Connect with us

Lifestyle

How ‘Missing’ Iya Oge Of Lagos, Opral Benson Was Found In Liberia

Published

on

A close family source has described the controversy regarding the whereabouts of Iya Oge Of Lagos, Opral Benson, as a serious matter.

It was recalls that Benson, who was earlier declared missing by her family, was reportedly found in Liberia.

In an interview with the Nation, a close family source who spoke on the matter on condition of anonymity said that Benson was never missing, citing issues of conflicts within the family.

The source said, “It is a serious matter. Mama was never missing. “The person who put out the security alert is the same person who is aggrieved that her stepmother went to Liberia. How can your biological daughter take you to your birthplace, where you want to be with your family and friends, and someone begins to make trouble?

“It was her biological daughter, Precious Benson, who took her home on her wish. She went on her wish. She was clearly feeling the pull to go back home.

“Let this be clear: she was not suffering from any kind of dementia or anything. It’s just like you have your own biological children and some other children from your spouse or whatever, always wanting to be at the forefront or in charge of your affairs for whatever reasons.

“What I see in this whole matter is a step daughter being envious of the biological daughter and making her look bad in the eyes of the public; like she was not taking care of her mother.

“The daughter that took her to Liberia is Precious Benson. As we speak, Mama (Opral Benson) is in Liberia and in great spirits. I can even provide pictures of where she had lunch with her relatives and friends.

See also  Silent groans of men battered by violent wives

“The lady that sent out that flier is the stepdaughter that has been making trouble because she doesn’t have a grip over the woman. Why does she want to have a grip over her? So she’s been fabricating tales against Precious, making her feel incapable of taking care of Mama.”

The source also dismissed the assertion that all Mama’s siblings have passed and that there was no one she was going to see in Liberia, stressing that Benson has been angling to visit home.

The noted, “It’s a lie. Even if that were to be the case, doesn’t she have siblings’ children, cousins, nephews? For years. You know before she became this old, she used to go to Liberia and come back. Whoever is behind this whole saga is just capitalising on the fact that she is old. Even when the Bensons heard the news, their reaction was: ‘Which mama is missing, we already know who’s behind that nonsense.’”

Asked if Opral Benson has gone to stay in Liberia permanently, the source added, “No. She’s coming back this weekend. Maybe by tomorrow or Saturday, they would be back. She just wanted to go home to see her people. That’s all!”

FOLLOW US ON:

FACEBOOK

TWITTER

PINTEREST

TIKTOK

YOUTUBE

LINKEDIN

TUMBLR

INSTAGRAM

Continue Reading
Click to comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Lifestyle

When Negativity Becomes a Lifestyle: Why Some People Feel Better by Putting Others Down

Published

on

Some people don’t know how to feel good about themselves unless they are making somebody else feel bad.

It is one of the most uncomfortable realities of human relationships.

Instead of celebrating someone’s progress, they look for something to criticize.

Instead of encouraging someone who is struggling, they remind them of their failures.

Instead of being happy when someone succeeds, they search for reasons to minimize that success.

And sometimes, the negativity becomes a pattern.

They criticize your appearance.
They mock your achievements.
They question your choices.
They gossip about you.
They turn almost every conversation into an opportunity to put someone down.

But here is the bigger question:

What makes a person feel powerful by making another person feel small?

Putting others down does not automatically make someone stronger, wiser, richer, or more successful. In many cases, it simply creates a cycle of negativity that damages relationships and destroys trust.

A confident person can see another person succeed without feeling threatened.

A mature person can disagree without resorting to insults.

And a supportive person can correct you without constantly trying to humiliate you.

The question everyone should ask

Not every criticism is hatred. Sometimes people genuinely point out our mistakes because they want us to improve.

But there is a difference between constructive criticism and constant negativity.

Constructive criticism focuses on the problem.

Constant negativity often focuses on destroying the person.

That distinction matters.

So, before you allow someone’s words to define your worth, ask yourself:

Is this person trying to help me become better—or do they simply enjoy seeing me struggle?

