A divorced mother has shared the benefits she’s enjoying as a divorcee.

Chinonso Onuoha, a Nigerian woman who lives in Germany and is divorced from her husband, had previously written about leaving a marriage that was allegedly abusive and toxic.

Now, she has shared things she claims she is enjoying as a divorcee that she did not enjoy when married.

She wrote: “Men swear divorced women are bitter and frustrated.

“I’m sorry to break it to you that life after divorce is actually maravilloso,especially if you have money.

“Imagine living life without your abuser, whom you were obligated to serve and worship.

“The house becomes peaceful and quiet.

“For someone like me who hates cooking, no more cooking.

“Cooking with garlic because his sidechick can no longer dictate the spices I use.

“No more being constantly criticized and yelled at.

“REST. I wasn’t allowed to rest. I was cleaning, ironing, and cooking round the clock.

“No more nagging and hitting me.

“Enjoying my children.

“Sleeping peacefully. Nobody waking me up in the middle of the night to accuse me of cheating, while he’s the one cheating.

“Watching TV shows I like it or watching TV in general.

“Nobody coming home to beat me because they fought with their side chick.

“Not constantly fearing I’ll contract STI’s because, as his wife, I’m expected to have unprotected sex with a cheating husband.

“No more living in constant fear or walking on eggshells.

“No more feeling drained and aging.

“No more being surrounded by his friends who knew about all his cheating and escapades but kept quiet.

“Sleeping peacefully without anyone snoring beside you. (I can’t relate to this one because I shared a room with my kids.)

“No longer living in constant fear of losing your life.

“Please, don’t threaten me with a good time.

“Men will tell themselves anything to be happy.

“If divorced women are so miserable and desperate to get their exes back, why do divorced men rush into marriages?

“Food is ready koromoto men.

“#saynotodomesticviolence #SpeakUp #narcisticabuse”

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Bukky Wright, a seasoned Nollywood actress, has sparked controversy with her frank opinions about males who lament that women in partnerships only seek for money.

In an interview, the actress made the case that a man should naturally take care of the woman he is dating without being asked.

She emphasized that the woman should be someone he is happy and willing to spend money on, and that it is a man’s duty to recognize that his woman needs to dress and look good, even if it is ultimately for his own pride.

Reacting to men who describe women as gold diggers, Wright said she strongly disagrees with the label, arguing that there is nothing wrong with a woman expecting nothing less than the best from a partner, and that she would never advise any woman to settle for less.

Asked whether men without the financial means to meet such expectations should simply avoid dating, the actress responded that such men should either not date at all or should date within their means.

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Veteran Nollywood actress Ngozi Nwosu has made an emotional appeal for financial assistance as she battles an undisclosed illness, revealing that she has been hospitalised for three weeks and is preparing to undergo three surgeries.

The actress shared the heartfelt video on her Instagram page on Thursday, where she appeared from her hospital bed, visibly emotional as she appealed to fans, friends and family members not to abandon her during the difficult period.

Addressing her supporters, Nwosu explained why she had been absent from public view in recent weeks.

“My people, my fans and my family, I know that you’ve not seen me in circulation for some time. I’ve been hospitalized now for three weeks. Please, the thing has gone beyond my control. I need your help, don’t let me die.”

The veteran actress said she remained hopeful that she would overcome the health challenge but pleaded for support as she continued to endure severe pain.

“I know that you people never forsake me and I know that God will always see me through, but I’m begging you, my friends and family, don’t let me die because I am going through a lot as in pain.”

Nwosu also urged anyone willing to assist to contact her management team, concluding her appeal with a prayer.

“My sickness will never be anybody’s portion. In Jesus’ name, thank you.”

Although the actress did not disclose the nature of her illness, she revealed in an earlier appeal that she requires three surgeries, with the procedures expected to cost about ₦30 million

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