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Hospitals refusing to treat our father, Nollywood actor Ogogo’s daughters cry out over stage-four cancer

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Two daughters of veteran Yoruba actor, Taiwo Hassan, popularly known as Ogogo, have cried out for help, saying hospitals have refused to continue treating their father, who they disclosed is battling stage-four cancer.

The daughters, Lima and Kira Taiwo, made separate emotional appeals on Instagram on Monday, urging Nigerians, well-wishers and medical professionals with experience in cancer treatment to help save their father.

In a video posted on her Instagram page, Lima said the actor’s condition had deteriorated and that hospitals had refused to treat him.

Taiwo, who struggled to hold back tears throughout the video, appealed to Nigerians and well-wishers to help her family find a hospital or medical personnel willing to treat her father, insisting that the family was not soliciting funds.

“Hello everybody, good evening. I’m here to ask for help from my daddy. He has cancer and it’s really, really bad.

“And the hospitals are refusing to treat him. At least, please, give this man a chance. Nobody wants to do anything,” she said.

She said the family only discovered the extent of the actor’s condition three weeks ago, adding that his outward appearance did not reflect the severity of his illness.

“You see him, you can’t even know that. Something is wrong that bad. It’s just starting to show. We didn’t even know until like three weeks ago,” she said.

Lima reiterated that the appeal was strictly for medical assistance and not financial donations, urging anyone with connections to healthcare providers willing to take on her father’s case to reach out to the family.

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“Please, I’m begging you. If you know somebody that knows somebody that will be willing to treat him, anything, we’re willing to try anything. We’re not here to ask for money. Nobody’s here to ask for money,” she said.

She also acknowledged the support the family had received from a relative, saying he had stepped in during the crisis.

“My big uncle has helped a lot. He has been of great help. Like, nobody even knew that he would show up for us this way,” she said.

The visibly distraught daughter ended the video with a tearful plea, saying she could not bear to watch her father die.

“But if he’s willing to do anything, please, if you know somebody that knows somebody that will be willing to treat him, would you really appreciate it? Please, I can’t watch my daddy die. I can’t. I can’t. Please. Please, I’m begging you. Please. Please,” she said.

In a separate Instagram video posted on Monday, Kira also appealed for help, disclosing that her father’s cancer was at stage four.

“Hello everyone, I’m here for my daddy. He has cancer and is in stage 4. The hospital is saying that they cannot treat him again, like they can’t give him chemo again,” she said.

Kira appealed to anyone who could provide cancer treatment for the actor, including chemotherapy, to contact the family.

“And I really, really, really love to appreciate Senator Yayi. He has been the one helping us, he has been the one footing the bills,” she said.

The actress’ daughter stressed that the family was not seeking money, but medical intervention that could give their father another chance.

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“What I’m here for, what I’m here for is that if you can treat my daddy, if you can start chemo for him, whether it’s medical or herbs, please, I’m begging you, guys, I’m begging you, any help, anything, anybody that you know that can treat cancer, please, please, I’m begging you,” she said.

She urged anyone who knew a medical professional or facility capable of treating cancer to contact her, her sister or the actor directly.

“Please, please, if you can treat my daddy, please send me a DM. I’ll be checking my phone. Please, I don’t want my daddy to die,” Kira said.

She became emotional while speaking about her father’s condition, saying she had never seen him in such pain.

“God, give me strength. I’m suffering so bad. There’s no money, but if you know anybody that can treat my daddy, Andrew, please,” she said.

Kira added that her father had expressed his fear of dying, saying, “He’s saying that he doesn’t want to die. Please, I’ve never seen my daddy in that kind of pain before.”

Hassan, 66, is a veteran of the Nigerian film industry with a career spanning more than four decades.

He has featured in more than 300 movies and is one of the most recognisable faces in Yoruba cinema.

As of the time of filing this report, the actor’s management and family were yet to issue an official statement detailing the specific hospital, diagnosis, or type of cancer involved.

Source: punchng.com

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North Korean leader’s daughter believed to have younger sibling – Seoul

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North Korean leader Kim Jong Un’s daughter and apparent successor is believed to have a younger sibling, South Korea’s spy agency said on Thursday, offering a more detailed view of the ruling family’s structure.

Seoul’s spy agency has previously said Kim is believed to have three children, but there has been uncertainty about their order of birth.

Kim’s daughter, Kim Ju Ae, was first introduced to the public in 2022 when she accompanied her father to the launch of an intercontinental ballistic missile.

The Kim family has ruled North Korea with an iron grip for decades, and a cult of personality surrounding their “Paektu bloodline” dominates daily life in the diplomatically isolated country.

“The National Intelligence Service currently assesses that Kim Ju Ae is being groomed as the successor and understands she has a younger sibling of unknown gender,” the agency said in a statement.

The NIS added that it was continuing to verify whether Kim Ju Ae has an older brother, but believes that “even if he exists, he is not in a position to become the successor”.

Since 2022, Kim Ju Ae has appeared at a number of major political events with the North Korean leader, including a high-profile visit to Beijing.

North Korean state media have also referred to her as “the beloved child” and a “great person of guidance” — “hyangdo” in Korean — a term typically reserved for top leaders and their successors.

AFP

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“All Women Are the Same” — Why Do Some Men Say This?

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The statement “All women are the same” is one that often appears during heated conversations about relationships, heartbreak, cheating and trust. But what makes some men reach the point where they believe an entire gender behaves the same way?

For some men, the statement may come from painful personal experiences. A man who has experienced betrayal, repeated heartbreak, dishonesty or disappointment in relationships may begin to believe that what happened to him is simply how women behave.

