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Daughter revealed that they waited for ransom call but received her father’s corpse

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Rofiat Abdulazeez, daughter of 57-year-old farmer, Abiodun, whose lifeless body was found in his cocoa farm in Owa-Onire, Kwara State, speaks to DARE AKOGUN about the family’s desperate search for him before his corpse was found, the agony of receiving his body instead of a call for ransom, and why they are pleading for justice

How related are you to the late Abiodun Abdulazeez?

I am the second daughter of the late Abiodun Abdulazeez, popularly known as Kebe. My father was 57 years old before he was killed.

Could you walk us through the morning of July 11? What happened before he left home?

That morning is one I will never forget. Around 7 am, my father got ready for the farm. Before leaving, he drank pap.. He told us he was going to his cocoa farm in Owa-Onire to plant cocoa. He also assured us that he would not spend much time there and promised he would return early.

There was nothing unusual about that morning. He was calm as always. Nobody imagined those would be the last words we would hear from him. If we had known, maybe we would have begged him not to go.

How long had he been farming there?

My father had farmed on that land for about 25 years. The farm is located in Owa-Onire, while we live in Isalu. The journey takes about two hours. Farming was his life. It was not just his occupation; it was how he fed us and took care of the extended family. He knew every part of that land because he had worked there for decades.

Did he ever express fears about going to the farm?

No, he never specifically complained about being afraid to go there. However, there were periods when insecurity became very serious around that area because of bandit attacks. Whenever that happened, farmers usually stopped going to their farms.

There was a time they stayed away for almost four months because of insecurity. Apart from that, there was another issue last year when some people entered his farm and cut down trees without informing him.

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He reported the matter to the traditional ruler of Owa-Onire because he wanted the issue settled peacefully. Beyond those incidents, he never imagined anything like this would happen to him.

When did your family realise something had gone wrong?

Normally, my father never stayed for too long on the farm. Around 12 noon, we became worried because he had not returned. We contacted one of his brothers, who also farms around that area, and he immediately went to look for him. That was when everything changed.

What happened when your uncle got to the farm?

When he arrived, he saw only my father’s motorcycle. The motorcycle was there, but my father was nowhere to be found. He immediately came back to alert the rest of the family. By then, hunters and community members had joined the search. Everyone realised something terrible had happened.

What was the mood in your community after he disappeared?

The whole community became worried. People sympathised with us immediately. Everyone was praying and hoping he would be found alive. It was a very sorrowful atmosphere because my father was known as a peaceful and hardworking man. Nobody expected him to disappear simply because he went to work on his farm.

When you heard that only his motorcycle had been found, what went through your mind?

Immediately we heard that only his motorcycle had been found, we believed he had been kidnapped. That was honestly what everybody thought; nobody imagined he had already been killed. We kept hoping the kidnappers would contact us.

Were you expecting a ransom demand?

Yes, we were waiting for a phone call; we expected they would ask for money. At least, if they demanded ransom, we would know he was still alive. But less than two hours later, everything changed. Instead of a call for ransom, the hunters found his body inside the farm. That hope of seeing him return alive disappeared instantly.

How did your family receive the news of his death?

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The hunters did not even need to say much. They simply brought his body home. That moment cannot be described. It remains the most painful experience of my life. No daughter ever prepares herself to receive the lifeless body of her father. It felt like our entire world collapsed within minutes. Even now, I still find it difficult to believe he is gone.

How has his death affected your family?

The impact has been enormous. My father was the breadwinner. He carried the responsibility of not just his immediate family, but many members of the extended family.

Emotionally, we are devastated; financially, we have also been affected because everything depended largely on him. After his death, every day has been painful, and the house is no longer the same. His absence is felt in every corner.

What kind of father was he?

He was a very loving and caring father; he was gentle and had a soft heart. He always encouraged us; he believed in hard work and wanted all his children to become successful. Even after working so hard for many years, he never enjoyed the fruit of his labour.

