Located in the northwestern part of Oyo State, Nigeria, is one of the most historically significant towns in Yorubaland. Known for its elevated terrain, agricultural prominence, and deep-rooted traditions, Saki remains a vital symbol of Yoruba identity, spiritual heritage, and resilience.
Geography and Location
Saki is situated approximately 184 kilometers northwest of Ibadan, the capital of Oyo State.
Geographically, it lies on longitude 3.42° East and latitude 8.41° North, with an altitude of about 1,500 meters above sea level. The town is surrounded by rolling hills, including the famous Asabari Hill, which rises to over 2,000 meters.
Saki is bordered by the Ofiki River, a tributary of the Ogun River. Its savannah vegetation and rivers like Taba and Foofoo have historically provided water and supported agricultural activity. The Foofoo stream has since been dammed to serve as a modern water source for the town.
Founding and Historical Significance
Saki’s origin dates back to the late 12th or early 13th century when Ogun, the eldest son of Oduduwa, was sent to explore and administer distant lands within the Yoruba Kingdom. After Oduduwa lost his sight, Ogun temporarily ruled from Saki, issuing commands to other parts of the kingdom. For this reason, Saki once served as a central seat of Yoruba leadership.
The name “Saki” is believed to have originated from an exclamation by Oranmiyan, another son of Oduduwa, during a confrontation involving a local leader named Oke-Kesi. Oranmiyan reportedly said “N ṣakiri,” meaning “he is running about,” a phrase that eventually evolved into “Saki.”
Saki has strong spiritual connections, particularly with Ogun—the Yoruba god of iron and war. According to legend, Ogun lived and died in Saki, making the town a sacred place for his worshippers. Today, sacrifices and traditional rituals are still offered in his honor at Ogidigbo, a sacred site in Saki.
The town is also linked to other key Yoruba figures such as Oke-Kesi and Ekunsimi, the wife of the first Okere of Saki, whose spirit is believed to dwell in the Ogun River near Iseyin.
Leadership and Governance
The traditional ruler of Saki is known as the Okere of Saki. Following the death of Oba Kilani Olatoyese Ilufemiloye in 2013, the throne remained vacant for several years. After much consultation and legal review, Oba Khalid Olabisi Oyeniyi was officially appointed Okere of Saki on December 18, 2019.
Economic Importance and Agriculture
Saki is widely referred to as the food basket of Oyo State due to its agricultural productivity. Major crops cultivated in the area include yams, maize, cassava, beans, okra, rice, sorghum, tobacco, indigo, and cotton. The town also supports livestock farming and is home to a government livestock station.
Craftsmanship and Commerce
Saki is renowned for its aluminum pot production, a skill passed down through generations. Its thriving weekly market, the Sango Market, attracts traders and buyers from far and wide, contributing significantly to the town’s economy.
Infrastructure and Health
Saki has several health facilities, including both government and private hospitals. A major branch of the University College Hospital (UCH), Ibadan, is currently under construction in the town and is expected to improve healthcare access for residents.
One of the most striking natural features of Saki is its towering granite hill, an inselberg that rises over 1,600 feet. This site offers breathtaking views of the surrounding landscape and holds potential for eco-tourism and hiking activities.
Saki is not just a town—it is a vital chapter in the story of the Yoruba people. Its historical relevance, cultural depth, and economic strength make it a cornerstone of Yoruba civilization. From its early role in the leadership of the Yoruba kingdom to its current status as a thriving agricultural and commercial center, Saki continues to hold a unique and enduring place in Nigerian history.
Let the name Saki be remembered, not just as a location, but as a living testament to the heritage, strength, and vision of the Yoruba people.
A Compilation of Traditional Royal Titles Across Nigeria and Yoruba-Linked Communities
The Yoruba people have one of Africa’s most diverse and historically rich traditional institutions. Across Yorubaland and Yoruba-linked communities, traditional rulers bear different titles reflecting the history, traditions, kingdoms, towns and royal institutions of their respective communities.
From the Ooni of Ife, Alaafin of Oyo, Alake of Egbaland, Awujale of Ijebuland, Akarigbo of Remoland, Olubadan of Ibadanland, Soun of Ogbomosoland, Osemawe of Ondo, Deji of Akure, Olowo of Owo, Ewi of Ado-Ekiti and many others, each title has its own historical and cultural significance.
