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Political titans, Dangote attend El-Rufai mother’s burial

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On Sunday, dignitaries from different political divides were present at the Central Mosque, Abuja, in honour of Hajiya Umma El-Rufai, the deceased mother of the former governor of Kaduna State, Mallam Nasir El-Rufai.

From his residence in Abuja to the mosque and lastly to the Gudu cemetery, both members of the opposition parties and the ruling party were present to offer condolences.

Specifically, his successor, Governor Uba Sani, the National Security Adviser, Mallam Nuhu Ribadu, were present in his house and at the funeral prayers.

The two had parted ways politically with El-Rufai, though they were mutual friends before.

Also present were former Vice President Atiku Abubakar, 2023 Labour Party presidential candidate, Peter Obi, former governor of Rivers State, Rotimi Amaechi, former governor of Sokoto State, Aminu Tambuwal, and ex-Adamawa State governor, Jibrilla Bindow.

All Progressives Congress governors were also in attendance, including Governors Babagana Zulum (Borno) and Mohammed Bago (Niger); former national chairman of APC, Abdullahi Ganduje; former Minister of Interior, Abdulrahman Dambazau, among others.

The 16th Emir of Kano, Lamido Sanusi, a former Zamfara State governor, Abdulaziz Yari, Senator Shehu Sani and billionaire businessman, Aliko Dangote, were also present.

At the interment of Hajiya El-Rufai at the Gudu Cemetery, Abuja, on Sunday, the former Minister of Communications and Digital Economy, Isa Pantami, held the two estranged friends (El-Rufai and Sani) by their shoulders and spoke a few words capable of melting the hardest of hearts.

Looking across his shoulders, he said, “Let us focus on the things that unite us because they are more than the things that divide us.

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This life and everything it contains will end, and the grave is our end. No matter how you strive, you won’t get anything until Allah (God) grants it to you.”

Atiku had earlier announced his attendance in a post on his verified  X handle, saying, “Today, I joined family, friends and associates of Mallam Nasir El-Rufai and the extended El-Rufai family at the Janazah (funeral prayer) of the matriarch of the family, Hajiya Umma El-Rufai.

“May God continue to comfort the family and all who mourn her. And may Allah grant her Aljannah Firdaus. Amin.”

Prominent Nigerians, including President Bola Tinubu, had earlier paid tributes to the deceased.

Tinubu, in a statement signed by his spokesman, Bayo Onanuga, commiserated with El-Rufai, urging him to find the strength to move on in the absence of his beloved mother.

“Nasir, please accept my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your beloved mother, Hajiya Umma, which happened today (Friday) in Cairo. As someone who had also lost an old mother, I share in your grief,” Onanuga wrote on behalf of President Tinubu.

Sani also earlier extended condolences on behalf of the Kaduna State Government and its people, describing the late Hajiya Umma as “a devoted mother and matriarch, a woman of rare grace, moral clarity, and quiet strength,” who embodied faith, patience, generosity, and community reconciliation.

“On behalf of the government and people of Kaduna State, I extend my deepest condolences to His Excellency, Mallam Nasir El-Rufai, and the entire El-Rufai family on the passing of their beloved mother, Hajiya Umma El-Rufai,” Sani said.

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The National Chairman of the APC, Prof Nentawe Yilwatda, visited El-Rufai and his family, urging them to put their faith in God at all times.

He posted, “I visited the home of Mallam Nasir El-Rufai to commiserate with him and the entire family on the painful loss of his beloved mother, Hajiya Umma El-Rufai, who passed away yesterday (Friday).

“The death of a mother is a deeply personal and irreplaceable loss. It is a moment of profound grief not only for the immediate family, but also for all who understand the priceless role of a mother in the life of her children and family.

“Mama lived a fulfilled life and, by the grace of God, leaves behind a legacy through her children, family and all those whose lives she touched.

