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Don’t handle your family feud like I did, Phyna advises Imisi

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Reality TV star Phyna has offered words of encouragement to fellow Big Brother Naija winner Imisi amid a family feud between the latter and her mother.

In an X post on Monday, Phyna wrote,”To Imisi, @imisiofficial and to anyone walking through the same fire… I’m praying for your strength.

“My own experience broke me, but I’m slowly rising.

“And I’m rooting for you with everything in me, don’t handle it like I did, build strong and focus on you baby girl.”

The post comes against the backdrop of a family dispute in which Imisi’s mother accused her daughter of hatred and revealed the poor condition of the home where she currently lives, despite Imisi winning N150 million after her Big Brother victory.

Imisi replied in Yoruba,”This is why Aunty Debola said you should not show your face to the world. I can’t be saying all that now, you are in the midst of people. Just overlook everything and leave social media.

“Don’t worry, I will send you money to rent a new house. I am tired of all this drama. I am still recovering from the stress of Big Brother.

“Should I be facing another stress now? Please forgive me, I am your daughter.”

Recall Imisi’s mother has publicly expressed frustration on social media, saying she does not need her daughter’s money after being sidelined following the win.

She also blamed Imisi for recounting her childhood experiences, which she claims involve untrue allegations of parental neglect and sexual assault.

In a video, she showed the old house she currently resides in, saying she is content with her situation, a revelation that sparked online controversy.

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In 2023, after Phyna’s BBNaija win, her father, Felix Otabor, revealed in an interview that he was distressed by his daughter’s actions following her BBNaija win.

Otabor said Phyna had asked him to stop working as a hearse driver and requested that he sell his cars, promising to improve the family’s life.

He said he later struggled financially after selling the vehicles, losing his business momentum and community position, and has not seen his daughter since her victory.

He described feeling sidelined while she enjoyed her wealth.

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The Name Given To Me By My Parents Was A Curse – Phyna

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Reality TV star, Josephina Otabor, popularly known as Phyna, has opened up about the struggles she faced while growing up and why she does not like the name given to her at birth.

During a recent interview with Ezinne Akudo on the show Beyond With Ezinne, the former Big Brother Naija winner said her parents named her Blessing, but she came to dislike the name because her life did not reflect its meaning.

It was reports that Phyna explained that as she was growing up, many parts of her life were very difficult.

According to her, she often felt like she was always begging for love from people around her, including family members, friends and even in relationships.

She said the situation made her feel as if the name Blessing did not match the experiences she was going through.

The reality star also spoke about the pain she felt after the death of her sister. She said the loss deeply affected her, and at one point, she even wished she could die because of the emotional burden she was carrying at the time.

She said, “The name given to me by my parents is Blessing. My reasons for hating that name was you don’t see sense of blessing in my life. Because you know, it felt like I was always begging for love, family love, friendship, even in relationships. In fact, Dem don use am curse me. All aspects of life for me, growing up was very crazy. Even when you’re a teenager, there are things you could get from parents, from friends, family I didn’t have that, but I knew for one that I was going to be big.

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“Then I always tell my aunts, everybody, even when they beat me or maltreat me, today, the next minute I will see when I go watch me for television, you know, I go get money. People always say negative things about me. Even when I’m trying my best, it affects me. It affects my workload. They are quick to broke shame me. In fact, when my sister died, I wanted to die. A lot was going on with me. It actually makes me feel God is with me because so many things have happened that I suppose don really run mad.”

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Why I Couldn’t Succeed In Nollywood – Ceec

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Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Cynthia Nwadiora, popularly known as Cee-C, has shared the reason she believes it was difficult for her to succeed in Nollywood after gaining fame from the reality television show.

It was reports that Cee-C became popular after she finished as the first runner-up in the 2018 edition of Big Brother Naija, where Miracle Igbokwe emerged as the winner.

However, she explained that the quick rise to fame that comes with participating in Big Brother Naija can make it hard for contestants to build the kind of relationships needed to succeed in the film industry.

