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Homicide survivors require therapy to avoid trauma, depression – Psychologists

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Mental health experts have stated that witnesses and survivors of gruesome killings are at risk of anxiety and depression, and therefore require therapy to navigate the complex and traumatic experience.

They also noted that persons who repeatedly watch videos of shootings and violent happenings could suffer acute trauma, consequently leading to substance abuse.

The psychologists urged survivors and witnesses to undergo therapy and receive counselling from mental health experts to help them heal from the trauma caused by the event.

The American Psychological Association also highlights counselling, safe communication with children, and mental health support for survivors and witnesses of killings.

In September, about 15 vigilantes and hunters were killed when gunmen invaded the Oke-Ode Community in Ifelodun Local Government Area of Kwara State. In June, over 200 people were killed in the Yelwata area of Benue State, leaving hospitals and medical personnel overwhelmed with taking care of the wounded.

One of the survivors of the Kwara attack, Mrs Gbemisola Muhammed, also known as Yéyé Oge, the widow of a slain hunter, told The PUNCH she considered suicide after losing her husband and relatives to the attack.

Although videos of killings circulating on the internet are not new, the recent rise in gruesome incidents within and outside the country, with clips often shared widely online, emphasises the need for mental health awareness and care, experts say.

The recent viral circulation of graphic videos showing the fatal shooting of American conservative activist Charlie Kirk further highlights the hidden dangers of repeatedly watching such footage and the need for mental health care.

Kirk, 31, was fatally shot on September 10, 2025, while delivering a lecture at Utah Valley University in the United States.

The disturbing video of the incident, which captured the exact moment of impact, quickly flooded social media platforms.

The psychologists cautioned that replaying violent clips and constant exposure to such distressing scenes can lead to trauma, anxiety, emotional numbness or depression.

Speaking with PUNCH Healthwise, a clinical psychologist, Dr Afolabi Aroyewun, has warned that repeatedly watching violent videos, including shootings, can trigger acute trauma, depression, anxiety, substance abuse and even suicidal thoughts among viewers.

Aroyewun, a senior lecturer at the Department of Psychology, University of Lagos, Akoka, said both direct witnesses and those who view such clips are at risk of “acute psychological trauma” with far-reaching consequences.

He said, “Watching someone shoot another person and seeing the victim drop dead triggers acute trauma. It can lead to survivor’s guilt, hypervigilance, emotional detachment, over-processing of the event, and ultimately depression or anxiety. Some viewers may turn to substance abuse to cope with the unresolved trauma, while others develop suicidal ideation.”

The psychologist added that research abroad has shown a 25–30 per cent spike in the use of antidepressants after school shootings, underlining how violence leaves deep psychological scars on communities.

“Young people who have watched such violence often feel unsafe and hopeless,” he said.

Aroyewun further noted that beyond mental health impacts, repeated exposure to graphic violence could affect school performance and life outcomes.

“You start to see increased absenteeism, school dropouts, and poor academic results. Some of these young people end up struggling to maintain jobs or earn decent wages because their education has been disrupted,” he said.

He warned that entire communities also suffer collective trauma, grief, fear and mistrust when violence becomes frequent or widely shared online.

The psychologist urged families and communities to “come out clean” about the emotional and behavioural changes they notice in loved ones exposed to violent events or content to ensure they get the needed help.

“In this part of the world, we don’t see mental health issues as a serious issue. That’s because in Africa, anything we do not understand, we claim to be spiritual. So that’s the issue, but this time around, we need to come out clean for us to get the proper help,” he said.

Also, the Head of Clinical Psychology at Intersect Consortium, Dr Alexander Agara, emphasised the need for counselling for survivors.

“Some people have strong coping skills, and some don’t, but the truth is, they need therapy. If they have adequate psychotherapy, that would at least help prevent flashbacks of the traumatic experiences they have had.

“This would help to stabilise them and prevent it from leading to post-traumatic stress disorder,” Agara said.

