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I expected twins, shocked four babies came out — Mother detained over N3m bill

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Twenty-eight-year-old native of Cross River State, Mrs Charity Anani, tells AYOOLA OLASUPO about how her expectation of twins suddenly became quadruplets in the labour room, the family’s shock and their struggle to pay N3m hospital bill

Can you tell us about yourself and your family background?

I am 28 years old, and we are from Cross River State. I teach in a private school.

What does your husband do for a living?

My husband rides an okada (commercial motorcycle).

When did you first learn that you were expecting four babies?

We weren’t expecting four babies initially because when I went for a scan, it showed that there were two. So, we were very surprised that they all came out as four. After I gave birth to the first two by myself, the doctor said he realised that two more babies were still in my belly, so I was very surprised that I did not even know what to say.

What was your husband’s reaction when he heard the news?

He was very surprised, especially now that things are very hard for the family. He was happy and also displeased at the same time because he was not expecting four babies. We already have a daughter, and he was expecting twins, but it was so sudden how it changed to four. I think he is thinking about how to cope now.

When exactly did you deliver the babies?

It was on Friday, February 27, 2026.

How did your distant relatives react the moment they learnt that you had four babies?

Everybody was shocked because they all knew we were expecting just two babies. They were also worried about the financial burden the situation would cost. They were just like, ‘How are we going to cope with this now?’ But they were also happy I was part of the family, delivered the babies without complications, and the four of them are alive.

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What is the gender of the babies?

There are three boys and a girl.

Why haven’t you been discharged until now?

I’ve been discharged, but it’s the hospital bills that are keeping us here. We were told that our bill is N3m.

How much have you been able to pay?

We have no money, and that is what is still keeping us here. We are very happy that we can help the children because the two babies that came out last were sick, and they are receiving oxygen, which costs N55,000 per one. The last baby was put in an incubator, and we pay N50,000 for that every day.

What happened to the last two babies?

They were very weak because I gave birth to the first two by myself, but the remaining two were through a caesarean section. It was after their birth that we found out that the babies were very weak, especially the last one, which is very small. So, we have to put him inside an incubator. All the babies are alive now, and they are fine.

What was the pregnancy journey like for you, carrying four babies at once?

It was very hard because I experienced a lot of pain, especially in my legs, which were swollen. It was as if the babies rested on my left leg, so I could not move properly, even though I was still going to school to teach when I was pregnant. I was still working and still doing some house chores.

My tummy was very big and heavy, but I was still trying to do some exercise; I used to move around. I used to feel both back and waist pain, so I could not walk very well.

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Were there moments during the pregnancy when you were worried or scared for your health or the babies’?

No. After I gave birth to the first two babies, I was grateful to God because everything was okay before we later found out that there were two more. I was very weak, but there were no complications except for the caesarean section that was carried out. Even during the pregnancy, I was not worried because there were no complications whatsoever throughout the period.

Did you feel any sense of fulfilment when the four babies arrived?

I was very shocked and excited at the same time. But I didn’t know what was happening at the hospital.

It was when I woke up and realised that they were four, I said, ‘Ah! These four children came out of whose tummy?’

I was surprised because the scan revealed to us that there were two, and we were expecting just two babies. How come they turned to four all of a sudden? I also felt that they were going to cost us a lot of money to take care of them. That was how I felt at that moment.

What were the doctors’ reactions when the babies arrived safely?

My case was the first time they would be experiencing someone giving birth to four babies at once in the hospital. It was a private hospital, so they were happy too that it happened for the very first time.

Have you given the babies names?

We haven’t been able to name the kids yet since we are still in the hospital.

Since they are a week old now, when do you plan to do their naming ceremony?

We need to get out of here before we can plan a naming ceremony. Although I’ve been discharged, we need to pay up the money before they can allow us to go, and the babies are still receiving treatment.

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Caring for one newborn can be challenging. What has it been like taking care of four babies at the same time?

We have been able to do some things. We bought baby food for the babies. We have been able to take care of them just as they are. People are also helping us with whatever they have. Some bought baby food for us.

When you are eventually discharged from the hospital, how do you plan to raise the children?

We are hoping for God’s grace. The important thing is for us to do our best to raise the children, and we believe that with God, everything is possible, and with the help of the people, we will be able to raise the children.

What has been the most joyful or memorable moment since you welcomed the babies?

I give glory to God, and I’m happy that they are alive and healthy. I’m also happy that I was able to give birth to them without any complications or stress, and with the way I’m seeing them, it is a thing of joy.

Do you plan to have more children in the future after this?

No! We are okay now. We have been blessed with five children already. We are okay with what He has given to us because it is only God who understands why He gave them to us, so we are fine with it.

Are you saying that you will do family planning?

Yes, after these ones, we will go for family planning.