Speaking in an interview with Vanguard, she said many participants move from being unknown to becoming famous within a short period.

According to CeeC, this sudden change may not give them enough time to build strong connections in the entertainment industry, especially in Nollywood, where relationships and networks often play an important role in career growth.

She explained that actors who enter the film industry through the traditional route usually spend years building contacts, working on smaller projects and developing strong ties with producers, directors and fellow actors.

This process helps them gain stability in the industry.

In contrast, reality television stars often gain popularity quickly but may not have the same professional network that helps many Nollywood actors grow and remain active in the industry.

Since leaving the Big Brother Naija house, Cee-C has appeared in a few films and television projects.

Despite these opportunities, she admitted that finding a stable place in the entertainment industry after reality television can be challenging, especially when the intense attention that follows the show begins to fade.

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In 2023, she returned to the Big Brother Naija platform as one of the contestants in the All Stars edition of the reality show.

During that season, she stayed in the competition for several weeks and eventually finished in third place before leaving the house shortly before the grand finale.

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Portable didn’t beat me; it was paid advert — Celebrity bodyguard, Kelvin Power

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Kelvin Atobiloye, popularly known as Kelvin Power, speaks with NAOMI CHIMA about his journey as a bodyguard, bodybuilder, and actor

How did the nickname, “Kelvin Power” come about?

They call me Kelvin Power because, lifting heavy things has always been my hobby. It’s not that I’m the strongest person, but I chose a very unique career. Lifting weights is something special, and I thank God for His grace. A friend of mine actually coined that name when he wanted to create another Instagram page for me. He suggested Kelvin Power, and that was how the name came about.

When you were growing up, did you always want to be a heavyweight lifter or bodyguard?

When I was in Ondo State, there was someone we called “the boss.” He used to bully us. There were three of us who played together, and the boss would challenge us, saying whoever lifted the heaviest weight would take the glory. Naturally, all of us wanted to win, so we kept lifting. At that time, I didn’t realise God was guiding me toward something bigger.

Later, when I moved to Lagos, I visited a friend and saw him lifting weights at the back of his house. I was physically bigger than him, so I thought I could lift the same. But when I tried, I couldn’t. Everyone laughed at me. I was angry and told him that the next time I came back, he wouldn’t come close to what I would lift. That anger pushed me to the gym. I could train eight times a day. Every opportunity I had, I was in the gym. That friend doesn’t lift anymore, but by the grace of God, I’m still keeping the glory.

Tell us about your childhood and family background.

I am from both Ondo and Ekiti states, and I claim both because I can’t tell a good story without mentioning them. I come from a well-known family in my hometown. I’m the sixth of eight children. Unfortunately, my parents have passed, but if they were alive, they would be proud of who I am today. My mum, however, lived to see me lifting weights before she passed.

Take us through your educational trajectory.

I didn’t originally plan to become a bodyguard. My educational background is in law, which is a highly respected profession. I am a law graduate from the Ekiti State University. But, as God would have it, here I am today. I am planning to complete my law school abroad soon, and that plan is almost within reach.

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After finishing law school, would you continue in entertainment or focus fully on being a lawyer?

Law and weightlifting are two separate things. Acting is another path entirely. For me, I believe it’s possible to combine different talents. I will continue to grow in the areas where God gives me opportunities, whether in law, security work, or entertainment.

What first drew you into professional security and bodyguard work?

My journey into professional security came naturally from my physique and my passion for lifting. Over time, I connected with people in the industry, including Kizz Daniel, and that shaped my career in bodyguard work. I have also worked with several notable personalities, including (billionaire businessman) Mike Adenuga.

How did you meet Kizz Daniel?

It was through a referral after I lost my job with Adenuga. A security company was asked to provide a bodyguard, but they rejected all the candidates they sent. Someone then recommended me, and that was how it started.

There were rumours that he relieved you of your job?

Can a body leave his heart? No! I still work with my boss (Daniel). I love him and we are good. People just like to talk.

Being a bodyguard means your life can be at risk. Does that worry you about your family?

