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GehGeh – Only ladies living off men feel threatened by my videos

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Social media personality Ojaigho Prosper, popularly known as GehGeh, has 2.7 million followers on TikTok and 936,000 on Instagram. He speaks on his journey as a content creator with Oghenovo Egodo-Michael

What can you tell us about your background?

I hail from Uwheru in Ughelli North, Delta State, where I also had my primary education. I then moved to Warri, where I attended secondary school.

My father married two wives. My mother gave birth to nine children, while my stepmum had six kids. My father was a headmaster, while my mum was a farmer. If you think of their salaries in comparison with the children they had, you will see that things were tough.

What inspired you to start creating content?

I was just recording my content normally on WhatsApp. I then noticed that people were reacting to it. Before then, I had added a couple of people on my WhatsApp just to have more contacts and views. So, one guy reached out to me, saying that if I started to post these things on TikTok, people would be watching it. At that time, I wasn’t even on TikTok because people often said it was for women, so I felt there was nothing I should be doing there. After the guy mentioned it, I decided to give it a try. The first video I posted got about 50 comments, and that was the most comments any of my social media posts had at the time. After that video, I posted another one that was reposted by Instablog, and they described me as a ‘Young Financial Expert.’ Since then, I stuck with that niche. Before then, I was doing different things, including comedy videos.

I started creating content on YouTube around 2019, but I barely made videos. I started professionally after that guy gave me advice in 2023.

How were you able to carve a niche for yourself?

My videos have always been about personal experiences. I had been in other countries like Ghana as of 2017 hustling, and I was making a lot of money. I was able to save about N10m, but I came to Nigeria to spend the money. Sometimes, I wouldn’t even have transport fare to return (to Ghana). I later met one Igbo boy who had been in Ghana for about six years at the time, and he was still serving his master. When I met him, he said that was the year he would be settled by his boss with N600,000. It seemed very foolish to me.

After some years, when I returned from Ghana, things weren’t as good as before. I then reconnected with the same guy through Facebook and saw that he was doing well. I then realised that life is not about how much you are making but how much you are able to put to good use. I learnt that experience is better than capital. That boy didn’t have much money, but he had the experience to handle the one he had. Meanwhile, I had money but didn’t have the experience to handle it. That was one of my major inspirations to lecture people about finances. I then started seeing that people with similar experiences were connecting to what I was saying. Don Jazzy even posted one of my videos, and it was from there that other blogs posted it as well. After Don Jazzy reposted that video, people started booking private sessions with me. Then, I was charging N10,000 for a one-on-one session. After Don Jazzy posted my video, I increased the price to N30,000, and people continued paying for it. I posted another video to thank him, and he still posted the one where I appreciated him, and advised people to follow me on Instagram.

Tell us about your video that first went viral.

One of my early videos that gained attention was about why living in a rented apartment can be better than building a house. It focused on streetwise financial education, and when people saw that I was speaking from real-life experience rather than theory, the attention started increasing.

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Do you see yourself pursuing formal education or training in this field at any point?

School doesn’t define me. If formal education were the core of what I do, it would undermine what I stand for. I’m not saying education is bad, but financially, you’ll find lecturers who studied business yet cannot set up businesses themselves. That’s because schools mostly teach theory, while real-life experience is often missing.

Why did you choose to make relationships between men and women your common point of discourse?

After sharing my financial advice, many young people—especially young men who could relate to my experiences—began to see me as someone they could look up to. During one-on-one sessions, a lot of them opened up about their struggles, and I realised that many were dealing with young women who were derailing their plans. That made me see how closely relationships and money are connected. The wrong partner can destroy everything one has worked hard for. Noticing how common this was, I started addressing it in my content. As a life coach, I also draw from anonymous client experiences to give practical advice from time to time.

Some people think that your advice to men on relationships could have been triggered by you being jilted by a woman. Have you ever been in a relationship that later went awry?

No woman has ever broken my heart. It doesn’t have to happen to me before I know it’s the truth. My relationships don’t last because I easily see through people.

What is the longest relationship you have been in?

I have been in a two-year relationship, and my past relationships ended well. I am still on good terms with my exes.

Isn’t keeping your exes around a financial mistake?

It is when I send money to them that it is a financial mistake.

Your advice doesn’t sit well with some women. What do you think about that?

Any lady crying that I am turning her man against her doesn’t want to work. If you are a woman who has something to do and you watch my videos, it won’t bother you. It is only ladies whose sources of income are tied to guys that feel threatened.

