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Alaafin vs Ooni: Monarchs under spell, say traditionalists

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The Traditional Religion Worshippers Association, Osun State, has said the Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Abimbola Owoade, and the Ooni of Ife, Oba Enitan Ogunwusi, may be under a spell due to repeated clashes between them.

The President of the group, Oluseyi Atanda, said members of the association needed to perform rituals to settle the disputes between the two frontline Yoruba monarchs.

This is as a popular poet and Ifa priest, Ifayemi Elebuibon, said traditionalists had been offering sacrifices for peace to reign in Yorubaland.

The hostilities between the traditional rulers were reopened on Monday after the Alaafin faulted Ooni’s decision to confer the title of Okanlomo of Yorubaland on a businessman, Dotun Sanusi.

Oba Ogunwusi bestowed the title on him during the unveiling of 2geda, an indigenous social media and business networking platform, at Ilaji Hotel, Ibadan, Oyo State, on August 16.

In a statement signed by his media aide, Bode Durojaiye, the Alaafin issued a 48-hour ultimatum to the Ooni to revoke the title or “face the consequences,” arguing that no traditional ruler other than him had the authority to confer a title covering the entire Yorubaland.

However, the Ooni’s spokesperson, Moses Olafare, said Oba Ogunwusi had directed him to ignore the Alaafin’s outburst and leave the matter “in the court of public opinion.”

Commenting on the matter in an interview with Saturday PUNCH, Atanda expressed concern over the outbursts of the two monarchs, warning that their aides should be cautious.

The gynaecologist said it was unfortunate that the monarchs, who identified with the traditional religion, found themselves in such a needless quarrel.

Atanda said, “The two monarchs are traditionalists. We are from the same father. What could have caused the fight? May we not be under spell in Yorubaland. What is happening could be a spell from some people who don’t want the Yoruba race to unite.

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“What is happening can turn into a serious crisis; before you know it, some Yoruba monarchs will be queuing behind Alaafin and others will align with Ooni, and there will be a crisis.”

Asked if he meant that Alaafin and Ooni were under a spell, Atanda said, “It can be a spell. What is the reason for the quarrel? Both kings are wealthy, influential and exposed.”

Similarly, Elebuibon described the renewed feud between Ooni and Alaafin as needless, saying they should be concerned about the development of Yorubaland, not a supremacy battle.

He said it was embarrassing that the two monarchs, who were representing the Yoruba race across the world, were entangled in a supremacy battle.

The Araba of Osogbo said, “We are trying to resolve a matter, but somebody is frustrating the efforts (a n je ekuru k’tan, enikan tun gbonwo re s’awo). I wasn’t expecting what is happening. The two monarchs are cool-headed; they are frontline Yoruba monarchs representing the race across the world. If the two of them are exchanging words, it is a disgrace to every Yoruba.

“What should be paramount to them should be the development of the Yoruba race, not a supremacy battle. What are we going to gain from a supremacy battle? Some people are fanning the ember of discord, but the two monarchs should be above board. Criminals from other races are killing our people and trying to occupy our land, yet what we have is a supremacy battle from our monarchs. That shouldn’t be. God will settle everything. We are praying and offering sacrifices.”

No fresh legal process

Meanwhile, our correspondent gathered that the Alaafin was not considering a fresh legal process against the Ooni.

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It was learnt that Oba Owoade had vowed to release the Supreme Court judgment that purportedly affirmed his exclusive rights to confer chieftaincy titles covering the entire Yorubaland.

Findings revealed that Monday’s outbursts marked the second clash between the Alaafin and the Ooni this year.

The two prominent monarchs had earlier clashed in March over the control of Oyotunji African Village in Beaufort County, South Carolina, United States, following the killing of the village leader, Adejuyigbe Adefunmi.

Ooni had sent a team of monarchs to Oyotunji to perform traditional rites after Adefunmi’s murder.

However, Oba Owoade, who was in seclusion at the time, allegedly called one of the traditional rulers sent to the village and demanded that they vacate the community, claiming it was Oyo’s territory.

The Alaafin’s Director of Media and Publicity, Bode Durojaiye, on Friday, declined to comment on the next step the Alaafin would take after the expiration of the 48-hour ultimatum he gave to the Ooni.

The ultimatum elapsed on Wednesday.

Asked if Oba Owoade would sue the Ooni for refusing to revoke the chieftaincy title, the spokesperson said, “I am under instruction not to talk to anyone on this matter again. I can only tell you that prominent Yoruba leaders both within and outside the country have intervened. That it is.”

When asked about the content of the Supreme Court judgment he referred to in his earlier statement, the Alaafin’s spokesperson said, “You will read it by yourself when we release it. Just be patient.”

An insider in the palace told our correspondent that Oba Owoade would not resort to a legal process to force Ooni to revoke the title or assert his supremacy.

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The palace source said, “It has not got to that. There is an existing Supreme Court ruling, so instituting another legal process may not be necessary. It is not a fresh issue. It is recurring.

