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NAF killed my husband, abandoned me with three children – Widow

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Grace Joseph, the widow of the commercial bus driver, Joseph Okpe, who was allegedly beaten to death by the Nigerian Air Force officers along the Oshodi–Apapa Expressway in Lagos, has accused the military of abandoning her family, saying she has not heard from its representatives since they paid a condolence visit and promised support.

PUNCH Metro reports that the driver died a few hours after he was allegedly assaulted by a group of officers following a minor traffic incident involving their vehicle.

In a statement issued on Tuesday, the spokesperson for the Nigerian Air Force, Air Commodore Ehimen Ejodame, confirmed that all officers involved had been detained and that the family had been visited.

“The Nigerian Air Force is aware of the reported incident and is deeply saddened by the loss of life,” Ejodame said.

“Upon receiving information on the matter, the personnel suspected to be involved were immediately taken into custody, and the case is currently under investigation by the appropriate civil and military authorities.

“The NAF has also extended its condolences to the family of the deceased and visited them to express sympathy and support during this difficult time,” the statement added.

However, in a telephone interview with our correspondent on Wednesday, the grieving mother of three said the Air Force had failed to fulfil the assurances given to her family during the condolence visit.

“He was the breadwinner. The Air Force officers came to visit us, and the way they spoke gave me hope. I was encouraged by what they told us.

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“But after they left, everything changed. I have not heard from them again. My husband was the one feeding and taking care of the family, and now he is gone.

“When they came that day, they spoke in a way that made me happy. But after they left, they changed. I don’t know why. I have not seen them again, and I do not know the reason,” she said.

Speaking in a shaky voice, the mother of three said her children had continued to ask about their father.

“The children have been asking about their father, especially the youngest one. Since the day my husband died, he has been crying because he misses his father.

“My youngest child is five years old. My daughter is 10 years old, and my first child is 14 years old.”

She added that during the condolence visit, Air Force representatives handed her N200,000 to assist with feeding the children.

“They gave me N200,000 when they came. They said it was for me to use and feed the children. Since then, I have never received another call from them.

“I feel very sad about it. I really do.”

The bereaved widow appealed to the government to intervene and support the welfare and education of her children.

“What I want the government to do for me is to help me train my children and support their education. Their father was the one responsible for them and took care of all their needs.

“I want the government to take responsibility and help ensure that the children can continue their education and have a future.”

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Recalling the events that led to her husband’s death, the widow said the tragedy came as a devastating shock to the family.

She said, “When the time came, I had to explain because it was shocking to me. I was so surprised because I never expected this kind of thing.

“On the day it happened, both of us left the house at the same time. I was going to visit one of my sisters, while my husband had gone to work.

“That night, I received a call after 8 p.m. The woman who called asked if I was Joseph’s wife. I said yes, and she told me that my husband had been involved in an accident. I was shocked.

“I immediately called my husband’s elder brother and informed him that someone had called to say my husband had been involved in an accident.

“My husband’s brother asked where I was, and I told him I was at home. I then went to my sister’s place.

“The caller told me to come with my family, so I went to my husband’s sister and brother in Oshodi. When I got there, I explained everything to them, and we started looking for a vehicle to take us to the hospital.

“At that time, it was already late, and we could not find transportation. People were unwilling to come out because of the late hour and fear of being stopped by the police.

“The caller told me my husband was at a hospital in Mushin. Later, the doctor’s phone number was sent to me, and I forwarded it to my brother.

“My husband’s brother and I began communicating with the doctor. We pleaded with him to take care of my husband because we could not get there immediately due to the late hour.

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“About three to five minutes after we spoke with the doctor, he called back and told me that my husband had died.

“The following morning, I went to the hospital with some people who assisted my family and me. When I got there, I saw my husband lying on the bed.”

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FG declares Tuesday public holiday for Eid ul Mawlid

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The Federal Government has declared Tuesday, August 25, 2026, a public holiday to mark this year’s Eid ul Mawlid, commemorating the birth of the Holy Prophet Muhammad.