Why don’t you tailor your advice towards women too?

My advice actually favours women more than men. Using myself as an example, my father passed on in 2015. I never knew I came from a poor family until my dad died. After his demise, the responsibility of raising us fell on my mum, and it was that same year I gained admission into university. Many of my siblings were also still in school. If my mother was not hardworking, what would have happened to me and my siblings? So, if a woman isn’t working and depends solely on a man, what happens when that man leaves?”

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You stated that you made over $30,000 through your social media masterclass. How true is this?

It’s a real fact, and it was posted everywhere. The day I went live, the “Lion” gifts kept pouring in, and it added up to a huge amount. The engagement was massive too. I recorded over 300,000 total views on TikTok and made $31,000, plus a little extra.

What do you aim to achieve as the self-acclaimed founder of the University of Wisdom and Understanding?

My university is primarily for men because I believe many men are being cheated in relationships. A lot of them lack experience in handling such issues. The dating experiences of men and women are very different. For example, an 18-year-old girl might already be dating a 25-year-old man, while an 18-year-old boy often can’t even approach a girl. This means young women usually have more relationship experience than their male peers, and they tend to leverage that advantage. That’s why I decided to create the university—to teach and guide young men.

Some women are of the opinion that you are destroying relationships through your social media sermons. Do you intend to apologise to them and change your pattern in order not to force separation of couples or destroy relationships?

I will only apologise if I do something wrong. When I see some ladies crying that their boyfriends left them after watching my videos, I don’t even think about the lady. I rather think about the guy who I set free, because I know such a lady will definitely move on.

You once said that a DNA test, which is crucial for determining a child’s paternity, is more important than a birth certificate. Do you think a man should reject a child he has been raising for years if he later discovers the child is not biologically his?

In that video, I explained that if a man knows a child is not biologically his but still chooses to take responsibility, that’s a different matter because he is aware. But when a woman gives a man a child that isn’t his without his knowledge, it defiles the love that once united them. Personally, if I were to discover that my father was not my real father, I would blame my mother for life because it would mean she altered an entire generation; and that, to me, should be considered a crime against humanity. If I became president today, the first law I would sign is to make giving a man another man’s child punishable by life imprisonment.

You recently called on Nigerians to protect you from some women who accused you of ruining their relationships. Does that mean that you are afraid that you may be attacked by jilted women?

I am not afraid of any threats because I know I’m not doing anything wrong. What I tell these ladies is simple: if your partner truly values you, would he leave you just because of what another man says? That only happens when there’s no real value in the relationship. Instead of pointing fingers, they should focus on working on themselves.

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Do ladies flock into your DMs given the attention you currently have?

Yes. There are a lot of ladies in my DM. Some people usually tell me that ladies would be running away from me, but I just laugh because people really love me, including the ladies. Whenever I go out, I get the most gifts from ladies.

But in one of your videos, you mentioned that women no longer respond to your advances.

It was just to catch people’s attention for the advert that was at the end of the video. I have children from four different women. If women are running away from me, I won’t have four babymamas.

How do you handle fame and the attention that comes with it, especially from fans who might misinterpret what your brand stands for?

I am not really bothered by people’s opinions about me. Some people get scared when others are talking about them on social media. If you don’t want people to talk about you, then don’t publicise yourself. I know that as long as I put myself out there, people will surely talk about me. However, positive reviews overshadow the criticism, so I am not bothered.

Handling fame is not easy because popularity comes with lots of expectations. Suddenly, people don’t expect you to live a normal life. Meanwhile, I was GehGeh before becoming a financial expert.

Do you take your own advice?

Everything I share is drawn from my own life. These are the very experiences that shaped me and brought me to the level I am at today.

Which set of people are you really trying to reach with your content?

My advice is for everyone, including men and women, if you are open to learn.

How do you unwind outside social media?

The little free time I have now goes into creating content, and I also run a streaming studio that keeps me busy. Sometimes, I attend events, which is also relaxing for me.

How did you come about the name GehGeh?

My middle name is “Oghenegege”, so it is just the short form of the name.

If you weren’t doing content creation, what else would you have been doing?

It is what I’m already doing — teaching. Like I said earlier, my father was a principal, and his siblings were teachers. Many of my cousins are also teachers and pastors, so the habit of talking and coaching runs in our blood. Even before I went to Ghana, I was heading a private school.

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Read how Student commits suicide after Oyo police detention over N8,000 debt

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When Al-Amin Mohammed returned home from the Agodi Custodial Centre in Ibadan, Oyo State, on September 14, his family thought the worst was over.