“There are many Yoruba elders who have been calling Kabiesi every day on the matter. The call is too much; appealing that we should allow Yoruba elders to wade in.

“However, the matter is not over. We are going to review and reveal our next step on the matter,” he said.

Another credible source at the palace told our correspondent that the Alaafin had warned his aides against inciting or divisive comments on the matter, and that efforts were on to reconcile the two prominent rulers.

“I can confirm that our elders have intervened and they are making moves to settle the matter at both ends. Talking to the press may jeopardise their efforts,” he stated.

Some insiders in Ooni’s palace, who disclosed that Oba Ogunwusi was at peace and was not ready to take on anybody on the matter.

“They were the ones who issued an ultimatum and they are the ones that know the consequences they want to unleash. They should be asked what their next action will be.

“Honestly, we (Ooni’s palace) don’t want to join issue with anybody on this matter. They have issued a threat and they should tell us what to expect. They are not even remorseful about it. We have left the matter in public opinion. The people should judge.”

The Ooni’s spokesperson, Moses Olafare, declined to comment on the matter.

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FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT — BUT AT WHAT COST?

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In today’s world, looking successful can sometimes seem more important than actually becoming successful. From luxury cars and designer clothes to expensive holidays and flashy social media posts, the pressure to appear wealthy is influencing how many people present themselves to the world.

But behind the glamorous pictures, is everything really as it seems?

The Culture of Pretending to Be Successful

The popular expression “Fake it till you make it” is often used to encourage confidence, ambition and the courage to pursue success before you feel fully prepared.

However, there is a difference between believing in your potential and pretending to possess wealth or achievements you have not earned.

Some people borrow money to maintain expensive lifestyles. Others spend beyond their means to impress friends, family members or social media followers. Some even sacrifice their financial security simply to avoid being perceived as unsuccessful.

The result can be a dangerous cycle in which maintaining appearances becomes more important than building a stable future.

The Nigerian Perspective: When Success Becomes a Competition

In Nigeria, visible displays of wealth can attract admiration, respect and social recognition. A person who drives an expensive car, builds a magnificent house or frequently displays luxury purchases may be celebrated as someone who has made it in life.

Meanwhile, someone who works honestly, saves carefully and builds wealth gradually may receive less attention.

This raises an important question: Have we become so obsessed with the appearance of success that we have forgotten how to recognise the real thing?

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There is nothing wrong with celebrating genuine achievements or enjoying the rewards of hard work. The problem begins when people measure their worth by public approval rather than financial stability, personal growth and meaningful accomplishments.

Young people, in particular, may feel pressured to imitate lifestyles they see online without understanding the income, financial support, debt or circumstances behind those images.

Social media shows us what people want us to see. It rarely reveals the full story.

The Hidden Cost of Fake Success

The consequences of pretending to be wealthy can extend far beyond an empty bank account.

Financial pressure: Spending money you cannot afford to lose can lead to debt and financial insecurity.

Mental stress: Constantly maintaining a false image can create anxiety and fear of being exposed.

Damaged relationships: Borrowing money to impress others or lying about your circumstances can undermine trust.

Delayed progress: Money spent on appearances is money that could have gone towards education, business, savings, housing or other meaningful goals.

Real success does not always look glamorous. Sometimes, it looks like living within your means, paying your bills on time, supporting your family, learning a valuable skill and steadily improving your circumstances.

These achievements may not attract thousands of likes, but they can make a lasting difference in your life.

Confidence Is Good. Deception Is Different.

The expression “fake it till you make it” does not have to mean lying about your wealth. It can mean developing the confidence to apply for a better job, start a business, speak publicly or pursue an opportunity before you feel completely ready.

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That kind of confidence can be constructive.

But pretending to own what you do not own, borrowing recklessly to impress people or misrepresenting your financial position is a different matter.

You do not have to look rich to build wealth. You do not have to impress everybody to make progress. And you certainly do not have to prove your success to people who are not contributing to your future.

Build the life first. Let the appearance follow naturally.

The Big Question: Are We Living for Ourselves or for Other People’s Approval?

Ultimately, everyone has a choice. You can spend your life competing with other people’s carefully curated images, or you can concentrate on building a life that genuinely works for you.

The real measure of success is not simply what you wear, the car you drive or the destinations you post online. It is also the security you build, the responsibilities you fulfil, the opportunities you create and the peace of mind you enjoy.

At NewsBreak365, we want to hear your perspective.

Join the conversation:

Is “fake it till you make it” a useful strategy for developing confidence, or does it encourage people to deceive others?

In Nigerian society, do people respect genuine achievement more than visible displays of wealth?

Would you rather live modestly while building real wealth or maintain an expensive lifestyle to impress people?

Has social media made success look more like a competition than a personal journey?

Share your views in the comments. Respectful disagreement is welcome.

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“I MADE THIS PERSON WHO THEY ARE TODAY!” — REALLY?

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In Nigeria, you sometimes hear people say, “If not for me, where would you be today?”

