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Freedom or Fashion? Why women are going ‘ bra less’…

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For many late millennials and early GenZ women, those in their early teens in the 2010s, wearing a bra is quietly adorned as one of the symbols of transitioning to womanhood, a growth stage marked by certain bodily changes girls long for.

Though not directly told, Damilola Adebayo said seeing how wearing bra for the first time usually laced ecstasy on the faces of older girls around her community made her consider it an important part of women’s growth.

“As a teenager, I used to see bras as a sign that you have entered another stage of life, and that made me eager to start wearing one too,” she said.

But the excitement she once longed for gradually faded. As time passed by, the 26-year-old Damilola said she became more exposed and wearing a bra felt less appealing and more restrictive.

“At this point, I feel more at ease without a bra. Wearing one can be uncomfortable for me most of the time,” she added.

What’s in a Braless world? More women speak…

Unlike Damilola, more women say their choices are increasingly shaped by how they feel rather than what they were told to expect or any beauty trends.

For Ngozi Okafor, a 23-year-old woman in Ibadan, ditching the idea of wearing a bra is simple. She said her decision filtered down to one conclusion: she “just wants to be comfy.”

However, Ngozi noted that social configurations and expectations make prioritising such comfort difficult, especially when stepping outside private spaces without a bra.

Speaking to this reporter, Perpetual Eze said although she feels more comfortable going braless, aligning with social expectations is a challenge that usually compels her to trade comfort for averting social condemnation, especially when stepping out to the public eyes.

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For 21-year-old Barikat Adeosun, the stress of maintaining bras and health concerns influenced her decision to opt for bralessness.

“For me, it’s always stressful washing bras, and these days, you hear of cancer of the breast from all the things they use to make those bras. Aside from that, it’s always more comfortable to be without a bra, so I like going braless like this,” she told Tribune Online.

Monlisa Ngozi does it for love. Her  boyfriend believed wearing is a tool of deceit employed by women. The 25-year-old explained that she makes her own decisions, but not wearing a bra is partly influenced by her partner.

“My boyfriend prefers me braless rather than wearing a bra. He always says bras are deceptive,” she told Tribune Online.

Zainab Wasiu, a 28-year-old hijabite sister, said  wearing a bra would be a self-inflicted punishment due to her usual style of dressing.

According to her, choosing comfort was an easy decision for her, especially in hot weather.

“I’m always on hijab, covering everything. So, adding a bra to it is too much during this heat. I choose comfort since nobody will know,” she said.

Away from medical concerns and comfort, the 21-year-old Ease James, blames trends and attraction. According to her, while many women go braless copying their favourite celebrities, some do it to attract men.

“How would I attract good guys? You see those guys now, this is what they like,” Ease told our reporter.

“Besides, the world is changing. You see all these celebrities, they are always without bras, and they look sexier that way,” she added.

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However, Sophia Adeyemi disagreed with Ease James, describing wearing a bra as a sense of completeness in dressing that no reason is morally justified for anyone to ditch.

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“Ladies who intentionally go braless, especially for fashion, either have issues with their upbringing or their association,” the 42-year-old woman said.

“I have never felt comfortable going out without a bra. It is just not something I see myself doing,” she said.

Going bra-less; a silent global trend

While there’s currently no countries where women completely wear bras or go bra-free, a 2026 World Population Review report lists bralessness as common in global regions, with no fewer than 13 countries considered to have the common and or prevalent trend in 2026.

According to the report, Indian, United States and Brazil top the list while others include Japan, France, Canada, Peru, Hungary, Venezuela, Haiti, Afghanistan with the remaining two countries from Africa — Kenya and Tanzania.

Meanwhile, a IFOB study conducted between 2020 2022, which documented a spike in how women in France go braless due to COVID-19 pandemic, described the ‘No-Bra’ practice as a lasting social shift rather than a temporary lockdown fad.

According to the study, the number of those going braless rose among French women under 25 from 4% before the 2020 lockdown to 13% by 2022.

