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My father’s death turned me to Lagos hawker – Gov. Umo Eno inspiring story

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Akwa Ibom State Governor, Umo Eno, has recounted how the death of his father forced him to hawk soft drinks on the streets of Lagos to help his mother make ends meet.

Eno made the revelation while delivering the Convocation Lecture at the 7th Convocation of Mountain Top University, Ibafo, Ogun State, on Thursday.

He said his father, a police officer, died in the line of duty and life became difficult for him.

The governor said, “Life became very difficult after my father’s death. I had to help my mother augment the family’s income by hawking soft drinks on the streets of Lagos, even as a Senior Prefect of Victory High School.”

He described those early struggles as the foundation of his entrepreneurial spirit, which later saw him run one of the largest hospitality conglomerates in Akwa Ibom State.

Eno urged graduates to dream big, embrace creativity, and work hard, warning against entitlement and the desire for quick success.

Eno, in a statement issued by the Press Unit of the Akwa Ibom State Government House in Uyo, on Friday, urged Nigerian youths to discard the entitlement mentality and quest for an easy path to success.

He stated that contemporary society, reshaped by technological advancement and the breach of known boundaries, required a creative mindset that dared to challenge long-held norms.

The statement read partly, “Let me state here that we are living in a world shaped by new realities, a world where known boundaries have been breached and expanded by advancements in technology, where values once considered sacrosanct are no longer the defining ethos, and where groupthink is rapidly dissolving and being replaced by the need to do something daring, something different, and something that challenges long-held norms.

“The majority of the graduands here belong to the now-famous Generation X. Quite a number of people in this generation believe in the concept of immediate gratification and, to some extent, an entitlement mentality.

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“They want to achieve success without putting in the corresponding hard work, and most times, they crash and burn.”

He stated that the growth of his business was made possible by his “implicit faith in the Invisible Hands of God to bring destiny helpers who would propel me to the heights God had destined for me.”

Maintaining that the road to success is not all rosy, he said: “You will achieve success only if you are upright in your dealings and guided by ethics and morality, and with faith in God. Whenever I remember my small beginnings and how God stepped in to arrange my path and the people who led me to the point He had destined for me, I am in awe of His mercies and grace.

“God can and will do the same for you, but you must learn to start something, grow something, dream of something, and put in the hard work.”

Eno said that despite his current roles as a minister of the Gospel, an entrepreneur, and a politician, he had not forgotten the grounding he received from his parents, the humility he wears as a badge of honour, and a deep sense of compassion for the poor and downtrodden.

The Chancellor and General Overseer of the Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries, Professor Daniel Kolawole Olukoya, lauded Governor Eno for inspiring the graduands.

He said: “We specially honour and thank our Convocation Lecturer, His Excellency, Pastor Umo Bassey Eno, the Executive Governor of Akwa Ibom State, for accepting to be part of this historic celebration. Your presence dignifies this occasion; your words inspire this generation; and your example reminds us that leadership can be both competent and values-driven.”

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The Vice-Chancellor of Mountain Top University, Professor Elijah Adebowale Ayolabi, commended the Governor for honouring the occasion and delivering a stimulating and inspiring lecture.

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STOP JUDGING PEOPLE YOU DON’T KNOW!

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Some people see a person’s appearance, accent, nationality, religion, job, social class or background and immediately create a story about who that person must be.

They call someone lazy without knowing their struggles.

They call someone arrogant without understanding their personality.

They call someone uneducated without knowing their achievements.

They call someone a criminal simply because of where they come from.

That’s stereotyping—and it can be deeply unfair.

Behind every face is a story you may never have heard.

Before you judge someone, talk to them. Know their story. Understand their journey.

Because sometimes, the person you judged wrongly may be carrying battles, achievements and experiences you know absolutely nothing about.

👉 Don’t judge a book by its cover. Get to know the person first.

💬 Have you ever been stereotyped by someone who didn’t even know you? Tell us your experience in the comments.

#NewsBreak365 #StopStereotyping #DontJudge #KnowTheirStory #LifeLessons #SocialAwareness #RespectOthers #Humanity #ThinkBeforeYouJudge

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Newlywed pastor steps back from ministry after apologising over past affairs

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Apostle Sam Adegoke of Elijah Generation Church in Akure, Ondo state has apologised to women he had sexual relationships with before his marriage, saying he deeply regrets his actions and has stepped back from public ministry to reflect and make amends.

Adegoke, who recently got married, made this known in a statement released on Monday.

