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PHOTOS: Oba Ademuagun Adesida II, The First Oba Who Refused to Stand for a Governor in Nigeria

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Oba Ademuagun Adesida II was installed as the Deji of Akure on October 28, 1957. That same year, he was inducted into the Western House of Chiefs, popularly known as “Ipade L’Obaloba.”

During his very first attendance at the House of Chiefs meeting, an unforgettable event occurred—one that would forever distinguish him as a monarch of courage and dignity.

All traditional rulers from the Western Region were present, including the Premier, Chief Obafemi Awolowo. From the Ondo Province, five Obas were in attendance: the Deji of Akure, Olowo of Owo, Osemawe of Ondo, Ewi of Ado-Ekiti, and Elekole of Ikole.

As the Premier entered the chamber, all the Obas rose to their feet in respect—except Oba Ademuagun Adesida II, Ekun oko Eyesorun. His calm refusal to stand caught everyone’s attention.

Chief Awolowo, surprised by this act, inquired who the seated monarch was. The Deji replied firmly:

> “I am the Deji of Akureland, Ademuagun Adesida II.”

Awolowo questioned his audacity, to which the Deji responded with regal composure:

> “Is it right for elder monarchs like the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adesoji Aderemi, or the Alaafin Ladigbolu to stand for you? When we studied law in London, did you ever see anyone enter a hall and the Queen stand for them? Even in Nigeria, though our system differs, respect must still be given to whom it is due.

We inherited our thrones from our forefathers—only death can remove us. You, however, were chosen by the people’s thumb, and through that same thumb, you will be removed. I, Ademuagun, will never stand for you.”

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The other Obas, including Oba Akenzua of Benin, were stunned into silence. A heated exchange followed, during which Oba Ademuagun removed his crown, placed it before Awolowo, and said:

> “If you believe you deserve the honour you seek, place this crown on your head.”

Before Awolowo could respond, the Deji rose and left the meeting hall. Some omodeowas (palace aides) quickly retrieved the crown and followed their king out.

The confrontation caused great tension between the Deji and the Premier, but years later, Dr. Nnamdi Azikiwe intervened and reconciled both men in Akure.

Many believe Oba Ademuagun’s boldness stemmed from his training as a lawyer—educated and self-assured, he understood both the law of men and the dignity of kingship.

His wife, Olori Asake Adebola Adesida, witnessed the event, and Regent Adebusola Alice Adesida later confirmed it.

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Respect to Oba Ademuagun Adesida II — the lion of Akureland, who stood firm before power and upheld the honour of the crown.
Omo Owa, Omo Ekun Laafin. Iku pa ni han da’re.

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SOME PEOPLE ARE SO ARROGANT THAT YOU WOULD THINK THEY OWN THE EARTH, CONTROL HEAVEN, AND HAVE SIGNED A CONTRACT NEVER TO DIE!

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They walk around humiliating others, abusing power, flaunting wealth, and treating ordinary people like dirt beneath their feet. They behave as if nobody can challenge them, as if the world revolves around them, and as if death is something reserved for the poor.

**WHO TOLD YOU THAT YOU ARE IMMORTAL?**

Because you have money today, you think you are superior to everyone. Because you occupy a powerful position, you believe you can oppress others without consequences. Because people bow before you, you mistake their fear for respect.

Wake up! The world does not belong to you, and your present position is not a permanent inheritance.

You came into this world with nothing, and you will leave it with nothing. Your mansion will remain. Your luxury cars will find new owners. Your political seat will be occupied by someone else. Even the people who praise you today will eventually move on with their lives.

**THE GRAVE DOES NOT RECOGNISE BILLIONAIRES, PRESIDENTS, KINGS, OR CELEBRITIES!**

The same people you insult today may be the ones who remember your cruelty tomorrow. The same people you oppress may outlive your influence. Life can change in ways your money, power, and connections cannot predict.

So, why intimidate people when you are mortal? Why oppress the poor when your wealth cannot buy eternity? Why behave like a god when you cannot even guarantee what tomorrow will bring?

Remember this: **POWER IS TEMPORARY. WEALTH IS TEMPORARY. LIFE ITSELF IS TEMPORARY.**

Use your position to help people, not destroy them. Treat others with dignity, because the true measure of greatness is not how many people fear you, but how many people can honestly say you treated them well.

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**LET ME ASK YOU A QUESTION:**

Why do some people become so arrogant after acquiring money, political power, or social status? Have they forgotten that they, too, will grow old, lose their influence, and eventually die?

