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My mother died in court after NDLEA denied her care, demanded N2m — Son

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Samuel Akindele, son of Titilayo Funke Akindele, a 52-year-old Ondo woman who died at the Edo State High Court during proceedings over alleged drug offences, speaks with DANIEL AYANTOYE about her arrest, the circumstances of her death, and his ongoing efforts to secure justice

What kind of woman was your mother, and what was life at home like before her tragic passing?

I live in Oluku, while my mother stayed in the Egosa area of Edo State. My father, who had been supporting us, fell ill and passed away in 2017 when we were living in Ondo State. It was my mother later who moved us to Benin.

She was from Ifon, while my father was from Iju in Ondo State. She had five children, including me, but at the time of her passing, she was living alone with my youngest sibling, who is about 10 years old, while I am 24.

What jobs do you and your siblings do?

We don’t have specific jobs. We hustle daily. Life has been tough, but like my mother, we believe one day things will get better.

What led to her arrest?

She was arrested around the second or third week of January, accused of being in possession of Indian hemp. My mother didn’t have a formal job; she was simply trying to survive while caring for my youngest sibling. I believe she may have turned to selling it because she had no other means of support. She didn’t even have a shop.

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Where were you when she was arrested?

I was in Benin, but not at the place of arrest. I heard about it the next day and went to the office of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency. We tried to negotiate her bail, but they demanded N5m. I told them we didn’t have that kind of money. If we did, would this have happened?

It was said she was sick. Can you explain?

Yes. She told them she wasn’t feeling well while in custody, and they eventually took her for a check-up, but it was too late by then. We never saw the medical report. On the day of the court sitting, the judge asked for a doctor’s report, but the NDLEA lawyer claimed they had forgotten in the office. The judge instructed them to bring it the following day.

The next day, my mum’s condition had become critical. She told the NDLEA officers that she was not fit enough to appear in court, but they forced her into their van. I was there that day and begged them to let her stay behind, but they ignored me. I also appealed for her release so she could receive treatment, but they refused. After forcibly taking her to court, she collapsed and later died there. NDLEA officers even accused her of pretending, despite the fact that she had been dead for over an hour.

Were you aware that she was taken for a medical check-up?

No, and when we eventually found out, they did not allow us to see the report. One officer noticed her condition but said he did not have the power to help. Their commander refused to authorise her release. Another woman arrested with her was granted bail after paying over N2m. I used to visit the NDLEA office, which felt more like a company than a detention facility. I saw a lot during those visits.

Did you offer to pay her bail?

We offered N500,000, but they said it was not enough. They later demanded N2m. Initially, they had asked for N5m before reducing it to N3m.

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There was controversy over the corpse in a viral video. What happened?

I am the one seen in the white cloth in the video. After the NDLEA confirmed her death, they tried to leave with her corpse, claiming they had handed it over to us. While she was still alive, we had begged them to release her for treatment, but they refused. Lawyers and other sympathisers had to intervene before her body was eventually evacuated to the mortuary.

What did the judge do after she died?

The court dispersed when it became clear that she had died. Everyone ran out, and I do not know when the judge left. It was a very painful scene.

What do you want the government to do?

I need support from Nigerians to help me pursue justice for my mother. Through my lawyer, we have written a petition, but nothing concrete has happened.

Has the NDLEA contacted you since the incident?

No. They only transported her corpse to the mortuary. A female NDLEA officer stood by while my mother died and did nothing. They kept her in custody for about three months before bringing her to court. Government work must be carried out with humanity, with the understanding that officers are also human beings.

How are you coping since her death?

It has been extremely difficult. My father is dead, and now my mother is gone. These people have destroyed my life. Life has never been easy, and situations like this can push people toward crime.

What do you want the government to do for you?

I am calling on the government to ensure justice. We are not criminals, and we need answers. I do not want to take the law into my own hands. If nothing is done, more people may die, and others could be pushed into criminality.

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‘I have cancer,’ Nollywood actress Cynthia Anijekwu cries, calls for support

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Nollywood actress Cynthia Anijekwu has made an emotional appeal to Nigerians for financial assistance after revealing that she is battling cancer for the second time.

In a video circulating on social media on Tuesday, the actress disclosed that she was first diagnosed with cancer in 2023, when she underwent surgery followed by chemotherapy in a bid to halt the disease.

She maintained that doctors initially managed the condition after the treatment, but the cancer later returned and has since spread to her bones, requiring more intensive care, including radiation therapy and another surgery.

According to Anijekwu, recent medical examinations revealed that the cancer has spread to her bones, significantly increasing the cost and complexity of her treatment up to N600,000 every month.

The actress said doctors have recommended radiation therapy and another surgery as part of her ongoing care.

“I have cancer in 2023 (sic). I did my surgery and took chemotherapy, but later it came back again. I’ve been in and out of the hospital. The doctor recently told me it has reached my bones, and the treatment is now much more expensive,” she said.

