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Nigerians must not stay silent on insecurity, Davido tells Rarara

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Afrobeats superstar, David Adeleke, popularly known as Davido, has called on prominent Hausa singer, Dauda Rarara, to openly speak out against the country’s worsening insecurity, insisting that silence and political bias only deepen national challenges.

The controversy stems from Davido’s appearance at the FIFA World Cup 2026 Countdown Concert in Los Angeles on June 10, where he wore a customised jacket bearing the inscription “Bring Them Home” alongside the names of over 40 schoolchildren and teachers abducted on May 15 in Oriire Local Government Area of Oyo State.

In a video posted on his verified Facebook page, Rarara described Davido’s action as “barbaric,” arguing that it risked damaging Nigeria’s international image and alleging that the issue was being politicised.

“I do not usually reply or react to issues like this, but what Davido did was barbaric. In my opinion, Davido and those who share his way of thinking are only behaving foolishly.

“How can you promote Ansaru terrorists or insecurity-related issues to the whole world? How can you take a sensitive national security issue and project it to the world in a way that could damage the country’s image? What exactly do you stand to gain from doing that?

“Davido took the names of abducted schoolchildren in Oyo State, wrote them on the Nigerian flag and displayed it in America. What was the purpose? What did he hope to achieve? Or was it because he had turned the matter into politics?”

Rarara further questioned the intent behind Davido’s move, suggesting it was linked to political interests and warning against the internationalisation of sensitive security matters.

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“Is it because his uncle is contesting an election on Accord Party and Tinubu is in APC? Is that why insecurity must become a campaign tool? Anyone who campaigns with insecurity is insane, because he does not fully understand what it entails.

“What Davido did is similar to removing his own mother’s wrapper, taking a photograph of her and travelling to America to display it for the whole world to see, only to ask people to help cover her up again. What kind of thinking is that?

“Insecurity is not something people should casually jump into. There are facts and circumstances that ordinary members of the public may not know. Before speaking on such matters, one should understand the situation properly.

“Did Davido know the reason behind the abduction of those schoolchildren? Some terrorists were arrested. When efforts to secure their release failed, the kingpins kidnapped innocent people in an attempt to force the authorities to negotiate.

“The President and security agencies had vowed that the terrorists would not be released and that the children would be rescued. It was during this delicate period that Davido chose to embarrass us on a global stage.

“You cannot go to China and promote issues the authorities do not want promoted. The same applies in many other countries. There are limits. But some of our content creators continue to promote narratives that, in my opinion, end up helping terrorists.

“Some content creators do not understand the implications of what they are doing, while others do. Some are sponsored by politicians, while others are simply chasing engagement and followers.”

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Reacting on X, Davido quoted Rarara’s post and replied, “Debidooo,” in what appeared to be a mocking reference to the pronunciation of his name.

Rarara responded with the phrase “Kashiga taitayinka,” a derogatory Hausa expression telling the Afrobeat star to come back to his senses.

Davido also fired back, saying, “Da ace kana da ilimi da na tsaya nayi magana dakai. Ama komai baka sani ba, sakarai kawai,” which translates as “If only you had knowledge, I would have stopped to speak with you. But you know nothing, just a fool,” according to a translation of his Hausa response.

In a follow-up statement shared in Hausa and later translated to English, Davido insisted that Nigerians must not remain silent in the face of insecurity, stressing that patriotism requires speaking out regardless of political affiliation.

He, “Da farko, duk wanda yake da kishin Najeriya ba zai yi shiru kan matsalar rashin tsaro da ke addabar ƙasa ba, kuma ba zai hana wasu bayyana damuwarsu a kai ba. Rashin tausayi da fifita son rai ko zama karen en siyasa , da fifita son rai fiye da muradun al’umma ba abin alfahari ba ne. Ka kasance mai kishin ƙasarka, ka daina fifita siyasa a kan gaskiya, sannan ka ji tsoron Allah a cikin duk abin da kake yi #kahuturarara which translates to “Damn it, every Nigerian should not stay silent about the insecurity plaguing the nation, nor should they prevent others from voicing their concerns openly.

He added that prioritising political interests over national welfare was harmful to the country’s progress.

“Showing bias and prioritizing personal or political interests, and putting personal desires above the community’s goals, is nothing to be proud of. Be a patriot for your country, stop prioritizing politics over the truth, and fear God in everything you do

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NOT EVERY MOTHER WHO SAYS “AFTER ALL I HAVE DONE FOR YOU” IS SPEAKING OUT OF LOVE. SOMETIMES, IT IS EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL!

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Some children are not suffering because their mothers never loved them. They are suffering because that love has become a weapon used to control their lives.

“You want to abandon me after everything I sacrificed for you?”

“I suffered to give birth to you, and this is how you repay me?”

“If you truly love me, you will do what I say.”

These words may sound like a mother’s pain, but when they are repeatedly used to create guilt, control decisions, or force children to obey against their will, they can become emotional manipulation.

💔 **THE PAINFUL TRUTH**

Some mothers make their children feel guilty for growing up, choosing their own partners, pursuing their dreams, setting boundaries, or simply saying NO.

They turn every disagreement into disrespect. Every boundary becomes betrayal. Every independent decision becomes evidence that their children no longer care about them.

