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KWAM 1 – The Arikuyeri 1 of Abuja

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Now that the hard news–breaking news aspect of the airline saga of August has lapsed, we can now leisurely treat its soft news entertaining aspect, the one involving the music entertainer, Wasiu Ayinde. I will not dabble into that other airline act that gave us boobs show!

Rewind to August 5, 2025, at Abuja airport as the king of music, Wasiu Ayinde, swaggers in majesty to board his flight to Lagos, a gold-coloured flask in one hand, like a royal ‘irukere’.

He had cleared the boarding protocols and stepped onto the tarmac with the self-important carriage of royalty. After all, is he not the ‘Olori Omooba’ (head of the princes/princesses) of Ijebu-land?  He apparently believes that a royal ‘Irukere’ cannot be interrogated. So, he must have regarded it as impudent for the airline staff to ask the almighty KI the Ultimate disclosure of his flask’s content. The Big Man’s arrogance.  The media had created a public impression of Wasiu’s touted friendly relationship with President Bola Tinubu, and he must have felt that the knowledge of that relationship entitled him to preferential and reverential treatment.

When it dawned on him that the airline wouldn’t budge on its demand to know the content of his flask, and that he may not board the plane, Wasiu resorted to self-help by standing in front of the plane, apparently intending to use his body as a barrier to prevent take-off. It was an insane gambit. He did not reckon with the fury of a scorned lady pilot who revved her plane and engaged the gear.  Sensing clear and present danger, survival instinct prevailed over suicidal mission when the musician dodged the plane’s wing, which could have decapitated him. So, I give King Wasiu Ayinde a new title: The Arikuyeri 1 of Abuja.  (The Death Dodger 1 of Abuja).  Life is sweet, after all, particularly for a musician who has so much going for him, moneywise, and wasn’t ready to meet his creator in a gory exit.

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Times are a-changing (apology to Bob Dylan). And times are really, dramatically, changing for the better for musicians, many of whom now belong to the multimillionaire class, upgrading their social connections. Wasiu Ayinde belongs to that nouveau riche class of musicians and has climbed the social and political ladder to the stratosphere. He is even reported to be condescending to Obas!

Before now, musicians were not that well-regarded in society.

They were known as ‘Alagbe’ (beggars), those who perform at social parties and serenade people for money by praise singing. We still have a category of itinerant musicians – individuals, and sometimes in twos or trios – who go to social parties to praise-sing individuals for money. In the early 1960s, musicians were generally not appreciated with currency notes, but with coins, which were often slapped on the musician’s forehead. I often wondered then how those old musicians did not suffer from migraine.

The Wasiu Ayindes of this world, as a luckier generation of musicians, have acquired a sense of entitlement, an arrogance, that they should be deferred to because they have been able to wangle upscale relationships with those generally regarded as their betters. Such socially and politically connected musicians also develop an attitude of impunity, based on ‘man knows man’.  Luckily for Wasiu Ayinde, his purported connection not only got him a clemency from sanctions for a security breach at the Abuja airport, but he was also awarded an ambassadorship in the airline industry.  Nigeria, we hail thee!

I read that Ayinde grew up in the Onola area of central Lagos Island. That was an area of the Young Turks in those days.  So, KWAM 1 possibly must have learnt street smartness and imbibed street confidence during his growing-up days. I lived in that general area, by Campos Square, at the intersection of Bamgbose and Igbosere Streets, in the late 1960s, and knew the terrain from Tinubu Square, to Odunfa, Princess, Inabere, Okepopo, Tokunbo, Oshodi and Freeman streets.  Central Lagos Island was like one huge family in that period, with ‘area fathers’.

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Perhaps, maybe Wasiu knew President Bola Tinubu as an Islander neighbourhood ‘egbon’  in those days or cultivated him when music and money gave him stardom, and he desired a power connection as an icing on his popularity cake.  Whichever way, that connection, presumably, saved him from the hot embrace of the law, as the power man was believed to have facilitated a soft landing for him, apparently out of a self-induced, sentimental obligation to friendship. A case of a power benefactor becoming hostage to his power beneficiary?

Well, Wasiu had an escape from death and from the law. Hopefully, he has learnt a lesson in decorum and humility, that is, if he understands the meaning of decorum and what being humble is.

The one redeeming point about this musician is that he did not forget his roots – Ijebu-Ode, in Ogun State, where he has built a glittering music landmark structure in the GRA section of the town, thereby contributing to turning the area, with its many hotels, into a famed hospitality and entertainment hub.

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Ogogo’s daughters announce plans to enter Nollywood

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Daughters of the late Nollywood icon Taiwo Hassan, popularly known as Ogogo, have announced their decision to pursue acting and filmmaking more actively, pledging to carry on their father’s legacy in the Nigerian film industry.

The sisters, Taiwo Halima Olamide (also known as Lima Ogogo) and Shakirat Taiwo (Kira Ogogo), made the declaration in an appreciation video shared on Instagram and sighted by PUNCH Online on Friday.

The video, credited primarily to Kira Ogogo’s account and also linked to her YouTube channel KiraOgogoTV, has since been widely reported by Nigerian media outlets.

In the direct-to-camera message, the sisters expressed deep gratitude to fans, public figures, and well-wishers who supported the family after Ogogo’s death in August 2026.

