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KWAM 1 – The Arikuyeri 1 of Abuja

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Now that the hard news–breaking news aspect of the airline saga of August has lapsed, we can now leisurely treat its soft news entertaining aspect, the one involving the music entertainer, Wasiu Ayinde. I will not dabble into that other airline act that gave us boobs show!

Rewind to August 5, 2025, at Abuja airport as the king of music, Wasiu Ayinde, swaggers in majesty to board his flight to Lagos, a gold-coloured flask in one hand, like a royal ‘irukere’.

He had cleared the boarding protocols and stepped onto the tarmac with the self-important carriage of royalty. After all, is he not the ‘Olori Omooba’ (head of the princes/princesses) of Ijebu-land?  He apparently believes that a royal ‘Irukere’ cannot be interrogated. So, he must have regarded it as impudent for the airline staff to ask the almighty KI the Ultimate disclosure of his flask’s content. The Big Man’s arrogance.  The media had created a public impression of Wasiu’s touted friendly relationship with President Bola Tinubu, and he must have felt that the knowledge of that relationship entitled him to preferential and reverential treatment.

When it dawned on him that the airline wouldn’t budge on its demand to know the content of his flask, and that he may not board the plane, Wasiu resorted to self-help by standing in front of the plane, apparently intending to use his body as a barrier to prevent take-off. It was an insane gambit. He did not reckon with the fury of a scorned lady pilot who revved her plane and engaged the gear.  Sensing clear and present danger, survival instinct prevailed over suicidal mission when the musician dodged the plane’s wing, which could have decapitated him. So, I give King Wasiu Ayinde a new title: The Arikuyeri 1 of Abuja.  (The Death Dodger 1 of Abuja).  Life is sweet, after all, particularly for a musician who has so much going for him, moneywise, and wasn’t ready to meet his creator in a gory exit.

Times are a-changing (apology to Bob Dylan). And times are really, dramatically, changing for the better for musicians, many of whom now belong to the multimillionaire class, upgrading their social connections. Wasiu Ayinde belongs to that nouveau riche class of musicians and has climbed the social and political ladder to the stratosphere. He is even reported to be condescending to Obas!

Before now, musicians were not that well-regarded in society.

They were known as ‘Alagbe’ (beggars), those who perform at social parties and serenade people for money by praise singing. We still have a category of itinerant musicians – individuals, and sometimes in twos or trios – who go to social parties to praise-sing individuals for money. In the early 1960s, musicians were generally not appreciated with currency notes, but with coins, which were often slapped on the musician’s forehead. I often wondered then how those old musicians did not suffer from migraine.

The Wasiu Ayindes of this world, as a luckier generation of musicians, have acquired a sense of entitlement, an arrogance, that they should be deferred to because they have been able to wangle upscale relationships with those generally regarded as their betters. Such socially and politically connected musicians also develop an attitude of impunity, based on ‘man knows man’.  Luckily for Wasiu Ayinde, his purported connection not only got him a clemency from sanctions for a security breach at the Abuja airport, but he was also awarded an ambassadorship in the airline industry.  Nigeria, we hail thee!

I read that Ayinde grew up in the Onola area of central Lagos Island. That was an area of the Young Turks in those days.  So, KWAM 1 possibly must have learnt street smartness and imbibed street confidence during his growing-up days. I lived in that general area, by Campos Square, at the intersection of Bamgbose and Igbosere Streets, in the late 1960s, and knew the terrain from Tinubu Square, to Odunfa, Princess, Inabere, Okepopo, Tokunbo, Oshodi and Freeman streets.  Central Lagos Island was like one huge family in that period, with ‘area fathers’.

Perhaps, maybe Wasiu knew President Bola Tinubu as an Islander neighbourhood ‘egbon’  in those days or cultivated him when music and money gave him stardom, and he desired a power connection as an icing on his popularity cake.  Whichever way, that connection, presumably, saved him from the hot embrace of the law, as the power man was believed to have facilitated a soft landing for him, apparently out of a self-induced, sentimental obligation to friendship. A case of a power benefactor becoming hostage to his power beneficiary?

Well, Wasiu had an escape from death and from the law. Hopefully, he has learnt a lesson in decorum and humility, that is, if he understands the meaning of decorum and what being humble is.

