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I took inspiration from sex workers for ‘To Kill a Monkey’ role – Sunshine Rosman

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Actress, Sunshine Rosman, tells OGHENOVO EGODO-MICHAEL about her career, role played in the movie series, ‘To Kill A Monkey’, and other issues

Tell us about your family background.

My mum is from Imo State and my dad is Canadian. I grew up in the Ijeshatedo area of Surulere, Lagos. Later, I lived in Magodo, then Bode Thomas, before moving back to Ijesha (all in Lagos). I was very much a daddy’s girl and spent a lot of time with him. He was a hands-on father who even cooked for the family sometimes.

How did your journey into acting begin?

Acting is something I’ve always known. My parents always encouraged me. My sisters and I would put together little plays or record songs and make our dad watch them when he came back from work, even when he was exhausted. Many times, he pretended to be happy and applauded us regardless. We were all entertainers in my family and we loved watching movies together.

I remember watching a Marilyn Monroe film and being fascinated by her expressions beyond just her beauty. My dad told me she was one of the biggest actresses in the world, and at that moment, I said to myself, “I want to be like that.”

In what ways did Marilyn Monroe influence your acting or performance style?

Performance-wise, I can’t say I picked much directly from her, but there’s something about her that lights up a room. However, her style has definitely influenced me. Whenever I’m choosing what to wear, she is often on my mood board.

In what ways did ‘To Kill a Monkey’ push you to prepare differently?

The experience was unique. I had auditioned a year earlier but wasn’t initially cast. Just when they were about to start filming, I was contacted to step in for the role. At the exact time, I was supposed to begin my school exams. School has always been tricky for me because of work; when exams come, I focus solely on reading.

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I had to choose between deferring the semester or starring in ‘To Kill a Monkey’. I didn’t want an extra year in school, but I had also prophesied that I would one day work with Kemi Adetiba. So, I went ahead to write my exams and thought I had lost the role. During my school break, I didn’t get a call back in time and decided to move on to another project. But then I had a dream where I saw myself moving across film sets in full hair and make-up. I strongly believed it was Kemi Adetiba’s set.

A few days later, I got the call. Ironically, I was at a radio interview telling them I was going to star in her film, even though I hadn’t been called yet. When the call finally came, everything fell into place.

What strong lesson did the movie teach you?

I would say that there are many “Efes” in our daily lives. In the story, no one was completely innocent— it wasn’t black and white. Each character had both good sides and flaws. I have learnt that people who glorify themselves as good may still have hidden dirt.

From Amanda Sparkles’ (her character in the movie)’s perspective, the lesson is clear: when a man brings you down, don’t stay there; flip the script.

You’ve worked across genres from comedy to drama. What helps you adapt to such contrasting roles?

I use anchors— inspirations for the characters I play. For Sparkles, it was high-class Lagos “runs” girls. These anchors could be a person, an object, or multiple things at once. Amanda Sparkles was a blend of my personal experiences and those of other women I’ve observed. Sometimes, I just sit in a club and watch people. Above all, God’s grace helps me.

How has your experience learning French and your openness to mastering other languages shaped your career?

I must clarify that I don’t speak French fluently. The rumours may have come from an interview I did years ago when I was studying at Alliance Française in Ikoyi. At the time, I had just finished my first class and could hold basic conversations. I even switched my phone language to French to immerse myself.

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During an interview, I mentioned that I spoke “a little French,” which was an exaggeration. While I can understand a few words if spoken slowly, I am far from fluent.

That said, I remain fascinated by languages. If a role requires me to learn one, I’ll do the work. Whether it’s spending time in an Indian community or immersing myself in Spanish culture, I am open to the challenge. Being multilingual as an actress creates more opportunities.

Your mixed heritage gives you a bicultural perspective. How does that shape how you interpret characters?

Being biracial is sometimes an advantage, but often a disadvantage. Casting-wise, people struggle to place me. My features don’t always fit the typical Nigerian look, yet I don’t fully look foreign either.