Below is a compilation of Yoruba Oba titles across Yorubaland and Yoruba-linked settlements in Nigeria and neighbouring areas.
📍 OGUN STATE
ABEOKUTA — Alake of Egbaland
SAGAMU — Akarigbo of Remoland
SANGO-OTA — Olota of Ota
IGBESA — Onigbesi of Igbesa
IPERU-REMO — Oba of Iperu
IKORODU — Ayangburen of Ikorodu
ISHARA-REMO — Onishara of Ishara
IJEBU-ODE — Awujale of Ijebuland
IJEBU-IGBO — Orimolusi of Ijebu-Igbo
ITELE-IJEBU — Onitele of Itele
ODOGBOLU — Osile of Oodogbolu
OGERE-REMO — Oba of Ogere
IROLU-REMO — Oba of Irolu
IPARA-REMO — Olofin of Ipara
ILISAN-REMO — Onishan of Ilisan
IKENNE — Oniwere of Ikenne
OMU — Oloomu of Omu
ILARO — Olu of Ilaro
OKEHO — Onjo of Okeho
ADO-ODO — Alado of Ado-Odo
ITORI — Olu of Itori
AYETORO — Olu of Aiyetoro
MAGBON — Onimagbon of Magbon
OFFIN — Onioffin of Offin
EMUREN — Ologere of Emuren
IBONWON — Oba of Ibonwon
IPOJI — Oba of Ipoji
IWOYE-KETU — Oloomu of Iwoye-Ketu
IMEKO — Onimeko of Imeko
IRANIKIN — Oniranikin of Iranikin
ODE-REMO — Oba of Ode-Remo
AKAKA-REMO — Oba of Akaka-Remo
ILARA-REMO — Oba of Ilara-Remo
OFADA — Oba of Ofada
OWODE-REMO — Oba of Owode-Remo
📍 OSUN STATE
ILE-IFE — Ooni of Ife
OSOGBO — Ataoja of Osogbo
ILESA — Owa Obokun of Ijesaland
MODAKEKE — Ogunsua of Modakeke
IWO — Oluwo of Iwo
IKIRE — Akire of Ikire
IKIRUN — Akinrun of Ikirun
EDE — Timi of Ede
ILA-ORANGUN — Orangun of Ila
EJIGBO — Ogiyan of Ejigbo
ESA-OKE — Owamiran of Esa-Oke
IREE — Aree of Iree
ILOBU — Olobu of Ilobu
GBONGAN — Akinrun of Gbongan
IRESI — Alana of Iresi
ERIN-OSUN — Elerin of Erin-Osun
KUTA — Alakuta of Kuta
IPETU-IJESA — Olipetu of Ipetu-Ijesa
ORILE-OWU — Olowu of Orile-Owu
AWO — Oloawo of Awo
ODE-OMU — Olomu of Omu
IPETUMODU — Ooni of Ipetumodu
IFE-ODAN — Ooni of Ife-Odan
OKUKU — Akosin of Okuku
OKE-ILA — Orangun of Oke-Ila
IKONIFIN — Oba of Ikonifin
IGBODI — Oba of Igbodi
ILA-ORANGUN — Orangun of Ila
IGBAYO — Oba of Igbayo
OKE-IMO — Oba of Oke-Imo
📍 OYO STATE
OYO — Alaafin of Oyo
IBADAN — Olubadan of Ibadanland
OGBOMOSO — Soun of Ogbomosoland
ISEYIN — Aseyin of Iseyin
SHAKI — Okere of Shaki
ERUWA — Eleruwa of Eruwa
IGBOHO — Onigboho of Igboho
IGBETI — Onibeti of Igbeti
ADO-AWAYE — Onjo of Ado-Awaye
IGBO-ORA — Eleruwa of Igbo-Ora
OKEHO — Onjo of Okeho
IJIO — Onijio of Ijio
IGBO-IFA — Onigbo-Ifa of Igbo-Ifa
IRAYE — Oniraye of Iraye
ORILE-IGBON — Olugbon of Orile-Igbon
IJERU — Onpetu of Ijeru
ILORA — Akinbio of Ilora
FIDITI — Onifiditi of Fiditi
AAWE — Alaawe of Aawe
TAPA — Elempe of Tapa
OJONGBOUDU — Oloodu of Ojongbodu
AGUO — Alaguo of Aguo
AJAGBA — Alajagba of Ajagba
ISOKUN — Ona Isokun of Isokun
GUDUGBU — Onigudugbu of Gudugbu
AKEETAN — Alakeetan of Akeetan