The 30-year-old aluminium fixer and student of a polytechnic in Kwara State had spent days in police detention and prison custody following a dispute that began with an alleged N8,000 debt.

His parents had stood as sureties to perfect his bail.

He was finally home and free.

But his mother, Simiat Mohammed, said the son who returned to the family was not the same man who had left days earlier.

He barely ate. He withdrew from people. Again and again, she said, Al-Amin complained about the humiliation of being detained, taken to court and remanded in prison over an allegation he insisted was untrue.

“He kept saying that they wanted to tarnish his image because he came from a poor family and that he was sent to prison for a crime he did not commit,” the grieving mother told Saturday PUNCH amid tears.

Three days after his release, tragedy struck.

On September 17, Al-Amin ingested rat poison at his residence in Ibadan.

Before then, according to his family, he recorded a voice note expressing frustration and saying what would become his final words to his mother.

“He said the frustration was too much and asked his siblings to take care of me. He mentioned my name and apologised, telling me not to be angry with him,” Simiat recalled.

The family rushed him from one hospital to another in a desperate attempt to save his life.

His father, Habeeb Mohammed, said three hospitals rejected him before the family eventually got to the University College Hospital, Ibadan.

“We were asked to make some payments before he could be attended to. After we paid, the doctor came and told us that he was dead,” he said.

For the Mohammed family, the death brought a devastating end to a chain of events that they say should never have gone beyond a minor disagreement.

How N8,000 debt became police case

According to Simiat, her son had borrowed N23,000 from a Point-of-Sale operator identified simply as Kazeem.

Al-Amin had repaid N15,000, leaving a balance of N8,000.

But a disagreement subsequently broke out, during which Kazeem allegedly seized Al-Amin’s mobile phone over the unpaid balance.

The 30-year-old later returned to retrieve his phone, leading to a struggle.

His mother said the confrontation was minor, but it set off events that eventually took her son through vigilante detention, a police cell, a courtroom and prison custody.

After the altercation, Al-Amin was allegedly detained overnight by a vigilante said to be the father of one of Kazeem’s employees.

The following day, September 9, he was allegedly handed over to officers at the Sanyo Divisional Police Station in Ibadan.

Simiat said she received a call the next day asking her to come to the station.

Like many mothers visiting a detained child, she went there carrying food.

“When I got to the station, I went with food for my son, but they did not allow me to give it to him. After some time, they brought him out of the cell and I spoke with him,” she said.

During that brief encounter, Al-Amin maintained his innocence over another allegation that had entered the dispute that he damaged a mobile phone belonging to Kazeem.

“He told me that he did not touch the phone, let alone spoil it. He said the only money he owed Kazeem was N8,000 and that he went to retrieve his phone after it had been seized, which led to the struggle,” she added.

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‘They said they would jail him’

What Simiat expected would be resolved as a dispute between two young men allegedly took a more serious turn.

She claimed that the Investigating Police Officer, identified as Adekeye, insisted that Al-Amin would be prosecuted despite the family’s appeals for a settlement.

According to her, the family was asked to provide N100,000 for bail and another N70,000 for the damaged phone.

“When Kazeem came to the station, I pleaded with him that we should settle the matter. I also pleaded with the DCO, but he later sent me out of his office.

“The IPO, Adekeye, also said she would ensure that my son was jailed. There was even a police officer pleading on our behalf,” she alleged.

The deceased’s father, Habeeb, gave a similar account.

He alleged that the matter was escalated because the complainant’s father was known to the Divisional Crime Officer.

“When I got there, I begged the DCO that the matter could be settled amicably. But because the father of the complainant was his friend, he said he would deal with my son and send him to prison,” he stated.

The family further alleged that Al-Amin complained of harsh treatment while in detention and said he was pressured to admit that he damaged the phone.

Saturday PUNCH could not independently verify those allegations.

From police cell to prison

On September 10, the family said Al-Amin was taken to court in the Mapo area of Ibadan.

His mother claimed nobody informed the family beforehand.

They only learnt that he had been taken to court after receiving a telephone call.

At the court, the family encountered a lawyer identified as Boluwatife, who, according to Simiat, offered to represent Al-Amin free of charge after hearing about the case.

The court granted him bail in the sum of N100,000 with two sureties in like sum.

But freedom did not come immediately.

Pending the perfection of his bail conditions, Al-Amin was taken to the Agodi Custodial Centre.

For four days, his parents worked to secure his release.

