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When Money Becomes the Foundation of a Relationship, What Happens When the Money Is Gone?

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A house built on money can collapse when money disappears. The same can happen to a relationship that is built mainly on financial benefits.

Money matters in marriage and relationships. Bills must be paid, children need care, and financial stability can make life easier. But there is a dangerous question many people are afraid to ask:

Did you marry the person—or did you marry what the person could provide?

When everything is going well financially, it is easy to believe that the relationship is strong. The expensive vacations, nice clothes, new cars, beautiful house and comfortable lifestyle can create the appearance of happiness.

But what happens when the money suddenly disappears?

What happens when the husband loses his job?
What happens when the business collapses?
What happens when the wife can no longer contribute financially?
What happens when the lifestyle has to change completely?

That is when the true foundation of a relationship may be exposed.

If affection disappears when the money disappears, perhaps money was doing more of the loving than the people were.

A healthy relationship should not be measured only by what one partner can buy for the other. A partner is not an ATM, and a relationship should not become a financial contract disguised as love.

At the same time, nobody should use “love” as an excuse for irresponsibility. Financial responsibility, hard work and providing for a family are important. Love does not eliminate the need for money—it simply means money should not be the only reason the relationship survives.

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The uncomfortable question is:

If your partner lost everything tomorrow, would you still want to build a life with them?

That question can reveal more about a relationship than a thousand romantic words.

Maybe the real foundation of a lasting home is not how much money enters the house, but the character, loyalty, respect, sacrifice and partnership of the people living inside it.

Money can build a beautiful house. But it cannot, by itself, build a strong home.

So, be honest:

Would you stay with your partner if the money disappeared—but the love remained?

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Ex-Delta governor, Emmanuel Uduaghan, dies at 71

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Former Delta State Governor, Dr. Emmanuel Uduaghan, is dead.

He died after a brief illness at the age of 71.

The Uduaghan family announced his death in a statement signed by Toju Andre Uduaghan on Monday.

‎Late Uduaghan was born on October 22, 1954.

In the statement titled, “Announcement of the passing of His Excellency, Dr. Chief Emmanuel Eweta Uduaghan”, the family said the death of the former governor was devastating because it was a big loss to the state and the country at large.

It read, “It is with hearts weighed down by immeasurable grief and profound sorrow that we announce the passing to glory of our beloved Father, Brother, Uncle, and Patriarch, His Excellency, Dr. Chief Emmanuel Eweta Uduaghan, former Governor of Delta State, who departed this world on the morning of 19th October 2026.

“His passing has left us devastated. Words can hardly express the depth of our sorrow at the loss of a man who meant so much to our family and whose life and service touched countless others across Delta State and Nigeria.”

The family also described Uduaghan as a ‘father figure, brother, uncle and source of strength’ whose presence would be deeply missed forever.

“He served as Commissioner for Health from 1999 to 2003, Secretary to the Delta State Government from 2003 to 2007, and Governor of Delta State from 2007 to 2015. Throughout his years in public service, he demonstrated a commitment to the human and infrastructural development of Delta State.

“His passing is a profound loss to our family, the people of Delta State, and Nigeria at large. We are grateful to Almighty God for his life, his service, and the legacy he leaves behind.

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“We pray that Almighty God, in His infinite mercy, will grant his soul eternal rest and comfort our family, friends, associates, former colleagues, and all who mourn this painful loss.

“Rest well, our beloved Father, Brother, and Uncle. Your memory will forever remain in our hearts, and your legacy will endure in the lives of those you touched. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Amen,” the statement added.

Source: punchng.com

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Catholic priest dies as cross falls on him during livestreamed mass

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A Catholic priest, Father Patricio Sánchez Molinari, has died after a large wooden cross fell on him while he was celebrating Mass at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in Guayaquil, Ecuador.

The incident occurred on Saturday, during a service that was being livestreamed on social media, according to the Associated Press and Ecuadorian newspaper El Universo on Sunday.

The priest was at the altar when the cross hanging behind him became detached and struck him on the head.

The Associated Press reported that footage of the service showed “a heavy crucifix detaching from the wall above the altar and striking Sánchez on the head as he celebrated Mass.”

According to the AP report, the priest did not appear to notice the cross falling, while worshippers cried for help as the broadcast continued.

In its report published on Sunday, El Universo said, “Un sacerdote murió tras la caída de una enorme cruz de madera sobre su cabeza” — meaning a priest died after a huge wooden cross fell on his head.

The newspaper reported that Sánchez Molinari was celebrating Mass when the cross suspended above the altar became detached during a prayer.

It added that worshippers tried to assist him and desperately called for an ambulance. The incident was recorded because the religious service was being transmitted on social media.

The Archdiocese of Guayaquil confirmed the priest’s death and identified him as a member of the Congregation of the Most Holy Redeemer, a Roman Catholic religious order.

The AP said the congregation was founded in 1732 and has a presence in 80 countries.

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El Universo also reported that the Archdiocese expressed solidarity and condolences to the Redemptorist community, as well as the priest’s family and friends.

The priest had previously served for several years at San Lorenzo de Vinces parish, according to El Universo, which reported that the parish also mourned his death.

The circumstances that caused the cross to detach from the wall had not been officially established in the reports available at the time of publication.

The Associated Press reported that local authorities had not commented on the incident.

The death has drawn attention to the incident captured during the livestreamed Mass, with worshippers seen rushing to assist the priest after the cross fell.

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SOME PEOPLE WOULD RATHER DESTROY A RELATIONSHIP THAN ADMIT THEY ARE WRONG!

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Have you ever argued with someone who would rather twist the truth, change the subject, and create a thousand excuses than simply say, *“I was wrong”*?

The painful truth is that **some people are not interested in finding the truth; they are only interested in winning the argument.**

Even when the facts are staring them in the face, their pride will not allow them to accept reality. They will argue until you are exhausted, turn themselves into the victim, and somehow make you look like the bad person for pointing out their mistakes.

They would rather lose your respect than lose an argument. They would rather damage a friendship than swallow their pride. And they would rather live in denial than admit that they made a mistake.

But listen carefully: **admitting you are wrong does not make you weak. It makes you mature.**

You do not become less intelligent by accepting correction. You do not lose your dignity by apologising. In fact, it takes more courage to admit a mistake than to spend hours defending it.

Sometimes, the wisest thing you can do is stop arguing—not because the other person is right, but because you have realised that **you cannot win a battle against someone whose ego is more important than the truth.**

Remember this: Not every argument deserves your energy, and not every person deserves an explanation.

💭 **QUESTION OF THE DAY:** Have you ever met someone who would rather argue for hours than admit they are wrong? What did you do?

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