It could be a politician reminding constituents of the favours he claims to have done for them. It could be a wealthy businessman telling a former employee that they would still be struggling without him. It could be a family member reminding a younger relative of the school fees they paid, the business they financed, or the connections they provided.

Sometimes, even after the person has become successful, the reminder never stops.

But does helping someone succeed give you permanent ownership of their achievements?

Let’s look at the Nigerian reality.

A young Nigerian gets a job through someone’s connection. Years later, that young person builds a successful career through hard work, experience, sacrifice, and personal determination. Yet the person who introduced them to the employer continues to claim all the credit.

A young entrepreneur receives financial support from a relative and turns a small business into a thriving company. Instead of celebrating the entrepreneur’s growth, the relative repeatedly reminds everyone, “I was the one who made him rich.”

In politics, some Nigerian leaders speak as though providing roads, scholarships, appointments, or other public benefits means citizens must remain personally loyal to them. But public service is not a personal favour when it is funded by public resources.

Here is the uncomfortable question: When does gratitude become control?

Let us be fair. Many Nigerians have succeeded because someone believed in them when nobody else did. Parents sacrificed their comfort, relatives paid school fees, mentors opened doors, and friends provided support during difficult times. Those contributions should never be dismissed.

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But opening a door is not the same as walking the entire journey.

The person who helped you deserves appreciation. The person who worked hard to build a future also deserves recognition.

Nigerians must learn to distinguish between being grateful to someone and becoming permanently indebted to their ego.

If you helped someone become successful, celebrate your contribution without trying to control their decisions forever. And if someone helped you, never allow success to erase your memory or turn you into an ungrateful person.

NEWSBREAK365 ASKS:

In Nigerian society, have you noticed how some people use past favours to demand lifelong loyalty?

1️⃣ Is it right to keep reminding someone of what you did for them?

2️⃣ If you helped someone get a job or start a business, do you deserve credit for their entire success?

3️⃣ Should Nigerians remain loyal to politicians simply because those politicians once helped them?

4️⃣ Have you ever seen a relationship damaged because someone kept saying, “I made you who you are today”?

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SOME PEOPLE WILL DO ANYTHING — EVEN EVIL — JUST TO MAKE MONEY!

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In Nigeria today, one question deserves serious attention: Have we reached a point where the amount of money you have matters more than how you made it?

Look around. Someone builds a mansion, buys an expensive SUV, wears designer clothes, or sprays bundles of ₦1,000 notes at parties, and suddenly, everybody wants to associate with them. They are celebrated, respected, and treated like champions—even when nobody knows the true story behind their wealth.

But why are we so quick to celebrate money without asking questions?

Millions of Nigerians wake up every morning to work honestly. Traders struggle to keep their businesses alive. Teachers work hard for their salaries. Young graduates search endlessly for jobs. Parents make sacrifices to feed their children and pay school fees. Yet, some people feel that honest work is too slow and that becoming rich by any means necessary is the only way to survive.

That is where the real danger begins.

When society celebrates wealth without integrity, some people may become tempted by internet fraud, scams, corruption, exploitation, and other harmful practices. Others may even turn to alleged ritual practices because they believe wealth must come at any cost.

The problem is not that Nigerians want to become rich. The problem is when the desperation to become rich destroys people’s conscience.

Think about the message we are sending to the younger generation. When a young person sees someone flaunting millions online and receives more admiration than a hardworking professional, what lesson are we teaching?

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Are we teaching our children to value education, creativity, patience, and honest business? Or are we teaching them that the only thing that matters is having money, regardless of its source?

At parties, we celebrate the person spraying cash. On social media, we admire the person showing off a fleet of cars. In some communities, people who suddenly become wealthy receive praise before anyone considers how that wealth was acquired.

Meanwhile, honest people who are struggling financially can be mocked, ignored, or treated as failures.

WHEN DID POVERTY BECOME A SHAME, AND WHEN DID QUESTIONABLE WEALTH BECOME A BADGE OF HONOUR?

Nigeria needs a change in values. We need to celebrate honest entrepreneurs, hardworking workers, innovative young people, and those who build successful businesses without destroying other people’s lives.

We must also stop confusing expensive possessions with genuine success. A luxury car does not prove good character. A mansion does not guarantee peace of mind. And a fat bank account does not automatically make someone a role model.

There is nothing wrong with dreaming of wealth. Nigerians deserve good jobs, profitable businesses, financial freedom, and a better quality of life. But no amount of money should be worth sacrificing your humanity, integrity, or another person’s future.

LET’S HAVE AN HONEST NIGERIAN CONVERSATION!

👇 QUESTION 1: Do you think Nigerian society celebrates wealthy people too much without asking how they made their money?

👇 QUESTION 2: Has the pressure to become rich made some young Nigerians lose sight of the value of honest work?

👇 QUESTION 3: If someone is rich but acquired their wealth through dishonest or harmful means, do they deserve to be celebrated?

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