See also  PHOTOS: WHO TRULY OWNS ILORIN – YORUBA OR FULANI?

And perhaps we should also look inward.

Have you ever caught yourself putting someone else down just to feel better about yourself?

👇🏾 LET’S TALK:

Have you ever had to distance yourself from a negative person because their constant criticism was affecting your peace?

Share your experience in the comments.

Do you think some people genuinely feel better when others fail?

🔄 Share this article and start the conversation.

Newsbreak365 — Stories, opinions and conversations that matter.

FOLLOW US ON:

FACEBOOK

TWITTER

PINTEREST

TIKTOK

YOUTUBE

LINKEDIN

INSTAGRAM

Continue Reading

Lifestyle

IF YOU DON’T KNOW YOUR HISTORY, DON’T BE SURPRISED WHEN SOMEONE ELSE DEFINES IT FOR YOU.

Published

on

History is not something we should simply inherit without questioning.

Too many people accept what they were taught as children without ever asking:

**Who wrote this history?**
**What sources were used?**
**What was left out?**
**And what evidence supports the story?**

Knowing your history does not mean believing every alternative narrative you hear. It means having the courage to **research, compare sources, examine evidence, and ask difficult questions.**

Ancient civilizations. African kingdoms. Colonialism. Religion. Culture. Migration. Resistance. Identity.

These subjects deserve serious research—not blind acceptance.

📚 **Read. Research. Question. Verify.**

Because when you don’t take the time to understand your own past, other people can easily become the authors of your identity.

🔥 **KNOW YOUR HISTORY BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE TELLS YOU WHO YOU ARE.**

👇 **LET’S DEBATE:**

**What is one historical fact you were taught growing up that you later discovered was more complicated than you thought?**

**NewsBreak365**
*News | People | Africa | The World*

#NewsBreak365 #KnowYourHistory #AfricanHistory #HistoryMatters #AfricanHeritage #HistoryAndCulture #ResearchYourHistory #KnowledgeIsPower #Africa #BlackHistory

See also  Akwa Ibom gov hails Hilda Baci for Guinness World Record feat
Continue Reading

Lifestyle

YOU MAY BE RICH… BUT THAT DOESN’T NECESSARILY MEAN YOU ARE SUCCESSFUL!

Published

on

Let that statement offend you if it needs to.

Some people think success means parking expensive cars outside a massive mansion, wearing designer clothes and having billions sitting in a bank account.

But there is a question many wealthy people don’t want to answer:

HOW MANY LIVES HAVE YOU ACTUALLY CHANGED?

If you have enormous wealth but have never helped anyone become financially independent, created opportunities for struggling people, supported education, built businesses that employ others, or lifted families out of poverty…

What exactly does your wealth mean beyond your own comfort?

🚘 Your cars can impress people.
🏠 Your houses can impress people.
💰 Your bank balance can impress people.

But impact is different.

A person who uses their resources to help 100 people build better lives may leave behind a legacy that money alone cannot buy.

And here’s the uncomfortable part:

When you die, you cannot take your cars with you.
You cannot take your houses with you.
You cannot take your billions with you.

What remains is the impact of your life.

🔥 SO LET’S DEBATE:

Is a person truly successful simply because they are extremely wealthy—or should success also be measured by the number of lives they positively changed?

👇 AGREE OR DISAGREE? Don’t just comment “YES” or “NO”—explain your position.

📲 Share this post and let your friends join the debate.

NewsBreak365 — Stories. Opinions. Conversations.

#NewsBreak365 #Success #TrueSuccess #Wealth #Legacy #Impact #LifeLessons #Money #SuccessMindset #AfricanStories

FOLLOW US ON:

FACEBOOK

TWITTER

PINTEREST

TIKTOK

YOUTUBE

LINKEDIN

INSTAGRAM

See also  Makinde, Ladoja fault Fayose over alleged dethronement plot
Continue Reading

Trending