For instance, if I’m cast as a daughter, they may have to recast one of the parents to make the family look believable. In international films, they face the same challenge. I fall in between.

Would you say your relationship with Bucci Franklin contributes to your on-screen chemistry?

I can’t speak to that directly, but Bucci is an extraordinary actor; truly a gift. I have had the honour of working with him several times, and each time was a privilege. Beyond his talent, he is a fantastic person with a great character. In this industry, it’s not just about working with skilled people but with good-hearted ones too. I look forward to more projects with him.

You volunteer for a charity organisation. What is that like?

The organisation was founded by my mother and supported by my late father. It has always been a family commitment; something I’ve done since childhood and will continue for life. Recently, my mum opened an orphanage in Abia State with about eight girls under her care.

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What are your ambitions beyond Nollywood?

I want to feature in all the “woods”— Nollywood, Hollywood, Bollywood, even the Asian and British film industries. My dream is to be an international actor, not just a Nigerian one. I want roles that challenge me and push me beyond my comfort zone. I don’t want to limit myself in any way.

How do you feel about sharing the same birthday with your mum?

It makes me feel special. It’s a bond I truly cherish. As a child, I sometimes wished for my own birthday, since my sisters had theirs. I even felt jealous at times. But growing older, I’ve come to see it as a blessing.

Are there roles that are off-limits for you?

Yes. I’ve restricted intimacy scenes. Too often, producers see a beautiful girl and the first instinct is to sexualise her on screen. Sometimes, even costumes for simple roles like an office worker are unnecessarily provocative. Some directors exploit that.

I am not interested in being reduced to an object of desire, except if there’s a powerful message behind it. For example, Amanda Sparkles wasn’t just a prostitute; she was central to Oboz’s downfall and brought depth to the story.

Is there a dream role or project outside acting you’d love to pursue?

Yes. I’m a businesswoman at heart. I love fashion, haircare, skincare, and make-up. That side of me hasn’t been fully revealed yet, but soon people will meet Shine, the businesswoman.

Outside of business, how do you unwind?

I love serene places, especially being by the beach or a lake. I also treasure time with my family and close friends.

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🔥 A HARD QUESTION FOR CHRISTIAN WIVES: WHY DO YOU RESPECT YOUR PASTOR MORE THAN YOUR HUSBAND?

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Some wives can stand before their pastor with a gentle voice, a respectful attitude, and complete attention. They will never speak to their pastor the way they speak to their husband at home.

But when they get home, the respect disappears.

Is that really the kind of Christian character God wants?

Before you get angry with this question, examine yourself.

📖 Ephesians 5:33 (KJV) says:

“…and the wife see that she reverence her husband.”

The Bible does not tell a wife to reverence her pastor while treating her husband with contempt.

But let us also be fair: God did not command husbands to demand respect while refusing to love their wives.

📖 Ephesians 5:25 (KJV):

“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.”

Marriage is not a competition between husband and pastor.

Your pastor may preach to you, counsel you, and pray for you—but your husband is the person you chose to build a life with.

If you can speak politely to your pastor, why can’t you speak politely to your husband?

If you can listen patiently to your pastor, why can’t you listen patiently to your husband?

If you can honor your pastor publicly, why must your husband receive disrespect privately?

And husbands, this message is for you too:

You cannot demand the respect you refuse to give.

📖 1 Peter 3:7 (KJV):

“Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife…”

A Christian home should not be a place where one person demands submission while the other refuses to show love.

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Respect should go both ways. Love should go both ways. Honor should go both ways.

📖 1 Corinthians 16:14 (KJV):

“Let all your things be done with charity.”

🔥 THE REAL QUESTION IS THIS:

If your pastor saw the way you speak to your husband at home, would he recognize the same Christian character you display in church?

👇 BE HONEST:

Do you think some Christians give their pastor more respect than they give their spouse?

YES or NO? Tell us why in the comments.

And if this message challenged you, share it with someone who needs to hear it.