The one redeeming point about this musician is that he did not forget his roots – Ijebu-Ode, in Ogun State, where he has built a glittering music landmark structure in the GRA section of the town, thereby contributing to turning the area, with its many hotels, into a famed hospitality and entertainment hub.

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Genevieve Nnaji slams viral tweet urging Igbo men to marry non-Igbo women

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Nollywood icon Genevieve Nnaji has fired off a sharp response after a man on X (formerly Twitter) advised Igbo men to stop marrying Igbo women and instead seek wives from other African countries.

The controversy began after a photo of a Rwandan woman said to be engaged to an Anambra man went viral.

Resharing the image, the user wrote, “Dear Igbo men, instead of marrying an Igbo woman who’ll falsely accuse you of r4ping your daughter, better look outside for a wife.

“Go to East Africa, especially Rwanda, and pick a damsel. They’re all over social media, and you can link up with them.”

Genevieve, who rarely comments on online drama, responded, “In other words, instead of checking yourself and taking accountability, go for the unsuspecting and carry on with your evil. Got it.”

Another user attempted to challenge her, claiming the original tweet was aimed at “false rape accusers” and that Genevieve was avoiding the real issue.

“His tweet was clearly against false rape accusers, but instead of holding the evil women accountable and demanding change, you chose to tweet this?”

But the actress hit back with equal clarity: “The same way a woman can’t tell an abusive man apart from a good one is the same way you shouldn’t say avoid all Igbo women. ‘Not all women’.”

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Don’t handle your family feud like I did, Phyna advises Imisi

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Reality TV star Phyna has offered words of encouragement to fellow Big Brother Naija winner Imisi amid a family feud between the latter and her mother.

In an X post on Monday, Phyna wrote,”To Imisi, @imisiofficial and to anyone walking through the same fire… I’m praying for your strength.

“My own experience broke me, but I’m slowly rising.

“And I’m rooting for you with everything in me, don’t handle it like I did, build strong and focus on you baby girl.”

The post comes against the backdrop of a family dispute in which Imisi’s mother accused her daughter of hatred and revealed the poor condition of the home where she currently lives, despite Imisi winning N150 million after her Big Brother victory.

Imisi replied in Yoruba,”This is why Aunty Debola said you should not show your face to the world. I can’t be saying all that now, you are in the midst of people. Just overlook everything and leave social media.

“Don’t worry, I will send you money to rent a new house. I am tired of all this drama. I am still recovering from the stress of Big Brother.

“Should I be facing another stress now? Please forgive me, I am your daughter.”

Recall Imisi’s mother has publicly expressed frustration on social media, saying she does not need her daughter’s money after being sidelined following the win.

She also blamed Imisi for recounting her childhood experiences, which she claims involve untrue allegations of parental neglect and sexual assault.

In a video, she showed the old house she currently resides in, saying she is content with her situation, a revelation that sparked online controversy.

In 2023, after Phyna’s BBNaija win, her father, Felix Otabor, revealed in an interview that he was distressed by his daughter’s actions following her BBNaija win.

Otabor said Phyna had asked him to stop working as a hearse driver and requested that he sell his cars, promising to improve the family’s life.

He said he later struggled financially after selling the vehicles, losing his business momentum and community position, and has not seen his daughter since her victory.

He described feeling sidelined while she enjoyed her wealth.

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Ned Never Slept Outside Because I Held Him Well In The Other Room – Regina Daniels

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Nollywood actress, Regina Daniels, has opened up about her marriage to her estranged husband, Senator Ned Nwoko.

It was reports that the embattled wife revealed why their seven-year relationship remained faithful despite his polygamous lifestyle.

In a reply to a comment on her Instagram page, Daniels said that during their years together, Nwoko never slept with other women outside their home because she held him well in the other room.

She wrote: “Yes i think he loved me but a toxic one! Because tell me why a polygamous man forgot what it meant to be in polygamy, except for the media.

“Just because it boosted his ego of being seen with multiple women which is easy by me because anyone that sees a man as an odogwu sees the wife as what? He basically had to beg that he share days at ours and other days with his other wives because they begged for his attention.

“Y’all should pls forget this yeye social media comparison because my ex man never slept outside one day in our 7 years of marriage. You know why? Because as a delta babe, I hold am well for the other room ladies use your skills that’s all men want actually!”

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