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My mother died in court after NDLEA denied her care, demanded N2m — Son

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Samuel Akindele, son of Titilayo Funke Akindele, a 52-year-old Ondo woman who died at the Edo State High Court during proceedings over alleged drug offences, speaks with DANIEL AYANTOYE about her arrest, the circumstances of her death, and his ongoing efforts to secure justice

What kind of woman was your mother, and what was life at home like before her tragic passing?

I live in Oluku, while my mother stayed in the Egosa area of Edo State. My father, who had been supporting us, fell ill and passed away in 2017 when we were living in Ondo State. It was my mother later who moved us to Benin.

She was from Ifon, while my father was from Iju in Ondo State. She had five children, including me, but at the time of her passing, she was living alone with my youngest sibling, who is about 10 years old, while I am 24.

What jobs do you and your siblings do?

We don’t have specific jobs. We hustle daily. Life has been tough, but like my mother, we believe one day things will get better.

What led to her arrest?

She was arrested around the second or third week of January, accused of being in possession of Indian hemp. My mother didn’t have a formal job; she was simply trying to survive while caring for my youngest sibling. I believe she may have turned to selling it because she had no other means of support. She didn’t even have a shop.

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Where were you when she was arrested?

I was in Benin, but not at the place of arrest. I heard about it the next day and went to the office of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency. We tried to negotiate her bail, but they demanded N5m. I told them we didn’t have that kind of money. If we did, would this have happened?

It was said she was sick. Can you explain?

Yes. She told them she wasn’t feeling well while in custody, and they eventually took her for a check-up, but it was too late by then. We never saw the medical report. On the day of the court sitting, the judge asked for a doctor’s report, but the NDLEA lawyer claimed they had forgotten in the office. The judge instructed them to bring it the following day.

The next day, my mum’s condition had become critical. She told the NDLEA officers that she was not fit enough to appear in court, but they forced her into their van. I was there that day and begged them to let her stay behind, but they ignored me. I also appealed for her release so she could receive treatment, but they refused. After forcibly taking her to court, she collapsed and later died there. NDLEA officers even accused her of pretending, despite the fact that she had been dead for over an hour.

Were you aware that she was taken for a medical check-up?

No, and when we eventually found out, they did not allow us to see the report. One officer noticed her condition but said he did not have the power to help. Their commander refused to authorise her release. Another woman arrested with her was granted bail after paying over N2m. I used to visit the NDLEA office, which felt more like a company than a detention facility. I saw a lot during those visits.

Did you offer to pay her bail?

We offered N500,000, but they said it was not enough. They later demanded N2m. Initially, they had asked for N5m before reducing it to N3m.

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There was controversy over the corpse in a viral video. What happened?

I am the one seen in the white cloth in the video. After the NDLEA confirmed her death, they tried to leave with her corpse, claiming they had handed it over to us. While she was still alive, we had begged them to release her for treatment, but they refused. Lawyers and other sympathisers had to intervene before her body was eventually evacuated to the mortuary.

What did the judge do after she died?

The court dispersed when it became clear that she had died. Everyone ran out, and I do not know when the judge left. It was a very painful scene.

What do you want the government to do?

I need support from Nigerians to help me pursue justice for my mother. Through my lawyer, we have written a petition, but nothing concrete has happened.

Has the NDLEA contacted you since the incident?

No. They only transported her corpse to the mortuary. A female NDLEA officer stood by while my mother died and did nothing. They kept her in custody for about three months before bringing her to court. Government work must be carried out with humanity, with the understanding that officers are also human beings.

How are you coping since her death?

It has been extremely difficult. My father is dead, and now my mother is gone. These people have destroyed my life. Life has never been easy, and situations like this can push people toward crime.

What do you want the government to do for you?

I am calling on the government to ensure justice. We are not criminals, and we need answers. I do not want to take the law into my own hands. If nothing is done, more people may die, and others could be pushed into criminality.

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Woman who made husband swear for infidelity rejoices over mother-in-law’s death

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Canada-based Nigerian woman, Prophetess Ezinne Nwanorue, has stirred reactions on social media after celebrating the death of her mother-in-law, describing the deceased as a “wicked witch” in a Facebook post.

Ezinne shared the funeral poster of her late mother-in-law, Comfort Nwanorue, on Facebook on Monday.

She wrote, “One wicked witch is down: my dead mother-in-law, Comfort Chika Nwanorue, rest in pieces in hell with other dead witches; your members will soon join you. I am the weapon fashioned against all the witches and wizards and all the evil people in the world; you all shall go down in my hands. Very wicked beings.