He took responsibility for his past conduct and apologised to the women involved, his wife, family, church members and others who trusted him for spiritual leadership.

The pastor said he had been involved in sexual relationships with women before his marriage, describing the experiences as actions he now deeply regretted.

He said, “Over the past few weeks, I have stepped back from public ministry and social media to reflect, seek counsel, and honestly address matters from my past.

“Before I was married, I was involved in sexual relationships with women that I deeply regret. Although these events occurred before my marriage, I acknowledge that my actions were wrong and fell short of the standards of holiness, integrity, and self-control I am called to uphold as a Christian and minister of the Gospel.”

Adegoke said he was not making excuses for his actions because they occurred before his marriage, adding that he had been seeking God, receiving pastoral and professional counselling and examining his conduct.

“I take full responsibility for my actions and sincerely apologise to the women involved for any hurt, disappointment, or harm I may have caused.

“I also apologise to my wife, my family, my church, my colleagues, and everyone who has trusted me and looked to me for spiritual leadership,” he said.

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He said his decision to step back from public ministry was part of efforts to address his conduct and make necessary changes.

The cleric said he recognised that repentance was demonstrated through changed conduct, accountability and a willingness to accept the consequences of one’s actions.

“I will therefore continue to submit myself to appropriate spiritual, pastoral, and professional accountability throughout this process,” he said.

Adegoke also asked the public to pray for him, saying he wanted the humility and courage to face his actions honestly, make amends where appropriate and allow God to produce genuine transformation in his life.

“I ask for prayer, not that my actions would be excused, but that I would have the humility and courage to face them honestly, make amends where appropriate, protect those affected, and allow God to produce genuine transformation in my life,” he said.

He added, “I am deeply sorry and remain committed to walking forward with greater integrity, responsibility, and accountability.”

Meanwhile, Adegoke and his wife have disabled comments on their respective Instagram accounts following the development.

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IN SOME AFRICAN FAMILIES, YOUR STRUGGLE DOESN’T ALWAYS BRING SUPPORT — SOMETIMES IT ATTRACTS EXPLOITATION.

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Let’s talk about something many African families don’t like to discuss.

When you are doing well, everybody calls you “our son,” “our daughter,” “our brother,” or “our sister.”

But when you lose your job, your business fails, your marriage is struggling, or money becomes tight, some of those same relatives suddenly disappear.

And worse — some don’t disappear. They stay close because they see your difficult situation as an opportunity.

A younger brother who knows his elder brother is desperate for money may demand unreasonable repayment.

A relative may pressure you to surrender your share of family property because they know you cannot afford a lawyer.

Someone may repeatedly ask for money from the relative living abroad, assuming, “He is in Europe, so he must have money.”

A struggling widow may be pressured over her husband’s property.

A family member who knows you desperately need accommodation may charge you unfairly or threaten to throw you out.

Someone may even use “family responsibility” to manipulate you:

“After everything this family has done for you, you cannot say no.”

But where is the family responsibility when you are the one struggling?

Where are the relatives who were calling your phone every day when they needed money?

Where are the people who celebrated your success when you were sending money home?

💔 Sometimes, the person who sacrificed the most for the family becomes the person everyone expects to keep sacrificing—even when they have nothing left.

Family should not mean:

❌ Taking advantage of someone’s kindness.
❌ Pressuring someone because they are financially successful.
❌ Taking advantage of a widow or vulnerable relative.
❌ Using cultural expectations to control people.
❌ Treating relatives abroad like automatic ATMs.
❌ Fighting over family property when someone becomes vulnerable.

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FAMILY SHOULD BE A PLACE OF PROTECTION, NOT EXPLOITATION.

And let’s remember something very important:

The fact that someone is struggling today does not mean they will struggle forever.

The relative you are humiliating today may rebuild tomorrow.

The person you cheated out of their inheritance may eventually become stronger.

The person you refused to help may one day be the person everyone needs.

🔥 AFRICAN FAMILIES NEED TO HAVE THIS CONVERSATION.

Are we truly looking after one another?

Or have money, property, status and personal interests quietly replaced love, compassion and family loyalty?

👇 BE HONEST:
Have you ever seen someone in an African family being exploited because they were struggling financially?

What happened?

Let’s hear the truth — respectfully.

#AfricanFamilies #FamilyMatters #AfricanSociety #LifeLessons #FamilyPressure #Exploitation #Poverty #MoneyAndFamily #Inheritance #AfricanCulture #Newsbreak365

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