ISEKE — Elepe of Iseke
IDODE — Onidode of Idode
APAARA — Alapaara of Apaara
OTEFON — Olotefon of Otefon
IMELEKE — Onimeleke of Imeleke
OKE-OGUN — Various traditional rulers
TESHIE — Traditional ruler of Teshie
FASOLA — Traditional ruler of Fasola
KISHI — Iba of Kishi
📍 ONDO STATE
AKURE — Deji of Akure
OWO — Olowo of Owo
ONDO — Osemawe of Ondo
OKE-IGBO — Oniro of Oke-Igbo
ODE-UGBO — Olugbo of Ugbo
ODE-MAHIN — Olumahin of Mahin
IKARE-AKOKO — Owa of Ikare
OKA-AKOKO — Olubaka of Oka
IRELE — Olofun of Irele
OKITIPUPA — Traditional ruler of Ikale
ILARA-MOKIN — Alara of Ilara-Mokin
IGBARA-OKE — Olowa of Igbara-Oke
IDANRE — Owa of Idanre
ILE-OLUJI — Jegun of Ile-Oluji
ODE-AYE — Onikeye of Aye
ODE-ERINJE — Onierinje of Erinje
ARAROMI-OBU — Olobu of Araromi-Obu
IGBADO — Asafunrin of Igbado
IGUNSIN — Alara of Igunsin
ATOSIN — Awosunye of Atosin
OBA — Oloba of Oba
SUPARE — Olusupare of Supare
AKUNGBA — Alale of Akungba
IKUN — Onikun of Ikun
IGBOKODA — Ayangburen of Igbokoda
ILU-TITUN — Majuwa of Ilutitun
IGBODIGO — Obagberume of Igbodigo
MAHIN — Olumahin of Mahin
AYE — Onikeye of Aye
ILAJE — Various traditional rulers
📍 EKITI STATE
ADO-EKITI — Ewi of Ado
IGEDE-EKITI — Onigede of Igede
IJERO-EKITI — Ajero of Ijero
IKERE-EKITI — Ogoga of Ikere
IKOLE-EKITI — Elekole of Ikole
ISE-EKITI — Arinjale of Ise
EFON-ALAAYE — Alaaye of Efon-Alaaye
OTUN-EKITI — Oore of Otun
ILAWE-EKITI — Alawe of Ilawe
IGBARA-ODO — Arajaka of Igbara-Odo
ARAMOKO-EKITI — Alara of Aramoko
IDO-EKITI — Olojudo of Ido
ISAN-EKITI — Onisan of Isan
OYE-EKITI — Oloye of Oye
OGOTUN-EKITI — Ologotun of Ogotun
ITAJI-EKITI — Onitaji of Itaji
OKEMESI-EKITI — Owa-Ooye of Okemesi
AIYEDE-EKITI — Attah of Aiyede
EMURE-EKITI — Elemure of Emure
OMUO-EKITI — Olomuo of Omuo
OSI-EKITI — Olosi of Osi
IDO-ILE-EKITI — Olojudo of Ido-Ile
IYIN-EKITI — Oluyin of Iyin
ARE-EKITI — Alare of Are
IYE-EKITI — Oniye of Iye
ODE-EKITI — Olode of Ode
IKORO-EKITI — Olukoro of Ikoro
ISINBODE-EKITI — Onisin of Isinbode
OTUNJA-EKITI — Olootunja of Otunja
OKE-AYEDUN-EKITI — Alaaye of Oke-Ayedun
ERINMOPE-EKITI — Obaleo of Erinmope
EDA-ONIYO-EKITI — Eleda of Eda-Oniyo
IGOGO-EKITI — Onigogo of Igogo
ILASA-EKITI — Alasa of Ilasa
ILORO-EKITI — Oluloro of Iloro
IPOTI-EKITI — Olupoti of Ipoti
IMESI-EKITI — Onimesi of Imesi
OSAN-EKITI — Olosan of Osan
USIN-EKITI — Olusin of Usin
AISEGBA-EKITI — Apalufin of Aisegba
EWU-EKITI — Elewu of Ewu
ODO-ORO-EKITI — Onise of Odo-Oro
AWO-EKITI — Alawo of Awo
AYEGUNLE-EKITI — Alayegunle of Ayegunle
AYETORO-EKITI — Alayetoro of Ayetoro
ERIO-EKITI — Elerio of Erio
ERINJIYAN-EKITI — Olohan of Erinjiyan
IFAKI-EKITI — Olufaki of Ifaki
IGBEMO-EKITI — Onigbemo of Igbemo
