Bringing a child into the world is a great responsibility and a sacred trust from God. Children are not merely gifts to be born; they are lives entrusted to parents to nurture, guide, protect, discipline, and prepare for the future.
Parents, don’t let your children grow up wishing they had never been born because of the way you treated them. Do not make your home a place of constant fear, rejection, humiliation, hatred, or emotional pain. A child should be able to look back on childhood and remember love, guidance, correction, protection, and good examples.
The Bible says:
“Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.”
— Psalm 127:3 (KJV)
If children are an heritage from the Lord, parents must understand that raising them is a serious responsibility. Provide for their needs, listen to them, teach them, correct them with wisdom, and show them what godly character looks like.
The Bible also gives parents this warning:
“And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.”
— Ephesians 6:4 (KJV)
Discipline is important, but discipline without love can leave deep wounds. Correction should teach a child what is right, not convince the child that he or she is worthless.
The book of Proverbs reminds us:
“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
— Proverbs 22:6 (KJV)
Parents should therefore be intentional about what they teach their children. Your words, actions, marriage, relationships, attitudes, and treatment of others all become lessons your children learn.
Never constantly tell your child, “You are useless,” “I wish I never had you,” or “You will never amount to anything.” Words spoken by a parent can remain in a child’s heart for many years.
Instead, let your children hear words that build them up. Correct them when they are wrong, but remind them that they are loved. Set boundaries, but also explain why those boundaries exist. Be firm when necessary, but never forget to be compassionate.
The Bible says:
“A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”
— Proverbs 15:1 (KJV)
Parents will make mistakes. No parent is perfect. But when you make a mistake, have the humility to apologize. Saying “I am sorry” does not make you a weak parent; it teaches your child humility, responsibility, and forgiveness.
Remember also:
“The just man walketh in his integrity: his children are blessed after him.”
— Proverbs 20:7 (KJV)
Your children may forget many things you bought for them, but they are likely to remember how you made them feel. Give them memories of a home where they were loved, valued, protected, corrected, and encouraged.
Parents, your children did not choose to be born. You brought them into this world, and God has entrusted them to you. Do your best to make their journey through life one filled with love, wisdom, discipline, encouragement, and godly instruction.
Do not be the reason your child grows up carrying bitterness toward life or wishing they had never been born.
Be the parent whose child can one day say: “I am grateful that God gave me these parents.”
May God give every parent the wisdom, patience, strength, and love needed to raise children who will become responsible, compassionate, and God-fearing adults.
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