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WHEN MAJOR DECISIONS ARE KEPT HIDDEN, THE FOUNDATION OF A MARRIAGE BEGINS TO CRUMBLE

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Marriage is built on trust, honesty, communication, and unity. When one spouse begins making major decisions in secret—especially decisions involving money, family, relationships, property, or the future of the home—the damage can go deeper than the decision itself. Secrecy creates suspicion, suspicion weakens trust, and when trust disappears, the foundation of the marriage begins to crumble.

The Bible says:

“Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.”
— Ephesians 4:25 (KJV)

Husband and wife are no longer two separate people living independent lives; they have become one. Therefore, major decisions that affect the family should not be hidden from one another. Transparency is not weakness—it is a sign of respect and commitment.

The Bible declares:

“And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.”
— Mark 10:8 (KJV)

If a decision will affect your spouse, your children, your finances, your home, or your future, your spouse deserves to know. A marriage cannot remain strong when one person knows the truth while the other is deliberately kept in the dark.

Scripture also teaches:

“The simple believeth every word: but the prudent man looketh well to his going.”
— Proverbs 14:15 (KJV)

Wisdom requires communication before action. Before making major decisions, husband and wife should sit down, talk honestly, listen to each other, pray together, and seek understanding. A decision made secretly may appear successful for a moment, but the consequences of broken trust can remain for years.

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The Bible says:

“Can two walk together, except they be agreed?”
— Amos 3:3 (KJV)

Agreement does not mean that husband and wife will always have the same opinion. It means they are willing to communicate, consider each other’s concerns, and work toward a common direction.

A marriage should not be a place where secrets are protected at the expense of trust. Privacy has its place, but deliberate secrecy about major matters can become destructive. If something is important enough to change the direction of the family, it is important enough to be discussed.

Remember:

A marriage does not usually collapse because of one big decision. Sometimes it begins to crumble through repeated secrecy, hidden actions, broken promises, and the gradual destruction of trust.

Therefore, husbands and wives should choose truth over deception, communication over silence, unity over selfishness, and wisdom over impulsive decisions.

“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.”
— Ecclesiastes 4:9 (KJV)

If you want your marriage to remain strong, do not make your spouse a stranger to decisions that shape the life you are supposed to build together. Talk. Listen. Pray. Be honest. Build trust before the cracks become too deep to repair.

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WHAT YOU DO IN SECRET CAN SHOUT IN PUBLIC

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Many people are careful about what they do when others are watching, but character is revealed by what a person does when nobody is watching. You may hide your actions from people, but nothing is hidden from God.

The Bible says:

“For there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; neither hid, that shall not be known.”
— Luke 12:2 (KJV)

What you think is safely hidden today may become tomorrow’s testimony. Secret lies, secret corruption, secret betrayal, secret immorality, and secret wickedness may remain unknown to people for a while, but they do not remain hidden forever.

Numbers 32:23 warns:

“Be sure your sin will find you out.”
— Numbers 32:23 (KJV)

Therefore, do not live two different lives—one before people and another behind closed doors. Do not build a public reputation while secretly destroying your character.

Jesus also said:

“For there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; neither hid, that shall not be known.”
— Matthew 10:26 (KJV)

The best protection against public shame is private integrity. Do what is right even when nobody can see you. Speak the truth when lying would benefit you. Be faithful when nobody is checking. Refuse what is wrong even when you know you could get away with it.

God sees what people cannot see:

“For his eyes are upon the ways of man, and he seeth all his goings.”
— Job 34:21 (KJV)

Remember, reputation is what people know about you, but character is who you really are when the doors are closed.

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If you have something in your secret life that you would be ashamed for the whole world to discover, do not wait until it is exposed. Correct it now. Turn away from wrongdoing and choose righteousness.

“He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.”
— Proverbs 28:13 (KJV)

What you do in secret can eventually shout in public. Therefore, live in such a way that your private life will not contradict your public image. Let your character be clean when nobody is watching, so you will have nothing to fear when everything is brought to light.

Live right. Be honest. Keep your heart clean. What is hidden from people is never hidden from God.

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