Eventually, Simiat and Habeeb stood as sureties, and their son walked out of custody on September 14.

The family had won his freedom, but his mother said something appeared to have changed.

‘He stopped eating’

At home, Al-Amin became withdrawn.

The young man who combined aluminium work with his studies and helped support his family stopped eating and talking to people.

His thoughts, the mother said, repeatedly returned to the police station and prison.

He felt humiliated by the experience and worried that his reputation had been destroyed.

Three days after his release, Al-Amin allegedly took the substance that claimed his life.

‘He was our shining light’

Al-Amin’s elder sister, Adenike, said the tragedy deprived the family of one of its major sources of support.

She described him as hardworking and ambitious a young man who earned a living fixing aluminium while pursuing his education.

“He was a hardworking boy. He was working as an aluminium fixer and also going to school. He was the pillar of this family and was taking care of our mother,” she said.

Al-Amin was unmarried and had no child.

“We have lost the shining light of our family,” Adenike added.

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A family friend and retired Deputy Superintendent of Police, Isiaka Ayole, said the circumstances surrounding Al-Amin’s arrest, detention and prosecution deserved an independent investigation.

He questioned why the vigilante who allegedly detained the deceased overnight before handing him over to the police was not also investigated.

“This was a simple matter that the police should have helped settle amicably instead of escalating it,” Ayole said.

“I don’t understand the type of policing where somebody is first detained overnight by a vigilante and then handed over to a police officer who is said to be a friend of the complainant’s father.

“The irony is that nothing was said about the person who took the law into his hands. Instead, the person owing N8,000 was taken to court.”

The retired police officer called on the Inspector-General of Police, Tunji Disu, to investigate the officers involved and establish whether there was any abuse of power.

Mother demands answers

For Simiat, however, the questions are more personal.

In just over a week, she watched her son go from an aluminium worker and student to a detainee, a defendant, a prison inmate and, finally, a young man she said became consumed by the stigma of what had happened to him.

The Mohammed family is now appealing to President Bola Tinubu, the IG and the Oyo State Government to investigate the circumstances surrounding Al-Amin’s death.

They want to know whether the dispute was properly handled and whether any police officer abused his authority.

Speaking through tears, Simiat said her family lacked influence or powerful connections but would continue to seek answers.

“Let them investigate what happened to my son. We don’t have anybody except God,” she said.

“We do not want him to die in vain.”

I only wanted my money, not drag any case – Kazeem

Reacting, Kazeem, who operates a phone-charging point and Point-of-Sale business around the Oni-Gaari area of Ayegun, Ibadan, told Saturday PUNCH that he was shocked to learn of Al-Amin’s death.

He insisted that he never intended to pursue the matter beyond recovering his money.

Kazeem explained that sometime last year, Al-Amin withdrew N7,000 from his apprentice, one Maryam, but allegedly failed to transfer the money to her as promised.

“Al-Amin started avoiding the area until Maryam returned to school without informing me about the incident,” he said.

Kazeem said Maryam later told him what happened when she returned from school few months later and asked whether Al-Amin had deposited the money with him.

“She and her sister traced him to his house and he told them he had given the money to me, so they left. Al-Amin later called me and pleaded that he only told Maryam and her sister that he had given me the money so that they would not embarrass him in his house. Later, his grandmother paid the money.”

On the recent incident, Kazeem said he employed another apprentice, one Iya Ajike.

He said he visited the shop on Tuesday, September 8, 2026, for monitoring and account balancing.

He claimed to have met some people pleading with the apprentice to release Al-Amin’s phone.

According to him, Ajike later explained that Al-Amin had carried out a transaction of about N23,000, collected the money and left his phone at the shop, promising to transfer the money after charging the device.

Kazeem said the deceased later returned, collected the phone and transferred N15,000, claiming he had exceeded his transfer limit for the day and would pay the balance the following day.

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He said when the balance was not paid, Al-Amin allegedly began avoiding the apprentice.

Kazeem explained that Ajike eventually traced him to a location where she found him sleeping with the phone beside him, picked up the device and returned to the shop.

He said Al-Amin later arrived with some friends to plead for the release of the phone, an encounter he witnessed.

According to Kazeem, he insisted that Al-Amin pay the outstanding money before the phone would be released.

He said the matter was later taken up by the landlord association after the deceased indicated that he would pay.

Kazeem said on Wednesday night, he was informed of an altercation involving his apprentice and Al-Amin.