“At this difficult time, I pray that Almighty Allah forgives her shortcomings, grants her Aljannatul Firdaus, and comforts Mallam Nasir El-Rufai, the entire El-Rufai family, and all loved ones she left behind. May Allah grant the family the strength, patience and fortitude to bear this painful loss,” the APC Chairman wrote.

Also, the immediate past governor of Ekiti State and former Chairman of the Nigerian Governors’ Forum, Dr Kayode Fayemi, expressed deep sorrow over the passing of Hajiya Umma.

In a statement issued on Sunday by the Fayemi Media Office, the ex-governor described her death as a profound loss, not only to the El-Rufai family but also to all who were touched by her life of humility, faith, and service.

He noted that the late Hajiya Umma lived a life defined by strong moral values, devotion to family, and commitment to community—qualities he said are reflected in her son’s life and public service.

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“I received with deep sadness the news of the passing of Hajiya Umma El-Rufai. Her departure is a painful loss, but we take solace in the exemplary life she lived and the legacy she leaves behind,” Fayemi said.

The death came at a time when El-Rufai was in the custody of the Independent Corrupt Practices and Other Related Offences Commission following his arrest over allegations of corruption and money laundering.

He was arraigned before a Federal High Court in Kaduna on March 24 on a 10-count charge, with the case adjourned until March 31, 2026, for hearing of pending applications, including his bail request.

He was released temporarily from the ICPC custody, reportedly to witness the burial rites of his mother.

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UNICEF reveals one in five girls still married before 18

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One in five girls worldwide is still married before the age of 18, according to UNICEF, even as the agency reports that 68 million child marriages have been averted over the past 25 years.

In a post obtained from UNICEF’s website on Monday, the agency attributed the progress to investments in girls’ education, legal reform and social protection. The figures were released in a message marking the International Day of the Girl Child on October 11, 2026, under the theme “End child marriage and invest in girls’ rights!”

“We have the solutions: keeping girls in school; expanding access to health, protection and social services; working with families and communities to challenge harmful norms; investing in girls’ rights and supporting their leadership,” UNICEF said.

“Now we must go further and faster. It is in our power to ensure that every girl, everywhere, can realize her rights and fulfil her potential.

“For when girls are safe, educated and empowered, they don’t just transform their own lives, they help build healthier families, stronger communities and more peaceful, prosperous societies.”

According to UNICEF, “Approximately 650 million women and girls alive today were married in childhood. More than 12 million girls, roughly one every three seconds, are still married before reaching adulthood each year, with the highest prevalence in sub-Saharan Africa at 31 per cent.”

Nearly one in four ever-married or partnered girls aged 15 to 19 have experienced intimate partner violence in their lifetime. Crises, conflict and displacement continue to increase the risks of child marriage, sexual violence and maternal mortality.

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Girls aged 15 to 19 are twice as likely as boys not to be in education, employment or training. In fragile, conflict and violence-affected contexts, girls are nearly 90 per cent more likely to be out of secondary school than those in stable settings, raising their risk of child marriage.

“We know what works – and investing in girls is one of the most effective ways to accelerate progress,” UNICEF stated.

“Every girl deserves a childhood. Every girl deserves the freedom to learn, to grow, to make her own choices and to define her own future. Yet millions of girls are still denied that freedom.

“Child marriage remains one of the most widespread violations of girls’ rights, denying millions of girls the chance to stay in school, protect their health, live free from violence, and fulfil their potential.

“It can have severe and lasting consequences for girls’ physical and mental health, increasing risks of social isolation, anxiety, and emotional distress at a time when self-harm remains one of the leading causes of death among adolescent girls aged 15-19 globally.”

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FRSC mourns ex-corps marshal Biu

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The Federal Road Safety Corps has expressed sorrow over the death of a former Corps Marshal Dauda Biu, describing his death as a painful loss to the Corps, the road safety community and Nigeria.

In a condolence message on its X handle on Monday, the Corps Marshal, Shehu Mohammed, said late Biu was a distinguished officer whose career reflected dedication, discipline and commitment to public service.