The study further reveals that 53% of the over 3,000 respondents cited physical comfort (avoiding pain or irritation) as the primary reason, while 32% of younger women viewed it as a rejection of the sexualization of female bodies.

However, a 15-year study from the University of Besançon, led by Professor Jean-Denis Rouillon, suggested that bralessness may improve breast firmness and support by allowing supporting muscles to develop naturally.

Medical experts weigh in

While more women who spoke to our reporter linked the shift in how they wear bras to desire for comfort, some expressed concerns over the health risks for wearing a bra.

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Speaking on the concerns, Taiwo Adebanjo, a retired Matron at General Hospital, Ijebu Ode, dismissed claims linking bra wearing to cancer risks.

“There’s no health risk associated with wearing a bra, especially breast cancer is not related to wearing a bra,” she clarified.

However, she believes wearing bras is important, especially for nursing mothers. “When breast milk starts sprinkling around, it makes the environment unfilthy… creating an unhealthy environment for the mother and even the baby.”

Reacting to a question on social constructs associated with how a woman dressed, she noted that men “would rather go for well-packed breasts rather than the ones going all round as if they were beating drums.”

Continuing, the retired matron agreed with the 42-year-old Sophia Adeyemi, likening not wearing bras to a “careless” signal that suggests a woman is not “dressing up completely.”

On the other hand, Dr Aliyu Shehu of the Federal Teaching Hospital, Birnin Kebbi, told our reporter that no medical rule confirmed not wearing bra causes any disease. He said, “No. There is no particular disease whose risk has been shown to increase by not wearing a bra.”

Speaking on breast sagging as a common concern among women, the medical expert told Tribune Online that “breast sagging is due to age, genetics, pregnancy, and weight,” adding that “There is no strong evidence that bras prevent sagging.”

While not wearing a bra is not harmful, another expert, Med Odukunmoju Oluwafemi of the University of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH) warned that it may also lead to discomfort because of the weight the body carries.

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‘I have cancer,’ Nollywood actress Cynthia Anijekwu cries, calls for support

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Nollywood actress Cynthia Anijekwu has made an emotional appeal to Nigerians for financial assistance after revealing that she is battling cancer for the second time.

In a video circulating on social media on Tuesday, the actress disclosed that she was first diagnosed with cancer in 2023, when she underwent surgery followed by chemotherapy in a bid to halt the disease.

She maintained that doctors initially managed the condition after the treatment, but the cancer later returned and has since spread to her bones, requiring more intensive care, including radiation therapy and another surgery.

According to Anijekwu, recent medical examinations revealed that the cancer has spread to her bones, significantly increasing the cost and complexity of her treatment up to N600,000 every month.

The actress said doctors have recommended radiation therapy and another surgery as part of her ongoing care.

“I have cancer in 2023 (sic). I did my surgery and took chemotherapy, but later it came back again. I’ve been in and out of the hospital. The doctor recently told me it has reached my bones, and the treatment is now much more expensive,” she said.

“I need to live. I need to survive. I’m asking Nigerians to please help me. Anyone that can help, please, I need help. Even my hands have swollen. The cancer has affected both breasts. I need to live. Please help me. I need to survive.

“Your one naira, your two naira can add up to something reasonable for me to get the proper treatment for this cancer. I’m begging you, please help me,” she pleaded.

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Before her health challenge became public, Anijekwu built her career in Nollywood, featuring in several English- and Igbo-language productions.

However, there is no publicly verifiable record identifying a major blockbuster film or comprehensive filmography associated with the actress, as public attention has largely shifted to her battle with cancer in recent years.

The actress said the financial burden has become overwhelming for her family, prompting her to seek help from members of the public.

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It’s not easy, surrogate mother shares emotional journey

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A masked Nigerian surrogate mother has opened up about how financial hardship and what she described as an irresponsible partner led her to become a surrogate, saying the decision came after the loss of her second child.

The woman disclosed this during a new episode on Cruise TV published on YouTube on Sunday, where she recounted the emotional, financial and psychological realities of carrying children for other families.