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Genevieve Nnaji slams viral tweet urging Igbo men to marry non-Igbo women

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Nollywood icon Genevieve Nnaji has fired off a sharp response after a man on X (formerly Twitter) advised Igbo men to stop marrying Igbo women and instead seek wives from other African countries.

The controversy began after a photo of a Rwandan woman said to be engaged to an Anambra man went viral.

Resharing the image, the user wrote, “Dear Igbo men, instead of marrying an Igbo woman who’ll falsely accuse you of r4ping your daughter, better look outside for a wife.

“Go to East Africa, especially Rwanda, and pick a damsel. They’re all over social media, and you can link up with them.”

Genevieve, who rarely comments on online drama, responded, “In other words, instead of checking yourself and taking accountability, go for the unsuspecting and carry on with your evil. Got it.”

Another user attempted to challenge her, claiming the original tweet was aimed at “false rape accusers” and that Genevieve was avoiding the real issue.

“His tweet was clearly against false rape accusers, but instead of holding the evil women accountable and demanding change, you chose to tweet this?”

But the actress hit back with equal clarity: “The same way a woman can’t tell an abusive man apart from a good one is the same way you shouldn’t say avoid all Igbo women. ‘Not all women’.”

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Don’t handle your family feud like I did, Phyna advises Imisi

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Reality TV star Phyna has offered words of encouragement to fellow Big Brother Naija winner Imisi amid a family feud between the latter and her mother.

In an X post on Monday, Phyna wrote,”To Imisi, @imisiofficial and to anyone walking through the same fire… I’m praying for your strength.

“My own experience broke me, but I’m slowly rising.

“And I’m rooting for you with everything in me, don’t handle it like I did, build strong and focus on you baby girl.”

The post comes against the backdrop of a family dispute in which Imisi’s mother accused her daughter of hatred and revealed the poor condition of the home where she currently lives, despite Imisi winning N150 million after her Big Brother victory.

Imisi replied in Yoruba,”This is why Aunty Debola said you should not show your face to the world. I can’t be saying all that now, you are in the midst of people. Just overlook everything and leave social media.

“Don’t worry, I will send you money to rent a new house. I am tired of all this drama. I am still recovering from the stress of Big Brother.

“Should I be facing another stress now? Please forgive me, I am your daughter.”

Recall Imisi’s mother has publicly expressed frustration on social media, saying she does not need her daughter’s money after being sidelined following the win.

She also blamed Imisi for recounting her childhood experiences, which she claims involve untrue allegations of parental neglect and sexual assault.

In a video, she showed the old house she currently resides in, saying she is content with her situation, a revelation that sparked online controversy.

In 2023, after Phyna’s BBNaija win, her father, Felix Otabor, revealed in an interview that he was distressed by his daughter’s actions following her BBNaija win.

Otabor said Phyna had asked him to stop working as a hearse driver and requested that he sell his cars, promising to improve the family’s life.

He said he later struggled financially after selling the vehicles, losing his business momentum and community position, and has not seen his daughter since her victory.

He described feeling sidelined while she enjoyed her wealth.

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Ned Never Slept Outside Because I Held Him Well In The Other Room – Regina Daniels

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Nollywood actress, Regina Daniels, has opened up about her marriage to her estranged husband, Senator Ned Nwoko.

It was reports that the embattled wife revealed why their seven-year relationship remained faithful despite his polygamous lifestyle.

In a reply to a comment on her Instagram page, Daniels said that during their years together, Nwoko never slept with other women outside their home because she held him well in the other room.

She wrote: “Yes i think he loved me but a toxic one! Because tell me why a polygamous man forgot what it meant to be in polygamy, except for the media.

“Just because it boosted his ego of being seen with multiple women which is easy by me because anyone that sees a man as an odogwu sees the wife as what? He basically had to beg that he share days at ours and other days with his other wives because they begged for his attention.

“Y’all should pls forget this yeye social media comparison because my ex man never slept outside one day in our 7 years of marriage. You know why? Because as a delta babe, I hold am well for the other room ladies use your skills that’s all men want actually!”

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