That is one of the things that makes us very sad. Whenever I think about him, I remember his words of encouragement. That is what I miss most, more than anything else.

He was not just our father; he was the pillar of our family. Everything revolved around him. He worked tirelessly every day just to ensure that everyone in the family had something to eat and lacked nothing within his ability. He was a loving husband, a caring father, and someone many people respected because of his peaceful nature and hard work.

Have the police or any security agency visited your family?

No, nobody has visited us. No security agency has come to our house to take statements from us. We have not received updates about investigations. That silence is painful because we still do not know who killed our father or why.

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What kind of justice are you asking for?

We want a proper investigation. We want those responsible to be identified. Whether they were kidnappers or other attackers, we want the truth. At this moment, we do not suspect anyone specifically.

What we want is for security agencies to investigate everyone around the area and uncover exactly what happened. Nobody should leave home to work on a farm and return in a coffin.

What is your message to the government and Nigerians?

As the second daughter of Abdulazeez Abubakar Abiodun (Kebe), I want to appeal to the Kwara State Government, the Federal Government, the police, other security agencies, journalists, bloggers, human rights organisations, and every Nigerian to help us.

Please, help amplify my father’s story. We do not want this case to be forgotten. My father deserves justice. Our family deserves answers. We also want farmers across Isin Local Government Area and other rural communities to be safe.

People should be able to go to their farms without being afraid that they may never return home. We will continue to seek justice until those responsible for killing my father are identified and brought before the law. That is the only way we can begin to heal.

Looking back today, what memory of your father remains strongest?

The last thing he told us was that he was going to plant cocoa. He drank pap before leaving; he smiled and promised he would not stay long. That simple promise keeps replaying in my mind every day. He always kept his word about not staying long.

But none of us knew he would return home lifeless instead of walking through the door as he always did. We can never replace him, but we hope justice will ensure that no other family has to endure the pain we are living with today.

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RESPECT IS RECIPROCAL: YOU CANNOT DEMAND WHAT YOU REFUSE TO GIVE

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Why do some people demand respect from everyone while treating others with disrespect?**

There is something deeply wrong with a society where people believe that respect should flow in only one direction.

Some people want to be respected because they are older, wealthier, more educated, more influential or occupy positions of authority. Yet they feel entitled to insult, intimidate, humiliate and belittle those they consider beneath them.

They want people to bow before them, but they refuse to treat others with dignity.

They want their opinions respected, but they dismiss the opinions of others.

They demand loyalty, but offer betrayal. They demand kindness, but practise cruelty. They expect understanding, but show little consideration for anyone else’s feelings.

**Is that respect, or simply an abuse of power?**

## Respect is not determined by wealth, age or status

Having money does not make you more human than someone who is struggling financially.

Being a boss does not give you the right to humiliate your employees.

Being a parent does not mean your children have no feelings or deserve no consideration.

Being older does not automatically make every decision you make right.

And holding a position of authority does not give you permission to treat people as though they have no value.

True respect is reflected in your character, behaviour and treatment of other people.

## Stop confusing fear with respect

This is where many people get it wrong.

Some people believe that because others remain silent around them, they are respected.

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But silence is not always respect.

Sometimes people are simply afraid of your anger, your influence, your financial power or the consequences of disagreeing with you.

You may command obedience through intimidation, but you cannot force genuine admiration.

**People may fear your power without respecting your character.**

## Respect begins with how you treat people

If you want people to respect you, start by examining how you treat them.

Respect the poor. Respect the vulnerable. Respect people who cannot offer you anything in return.

Respect those who disagree with you. Respect people’s boundaries. Respect their dignity, even when you have more money, authority or influence than they do.

You do not have to agree with everyone, but disagreement should never become an excuse for humiliation.

Respect does not mean tolerating abuse or surrendering your boundaries. It means recognising that every human being deserves basic dignity.

## The question we must all answer

Before demanding respect from others, take a moment to examine yourself.

Are you the kind of person who gives the respect you constantly demand?

Do you treat your domestic workers, employees, relatives, neighbours and strangers with the same dignity you expect from those around you?

