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Men Are Now Chasing Single Mums, They Want To Marry Us – Iyabo Ojo

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Nollywood actress, Iyabo Ojo, has shared her thoughts on how society now views single mothers.

It was reports that in a video, the mother of two said the attitude has changed as more men are openly seeking serious relationships with women who already have children.

The actress spoke on December 20, 2025, while addressing the growing confidence among single mothers and how they are now better accepted in relationships and marriage.

She explained that single motherhood is no longer seen as something to be ashamed of, noting that many women in this situation are thriving in their careers and raising successful children.

According to her, the old belief that single mothers should be sidelined is fading fast.

Iyabo Ojo said many men now prefer single mothers because they are more mature and understand life better.

She added that these men are no longer interested in casual relationships but often make it clear that they want commitment and marriage.

She also encouraged women who have gone through broken relationships not to lose hope, stating that the end of one relationship does not mean the end of love or marriage opportunities.

The actress described herself as the President General of the Single Mothers Association and urged single mothers to carry themselves with confidence, strength, and self-respect.

She advised them not to feel embarrassed about their status, stressing that their value is not reduced because they have children.

Iyabo Ojo concluded by reminding women that being left by a partner does not make them unwanted, as there will always be someone ready to love and accept them fully.

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She said: “Gone are the days when being a single mother was a stigma. Single mothers’ children are doing great things in life. Men are chasing single mothers. They are even begging us that they don’t want us to be a side chick. They want us to marry them because we have experience. If a man leaves you, another man will accept you. I am The President General of the Single Mothers Association.”

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PHOTOS: A Biafran Armoured Vehicle at the National War Museum, Umuahia: Ingenuity in a Time of Siege

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Displayed at the National War Museum in Umuahia, Abia State, this armoured vehicle stands as a striking material reminder of the technological improvisation that characterised the Biafran side during the Nigerian Civil War (1967–1970). The vehicle is commonly identified as an up-armoured T16 Universal Carrier, adapted and deployed by Biafran forces in the face of severe resource constraints.

The Nigerian Civil War in Context

The Nigerian Civil War, often called the Biafran War, erupted in July 1967 following the secession of the Eastern Region of Nigeria as the Republic of Biafra under the leadership of Lt. Col. Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu. The conflict was rooted in a complex mix of political instability, ethnic tensions, economic disputes, and the fallout from the 1966 military coups.
The federal government imposed a land, sea, and air blockade on Biafra, drastically limiting access to weapons, fuel, spare parts, and food. This blockade forced Biafran engineers, mechanics, and technicians to rely heavily on local innovation and adaptation to sustain their war effort.

The Up-Armoured Universal Carrier

The vehicle shown in the museum is believed to be based on the T16 Universal Carrier, a light tracked armoured vehicle originally designed during the Second World War. Universal Carriers were widely used by Allied forces and were present in Nigeria during the colonial era.
During the war, Biafran forces modified available carriers by:

Reinforcing them with improvised armour plating

Adapting engines and mechanical components using locally available materials

Reconfiguring them for reconnaissance, troop movement, or limited combat roles

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Although such vehicles could not match the firepower or durability of modern armoured tanks, they represented a pragmatic response to isolation, allowing Biafra to maintain some level of mechanised capability.

Ingenuity Under Pressure

The armoured carrier exemplifies what many historians describe as Biafran wartime ingenuity. Alongside makeshift armoured vehicles, Biafra also produced:

Locally assembled rockets and mortars (such as the Ogbunigwe)

Modified civilian vehicles for military use

Small-scale refineries and workshops to support logistics

These efforts were driven by necessity rather than abundance, highlighting the role of technical skill and improvisation in asymmetric warfare.

Human Cost and Global Attention

The war resulted in devastating human losses. Scholarly estimates suggest around 100,000 military deaths, while civilian deaths range from approximately 500,000 to over 2 million, largely due to famine and disease exacerbated by the blockade. These figures vary widely among historians and humanitarian organisations, reflecting the difficulty of precise wartime accounting.
Notably, the Nigerian Civil War was among the first conflicts to receive extensive global television coverage. Images of starving Biafran children broadcast internationally shaped global humanitarian awareness and influenced the development of modern relief organisations.

