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“THE DEATH OF YORUBA LANGUAGE?”-BY YEYE AKILIMALI FUNUA OLADE

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(ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED ON THE Editorial Page in THE GUARDIAN NEWSPAPER,2005)

“Mommy,Daddy,””Kilo happen? Ma worry! Kini nice day.” Surely this not YORUBA this Yoruba is speaking,but everyday the Yoruba are destroying the language like this!

THAT English, the ready-made weapon of British-American cultural imperialism, is not just trying to destroy African languages, but is attacking all other languages worldwide, I agree.

Ojoogbon Akinwunmi Isola, related to me during a discussion with Ojoogbon Babatunde Fafunwa, the problem the French are having with English.

He stated that the French government had recently warned all French broadcasters to stop polluting French with English, as is now popular in general French conversation, or face dismissal.

The greatest tragedy in Yorubaland today, however, regarding language is the dominating trend to speak only English to their children, making it their first language, then sending them to private nursery school, who only teach in English and causing Yoruba children to value English above all other languages!

(After all their WAEC will not be in Yoruba, one highly*educated Yoruba man told me!)

And see the result! These English-speaking children will rudely use English to disrespect all and sundry (after all English does not have pronouns of respect for anybody).

Ask them or some of their parents and they will tell you they don’t know the original Yoruba for the popular phrases that many literate and non-literate leaders and followers commonly use throughout Yorubaland.

As a Black-American, who has come back to her Yoruba roots these past 26 years in Nigeria, I want to break down in tears over this “iyonu”! How can Yorubas kill their own language?

What sort of curse is this?

Obviously the curse of european-american imperialism/colonialism/slavery! As a result I have declared “War Against Destroying Our Nigerian Languages” from today. And it must start from Yorubaland.

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Are not the Yorubas the “wisest and the greatest”?

As everything good seems to start from Yorubaland in Nigeria, “let it be so”. Full-blooded Yoruba, as of today should consciously seek not to mix English with their Yoruba.

Yoruba leaders must slowly speak, watching their tongues, not to include any English word inside their Yoruba.

It has gotten to a state where such leaders cannot avoid mixing English as they speak Yoruba and their every sentence includes whole English phrases! The late Yoruba leader, Oloye Bola Ige was a pure Yoruba language speaker and other Yoruba leaders should follow his example.

All clubs and organisations in Yorubaland should hold bi-annual and annual Yoruba Speaking Competitions for the “Best Yoruba Speaker”, with heavy monetary prizes (N20,000 plus) to get Yorubas to consciously practice speaking Yoruba without any English mixture.

Yoruba broadcasters are guilty of promoting this deadly trend. In schools, Yoruba teachers must stress the importance of not mixing Yoruba.

All private schools in Yorubaland must be required to have classes in Yoruba language from nursery through secondary school levels. And any student who fails to pass Yoruba in Yorubaland must not be allowed to graduate!

The Yoruba press must be commended for indeed holding the banner high and not polluting Yoruba with English.

More effort, however, must be made to eliminate “pasito”, “professor”, “dokita” words as most of them have genuine Yoruba words that can be enlisted and popularised among their readers.

Yoruba departments in Nigerian and foreign universities must start churning out more research on modernising Yoruba for technical, scientific and other vocabulary and making it available through special courses for the media and the general Yoruba public.

Yoruba writers must begin to write and publish bilingual publications. For any publication they publish in English, its Yoruba equivalent must be done.

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In the same book (Yoruba-from the front, turn upside down, English from the back) is one way to do it or in a title simultaneously released.

More books, magazines, other publications like club histories, year books must be published in Yoruba.

Yoruba music too, has been assaulted by Yoruba artists, unknowingly killing Yoruba language. The mixture of English has reached a new high in Fuji.

Yoruba gospel has started mixing English inside Yoruba songs within Yoruba cassettes, adding along side complete English songs! Olodumare!

Such artists must be warned—no more killing of the language in this manner.

If it is English you want then put that on an English cassette.

Do not replace our God-given Yoruba in a Yoruba music cassette!

Yoruba movie practitioners are perhaps the biggest offenders and must take up this challenge to save Yoruba language.

English mixing should absolutely be banned in all Yoruba films.

I have not researched the topic but I suspect that Hausa, is probably the most unpolluted language in Nigeria, and in all their films that I have seen any English there at all.

The beauty of the Yoruba language must be showcased by having more Yoruba Cultural Festivals to be held by all clubs and organisations in Yorubaland annually.

Odua’s People Congress and other enforcers of law and order in Yorubaland must be in the vanguard, not only by stressing among its members that Yoruba should not be polluted but by holding bi-Annual Yoruba Speaking competitions for the “Best Yoruba Speaker”.

They must lead the way in correct Yoruba speaking and have literacy classes for all their members to learn to read in Yoruba and encourag them to speak Yoruba in the home to their children: Yoruba must become again the first language of Yorubas at home and abroad.

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A private Yoruba school system must be set up. These schools will teach all subjects in Yoruba from nursery up to the university eventually. If it must be like a “mushroom school”, starting with nursery school first and adding class by class this must be done. This Yoruba Academy can be supported extensively by Yorubas abroad, eventually having board houses were Yoruba children from abroad can join their counterparts here, (including all “classes of children, street children etc.) This Yoruba Academy will inculcate Yoruba culture into our children also. With the help of our Yoruba scholars we can build on Ojoogbon Babatunde Fafunwa’s successful “Mother-tongue Education” at University of Ife in the 60s. Afterall, even UNESCO has proven that Mother-tongue Education is the best for all children.