Or do you believe respect is something other people owe you simply because of who you are?

**Remember: Respect is reciprocal. You cannot continuously disrespect people and expect genuine respect in return.**

### NEWSBREAK365 FINAL THOUGHT

The true measure of a person’s greatness is not how many people bow before them, but how many people they treat with dignity.

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**Never demand from others what you are unwilling to give.**

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Do you believe respect should be given automatically, or should it be earned through character and behaviour?

Can someone genuinely demand respect while constantly disrespecting others?

Share your thoughts. Your opinion matters.

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YOUR WEALTH DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO OPPRESS THE POOR: STOP EXPLOITING THOSE WHO HAVE LESS THAN YOU

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Having money does not make you superior. Having power does not give you the right to intimidate others. And being in a position of authority does not make you the owner of another person’s dignity.

There is something deeply troubling about a society where some people believe that having money, connections, influence or authority gives them permission to treat less privileged people like they are worthless.

Some wealthy individuals look down on the poor. Some employers intimidate their workers because they know those workers depend on their salaries to survive. Some people in positions of authority exploit the vulnerability of those who cannot afford to challenge them.

Others use their financial advantage to humiliate, manipulate and silence people who have fewer opportunities.

But let us ask an important question: **When did having more become a licence to mistreat those who have less?**

## THE POOR ARE HUMAN BEINGS, NOT YOUR PUNCHING BAGS!

Being poor does not mean someone deserves humiliation.

A person struggling financially still deserves respect. Someone working for you is not your slave. A person who cannot afford to challenge your decisions is not someone you have the right to exploit.

Whether someone is a cleaner, security guard, domestic worker, factory employee, labourer, driver or street vendor, their dignity matters.

You may have the money, but they have feelings. You may have influence, but they have families to feed. You may have power, but they deserve justice.

Never confuse someone’s inability to fight back with permission to mistreat them.

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## WEALTH SHOULD BUILD PEOPLE, NOT DESTROY THEM

What is the purpose of becoming wealthy if your success comes at the expense of other people’s suffering?

Why intimidate an employee who is already struggling to survive? Why refuse to pay someone what they have legitimately earned? Why use your position to frustrate someone simply because you know they cannot afford to challenge you?

True success should create opportunities, encourage fairness and improve lives.

Pay people fairly. Respect their contributions. Treat workers with dignity. Help vulnerable people when you can.

You do not have to become poor to show compassion to the poor.

## REMEMBER: LIFE CAN CHANGE

The person you humiliate today may not remain in that position forever.

Financial circumstances can change. Positions can change. Businesses can collapse. Opportunities can disappear. The person who appears powerless today may become successful tomorrow.

Nobody knows everything tomorrow holds.

That is why humility matters.

Do not allow your present success to make you arrogant. Do not allow your wealth to destroy your humanity.

## THE MESSAGE IS SIMPLE

If you have more than others, remember that your advantage comes with an opportunity to make a positive difference.

Stop exploiting the poor. Stop intimidating vulnerable people. Stop using money and authority to silence those who have less.

**Be wealthy, but remain humane. Be powerful, but remain humble. Be successful, but never lose your conscience.**

Because at the end of the day, your bank balance may reveal how much money you have, but your treatment of other human beings reveals your character.

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**LET’S TALK:**

Why do some people become wealthy and powerful only to use their position to intimidate, exploit and oppress those who are less privileged?

Is it greed, arrogance, lack of compassion or a society that has normalised the abuse of power?

What is your opinion?

Share this article. Someone needs to hear this message.

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Mohbad Family demands identity of US lab for DNA test

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The family of late singer Ilerioluwa Aloba, popularly known as Mohbad, has demanded the disclosure of the identity of a United States laboratory expected to conduct a DNA test to determine the paternity of Liam, the singer’s son.

The family also called for the postponement of the examination scheduled for Saturday, October 31, at the Mainland General Hospital/IDH, Yaba, Lagos, pending clarification of its concerns over transparency and compliance with a court order.