Preservation and Historical Memory

Today, the presence of this armoured vehicle at the National War Museum, Umuahia serves an educational purpose rather than a celebratory one. It invites reflection on:

The realities of civil conflict

The limits and possibilities of local technological innovation

The enduring human and social consequences of war

As an artefact, it underscores how material culture can help future generations understand both the creativity and tragedy that emerge under extreme historical conditions.

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Sources

National War Museum, Umuahia (museum displays and archival descriptions)

Nigerianland, Nigeria History Makers – Pictures

Falola, T. & Heaton, M., A History of Nigeria (Cambridge University Press)

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A Woman of Elegance, Resilience, and Impact: Alhaja Simbiat Atinuke Abiola

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This seldom-seen image from 1991 gently captures the serene presence of Alhaja Simbiat Atinuke Abiola (née Shoaga), pictured alongside her daughter, Wuraola Abiola, at her husband’s birthday celebration in Lagos—just a year before her passing. A prominent member of the renowned Abiola lineage, her life was rooted in service and generosity.

Alhaja Simbiat was not only the cherished spouse of the late Chief Moshood Kashimawo Olawale Abiola, she was also a formidable figure in her own right. In the early 1980s, she shattered glass ceilings by launching and directing Wonder Bakery, an innovative enterprise that provided employment to over 140 Nigerians—at a time when female business leaders were a rarity in the country.

Yet, her brilliance extended well beyond commerce.

In 1992, while waging a brave battle against cancer in a hospital in the United Kingdom, Alhaja Simbiat watched the heart-wrenching news of the Cairo (Dahshur) earthquake. Touched by the plight of the children affected, she selflessly donated $100,000 to support the reconstruction of a school that had been reduced to rubble. Even as her health declined, her compassion remained boundless—reaching across nations and touching lives.

That same year, Nigeria mourned the loss of a quiet luminary. Alhaja Simbiat passed away at age 51 in a British hospital, leaving behind a legacy defined by kindness, tenacity, and quiet leadership.

She was far more than a devoted wife and loving mother—she stood as a beacon of humanity, vision, and unwavering dignity.

May her soul continue to rest in perfect peace.

Source: historylovers

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VIDEO: Seyi Tinubu arrives Alaafin’s palace for installation as ‘Okanlomo of Yorubaland’

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The city of Oyo is currently witnessing an influx of political figures and traditional rulers for the installation of new high-ranking chiefs by the Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Abimbola Owoade.

Seyi Tinubu, accompanied by his wife, Layal, arrived at the palace of the Alaafin on Sunday.

 

Alaafin confers chieftancy titles on Seyi Tinubu. Credit: X|adejare_stephen


Alaafin confers chieftancy titles on Seyi Tinubu. Credit: X|adejare_stephen

PUNCH reports that Seyi, the son of President Bola Tinubu, will be installed as the “Okanlomo of Yorubaland,” a title which translates to “the beloved child” or “the one dear to the hearts of all Yoruba people.”

The title is said to symbolise a custodian of Yoruba values, unity, and cultural heritage.

The Senator representing Zamfara West and a former Governor of Zamfara State, Abdul’Aziz Yari, has also reportedly arrived in Oyo, accompanied by a delegation of northern senators and political figures.


Alaafin confers chieftancy titles on Seyi Tinubu, Senator Yari. Credit: X|adejare_stephen

Yari will also be installed as the “Obaloyin of Yorubaland” on the same occasion by the Alaafin.

The Director of Media and Publicity to the Alaafin, Bode Durojaiye, in a recent statement, reportedly stated that the ‘Obaloyin of Yorubaland’ title represents love, compassion, justice, and a bridge between physical and spiritual realms.

Both titles are said to come with responsibilities that include promoting Yoruba culture, advising the Alaafin, fostering unity, and advancing education and social welfare.


Alaafin confers chieftancy titles on Seyi Tinubu, Senator Yari. Credit: X|adejare_stephen

Videos circulating on social media reveal that the venue of the event is set, capturing the presence of several notable figures, including former Governor of Kano State, Abdullahi Ganduje, lawmakers, and a diverse assembly of traditional rulers and chiefs.

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