And the child? The child grows up believing that saying NO makes them a bad son or daughter.

They sacrifice their happiness to keep their mother happy. They hide their pain to avoid being called ungrateful. They remain trapped in guilt because they are afraid of being judged by family and society.

**BUT LET US ASK A DIFFICULT QUESTION:**

Does giving birth to a child give a mother the right to control that child’s entire life?

Does sacrificing for your children mean they must repay you with unquestioning obedience forever?

Can a mother genuinely love her children while using guilt, fear, and emotional pressure to control them?

Let us be clear: not every emotional appeal is manipulation, and not every mother who expresses hurt is guilty of emotional blackmail. Mothers have feelings too. The problem begins when guilt becomes a repeated tool of control rather than a way to communicate genuine pain.

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❤️ A healthy mother-child relationship should be built on love, respect, understanding, and boundaries—not fear, guilt, and lifelong emotional debt.

**YOUR CHILDREN OWE YOU RESPECT, BUT THEY ARE NOT YOUR EMOTIONAL PRISONERS.**

🔥 **LET’S TALK!**

Have you ever seen a mother use the words *“After everything I have done for you”* to force her children to obey her?

**Is it love, emotional blackmail, or does it depend on the situation?**

Share your honest opinion in the comments. 👇

#EmotionalBlackmail #ToxicFamilyDynamics #MotherAndChild #EmotionalManipulation #FamilyRelationships #Newsbreak365

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SOME PARENTS DON’T RAISE CHILDREN WITH LOVE — THEY CONTROL THEM WITH GUILT!

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One of the most painful forms of manipulation comes from the very people who are supposed to protect you: your own parents.

Some parents have mastered the art of emotional blackmail. Whenever their children try to make independent decisions, they bring up sacrifices, remind them of their struggles, or make them feel guilty for saying **NO**.

“After everything I have done for you…”

“So, you want to abandon your parents?”

“You will regret this when we are gone!”

These words may sound like expressions of pain, but when they are repeatedly used to control, threaten, or exploit children, they become tools of emotional manipulation.

**LET’S TELL OURSELVES THE TRUTH!**

Raising a child is a responsibility, not a lifetime contract that gives parents unlimited control over that child’s future.

Yes, children should respect their parents. Yes, they should appreciate their sacrifices. But respect does not mean surrendering your peace of mind, financial stability, dreams, or happiness to satisfy every parental demand.

Some adult children are suffering silently because they are afraid of being labelled ungrateful. They keep sacrificing their own needs, not necessarily because they can afford to, but because they have been made to believe that choosing themselves makes them bad children.

**THE HARD TRUTH:** Love should inspire gratitude, not manufacture guilt. Parenthood should build responsible adults, not create lifelong emotional prisoners.

Parents deserve respect, but children deserve healthy boundaries too.

🔥 **NOW, LET’S DEBATE!**

Should children be expected to sacrifice their happiness and future to satisfy their parents, simply because their parents raised them?

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Or can you love and respect your parents while refusing to be emotionally manipulated by them?

**BE HONEST! Is emotional blackmail a form of parental love, or a tool of control?**

Drop your opinion in the comments. 👇

#Parenting #EmotionalBlackmail #FamilyRelationships #ToxicParenting #HealthyBoundaries #LifeLessons

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Friends, family to hold night of tributes for Toluwanisings, read details

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Friends, family members, colleagues, and members of the Christian community are set to hold a night of tributes in honour of late gospel minister Olayemi Bayonle Bolaji, popularly known as Toluwanisings.

The event is scheduled for Tuesday, October 27, at 3 p.m. at the Hall of Grace, Jogor Centre, Ibadan, Oyo State.

The programme will provide an opportunity for loved ones and admirers to celebrate the life and legacy of the late gospel singer through tributes, reflections, cherished memories, and thanksgiving to God.

In an announcement inviting the public to the event obtained from his Instagram account on Wednesday, the organisers described Toluwanisings as a beloved brother, friend and gospel minister whose life and ministry touched many people.

The invite read, “Some lives leave footprints that time can never erase. Some voices may fall silent, but their songs, impact, and memories will forever echo in our hearts.

“With heavy hearts, yet in gratitude to God for a life that touched many, we invite you to join us for a Night of Tributes in honour of our beloved brother, friend, and gospel minister, Olayemi Bayonle Bolaji, fondly known as Toluwanisings.

“It will be a night of love, reflection, heartfelt tributes, cherished memories, and thanksgiving to God for the life he lived and the legacy he leaves behind.

“Though we mourn his departure, we hold firmly to the hope we have in Christ Jesus. His earthly journey may have ended, but the impact of his life and ministry will continue to speak. Come, let us stand together as family, friends, colleagues, and the body of Christ to celebrate a life that mattered,” the post read.

They expressed gratitude to God for his life, noting that although his passing had brought sorrow, the impact of his ministry and the memories he left behind would continue to inspire generations.

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The organisers also urged family members, friends, colleagues and members of the body of Christ to come together to honour the deceased and celebrate his contributions to gospel music and Christian ministry.

They further called on well-wishers seeking to support the programme to contact them through direct messages.

The Night of Tributes is expected to bring together people whose lives were touched by the late minister to reflect on his legacy and pay their final respects.

The announcement concluded with a prayer for God’s blessings upon all those mourning his death.

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