Let Yoruba Language not die! God has given the Yoruba race a language to be proud of, anywhere in the world (there are at least 60 million or more Yoruba speakers throughout the world). Let’s not destroy it with our own mouths!

Let us pass it on in its richness to our children, daily in our home. Let us proudly speak it daily, read it daily, champion it daily. Yorubas cannot remain great without our language.

And let us be in the vanguard of saving all Nigerian and African languages. Biu, Ogoni, Urhorbo, Igele, Ogoja, Ebira, Idoma, Efik, Tiv, Langale: Tangale, Kagona, Kutep, Oron, Legdo, Bubiaro, Esan, Afima, lsekiri, Ijaw, Edo, Ikenne, Joba, Gwari, lbo, Igala, Hausa, speakers are you listening?

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Parents, Don’t Make Your Children Pay for a Broken Marriage

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A broken marriage can leave adults hurt and angry—but children should never become the victims of problems they did not create.

When a relationship falls apart, emotions can run high. There may be disappointment, resentment, arguments, betrayal, or years of unresolved problems between the couple.

But one thing should remain clear:

The children are not responsible for the failure of their parents’ marriage.

Children did not choose the arguments. They did not cause the separation. They did not make the decisions that brought the relationship to an end.

Yet, in some families, children can become caught in the middle of their parents’ conflict.

A frustrated parent may shout at a child because of anger toward the other parent. Another may use the child to pass messages, criticize the other parent in front of them, or pressure the child to take sides.

This can place an emotional burden on children that they are not prepared to carry.

Your Child Is Not Your Enemy

A child who misbehaves is still a child. They should not be punished for the mistakes, choices, or actions of another adult.

Before taking your frustration out on your son or daughter, take a moment and ask yourself:

“Is my child really the reason I am angry?”

If the answer is no, then don’t make the child pay the price.

Your child may not understand everything happening between the adults, but they can certainly feel the tension.

They need reassurance, stability, love and protection—especially when the family is going through a difficult period.

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Don’t Force Children to Choose Sides

Even when parents no longer live together, children should not be turned into weapons against one another.

Avoid making children feel guilty for loving both parents.

A child should be allowed to say, “I love my mother” and “I love my father” without feeling that they have betrayed either parent.

Adults may have serious disagreements, but children should not be forced to carry those disagreements.

Protect Their Hearts

You cannot always control how a marriage ends.

But you can control how you treat your children during and after the separation.

You can choose not to insult them because you are angry.

You can choose not to use them as messengers.

You can choose not to make them responsible for adult problems.

And you can choose to remind them:

“None of this is your fault. You are loved.”

A broken relationship does not have to create broken children.

Parents, deal with your pain without transferring it to the innocent children who still look to you for love and protection.

What do you think?

Should parents completely separate their marital conflicts from their relationship with their children?

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YOUR MARRIAGE IS NOT A PUBLIC VOTING CONTEST!

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One of the biggest mistakes couples can make is allowing outsiders to become the voice of their relationship.

A friend hears one argument.

A relative hears one complaint.

Someone hears one side of the story—and suddenly they are telling you how to treat your spouse.

Before you accept someone else’s opinion, remember: they may know your spouse’s mistakes, but they may not know the full story.

Healthy couples should learn to communicate directly, protect their private matters, and resolve disagreements without allowing gossip and outside pressure to control the relationship.

That does not mean ignoring genuine concerns or refusing to seek help when a relationship has serious problems. Sometimes trusted family members, counselors, or professionals can provide valuable support.

But there is a difference between helpful advice and advice that creates hatred, disrespect, suspicion, or division.

❤️ Protect what you and your spouse are building.

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When Couples Turn Private Secrets Into Public Gossip

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Some couples are good at exposing their spouse’s secrets to other people—but what happens to trust when private matters become public conversation?

Marriage and relationships are built on more than love. Trust, respect, loyalty and confidentiality are also important parts of a healthy relationship.

Unfortunately, some couples reveal their partner’s private information whenever they have an argument. A disagreement that should be handled between two people can quickly become a story shared with friends, relatives, neighbours or even people on social media.

Your partner may have trusted you enough to share personal struggles, family problems, financial difficulties, past mistakes or emotional concerns. Turning those private conversations into gossip can cause serious damage to that trust.

Not Every Argument Needs an Audience

Every relationship has disagreements. Couples will not always see things the same way, and emotions can become intense.

But there is a difference between seeking genuine advice from a trusted person and deliberately exposing your partner simply to embarrass them or make yourself look like the victim.

Once private information is shared, you cannot completely control where it goes.

The people who hear the secret may remember it long after the couple has settled their disagreement.

Think Before You Speak

Before revealing something personal about your spouse, ask yourself:

“Would I want my partner to tell other people this same thing about me?”

If the answer is no, it may be worth reconsidering whether the information should be shared.

There are situations where seeking help is necessary, especially when there is abuse, danger, serious financial problems or other circumstances requiring professional or trusted support. Privacy should not prevent someone from getting the help they genuinely need.

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But ordinary relationship disagreements do not always need a public audience.

Protect the Trust

A relationship should be a place where both partners can feel safe discussing their fears, weaknesses and mistakes without constantly worrying that their private conversations will become tomorrow’s gossip.

Love is not only about what you say when things are going well. It is also about how you handle your partner’s vulnerability when things go wrong.

Before exposing your spouse’s secrets, remember that the argument may end, but the damage to trust can remain.

What Do You Think?

Should couples keep their partner’s private matters confidential even when they are angry with each other?

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