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RESPECT IS RECIPROCAL: YOU CANNOT DEMAND WHAT YOU REFUSE TO GIVE

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Why do some people demand respect from everyone while treating others with disrespect?**

There is something deeply wrong with a society where people believe that respect should flow in only one direction.

Some people want to be respected because they are older, wealthier, more educated, more influential or occupy positions of authority. Yet they feel entitled to insult, intimidate, humiliate and belittle those they consider beneath them.

They want people to bow before them, but they refuse to treat others with dignity.

They want their opinions respected, but they dismiss the opinions of others.

They demand loyalty, but offer betrayal. They demand kindness, but practise cruelty. They expect understanding, but show little consideration for anyone else’s feelings.

**Is that respect, or simply an abuse of power?**

## Respect is not determined by wealth, age or status

Having money does not make you more human than someone who is struggling financially.

Being a boss does not give you the right to humiliate your employees.

Being a parent does not mean your children have no feelings or deserve no consideration.

Being older does not automatically make every decision you make right.

And holding a position of authority does not give you permission to treat people as though they have no value.

True respect is reflected in your character, behaviour and treatment of other people.

## Stop confusing fear with respect

This is where many people get it wrong.

Some people believe that because others remain silent around them, they are respected.

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But silence is not always respect.

Sometimes people are simply afraid of your anger, your influence, your financial power or the consequences of disagreeing with you.

You may command obedience through intimidation, but you cannot force genuine admiration.

**People may fear your power without respecting your character.**

## Respect begins with how you treat people

If you want people to respect you, start by examining how you treat them.

Respect the poor. Respect the vulnerable. Respect people who cannot offer you anything in return.

Respect those who disagree with you. Respect people’s boundaries. Respect their dignity, even when you have more money, authority or influence than they do.

You do not have to agree with everyone, but disagreement should never become an excuse for humiliation.

Respect does not mean tolerating abuse or surrendering your boundaries. It means recognising that every human being deserves basic dignity.

## The question we must all answer

Before demanding respect from others, take a moment to examine yourself.

Are you the kind of person who gives the respect you constantly demand?

Do you treat your domestic workers, employees, relatives, neighbours and strangers with the same dignity you expect from those around you?

Or do you believe respect is something other people owe you simply because of who you are?

**Remember: Respect is reciprocal. You cannot continuously disrespect people and expect genuine respect in return.**

### NEWSBREAK365 FINAL THOUGHT

The true measure of a person’s greatness is not how many people bow before them, but how many people they treat with dignity.

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**Never demand from others what you are unwilling to give.**

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Can someone genuinely demand respect while constantly disrespecting others?

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YOUR WEALTH DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO OPPRESS THE POOR: STOP EXPLOITING THOSE WHO HAVE LESS THAN YOU

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Having money does not make you superior. Having power does not give you the right to intimidate others. And being in a position of authority does not make you the owner of another person’s dignity.

There is something deeply troubling about a society where some people believe that having money, connections, influence or authority gives them permission to treat less privileged people like they are worthless.

Some wealthy individuals look down on the poor. Some employers intimidate their workers because they know those workers depend on their salaries to survive. Some people in positions of authority exploit the vulnerability of those who cannot afford to challenge them.

Others use their financial advantage to humiliate, manipulate and silence people who have fewer opportunities.

But let us ask an important question: **When did having more become a licence to mistreat those who have less?**

## THE POOR ARE HUMAN BEINGS, NOT YOUR PUNCHING BAGS!

Being poor does not mean someone deserves humiliation.

A person struggling financially still deserves respect. Someone working for you is not your slave. A person who cannot afford to challenge your decisions is not someone you have the right to exploit.

Whether someone is a cleaner, security guard, domestic worker, factory employee, labourer, driver or street vendor, their dignity matters.

You may have the money, but they have feelings. You may have influence, but they have families to feed. You may have power, but they deserve justice.

Never confuse someone’s inability to fight back with permission to mistreat them.

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## WEALTH SHOULD BUILD PEOPLE, NOT DESTROY THEM

What is the purpose of becoming wealthy if your success comes at the expense of other people’s suffering?

Why intimidate an employee who is already struggling to survive? Why refuse to pay someone what they have legitimately earned? Why use your position to frustrate someone simply because you know they cannot afford to challenge you?

True success should create opportunities, encourage fairness and improve lives.

Pay people fairly. Respect their contributions. Treat workers with dignity. Help vulnerable people when you can.

You do not have to become poor to show compassion to the poor.

## REMEMBER: LIFE CAN CHANGE

The person you humiliate today may not remain in that position forever.

Financial circumstances can change. Positions can change. Businesses can collapse. Opportunities can disappear. The person who appears powerless today may become successful tomorrow.

Nobody knows everything tomorrow holds.

That is why humility matters.

Do not allow your present success to make you arrogant. Do not allow your wealth to destroy your humanity.