“You guys loved our daddy so much. This is an appreciation video to tell you people thank you,” they said.

Speaking on behalf of the family, Lima added: “On behalf of my family and I, we want to say thank you very much to everybody who stood by us.”

They specifically acknowledged support from prominent figures, including Honourable Tayo Ayinde, the First Lady of Nigeria, the Governor of Ogun State, Senator Solomon Olamilekan Adeola (Yayi), and the Olu of Ilaro, as well as the many messages of sympathy that poured in during their period of mourning.

The sisters then turned to their future plans. They made clear that their involvement in the industry would not be limited to tributes but represented a long-term commitment.

“We are going to start seeing Ogogo through my sister Kira Ogogo. We are coming to the industry, and we’re here to stay,” Lima stated.

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They urged fans who loved watching their father’s movies to extend the same support to their own projects, encouraging people to watch, share, and promote their forthcoming films and content, particularly on Kira Ogogo’s YouTube channel, KiraOgogoTV.

Ogogo, a respected figure in Yoruba cinema known for his calm and authoritative screen presence, died on August 23, 2026, at the age of 66 after a battle with stage-four cancer. He was buried the following day in Ilaro, Ogun State, according to Islamic rites.

His death prompted widespread tributes across Nollywood and beyond.
The daughters’ announcement has been welcomed by many who followed their father’s career, viewing it as a way to keep his influence and contributions alive for a new generation of audiences.

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Nollywood veteran, Francis Duru, dies at 57

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Veteran Nollywood actor, Francis Duru, has died at the age of 57 following a brief illness.

His family announced his death on his official Instagram page in the early hours of Friday, expressing appreciation to fans and well-wishers for their support.

“We, the family of Francis Duru, regret to announce his passing following a brief illness.

“We appreciate your prayers, love, and understanding. May his soul rest in perfect peace. Amen,” the statement read.

Duru’s death comes months after he dismissed reports that he was battling a life-threatening illness.

In June, concern spread among fans and colleagues after a video showing the actor looking frail circulated on social media.

Responding to the reports, Duru shared a video on Instagram in which he described the footage as “fabricated and malicious”.

Born on July 27, 1969, in Cameroon to Nigerian parents from Imo State, Duru completed his primary and secondary education in the country before relocating to Nigeria for university studies.

He gained admission to the University of Port Harcourt, Rivers State, where he studied Theatre Arts and graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree in 1996.

Duru began his acting career in 1989 with Missing Mark, a film directed by the late Ndubuisi Oko.

However, he gained wider recognition in 1995 after featuring in Rattlesnake, an action-comedy produced by the late filmmaker Amaka Igwe. He played Ahanna in the film.

Throughout his career, Duru received several awards and honours for his contributions to the Nigerian film industry. He was also named a United Nations ambassador of peace in recognition of his influence on young people.

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In 2020, he won the Best Actor in a Leading Role (Igbo) award at the Best of Nollywood Awards for his performance in Mboputa.

Duru married his wife, Adokiye, in 2003, and they had four children together. The family lost one of their children, Ifeanyi, in August 2024.

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SOME MOTHERS-IN-LAW DON’T WANT TO LOSE THEIR CHILDREN — THEY WANT TO CONTROL THEIR CHILDREN’S MARRIAGES!

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**A MOTHER-IN-LAW CAN GIVE BIRTH TO A HAPPY FAMILY’S BIGGEST NIGHTMARE!**

Imagine marrying someone you love, only to discover that you are not just married to your husband or wife — you are also expected to answer to their mother for almost everything!

She wants to control your home, influence how you spend money, interfere in how you raise your children, and determine whether you are good enough for her son or daughter.

And the moment you speak up, you are labelled disrespectful, ungrateful, or a bad husband or wife!

**BUT HERE IS THE BIG QUESTION: IF YOUR CHILD IS OLD ENOUGH TO GET MARRIED, WHY IS THAT CHILD NOT OLD ENOUGH TO MAKE MARRIAGE DECISIONS WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION?**

Parents deserve respect. But marriage is not a lifelong competition between a mother and her child’s spouse.

A mature mother-in-law understands that her role is to guide, not control; to support, not sabotage; and to encourage peace, not create division.

And let us not pretend the problem always lies with the mother-in-law. Some husbands hide behind their mothers because they lack the courage to set boundaries. Some wives or husbands deliberately provoke family conflicts. Sometimes, the entire family contributes to the problem.

But when a married person consistently allows a parent to humiliate, undermine, or control their spouse, the marriage begins to suffer.

**YOUR PARENTS MAY BE YOUR FIRST FAMILY, BUT YOUR MARRIAGE ALSO DESERVES PROTECTION, LOYALTY, AND RESPECT.**

**LET’S SETTLE THIS DEBATE!**

Who is the biggest problem when a mother-in-law interferes in a marriage?

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1️⃣ The mother-in-law who refuses to let go of control?

2️⃣ The husband who cannot stand up for his wife?

3️⃣ The wife who refuses to respect her husband’s family?

4️⃣ Or the couple who allows outsiders to dictate the future of their marriage?

**BE HONEST! WHICH SIDE ARE YOU ON?**

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