and mother, her feelings, dreams, health, and personal needs can sometimes be ignored because the focus becomes having more children.

A wife is not a baby factory. She is a human being, a companion, a partner, and someone who deserves love, respect, care, and consideration.

Having children is a blessing, but children should never become the only measure of a woman’s value in marriage. A healthy marriage requires husband and wife to communicate about family planning, finances, health, responsibilities, and the future of their family.

The Bible reminds husbands that their wives should be loved—not merely valued for what they can produce.

“Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.”
— Colossians 3:19 (KJV)

Love means caring about your wife’s wellbeing, listening to her concerns, supporting her dreams, and considering her feelings when making important family decisions.

The Bible also gives husbands a powerful standard for how they should love their wives:

“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.”
— Ephesians 5:25 (KJV)

A wife should not be valued only because she gives birth. She should be valued because she is your wife and your life partner.

Children are a blessing, but marriage is bigger than childbirth.

A husband who truly loves his wife should not see her merely as someone who produces children. He should see her as the woman with whom he is building a life, raising a family, facing challenges, sharing responsibilities, and growing old together.

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Before asking your wife for another child, ask yourself: Am I loving her, supporting her, protecting her, and sharing the responsibilities of the family?

A strong marriage is not measured only by how many children a couple has. It is also measured by how much love, respect, peace, responsibility, and companionship exist between husband and wife.

What do you think? Should husbands and wives have an equal say in decisions about having children? Share your opinion in the comments.

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SOME WIVES SEE THEIR HUSBANDS AS ATMS RATHER THAN AS THEIR PARTNERS

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Marriage is supposed to be a partnership, not a financial transaction.

A husband should not be valued only by how much money he earns or how much he can provide. While financial responsibility is an important part of family life, a successful marriage requires much more than money. It requires love, respect, communication, sacrifice, understanding, and genuine companionship.

Unfortunately, some marriages can become so focused on financial expectations that the husband begins to feel like an ATM machine whose primary purpose is to provide money.

When every conversation becomes about money, shopping, bills, allowances, or what the husband can buy, the emotional side of the marriage can suffer. A man may begin to feel appreciated only when he is financially successful and ignored when he is struggling.

That does not mean a husband should avoid his responsibilities. A responsible husband should do his best to provide for his family. However, marriage should not make one partner feel that their only value is their ability to produce money.

The same principle applies in the other direction. Wives should also be valued for who they are—not simply for what they cook, clean, contribute financially, or do around the home.

The Bible reminds us:

“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.”
— Ecclesiastes 4:9 (KJV)

The message is simple: husbands and wives should work together as partners.

Money can pay bills, buy food, provide shelter, and meet family needs, but money alone cannot create a happy marriage. A relationship also needs affection, respect, emotional support, trust, patience, and appreciation.

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A husband who provides financially deserves appreciation. A wife who supports her family deserves appreciation too. Both partners should be able to feel that they are loved and valued beyond what they can financially provide.

Marriage Should Be Partnership, Not Pressure

Before demanding more from your spouse, ask yourself:

Do I appreciate my partner for who they are, or mainly for what they can provide?

A strong marriage is not about one person constantly giving while the other constantly demands. It is about two people working together, supporting each other, and facing life’s challenges as a team.

Be partners, not customers. Build love, not financial pressure.

What Do You Think?

Do you believe financial expectations are putting too much pressure on some marriages today?

Or do you believe that a husband should be expected to provide financially, regardless of the pressure it may create?

Share your opinion in the comments.

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Rapper Erigga’s ‘family money’ post triggers debate as Davido hits back

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Nigerian rapper Erhiga Agarivbie, aka Erigga, has sparked debate on social media app, X, after praising musicians who didn’t come from wealthy families and had to work for their earnings.

The rapper, in a tweet late Tuesday, wrote on his X handle, “Shoutout to all the musicians who don’t come from family money and had to grind for every single dollar they earn.”

Reacting to the post was Afrobeats star, David Adeleke, popularly known as Davido, who quoted the tweet and countered that musicians who come from wealthy families also deserve recognition for working their way “to the top ”

Tweeting on Wednesday night, Davido stated fiercely, “No be we say make your pops no guard o. Shoutout to the ones that came from family money and still grind to the top.”

The ‘Omo baba olowo’ crooner later described Erigga’s tweet as “useless motivation,” and referred to the rapper as an”imbecile.”

The exchange has since generated mixed reactions on X, with about 35,000 posts linked to the debate.

While some users defended Erigga for simply celebrating artistes who succeeded without a privileged financial background, others suggested that the rapper’s tweet was a subtle dig at Davido who comes from a wealthy family.

One X user, Moses5_a, tweeted, “This tweet is so harmless. I don’t know why people are crying over it. He clearly wasn’t shading anyone but somehow someone got offended. If you follow Erigga way back from 2020, you will know he’s all about motivation.”

Another X user, NurseVictoria01, wrote, “There’s no award or glory for suffering.

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When are you ever going to act your age? Stop throwing unintelligent shade. No one stopped your ancestors or your father from securing the bag. You can chase X money without hating on the rich.”

One user identified as Shandymoney confronted Eriga, saying, “Kuku mention Davido.”

Referring to Davido, an X user, CrystalReignz, tweeted, “Give them back to back, nobody has the right to discredit your effort.”

One X user, Mautiin01, asked, “But how you take know say na you he Dey follow talk? You catch sub.”

A user, HonitelHQ, stated, “You have a very low self esteem and it is really pathetic. There is no place in that tweet where he mentioned your name. You are not the only artist in Nigeria that comes from money. The tweet isn’t even a sub but your insecurity won’t let you ignore something that isn’t about you.

“You have a main character syndrome, too. You always want to make it about yourself. This is really a sad way to live life, man.”

Another X user identified as Feyitayo2724, said, “Do you know how stupid you sound? The easiest way to make it in life is through inheritance (being born into a rich home). Blame it on your parents if you weren’t born rich, and not try to downplay the efforts of others because they are from a well-to-do home.”

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