She said becoming a surrogate was one of the hardest decisions she had ever made, describing the emotional attachment that develops during pregnancy despite knowing the child does not belong to her.

“Emotionally it’s not easy. Even when I started the journey, when the pregnancy was three months, I called my nurse that I don’t think I can cope again because it’s not easy to carry what is not yours.

“When you start having the emotional attachment, you keep reminding yourself that this is not mine. I tell myself it is a job, and that helps me cope, but the emotions still come and go.”

The woman explained that she became a gestational surrogate through IVF, meaning she had no biological connection to the babies she carried.

Speaking on what pushed her into surrogacy, she said her partner failed to provide for the family despite her efforts to support them.

“I had my first child. Unfortunately, my husband is not the person that is hardworking and he doesn’t take responsibility. I do work. There is no work I cannot do.

“When I became pregnant the second time, I could no longer work. We couldn’t even afford hospital bills.”

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She said complications during the pregnancy eventually led to the death of the baby, an experience that changed her outlook.

“That baby died, and that was the reason I made that decision. Instead of giving him another baby, I would rather help people who have the money to take care of me.

“If you don’t have the money to care for my health, I won’t do it for you.”

She disclosed that she initially declined financial compensation beyond medical care, accommodation and allowances, a decision she now regrets.

“I told them I didn’t want any compensation aside from the process, monthly allowance, wardrobe allowance and accommodation fee, but that was a mistake.

“I won’t do it again,” she said.

The surrogate mother also said she would not encourage her daughter to follow the same path because of the emotional and health risks involved.

“I cannot advise my daughter to be a surrogate.”

She added that she relocated during one of her pregnancies to avoid stigma and often told people the baby had died whenever they asked questions.

According to her, surrogate mothers also face psychological challenges after delivery despite undergoing counselling before and after childbirth.

While acknowledging that surrogacy has helped many couples struggling with infertility, she maintained that the process is far more demanding than many people realise.

“Surrogacy is not as simple as people think.”

She called for stronger regulation of the practice to protect surrogate mothers from exploitation and ensure adequate emotional and financial support.

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I waited 18 years before welcoming twins – Nollywood star Ricardo Agbor

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Veteran Nollywood actor, Ricardo Agbor, has opened up about his 18-year journey to parenthood, revealing that he and his wife waited nearly two decades before welcoming their twins.

The actor disclosed this during an interview with AfricanAList published on Sunday, where he reflected on his marriage, faith and the challenges he faced before becoming a father.

Agbor said he remained committed to his wife throughout the period, despite the long wait for children.

“I wanted to get married to a particular lady; I married her regardless of where she is from. She is not from my tribe. So ordinarily, we were supposed to have strife; no, it was very fair,” he said.

Speaking about the couple’s struggle with childlessness, the actor said he specifically prayed for twins and refused to give up despite waiting for 18 years.

“It took 18 years for me to have the twins. And I waited. God knows, 18 years and they are 14 now, so I told God I wanted twins.

“So while that wait was on, if it were someone else, he would cross. But at the end of the day, I have twins. I have a boy and a girl. I asked God what I wanted,” he added.

Agbor also recounted what he described as the most painful experience of his life — the death of his mother.

According to him, she had been receiving treatment for about three weeks without any improvement before doctors advised that she should be flown to South Africa for further medical care.

The actor said his mother requested to be moved to another private hospital in Surulere, but she died in his arms while he was helping her into the car.

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“My mom died right in my arms. At the hospital, they were bringing almost 10 doctors to do tests… the sickness was not improving after almost three weeks.

“It was after three weeks that they told me to come and carry my mom and take her to South Africa. I took my mom away and took her to another private hospital within Surulere. It was my mom that told me to take her away from that place. As I was carrying her into the car, she gave up,” he said.

Agbor said the loss left him devastated, noting that it was the first time he had cried outside acting.

“I think that was the first time I cried in my life. I don’t cry. If I cry, maybe it is in a movie and it is a role. So I cried. It was painful,” he added.

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