But is that really the case?

Is It Experience or Generalisation?

When someone has been hurt several times, it is understandable that their experiences can influence how they view future relationships. However, there is a major difference between saying “I have had bad experiences with several women” and saying “all women are the same.”

The first statement describes personal experience.

The second makes a judgment about millions of individuals based on the actions of some.

Women, like men, have different personalities, values, priorities and behaviours. Some people are faithful, some are unfaithful. Some are generous, while others may be selfish. Some are honest, while others may lie.

These characteristics are not exclusive to one gender.

Why Does the Statement Become So Popular After Heartbreak?

Heartbreak can change the way people think.

A man who trusted someone deeply and was betrayed may become suspicious of future partners. Instead of judging each new person based on their own character, he may unconsciously compare them with the person who hurt him.

This can create a dangerous cycle:

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One person hurts you → you lose trust → you expect the same behaviour from others → every new relationship is viewed through the lens of the past.

Sometimes, the real issue isn’t that “all women are the same.”

It may be that one painful experience has changed the way a person sees relationships.

But What About “All Men Are the Same”?

Interestingly, women sometimes make a similar statement: “All men are the same.”

It can come from similar experiences—being cheated on, lied to, mistreated or disappointed by previous partners.

But if we reject the idea that all men are identical, we should apply the same standard when discussing women.

One person’s behaviour should not automatically become the definition of an entire gender.

Could Someone Be Choosing the Same Type of Partner?

Another uncomfortable question is whether repeated relationship problems can sometimes be connected to patterns in the people someone chooses.

If a person repeatedly enters relationships with partners who display similar negative behaviours, it may be worth asking:

“Am I choosing the same type of person again and again?”

This doesn’t mean victims are responsible for being mistreated. It simply means that understanding relationship patterns can sometimes help people make better choices in the future.

The Bigger Question

Perhaps the more important question isn’t:

“Are all women the same?”

Instead, we should ask:

“Why do some people allow the actions of one or a few individuals to determine how they view an entire gender?”

Relationships require people to judge each other as individuals rather than as representatives of a particular gender.

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There are good women and bad women.

There are good men and bad men.

There are faithful people and unfaithful people.

There are people who genuinely want healthy relationships, and there are people who do not.

The challenge is learning how to recognise character without allowing past experiences to completely control our judgment.

What Do You Think?

When a man says “All women are the same,” is he telling the truth about his experiences, expressing anger from a broken relationship, or making an unfair generalisation?

And when a woman says “All men are the same,” should we apply the same reasoning?

Share your opinion in the comments. Do you believe repeated bad experiences can justify saying “all women are the same,” or should every person be judged individually?

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“All Men Are the Same” — Why Do Some Women Say This?

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The statement “All men are the same” is one of those phrases that can quickly ignite a heated debate between men and women.

For some women, the words may come from painful personal experiences—betrayal, cheating, dishonesty, broken promises, neglect, or relationships that ended badly. After experiencing similar disappointments more than once, it can become easy to believe that the problem is not just one person, but an entire gender.

But is it fair to say that all men are the same?

One bad experience can change the way people see relationships

Relationships can have a powerful effect on how people view love and trust.

A woman who has been repeatedly disappointed by men may become cautious about trusting another man. What begins as one person’s behaviour can eventually become a pattern in her mind.

She may begin to think:

“They all eventually cheat.”
“They all lie.”
“They all make promises they cannot keep.”
“Men only behave well when they want something.”

For someone who has experienced repeated disappointment, these beliefs may feel completely justified.

However, personal experience does not necessarily represent everyone.

Men are not all the same

Just as women have different personalities, values and behaviours, men are also individuals.

Some men are faithful while others are unfaithful. Some are responsible fathers and partners, while others fail to take responsibility. Some communicate openly, while others struggle to express their feelings.

Therefore, judging every man based on the behaviour of a few may create another problem: good men can end up paying for the actions of bad men.

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The same principle applies in reverse. A man who has been hurt by one or more women should not automatically conclude that every woman will treat him the same way.

Is “all men are the same” really about men?

Perhaps, in some cases, the statement is less about every man and more about trust and emotional scars.

When someone has repeatedly experienced similar problems, they may begin to expect the same outcome from future relationships.

That does not necessarily make the generalisation accurate, but it can help explain why some people make it.

The challenge is learning how to separate past experiences from new people.

What about the men who feel unfairly judged?

There are men who strongly object to the statement because they believe it dismisses their efforts to be good partners, husbands and fathers.

A man who has remained faithful, supported his family and treated his partner with respect may understandably feel frustrated when he is told that he is “just like every other man.”

This raises an important question:

Should an individual be judged by the actions of other people simply because they belong to the same gender?

The same standard should apply to everyone

If it is unfair to judge every woman because of the behaviour of some women, then it should also be unfair to judge every man because of the behaviour of some men.

People should ideally be judged by their character, choices and actions—not simply by their gender.

At the same time, people who have been hurt should not be mocked for their experiences. Their feelings are real, even when the conclusion they draw from those experiences may be too broad.

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Perhaps the healthier approach is not to say “all men are the same” or “all women are the same,” but rather:

“Not everyone will treat me the way someone in my past treated me.”

That mindset leaves room for caution without completely closing the door on trust.

What do you think?

Do some women say “all men are the same” because they have genuinely experienced similar behaviour from different men?

Or is the statement an unfair generalisation that punishes good men for the actions of bad ones?

And men, how do you feel when you hear a woman say, “All men are the same”?

Share your opinion in the comments. We want to hear both sides of the conversation.

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