 **SPEAK YOUR MIND IN THE COMMENTS!**

#Humanity #Arrogance #PowerAndWealth #LifeLessons #Newsbreak365

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NOT EVERY MOTHER WHO SAYS “AFTER ALL I HAVE DONE FOR YOU” IS SPEAKING OUT OF LOVE. SOMETIMES, IT IS EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL!

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Some children are not suffering because their mothers never loved them. They are suffering because that love has become a weapon used to control their lives.

“You want to abandon me after everything I sacrificed for you?”

“I suffered to give birth to you, and this is how you repay me?”

“If you truly love me, you will do what I say.”

These words may sound like a mother’s pain, but when they are repeatedly used to create guilt, control decisions, or force children to obey against their will, they can become emotional manipulation.

💔 **THE PAINFUL TRUTH**

Some mothers make their children feel guilty for growing up, choosing their own partners, pursuing their dreams, setting boundaries, or simply saying NO.

They turn every disagreement into disrespect. Every boundary becomes betrayal. Every independent decision becomes evidence that their children no longer care about them.

And the child? The child grows up believing that saying NO makes them a bad son or daughter.

They sacrifice their happiness to keep their mother happy. They hide their pain to avoid being called ungrateful. They remain trapped in guilt because they are afraid of being judged by family and society.

**BUT LET US ASK A DIFFICULT QUESTION:**

Does giving birth to a child give a mother the right to control that child’s entire life?

Does sacrificing for your children mean they must repay you with unquestioning obedience forever?

Can a mother genuinely love her children while using guilt, fear, and emotional pressure to control them?

Let us be clear: not every emotional appeal is manipulation, and not every mother who expresses hurt is guilty of emotional blackmail. Mothers have feelings too. The problem begins when guilt becomes a repeated tool of control rather than a way to communicate genuine pain.

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❤️ A healthy mother-child relationship should be built on love, respect, understanding, and boundaries—not fear, guilt, and lifelong emotional debt.

**YOUR CHILDREN OWE YOU RESPECT, BUT THEY ARE NOT YOUR EMOTIONAL PRISONERS.**

🔥 **LET’S TALK!**

Have you ever seen a mother use the words *“After everything I have done for you”* to force her children to obey her?

**Is it love, emotional blackmail, or does it depend on the situation?**

Share your honest opinion in the comments. 👇

#EmotionalBlackmail #ToxicFamilyDynamics #MotherAndChild #EmotionalManipulation #FamilyRelationships #Newsbreak365

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SOME PARENTS DON’T RAISE CHILDREN WITH LOVE — THEY CONTROL THEM WITH GUILT!

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One of the most painful forms of manipulation comes from the very people who are supposed to protect you: your own parents.

Some parents have mastered the art of emotional blackmail. Whenever their children try to make independent decisions, they bring up sacrifices, remind them of their struggles, or make them feel guilty for saying **NO**.

“After everything I have done for you…”

“So, you want to abandon your parents?”

“You will regret this when we are gone!”

These words may sound like expressions of pain, but when they are repeatedly used to control, threaten, or exploit children, they become tools of emotional manipulation.

**LET’S TELL OURSELVES THE TRUTH!**

Raising a child is a responsibility, not a lifetime contract that gives parents unlimited control over that child’s future.

Yes, children should respect their parents. Yes, they should appreciate their sacrifices. But respect does not mean surrendering your peace of mind, financial stability, dreams, or happiness to satisfy every parental demand.

Some adult children are suffering silently because they are afraid of being labelled ungrateful. They keep sacrificing their own needs, not necessarily because they can afford to, but because they have been made to believe that choosing themselves makes them bad children.

**THE HARD TRUTH:** Love should inspire gratitude, not manufacture guilt. Parenthood should build responsible adults, not create lifelong emotional prisoners.

Parents deserve respect, but children deserve healthy boundaries too.

🔥 **NOW, LET’S DEBATE!**

Should children be expected to sacrifice their happiness and future to satisfy their parents, simply because their parents raised them?

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Or can you love and respect your parents while refusing to be emotionally manipulated by them?

**BE HONEST! Is emotional blackmail a form of parental love, or a tool of control?**

Drop your opinion in the comments. 👇

#Parenting #EmotionalBlackmail #FamilyRelationships #ToxicParenting #HealthyBoundaries #LifeLessons

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