“I need to live. I need to survive. I’m asking Nigerians to please help me. Anyone that can help, please, I need help. Even my hands have swollen. The cancer has affected both breasts. I need to live. Please help me. I need to survive.

“Your one naira, your two naira can add up to something reasonable for me to get the proper treatment for this cancer. I’m begging you, please help me,” she pleaded.

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Before her health challenge became public, Anijekwu built her career in Nollywood, featuring in several English- and Igbo-language productions.

However, there is no publicly verifiable record identifying a major blockbuster film or comprehensive filmography associated with the actress, as public attention has largely shifted to her battle with cancer in recent years.

The actress said the financial burden has become overwhelming for her family, prompting her to seek help from members of the public.

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It’s not easy, surrogate mother shares emotional journey

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A masked Nigerian surrogate mother has opened up about how financial hardship and what she described as an irresponsible partner led her to become a surrogate, saying the decision came after the loss of her second child.

The woman disclosed this during a new episode on Cruise TV published on YouTube on Sunday, where she recounted the emotional, financial and psychological realities of carrying children for other families.

She said becoming a surrogate was one of the hardest decisions she had ever made, describing the emotional attachment that develops during pregnancy despite knowing the child does not belong to her.

“Emotionally it’s not easy. Even when I started the journey, when the pregnancy was three months, I called my nurse that I don’t think I can cope again because it’s not easy to carry what is not yours.

“When you start having the emotional attachment, you keep reminding yourself that this is not mine. I tell myself it is a job, and that helps me cope, but the emotions still come and go.”

The woman explained that she became a gestational surrogate through IVF, meaning she had no biological connection to the babies she carried.

Speaking on what pushed her into surrogacy, she said her partner failed to provide for the family despite her efforts to support them.

“I had my first child. Unfortunately, my husband is not the person that is hardworking and he doesn’t take responsibility. I do work. There is no work I cannot do.

“When I became pregnant the second time, I could no longer work. We couldn’t even afford hospital bills.”

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She said complications during the pregnancy eventually led to the death of the baby, an experience that changed her outlook.

“That baby died, and that was the reason I made that decision. Instead of giving him another baby, I would rather help people who have the money to take care of me.

“If you don’t have the money to care for my health, I won’t do it for you.”

She disclosed that she initially declined financial compensation beyond medical care, accommodation and allowances, a decision she now regrets.

“I told them I didn’t want any compensation aside from the process, monthly allowance, wardrobe allowance and accommodation fee, but that was a mistake.

“I won’t do it again,” she said.

The surrogate mother also said she would not encourage her daughter to follow the same path because of the emotional and health risks involved.

“I cannot advise my daughter to be a surrogate.”

She added that she relocated during one of her pregnancies to avoid stigma and often told people the baby had died whenever they asked questions.

According to her, surrogate mothers also face psychological challenges after delivery despite undergoing counselling before and after childbirth.

While acknowledging that surrogacy has helped many couples struggling with infertility, she maintained that the process is far more demanding than many people realise.

“Surrogacy is not as simple as people think.”

She called for stronger regulation of the practice to protect surrogate mothers from exploitation and ensure adequate emotional and financial support.

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I waited 18 years before welcoming twins – Nollywood star Ricardo Agbor

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Veteran Nollywood actor, Ricardo Agbor, has opened up about his 18-year journey to parenthood, revealing that he and his wife waited nearly two decades before welcoming their twins.

The actor disclosed this during an interview with AfricanAList published on Sunday, where he reflected on his marriage, faith and the challenges he faced before becoming a father.

Agbor said he remained committed to his wife throughout the period, despite the long wait for children.

“I wanted to get married to a particular lady; I married her regardless of where she is from. She is not from my tribe. So ordinarily, we were supposed to have strife; no, it was very fair,” he said.

Speaking about the couple’s struggle with childlessness, the actor said he specifically prayed for twins and refused to give up despite waiting for 18 years.

“It took 18 years for me to have the twins. And I waited. God knows, 18 years and they are 14 now, so I told God I wanted twins.

“So while that wait was on, if it were someone else, he would cross. But at the end of the day, I have twins. I have a boy and a girl. I asked God what I wanted,” he added.

Agbor also recounted what he described as the most painful experience of his life — the death of his mother.

According to him, she had been receiving treatment for about three weeks without any improvement before doctors advised that she should be flown to South Africa for further medical care.

The actor said his mother requested to be moved to another private hospital in Surulere, but she died in his arms while he was helping her into the car.

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“My mom died right in my arms. At the hospital, they were bringing almost 10 doctors to do tests… the sickness was not improving after almost three weeks.

“It was after three weeks that they told me to come and carry my mom and take her to South Africa. I took my mom away and took her to another private hospital within Surulere. It was my mom that told me to take her away from that place. As I was carrying her into the car, she gave up,” he said.

Agbor said the loss left him devastated, noting that it was the first time he had cried outside acting.

“I think that was the first time I cried in my life. I don’t cry. If I cry, maybe it is in a movie and it is a role. So I cried. It was painful,” he added.

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