“Iya Ajike called me around 10pm that Al-Amin had come to her house around 9pm that he wanted to collect his phone, that someone had sent money to him and he wanted to transfer the debt to her.

“Iya Ajike told me that she told Al Amin that the phone is in the shop and it is late already that he should come back the following day, but Al Amin said he wanted his phone that night. He tried to snatch an Airtel-branded phone we use for our business, which she was using as a torchlight.

“The phone fell down during the struggle and its screen was damaged,” he said.

Kazeem said the landlord association that night asked the parties to return the following morning to resolve the matter.

“In the morning, I was there; we couldn’t resolve the matter because other people also came forward with similar complaints against Al-Amin that he underpayed them whenever he came to withdraw money.”

He said the matter was subsequently referred to a vigilante group, which directed the parties to the Sanyo Police Station after it could not resolve the dispute.

“When we got to the station, the only thing I told the police was that I wanted Al-Amin to take responsibility for the damaged phone and how he was going to repair it. But Al-Amin denied responsibility for the damage, saying he was not responsible for the damaged phone.”

“So, the police detained him that day and asked us to come the following day. They took him to where the charge was read to him and he pleaded not guilty.”

He said the magistrate subsequently ordered that Al-Amin be remanded and adjourned the case until October 10.

Kazeem said he only learnt on Thursday that Al-Amin had been released on bail.

He maintained that he never intended to drag the matter into a legal dispute, adding that his primary concern was to recover the money owed to him.

“In fact, I was discussing with my lawyer that the money used for his bail, had they agreed at the station, this matter would not have got to court. The money I have spent on the case is more than the amount owed,” Kazeem said.

When contacted, the Public Relations Officer of the Oyo State Police Command, Ayanlade Olayinka, said he was not aware of the incident.

A subsequent message sent to him via WhatsApp had not been responded to as of the time of filing this report.

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Parents, Home Training Starts at Home

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When a child behaves badly in public, people may question the child’s upbringing—but good character begins long before a child steps outside the home.

Parents have a major role to play in teaching children how to behave, communicate and treat other people.

Children need to learn that respect, good manners, responsibility, kindness and self-discipline are values that should be practised every day.

Teach your children to greet people properly, speak politely, respect others, accept correction and understand that their actions have consequences. More importantly, teach them through your own example because children often learn by watching what adults do.

Home training is not about raising children who are perfect. It is about giving them the foundation they need to make responsible choices as they grow.

Parents should not leave the responsibility of teaching values entirely to schools, churches, mosques or society. The home is the first classroom, and parents are a child’s first teachers.

A well-trained child does not only bring pride to the family; good character can also help build a more respectful and responsible society.

What do you think is the most important value parents should teach their children at home?

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Read how Mother and four children died in Rivers inferno

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A mother and her four children were burnt to death on Friday morning in a fire outbreak at their residence in the Okochiri community, Okrika Local Government Area of Rivers State.

Although the cause of the inferno could not be immediately established, a source who spoke on condition of anonymity, said the incident occurred when an individual attempted to discharge petrol into a jerrycan, causing the product to ignite.

The source added that the petrol was suspected to be bad fuel.

Confirming the incident in an interview with our correspondent, the Commander of the Civilian Joint Task Force in Okrika LGA, Igwe Godswill, said details of the incident remained sketchy.

Godswill stated that the lifeless bodies of the woman and her four children were found when he and his team arrived at the scene.

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He said, “There are no proper details as to what happened. But when we got there, we saw that about four children and their mother, a total of five persons, were burnt and died.

“The police had already arrived and taken proper details of what happened. It is so disheartening that this is happening again in our community.”

Godswill added that local youths had extinguished the fire before his arrival, though the victims were believed to have died before the flames were put out.

He called for an investigation to determine the exact cause of the incident.

Meanwhile, a video of the incident seen by our correspondent showed a woman complaining about the cramped nature of the building, which had its roof and other parts severely damaged.

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When contacted, the spokesperson for the Rivers State Police Command, Blessing Agabe, confirmed the incident, saying the mother and three of her children died.

Agabe, an Assistant Superintendent of Police, also disclosed that other occupants of the building sustained injuries, while property worth thousands of naira was destroyed in the inferno.

She added that an investigation had begun to ascertain the immediate and remote causes of the incident.

“Yes, there was a fire incident in which a woman and her three children tragically lost their lives, while others sustained injuries.

“Property estimated at thousands of naira was also destroyed in the inferno. Investigation is ongoing to ascertain the circumstances surrounding the incident and determine the cause of the fire outbreak,” the state police image maker stated.

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