## THE MESSAGE IS SIMPLE

If you have more than others, remember that your advantage comes with an opportunity to make a positive difference.

Stop exploiting the poor. Stop intimidating vulnerable people. Stop using money and authority to silence those who have less.

**Be wealthy, but remain humane. Be powerful, but remain humble. Be successful, but never lose your conscience.**

Because at the end of the day, your bank balance may reveal how much money you have, but your treatment of other human beings reveals your character.

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Mohbad Family demands identity of US lab for DNA test

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The family of late singer Ilerioluwa Aloba, popularly known as Mohbad, has demanded the disclosure of the identity of a United States laboratory expected to conduct a DNA test to determine the paternity of Liam, the singer’s son.

The family also called for the postponement of the examination scheduled for Saturday, October 31, at the Mainland General Hospital/IDH, Yaba, Lagos, pending clarification of its concerns over transparency and compliance with a court order.

In a statement signed by the family head, Samuel Aloba, and sent to PUNCH Metro on Thursday, the family said it was concerned about arrangements for the tissue-based DNA examination, particularly reports that samples would be collected in Lagos and sent to a laboratory in the US for analysis.

The family said it wanted clarification on whether the Lagos State DNA and Forensic Centre, which it claimed was designated by a court order issued on May 5, 2026, would conduct the examination or merely collect and dispatch the samples abroad.

“This raises a fundamental question that must be answered before the exercise proceeds: Is the Lagos State DNA and Forensic Centre itself going to conduct the examination contemplated by the court, or is it merely going to collect and dispatch samples to another laboratory?

“The distinction is material. Where a court has directed that a scientific examination be conducted at a particular institution, the parties are entitled to clarity regarding the manner in which that directive will be implemented.

“If the designated centre intends to rely on a foreign laboratory to conduct the analysis, the arrangement should be explained and, where necessary, presented to the court for clarification,” the statement read.

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The family said no institution or party should unilaterally substitute a materially different arrangement for one contemplated by a subsisting court order without appropriate judicial clarification.

The family also demanded the full name and address of the proposed overseas laboratory, evidence of its accreditation and technical competence, details of the testing procedure, and documentation showing how the samples would be collected, labelled, preserved, transported and examined.

It further requested a mechanism to verify that the samples collected in Lagos were the same ones received and analysed by the foreign laboratory.

The statement added, “The family has been informed that the identity of the proposed overseas laboratory may be disclosed only to the court. While the family recognises the importance of protecting legitimate confidential information, confidentiality cannot be permitted to defeat the basic requirements of transparency, accountability and meaningful verification in a process whose outcome may have far-reaching legal and personal consequences.”

The family said its concerns were not an attempt to frustrate the judicial process or prevent a scientifically valid examination but to ensure that the outcome could withstand independent scrutiny.

It expressed apprehension about possible interference, mishandling or manipulation of the process if adequate safeguards were not established before the examination.

However, the family clarified that it was not claiming that the proposed test had already been compromised or that manipulation had been established.

“In a matter as sensitive as Mohbad’s DNA, the result must not merely be announced; it must be demonstrably reliable. The integrity of the process must be capable of independent verification, from the point of sample collection to the final laboratory report,” it said.

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The family also linked its concerns to questions it had previously raised about the handling of biological samples during the post-mortem examination conducted in connection with Mohbad’s death.

It questioned the role of the pathologist involved in sample collection during the coroner’s inquest.

The family further claimed that information it received from its enquiries indicated that the laboratory to which samples from the earlier process were purportedly sent had not received them or any specimen registered in the name of Ilerioluwa Promise Aloba.

It stressed, however, that the assertions represented its account of the matter and required clarification and verification, adding that they were not findings of a court or independently established proof of wrongdoing by any individual or institution.

The family maintained that it supported a credible DNA examination capable of resolving Liam’s paternity but insisted that the identity of the testing laboratory and the chain of custody of the samples must be clear.

It called on the relevant authorities to address its concerns, provide the necessary information and ensure that the examination complied with the court’s order and accepted forensic procedures.

The family consequently requested the postponement of Saturday’s exercise until the outstanding issues were clarified, adequate notice was given to all parties and their legal representatives, and further directions were obtained from the court where necessary.

It said its objective was not to predetermine the outcome of the examination but to ensure that the eventual result was based on a credible and properly documented process.

The family added that the public interest in establishing the truth should not be undermined by avoidable uncertainty or a lack of transparency.

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Mohbad died at 27 on September 12, 2023. Following his death, the Lagos State Police Command inaugurated a 13-man special investigation team to probe the circumstances surrounding his passing.

Earlier reports in 2024 indicated that Aloba, through legal representatives, filed an application at the coroner’s court in Ikorodu to determine the cause of Mohbad’s death and later demanded a DNA test to resolve the paternity dispute.

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