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God Didn’t Give Me That Grace – Olu Of Warri Speaks On Having More Than One Wife

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The Olu of Warri, Ogiame Atuwatse III, has said he cannot marry more than one wife because he values peace, balance and stability in his home.

It was reports that the traditional ruler, who married Ivie Atuwatse in 2014 and has three children with her, spoke during an interview aired on BBC Pidgin and shared on social media on Friday.

He explained that his decision is guided by his desire to protect harmony in his family and avoid a complicated private life, even though many people expect kings to marry several wives.

The monarch said he lives between public duties and private life, and when he is away from the throne, he prefers to stay indoors and focus on his wife and children.

He added that he enjoys calm moments at home and believes he cannot divide his energy among many households.

According to him, managing more than one family would make life difficult and reduce the attention he gives to his children and his wife.

He stated that he believes God did not give him the ability to handle polygamy and that he is comfortable with that.

The king also said his position already places heavy demands on his time, with constant meetings and calls from top government officials. Because of this, he values every chance he gets to relax and spend time with his family.

The Olu of Warri said that quality time with his wife and children helps him remain focused and balanced as he carries out his duties as a traditional ruler.

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When Negativity Becomes a Lifestyle: Why Some People Feel Better by Putting Others Down

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Some people don’t know how to feel good about themselves unless they are making somebody else feel bad.

It is one of the most uncomfortable realities of human relationships.

Instead of celebrating someone’s progress, they look for something to criticize.

Instead of encouraging someone who is struggling, they remind them of their failures.

Instead of being happy when someone succeeds, they search for reasons to minimize that success.

And sometimes, the negativity becomes a pattern.

They criticize your appearance.
They mock your achievements.
They question your choices.
They gossip about you.
They turn almost every conversation into an opportunity to put someone down.

But here is the bigger question:

What makes a person feel powerful by making another person feel small?

Putting others down does not automatically make someone stronger, wiser, richer, or more successful. In many cases, it simply creates a cycle of negativity that damages relationships and destroys trust.

A confident person can see another person succeed without feeling threatened.

A mature person can disagree without resorting to insults.

And a supportive person can correct you without constantly trying to humiliate you.

The question everyone should ask

Not every criticism is hatred. Sometimes people genuinely point out our mistakes because they want us to improve.

But there is a difference between constructive criticism and constant negativity.

Constructive criticism focuses on the problem.

Constant negativity often focuses on destroying the person.

That distinction matters.

So, before you allow someone’s words to define your worth, ask yourself:

Is this person trying to help me become better—or do they simply enjoy seeing me struggle?

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And perhaps we should also look inward.

Have you ever caught yourself putting someone else down just to feel better about yourself?

👇🏾 LET’S TALK:

Have you ever had to distance yourself from a negative person because their constant criticism was affecting your peace?

Share your experience in the comments.

Do you think some people genuinely feel better when others fail?

🔄 Share this article and start the conversation.

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IF YOU DON’T KNOW YOUR HISTORY, DON’T BE SURPRISED WHEN SOMEONE ELSE DEFINES IT FOR YOU.

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History is not something we should simply inherit without questioning.

Too many people accept what they were taught as children without ever asking:

**Who wrote this history?**
**What sources were used?**
**What was left out?**
**And what evidence supports the story?**

Knowing your history does not mean believing every alternative narrative you hear. It means having the courage to **research, compare sources, examine evidence, and ask difficult questions.**

Ancient civilizations. African kingdoms. Colonialism. Religion. Culture. Migration. Resistance. Identity.

These subjects deserve serious research—not blind acceptance.

📚 **Read. Research. Question. Verify.**

Because when you don’t take the time to understand your own past, other people can easily become the authors of your identity.

🔥 **KNOW YOUR HISTORY BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE TELLS YOU WHO YOU ARE.**

👇 **LET’S DEBATE:**

**What is one historical fact you were taught growing up that you later discovered was more complicated than you thought?**

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YOU MAY BE RICH… BUT THAT DOESN’T NECESSARILY MEAN YOU ARE SUCCESSFUL!

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Let that statement offend you if it needs to.

Some people think success means parking expensive cars outside a massive mansion, wearing designer clothes and having billions sitting in a bank account.

But there is a question many wealthy people don’t want to answer:

HOW MANY LIVES HAVE YOU ACTUALLY CHANGED?

If you have enormous wealth but have never helped anyone become financially independent, created opportunities for struggling people, supported education, built businesses that employ others, or lifted families out of poverty…

What exactly does your wealth mean beyond your own comfort?

🚘 Your cars can impress people.
🏠 Your houses can impress people.
💰 Your bank balance can impress people.

But impact is different.

A person who uses their resources to help 100 people build better lives may leave behind a legacy that money alone cannot buy.

And here’s the uncomfortable part:

When you die, you cannot take your cars with you.
You cannot take your houses with you.
You cannot take your billions with you.

What remains is the impact of your life.

🔥 SO LET’S DEBATE:

Is a person truly successful simply because they are extremely wealthy—or should success also be measured by the number of lives they positively changed?

👇 AGREE OR DISAGREE? Don’t just comment “YES” or “NO”—explain your position.

📲 Share this post and let your friends join the debate.

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