IJURIN-EKITI — Ojurin of Ijurin
ILUPEJU-EKITI — Apeju of Ilupeju
ISABA-EKITI — Asaba of Isaba
IROPORA-EKITI — Oniropora of Iropora
ITAPA-EKITI — Owatapa of Itapa
IWOROKO-EKITI — Alaworoko of Iworoko
ODO-AYEDUN-EKITI — Owa of Odo-Ayedun
ODO-OWA-EKITI — Olowa of Odo-Owa
EGBE-EKITI — Owa-Egbe of Egbe
IJAN-EKITI — Onijan of Ijan
ORUN-EKITI — Olowuro of Orun
IPOLE-ILORO-EKITI — Olupole of Ipole-Iloro
IKUN-AMURE-EKITI — Onikun of Ikun-Amure
AGBAADO-EKITI — Owa-Oroo of Agbado
ARA-EKITI — Alara of Ara
ILOGBO-EKITI — Owalogbo of Ilogbo
ILUDUN-EKITI — Owa of Iludun
IPAO-EKITI — Obanla of Ipao
ORIN-ODO-EKITI — Olorin of Orin-Odo
ITAPAJI-EKITI — Olu of Itapaji
AFAO-EKITI — Alafao of Afao
EYIO-EKITI — Eleyio of Eyio
ESURE-EKITI — Elesure of Esure
IPERE-EKITI — Onipere of Ipere
AAYE-OJA-EKITI — Alaaye of Aaye-Oja
OLOJE-EKITI — Obaloja of Oloje
IMOJO-EKITI — Olumojo of Imojo
ESUN-EKITI — Elesun of Esun
IKOGOSI-EKITI — Oloja of Ikogosi
IKOSUN-EKITI — Obanikosu of Ikosun
ILAFON-EKITI — Alafon of Ilafon
AAYE-EKITI — Alaaye of Aaye
ARAROMI-OKE-EKITI — Oloja of Araromi-Oke
ASIN-EKITI — Alasin of Asin
AYEGBAJU-EKITI — Owa of Ayegbaju
IGBOLE-EKITI — Olugbole of Igbole
IJESAMODU-EKITI — Onijesa of Ijesamodu
IJELU-EKITI — Elejelu of Ijelu
IKOYI-EKITI — Onikoyi of Ikoyi
IKUN-OBA-EKITI — Onikun of Ikun-Oba
ILU-OMOBA-EKITI — Ajagun of Ilu-Omoba
IROKO-EKITI — Oluroye of Iroko
OMU-EKITI — Owajumu of Omu
OSIN-EKITI — Olosin of Osin
KOTA-EKITI — Elekota of Kota
OMUO-OKE-EKITI — Olomuo-Oke of Omuo-Oke
ILEMESO-EKITI — Obadu of Ilemeso
IFISIN-EKITI — Onifisin of Ifisin
ARAROMI-EKITI — Alararomi of Araromi
ARAROMI-OBO-EKITI — Odolofin of Araromi-Obo
AYEBODE-EKITI — Owa of Ayebode
EDA-ILE-EKITI — Eleda-Ile of Eda-Ile
EPE-EKITI — Elepe of Epe
OKE-ORO-EKITI — Owa of Oke-Oro
IGBONA-EKITI — Obaloke of Igbona
IKUNRI-EKITI — Eleri of Ikunri
ILAMO-EKITI — Alamo of Ilamo
ILOGUN-EKITI — Obalogun of Ilogun
ILUKUNO-EKITI — Eesalokun of Ilukuno
IRARE-EKITI — Onirare of Irare
IRELE-EKITI — Onirele of Irele
IRO-EKITI — Oniro of Iro
ISA-OYE-EKITI — Obasaoye of Isa-Oye
IYEMERO-EKITI — Olu of Iyemero
ODO-ORA-EKITI — Obalemo of Odo-Ora
OKE-AKO-EKITI — Owa of Oke-Ako
OKE-IJEBU-EKITI — Oloojebu of Oke-Ijebu
OKE-ORA-EKITI — Olora of Oke-Ora
ORIN-EKITI — Olorin of Orin
TEMIDIRE-EKITI — Onikun of Temidire
IRA-EKITI — Eisa of Ira
EJIYAN-EKITI — Obalaye of Ejiyan
IJARO-EKITI — Onijaro of Ijaro
ARAROMI-UGBESHI-EKITI — Owa Eleshi of Araromi-Ugbeshi
The Ekiti State Government’s published traditional-ruler records confirm many of these titles, including Ewi, Ajero, Alaaye, Ogoga, Elekole, Oore, Alawe, Arinjale, Owa-Ooye, Onisan, Onitaji, Olojudo and others.