My protection comes from God, and I always do my best. I love my family and children very much. It can be challenging because sometimes hanging out with them is difficult. Even when we go out together, I am still alert and protective. Balancing family life with my job isn’t easy, but I do my best.

How did you get into acting, and what roles are dear to your heart?

I had been creating skits but one day I got a call from Bolanle Austin-Peters’ personal assistant inviting me for a movie project. That was my first experience. When I arrived, I didn’t even know it was an audition. I saw many actors and bodybuilders. They gave me a script to read, and I did, unaware it was an audition.

Later, I was told I would be part of the movie. It was a big experience because I met established actors like Odunlade Adekola, Femi Adebayo, and Funke Akindele. I was unsure of what I was doing, so I spoke to a colleague on set. He told me to do my best, and that advice stuck.

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When it was my turn, I performed in my own way. Since I was to fight in the movie, I shouted, and by God’s grace, it was accepted. That marked the beginning of my acting journey. I return all the glory to God. The movie was House of Gaa.

What are some misconceptions about you as a professional security guard?

Many people think I’m a gym monster, that I eat flesh, or that I’m a vampire. No, I’m not. I have a life outside my job. If you know me outside work, you’ll see I’m a simple, lovely guy. I believe in family, friendship, and supporting others. People may look at me as a demon, but I know myself. I’m a sweet guy.

What skills are required to succeed as a celebrity bodyguard?

First, you must ignore material temptations. Your boss may leave money or expensive items around, but as a bodyguard, your job is to protect life and property. Don’t be greedy. Discipline is key.

Second, humility is essential. It doesn’t cost anything to be humble. Humility makes it easier to protect and work with people. And you must be professional. That’s how it works.

Have you ever handled dangerous situations on duty?

Many times. Every challenge reminds me of how loving God is. He has protected me through countless situations. I have faced guns, knives, and broken glass. This job is hard and dangerous, but I have no regrets.

How do you balance being protective while remaining approachable to fans?

I am a simple guy. I love meeting people. When fans approach me, it’s a blessing. I always return the respect, and give glory to God.

How do you maintain close relationships with your children and loved ones?

Kelvin is a sweet guy. Don’t worry, my people love me.

What comes naturally to you—performing on screen or working as security?

Wherever I’m paid to work, I give my best. It doesn’t matter the job.

Has your experience as a bodyguard helped your acting, especially in action roles?

Yes, it has. My security experience helps me perform action roles more convincingly.

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How do you prepare your body and mind to stay in top shape?

I stay ready at all times. Whether for acting or protection, preparation is key.

What values from your heritage do you carry into your professional life?

We are strong people who hate to be cheated. We are stubborn but not lazy or wicked. I embody these values daily.

Do you see yourself transitioning fully into acting, or will security remain part of your identity?

Yes, I see myself acting more, but being a bodyguard will always be part of who I am.

Do you have any desire to settle down, since you’re a lover boy with kids?

I don’t want to talk about that, but I’m already settled (laughs).

There was a rumour about you and Portable in the ring. What happened?

It was an advert for a real estate company. People said Portable beat me (laughs). When he saw he was supposed to wrestle me, he refused and said I should fight Anthony Joshua instead. I fell and pretended he beat me. We were both paid.

You’ve spoken a lot about spirituality. When did you embrace God fully?

Around 10 years ago. After leaving Adenuga’s compound, I was going to bury my mum. I had spent all my money and felt empty. I went to a (prayer) mountain to clear my head. That was the best decision I ever made. God has always been at the centre of my life, and He saved me.

How did you lose your job with the Adenugas?

I was working with Adenuga’s daughter, Bella, but it seemed nothing I did pleased her. One day, she sent me back to her father’s compound. I then started working with (Mike) Adenuga directly. But, she still had issues with me, so I eventually had to leave.

Mention three things you love that people may not know about you.

I read, watch movies, and listen to music by my boss, Kizz Daniel.

What is your favorite food?

Pounded yam and egusi soup.

How do you relieve stress and relax?

I sleep.

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