In a statement signed by the family head, Samuel Aloba, and sent to PUNCH Metro on Thursday, the family said it was concerned about arrangements for the tissue-based DNA examination, particularly reports that samples would be collected in Lagos and sent to a laboratory in the US for analysis.

The family said it wanted clarification on whether the Lagos State DNA and Forensic Centre, which it claimed was designated by a court order issued on May 5, 2026, would conduct the examination or merely collect and dispatch the samples abroad.

“This raises a fundamental question that must be answered before the exercise proceeds: Is the Lagos State DNA and Forensic Centre itself going to conduct the examination contemplated by the court, or is it merely going to collect and dispatch samples to another laboratory?

“The distinction is material. Where a court has directed that a scientific examination be conducted at a particular institution, the parties are entitled to clarity regarding the manner in which that directive will be implemented.

“If the designated centre intends to rely on a foreign laboratory to conduct the analysis, the arrangement should be explained and, where necessary, presented to the court for clarification,” the statement read.

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The family said no institution or party should unilaterally substitute a materially different arrangement for one contemplated by a subsisting court order without appropriate judicial clarification.

The family also demanded the full name and address of the proposed overseas laboratory, evidence of its accreditation and technical competence, details of the testing procedure, and documentation showing how the samples would be collected, labelled, preserved, transported and examined.

It further requested a mechanism to verify that the samples collected in Lagos were the same ones received and analysed by the foreign laboratory.

The statement added, “The family has been informed that the identity of the proposed overseas laboratory may be disclosed only to the court. While the family recognises the importance of protecting legitimate confidential information, confidentiality cannot be permitted to defeat the basic requirements of transparency, accountability and meaningful verification in a process whose outcome may have far-reaching legal and personal consequences.”

The family said its concerns were not an attempt to frustrate the judicial process or prevent a scientifically valid examination but to ensure that the outcome could withstand independent scrutiny.

It expressed apprehension about possible interference, mishandling or manipulation of the process if adequate safeguards were not established before the examination.

However, the family clarified that it was not claiming that the proposed test had already been compromised or that manipulation had been established.

“In a matter as sensitive as Mohbad’s DNA, the result must not merely be announced; it must be demonstrably reliable. The integrity of the process must be capable of independent verification, from the point of sample collection to the final laboratory report,” it said.

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The family also linked its concerns to questions it had previously raised about the handling of biological samples during the post-mortem examination conducted in connection with Mohbad’s death.

It questioned the role of the pathologist involved in sample collection during the coroner’s inquest.

The family further claimed that information it received from its enquiries indicated that the laboratory to which samples from the earlier process were purportedly sent had not received them or any specimen registered in the name of Ilerioluwa Promise Aloba.

It stressed, however, that the assertions represented its account of the matter and required clarification and verification, adding that they were not findings of a court or independently established proof of wrongdoing by any individual or institution.

The family maintained that it supported a credible DNA examination capable of resolving Liam’s paternity but insisted that the identity of the testing laboratory and the chain of custody of the samples must be clear.

It called on the relevant authorities to address its concerns, provide the necessary information and ensure that the examination complied with the court’s order and accepted forensic procedures.

The family consequently requested the postponement of Saturday’s exercise until the outstanding issues were clarified, adequate notice was given to all parties and their legal representatives, and further directions were obtained from the court where necessary.

It said its objective was not to predetermine the outcome of the examination but to ensure that the eventual result was based on a credible and properly documented process.

The family added that the public interest in establishing the truth should not be undermined by avoidable uncertainty or a lack of transparency.

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Mohbad died at 27 on September 12, 2023. Following his death, the Lagos State Police Command inaugurated a 13-man special investigation team to probe the circumstances surrounding his passing.

Earlier reports in 2024 indicated that Aloba, through legal representatives, filed an application at the coroner’s court in Ikorodu to determine the cause of Mohbad’s death and later demanded a DNA test to resolve the paternity dispute.

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