📍 LAGOS STATE
LAGOS/EKO — Oba of Lagos
IRU — Oniru of Iruland
IKATE — Elegushi of Ikate
IKOYI — Onikoyi of Ikoyi
IBA — Oniba of Iba
IGBEJU-LEKKI — Onibeju of Ibeju
LEKKI — Onilekki of Lekki
EPE — Olu of Epe
ORIMEDU — Onimedu of Orimedu
POKA — Alade Uraka of Poka
OKE-ODO-IWEREKUN — Onitedo of Oke-Odo-Iwerekun
IKOTUN — Onikotun of Ikotun
IKOSI — Onikosi of Ikosi
IBESHE — Olubeshe of Ibeshe
ODO-AVANDELU — Alayandelu of Odo-Avandelu
AJAH — Ojomu of Ajah
IJORA — Ojora of Ijora
EJIGBO — Elejigbo of Ejigbo
ISOLO — Osolo of Isolo
IGANDO — Onigando of Igando
IJEGUN — Onijegun of Ijegun
ITIRE — Onitire of Itire
ELEKO — Eleko of Eleko
AKESAN — Onikesan of Akesan
IKEJA — Onikeja of Ikeja
OGBA — Onigba of Ogba
OSHODI — Traditional ruler of Oshodi
📍 KWARA STATE
ILORIN — Emir of Ilorin
OFFA — Olofa of Offa
AJASE-IPO — Olupo of Ajase-Ipo
ESIE — Olori-Esie of Esie
OMU-ARAN — Olomu of Omu-Aran
IWOYE-AYEDUN — Onigede of Iwoye-Ayedun
IRAA — Oniraa of Iraa
SHARE — Olupako of Share
IGBAJA — Elese of Igbaja
ORA — Olora of Ora
IKOSIN — Olukosin of Ikosin
IJAGBO — Onijagbo of Ijagbo
ERIN-ILE — Elerin of Erin-Ile
ISANLU-ISIN — Olusin of Isanlu-Isin
IJARA-ISIN — Olusin of Ijara-Isin
ILUPEJU — Onilupeju of Ilupeju
OKE-OPIN — Oloke of Oke-Opin
MASUDO — Onimosudo of Masudo
📍 KOGI STATE — OKUN YORUBA
KABBA — Obaro of Kabba
IFE-OLUKOTUN — Ajalorun of Ife-Olukotun
EKINRIN-ADDE — Oba of Ekinrin-Adde
OGIDI — Oba of Ogidi
IYARA — Oba of Iyara
IYAH-GBEDDE — Oba of Iyah-Gbedde
ISANLU — Oba of Isanlu
IYAMOYE — Oba of Iyamoye
ODO-ERE — Oba of Odo-Ere
📍 EDO STATE — YORUBA-LINKED SETTLEMENTS
USEN — Elawure of Usen
EGBETA — Oba of Egbeta
📍 DELTA STATE — YORUBA-LINKED SETTLEMENTS
WARRI — Olu of Warri
UGBORODO — Traditional ruler of Ugborodo
OGIDIGBEN — Traditional ruler of Ogidigben
INORIN — Traditional ruler of Inorin
UREJU — Traditional ruler of Ureju
OMADINO — Traditional ruler of Omadino
📍 REPUBLIC OF BENIN
KETU — Ahosu of Ketu
DASSA-ZOUME / IGBO-IDAASHA — King of Igbo-Idaasha
SHABE / ILE-SHABE — King of Shabe
👑 THE RICHNESS OF YORUBA ROYAL TRADITION
One of the remarkable features of Yoruba traditional society is that there is no single title used by every Yoruba monarch. Different kingdoms, towns and communities have developed their own royal titles over centuries.
