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No Husband Should Secretly Deny His Wife the Opportunity to Become a Mother

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Marriage should be built on love, honesty, trust, mutual understanding, and respect. A husband should not secretly make decisions that permanently affect his wife’s opportunity to have children without her knowledge or consent.

For many women, motherhood is a deeply cherished desire. If a husband does not want children, or no longer wants more children, that is something that should be discussed openly and honestly with his wife. Marriage requires communication—not deception, manipulation, or secretly taking away an important choice from one’s spouse.

The Bible teaches husbands to love and cherish their wives:

“Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.”
— Colossians 3:19 (KJV)

A husband is also called to love his wife sacrificially:

“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.”
— Ephesians 5:25 (KJV)

Love should not be used as a cover for secrecy or selfishness. A healthy marriage requires both husband and wife to communicate about major decisions concerning their future and family.

The Bible also recognizes children as a blessing:

“Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.”
— Psalm 127:3 (KJV)

This does not mean every couple must have children, nor does it mean that a woman’s worth depends on becoming a mother. Rather, it reminds us that the desire to build a family is something that should be treated with seriousness and respect.

The Bible further teaches husbands to treat their wives with understanding and honour:

“Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife.”
— 1 Peter 3:7 (KJV)

Therefore, if a husband does not want children, he should speak honestly with his wife, listen to her desires, and make such an important decision together rather than secretly controlling her reproductive choices.

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Marriage is a partnership. Love should never be built on deception.

A husband should not secretly deny his wife the opportunity to become a mother. Instead, he should communicate openly, respect her feelings, and seek a decision that both partners can honestly accept.

Love her. Honour her. Communicate with her. Never secretly take away a life-changing choice from the person you promised to love.

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I Started Acting 4 Years Before You -Veteran Actor Lere Paimo Counters Pete Edochie’s Seniority

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Veteran Yoruba actor Lere Paimo, popularly known as Baba Paimo, has weighed in on the ongoing debate over seniority in Nigeria’s acting industry, challenging a recent claim made by veteran actor Pete Edochie.

The 86-year-old actor insists that his acting journey began four years before Edochie’s, saying he started performing in 1958, while Edochie has traced his own acting career to 1962, when he was just 15 years old.

The issue came into the spotlight after Pete Edochie challenged actors who claim to have started their careers before him to come forward and provide evidence. Edochie had pointed to his performance in William Shakespeare’s The Merchant of Venice in 1962 as proof of how far back his acting career goes.

However, speaking in an interview with actor Kunle Afod, shared on YouTube on Monday, Paimo stood firmly by his account.

“I started acting in 1958, and it was in 1962 that Pete Edochie started acting. I met Hubert Ogunde, who was senior to me and others, and there were big movies produced back then,” he said.

Paimo also used the opportunity to highlight the long history of Yoruba theatre, arguing that it existed before English-language film production became prominent in Nigeria.

According to him, the late theatre icon Hubert Ogunde was the earliest actor he personally knew of, adding that Ogunde had already made significant contributions to the industry from the 1940s.

“I heard from history that when he (Hubert Ogunde) started in the ’40s, there was nobody before him. We never heard or read that in any history books or documentation. I believe the Yoruba industry started first,” Paimo explained.

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He noted that English-speaking movie production was not yet established at the time, while Ogunde was already producing Yoruba-language stage productions and films that entertained and educated audiences.

When asked if another theatre legend, Baba Olumegbon, could have started before Ogunde, Paimo admitted that he could not say for certain.

“I don’t know if Baba Olumegbon started before Ogunde, but all I know is that Ogunde was the person I knew who started acting first,” he said.

Paimo’s own remarkable career began with the Oyin Adejobi Theatre Group before he later joined the Duro Ladipo Theatre Group, where he became known for his role as Chief Basa in Obamoro.

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🚨 YOU’RE NOT AS IMPORTANT AS YOU THINK YOU ARE — AND ONE DAY, LIFE WILL PROVE IT TO YOU.

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That title you’re proud of? Someone else will eventually have it.
That money you’re protecting? Someone else may spend it.
That position you think makes you untouchable? Someone else will replace you.
Those people you keep taking for granted? They can leave.

And eventually, you will leave this world too.

Everything that has a beginning has an end.

So why are you wasting your life on hatred, unnecessary arguments, jealousy, pride and bitterness?

Why are you treating people badly because you think you will always have tomorrow?

Why are you postponing the things that truly matter?

Wake up.

Nothing here belongs to us forever.

Love while you can.
Forgive while you can.
Appreciate people while they are still here.
Build something meaningful.
Leave something good behind.

Because one day, your name will become a memory.

And the question won’t be how much you owned.

It will be:

WHAT DID YOUR LIFE MEAN TO OTHER PEOPLE?

🔥 Everything has a beginning. Everything has an end. Make the part in between count.

Do you agree—or did that opening offend you? 👇🏾

#NewsBreak365 #HardTruth #RealityOfLife #WakeUpCall #LifeLessons #Wisdom #ThinkAboutIt #MakeItCount

 

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ABOVE 40 YEARS OF AGE? THIS IS FOR YOU! ❤️

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As we grow older, taking care of our health becomes more important. Here are some simple reminders for living a healthier and happier life.

A. TWO THINGS TO CHECK REGULARLY
Your blood pressure
Your blood sugar

B. SIX THINGS TO REDUCE IN YOUR DIET
Salt
Sugar
Processed and preserved meats and foods
Red meat, especially heavily roasted meat
Dairy products
Starchy foods

C. FOUR THINGS TO INCREASE IN YOUR DIET
Green vegetables and other vegetables
Beans and other legumes
Fruits
Nuts

D. THREE THINGS YOU NEED TO LET GO OF
Worrying about your age
Dwelling on your past
Holding on to old grievances

E. FOUR THINGS YOU SHOULD HAVE, NO MATTER HOW STRONG OR WEAK YOU FEEL
Friends who genuinely love and support you
A caring family
Positive thoughts and a hopeful mindset
A warm and peaceful home

F. FOUR THINGS TO DO TO SUPPORT YOUR HEALTH
Consider fasting if it is appropriate and safe for you
Smile and laugh more
Walk regularly and exercise
Maintain a healthy weight

G. SIX THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT WAIT FOR
Don’t wait until you are extremely hungry before eating.
Don’t wait until you are very thirsty before drinking water.
Don’t wait until you are exhausted before getting enough sleep.
Don’t wait until you are completely worn out before resting.
Don’t wait until you become seriously ill before getting medical check-ups. Prevention is better than regret.
Don’t wait until you have problems before praying to God.

Above 40 is not the end of life—it is another chapter. Take care of your body, protect your peace, value the people who love you, and make every day count.

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❤️ TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. YOUR LIFE MATTERS!

Note: These are general wellness reminders, not a substitute for medical advice. Dietary needs vary from person to person.

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