The Minister of Interior, Olubunmi Tunji-Ojo, announced the holiday on behalf of the Federal Government in a statement issued on Friday by the Permanent Secretary of the ministry, Dr Magdalene Ajani.

Tunji-Ojo congratulated Muslims in Nigeria and across the diaspora on the occasion, urging Nigerians to reflect on the values of compassion, humility and service associated with the life of the Prophet Muhammad.

“Every Eid ul Mawlid gives us reason to pause and draw lessons from a life defined by compassion, humility and service to others.

“These are qualities our nation needs now more than ever, and I encourage every Nigerian, not just our Muslim brothers and sisters, to reflect on them,”he said.

The minister also called on Nigerians to use the occasion to pray for peace and national cohesion, stressing that maintaining unity remained a collective responsibility.

He urged citizens to celebrate the occasion with restraint and mutual respect, while wishing the Muslim community a joyous and peaceful Eid.

Tunji-Ojo further reaffirmed the commitment of the present administration to protecting lives and property and ensuring the sustenance of peace across the country.

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Think About It: What Will People Say About You After Your Demise?

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One day, your voice will be silent, your phone will stop ringing, and your presence will no longer be felt in the places you once walked. When that day comes, people will not remember how expensive your clothes were, how much money you had, or how many houses and cars you owned. They will remember how you treated people, the love you showed, the lives you touched, and the kind of person you were.

Think about it: What will people say about you after your demise?

Will they say, “He was a good person who helped others when he could”?
Will they say, “She made people feel loved and valued”?
Will your children remember you as a parent who gave them not only material things but also wisdom, discipline, love, and a good example?

Or will people remember the pain you caused, the hearts you broke, the people you neglected, and the opportunities you had to do good but refused to take?

Life is temporary. Wealth can disappear. Positions can change. Fame can fade. But the impact you make on people’s lives can continue long after you are gone.

Therefore, do not wait until your funeral before people discover your goodness. Love people while you are still alive. Forgive while you still have the opportunity. Help those who need you. Speak words that encourage rather than destroy. Treat your family with kindness. Be honest even when nobody is watching. And leave behind a legacy that your children and those who knew you can be proud of.

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The greatest question is not, “How much did I accumulate?”
It is, “How many lives did I make better because I lived?”

One day, your story will be told by people who knew you. Make sure it is a story filled with love, kindness, integrity, humility, faith, and positive impact.

Live today in such a way that when your name is mentioned tomorrow, people will smile, remember your goodness, and say, “We were blessed to have known this person.”

Your life is a message. Your character is your legacy. What will yours say?

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A Fool Acquires Wealth Without Knowing Who Will Spend It

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There is nothing wrong with working hard, building wealth, or providing for your family. The danger comes when a person becomes so obsessed with money that he forgets the brevity of life and the importance of preparing his soul.

A person may spend his entire life gathering houses, businesses, properties, and riches, yet he does not know who will eventually inherit or spend what he worked so hard to acquire. Therefore, wealth should be pursued with wisdom, contentment, generosity, and the fear of God.

The Bible says:

“Yea, I hated all my labour which I had taken under the sun: because I should leave it unto the man that shall be after me.”
— Ecclesiastes 2:18 (KJV)

Again, Scripture warns:

“For he heapeth up riches, and knoweth not who shall gather them.”
— Psalm 39:6 (KJV)

And Jesus reminds us that earthly possessions are not the true measure of a person’s life:

“For a man’s life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth.”
— Luke 12:15 (KJV)

We should therefore work diligently, but we must never allow wealth to become our god. Save wisely, provide for your family, help those in need, and use your blessings for God’s glory while you are still alive.

“For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.”
— 1 Timothy 6:7 (KJV)

Do not spend your whole life gathering what you cannot take with you. Build wealth, but also build character. Accumulate possessions, but do not neglect your soul. What matters most is not how much you leave behind, but the kind of legacy you leave behind.

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