Ezinne’s mother-in-law, Chika Nwanorue. Credit: Prophetess Ezinne Nwanorue/Facebook

“You people should repent now and accept Christ; if not, you won’t escape the judgment of de@th from my hands, in Jesus’ name. Amen. These people have dealt with me in this life; they found out about my destiny, and they did everything within their power to bring me down, but I thank God for helping me discover who I am and coming through for my destiny; I am now in my season of manifestation, and no one can stop it.

“They will all go down in my hands as God empowers and permits me, in the name of Jesus. Amen. I am talking from the place of my office as a prophetess of God Almighty. Prophetess Ezinne Maryjane Nwanorue.”

The post has since attracted mixed reactions, with many social media users criticising her for celebrating the death of a family member.

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PUNCH Online earlier reported that Ezinne and her husband, Franklin Chimaobim Nwanorue, went viral after she made his relocation to Canada conditional on him publicly swearing an oath that he would never be unfaithful to her.

According to the report, she insisted that her husband record and publish a video declaring that if he cheated on her after arriving in Canada, he should die, saying the instruction was from God.

In the viral video, Franklin accepted the condition, declaring, “I confess, and I promise that if I come to Canada and cheat on you, let me die in the name of Jesus.”

He also pledged to remain faithful to his wife and be a good husband and father to their children.

Ezinne later claimed her husband had been involved with another woman despite taking the public oath, alleging in a Facebook post that he had “still slept with one of his side chicks” after making the declaration.

Her latest Facebook post celebrating the death of her mother-in-law has brought renewed public attention to the family’s ongoing dispute.

Neither Franklin Nwanorue nor other members of the family had publicly responded to Ezinne’s latest post as of the time of filing this report.

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‘Don’t dig anything less than gold’ – Actress Bukky Wright tells ladies

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Veteran Nollywood actress, Bukky Wright, has urged ladies not to be ashamed of making financial demands in relationships or have high tastes in men.

Speaking in a recent episode of The Moraya Show, Wright criticised what she described as men’s hypocrisy in tagging and shaming women who make demands or have high tastes as “gold diggers.”

According to her, there is nothing wrong with being a gold digger. She advised young ladies not to settle for anything less than gold.

The actress urged men to only go for women they can “afford” to avoid blackmailing other women, who make demands above their paychecks.

“I hate it when I hear men calling women Gold diggers. What do you expect her to dig before? I won’t advise any woman to dig anything less than gold.

“If you can not afford a woman, don’t go for it. Go for the one you can afford,” she said.

“I remember when I was growing up, we would not date our age mates because what can you offer?

“As a man, if you are dating somebody that her level is higher up, then you are in trouble. That is why I said cut your clothes according to your materials,” the actress added.

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Divorced mother shares benefits she’s enjoying now that she did not enjoy when she was married

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A divorced mother has shared the benefits she’s enjoying as a divorcee.

Chinonso Onuoha, a Nigerian woman who lives in Germany and is divorced from her husband, had previously written about leaving a marriage that was allegedly abusive and toxic.

Now, she has shared things she claims she is enjoying as a divorcee that she did not enjoy when married.

She wrote: “Men swear divorced women are bitter and frustrated.

“I’m sorry to break it to you that life after divorce is actually maravilloso,especially if you have money.

“Imagine living life without your abuser, whom you were obligated to serve and worship.

“The house becomes peaceful and quiet.

“For someone like me who hates cooking, no more cooking.

“Cooking with garlic because his sidechick can no longer dictate the spices I use.

“No more being constantly criticized and yelled at.

“REST. I wasn’t allowed to rest. I was cleaning, ironing, and cooking round the clock.

“No more nagging and hitting me.

“Enjoying my children.

“Sleeping peacefully. Nobody waking me up in the middle of the night to accuse me of cheating, while he’s the one cheating.

“Watching TV shows I like it or watching TV in general.

“Nobody coming home to beat me because they fought with their side chick.

“Not constantly fearing I’ll contract STI’s because, as his wife, I’m expected to have unprotected sex with a cheating husband.

“No more living in constant fear or walking on eggshells.

“No more feeling drained and aging.

“No more being surrounded by his friends who knew about all his cheating and escapades but kept quiet.

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“Sleeping peacefully without anyone snoring beside you. (I can’t relate to this one because I shared a room with my kids.)

“No longer living in constant fear of losing your life.

“Please, don’t threaten me with a good time.

“Men will tell themselves anything to be happy.

“If divorced women are so miserable and desperate to get their exes back, why do divorced men rush into marriages?

“Food is ready koromoto men.

“#saynotodomesticviolence #SpeakUp #narcisticabuse”

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