For example, the Ooni is associated with Ile-Ife, the Alaafin with Oyo, the Alake with Egbaland, the Awujale with Ijebuland, the Akarigbo with Remoland, the Olubadan with Ibadanland, the Olowo with Owo, the Osemawe with Ondo, the Deji with Akure and the Ewi with Ado-Ekiti.
These titles are more than names. They are connected to the history, political organization, migration traditions, royal families, ancestral institutions and cultural identity of individual Yoruba communities.
⚠️ EDITORIAL NOTE
This compilation is intended as a reference list of Yoruba and Yoruba-linked royal titles. Traditional institutions can change over time, and spellings, titles, classifications and the status of particular communities may differ between official government records, palace records, historical sources and local usage.
There are also repeated names or titles in the original compilation, and some communities listed as Yoruba-linked settlements have complex historical and ethnic relationships that deserve further research. Therefore, readers and traditional institutions are encouraged to provide corrections, additions or clarifications where necessary.
For example, official Ekiti State records provide a government-maintained classification of traditional rulers and show that several titles in this compilation have established official recognition.
This list should therefore be regarded as a living compilation rather than a final ranking of Yoruba monarchs.
🗣️ WHAT DO YOU THINK?
Which Yoruba Oba title is the oldest?
Which Yoruba traditional ruler has the most historically influential kingdom?
Which Oba title did we miss?
Drop your answer in the comments and share this list with others interested in Yoruba history, culture and traditional institutions.
But respect does not give a parent permission to humiliate, bully, insult, reject, emotionally abuse, or constantly tear down a child.
Some children are called “rebellious” today when, deep down, they are carrying years of pain they have never been allowed to express.
A child who was constantly told:
❌ “You are useless.”
❌ “You will never amount to anything.”
❌ “Look at your brother; you are a disappointment.”
❌ “I wish I never gave birth to you.”
may eventually grow up asking:
“Why should I love someone who spent my childhood making me feel worthless?”
The Bible does not give parents a free pass to crush their children’s spirits.
📖 “And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” — Ephesians 6:4 (KJV)
And Scripture says:
📖 “Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.” — Colossians 3:21 (KJV)
Yes, children are commanded to honour their parents.
📖 “Honour thy father and thy mother…” — Exodus 20:12 (KJV)
But parents also have a responsibility before God for how they treat their children.
And here is the uncomfortable truth:
A child can forgive you and still remember the pain.
Forgiveness does not mean the abuse was acceptable.
Forgiveness does not erase the consequences.
Forgiveness does not mean allowing someone to continue hurting you.
📖 “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another…” — Ephesians 4:32 (KJV)
Parents, before you demand respect from your children, ask yourself:
Not every child who runs away from home is a bad child.
Some children leave because they are exhausted from constant insults, rejection, bullying, comparison, humiliation, neglect, hatred, and harsh treatment from the very people they expect to love them.
Yes, children must obey their parents.
📖 “Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.” — Ephesians 6:1 (KJV)
But parents also have responsibilities toward their children.
📖 “And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” — Ephesians 6:4 (KJV)
And again:
📖 “Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.” — Colossians 3:21 (KJV)
⚠️ READ THAT AGAIN: “LEST THEY BE DISCOURAGED.”
A child can live under the same roof with their parents and still feel completely unloved, unwanted, and emotionally abandoned.
Some parents believe that because they provide food, clothing, and school fees, they have done everything necessary.
But children also need love, encouragement, attention, patience, correction, and a safe environment where they can speak without being constantly insulted or humiliated.
The Bible says:
📖 “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” — Proverbs 18:21 (KJV)
Our words matter.
A parent may say, “I was only joking.”
But what if that “joke” is slowly destroying your child’s confidence?
A parent may say, “I am disciplining my child.”
But is it really discipline—or are you simply releasing your anger on someone who is smaller and has less power than you?