Biu served as the seventh substantive Corps Marshal of the FRSC from July 2022 to May 2024.

During his tenure, he contributed to road safety administration, operational effectiveness, and institutional development.

Mohammed noted that the deceased’s contributions remained part of the Corps’ legacy, describing him as a seasoned professional who devoted a significant part of his life to serving humanity and promoting road safety in Nigeria.

On behalf of the FRSC management and workforce, Mohammed extended condolences to the deceased’s family, friends, associates, and others affected by his passing.

“On behalf of the Management and the entire workforce of the Federal Road Safety Corps, I extend my deepest condolences to his immediate family, friends, associates and all those whose lives he touched. We share in their grief at this difficult moment and pray that Almighty God grants them the strength to bear this irreparable loss.

“May Allah forgive his Shortcomings and grant him Paradise (Aljannah)

“Rest in peace, Dauda Ali Biu. Your service to the nation will not be forgotten,” the corps marshal said.

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WHEN A MARRIAGE BREAKS DOWN, CHILDREN OFTEN BEAR THE GREATEST EMOTIONAL PAIN

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A broken marriage is not just the end of a relationship between two adults. For children, it can mean a home divided, family routines disrupted, and the painful experience of watching the two people they love most go their separate ways.

When a marriage becomes troubled, the husband and wife may be consumed by anger, disappointment, betrayal, or unresolved differences. But amid these struggles, one important question is often overlooked: How are the children coping emotionally?

The Silent Victims of Marital Conflict

Children may not fully understand why their parents are fighting or separating, but they can feel the tension in the home. Constant arguments, insults, hostility, and being forced to choose sides can leave them feeling confused, insecure, anxious, or emotionally overwhelmed.

Some children may become withdrawn, struggle at school, or find it difficult to trust others. Others may hide their sadness because they do not want to upset either parent.

Not every child experiences separation in the same way. In some situations, separation may provide a safer and healthier environment, particularly where there is abuse or persistent conflict. However, the way parents handle the process can make a significant difference to their children’s well-being.

Marriage May End, but Parenthood Continues

One of the biggest mistakes separated parents can make is turning their children into weapons in their disputes.

Using children to deliver hostile messages, speaking badly about the other parent in front of them, withholding access as punishment, or demanding that they choose sides can place an unfair emotional burden on young minds.

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Children need reassurance that their parents’ relationship problems are not their fault. They also need to know that they are loved and that their basic needs, routines, and emotional security will remain a priority.

Where it is safe and appropriate, parents should encourage healthy relationships with both parents, even when they can no longer live together.

Should Parents Stay Together for the Children?

This is a difficult question with no single answer.

Some people believe parents should do everything possible to save their marriages for the sake of their children. Others argue that children may be better off when parents separate rather than remain in a home filled with hostility and constant fighting.

The truth is that a peaceful separation can be healthier than a home filled with fear, hostility, and emotional conflict. Equally, a struggling marriage may sometimes improve through honest communication, counselling, and a genuine willingness to change.

The priority should not simply be whether parents remain married. It should also be whether children grow up in an environment where they feel safe, loved, respected, and emotionally supported.

Where violence or abuse is present, safety must come first.

A Message to Every Parent

Before allowing anger to determine how you treat your former partner, remember the children who are watching and listening.

Do not make them carry the weight of adult disagreements. Do not force them to become messengers, judges, or emotional support systems for their parents.

If your marriage cannot be saved, make every reasonable effort to protect your children from unnecessary conflict. Seek professional support when needed, communicate respectfully where possible, and remind your children that they are not responsible for the breakdown of the relationship.

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A marriage may break, but the duty to raise emotionally healthy children remains.

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NewsBreak365 invites readers to share their views on this important family issue.

Should parents remain together for the sake of their children, even when the marriage is unhappy, or is a peaceful separation sometimes the better choice?

Can separated parents successfully raise happy, emotionally secure children without turning them against each other?

Share your opinion in the comments. Your experience or perspective may help another family facing a difficult decision.

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