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In a bid to alleviate the uncertainties and tensions that prevail at the moment, the Federal Government recently announced a notable success rate in its fight against terrorism. They declared that they had recorded an 81 per cent reduction in terror-related deaths since 2015. The figures, said to be based on updates from the Department of State Services, also claimed that in the past year alone, more than 13,000 terrorists have been neutralised while over 124,000 fighters and their dependents have surrendered to authorities. We were also told that more than 2.1 million internally displaced people have been relocated back home from the IDP camps, and reconstruction efforts are ongoing. The government attributed that significant reduction in terror attacks to the improvement of counter-insurgency operations and enhanced collaboration between security agencies and the affected communities.

The figures are good, but Nigeria is not a place where one can simply trust the word of state security agencies. During the tenure of late Muhammadu Buhari, the government also once claimed to have “technically defeated” Boko Haram. Whatever that meant in simple English, only Buhari and his advisers could have understood it enough to explain it to the rest of us. Even more interesting is that the National Security Adviser, Nuhu Ribadu, assured us—just in April last year—that they have successfully reduced terrorism-related deaths by a whopping 90 per cent. How did Ribadu know this to be true? He based his claim on the price of AK-47s on the black market. According to him, the price of those deadly weapons had increased from between N500,000 to N1m in 2023 to about N5m and, and to him, that was an indication that the guns had become scarce due to the frequent government seizures. Perhaps if Ribadu had taken a little more time to think through the gauge he used to assess progress, it would have occurred to him that between 2023 and 2024, Nigeria also witnessed very high rates of inflation that spiked the prices of goods and services. This was, of course, due to the various policies (such as the removal of fuel subsidies and naira devaluation) of the administration in which Ribadu is presently serving. If the price of a bag of rice and other food staples could double or triple, what stops a destructive weapon from similarly responding to market forces?

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Ribadu also based that “90 per cent” claim on the death tolls he claimed had dropped drastically. He said they used to record an average of 2,600 deaths in a month, but the figure had dropped to 200. He also announced that they had prosecuted close to 2,000 terrorists, with many of them convicted. Now, just 18 months later, the same people are now sharing figures that state an 81 per cent reduction in deaths. The more recent claim adds that over 124,000 fighters, along with their dependents, have surrendered to the authorities. Curiously, only 124 (which is a mere 0.1 per cent) have been convicted in the past year. That figure does not align with what Ribadu provided just last year, so have we progressed or regressed? The Global Terrorism Index still ranks Nigeria at number six, placing it in distinguished company alongside countries such as Pakistan, Mali, and others. That is not where we should be after many years of fighting terror. What really does it mean to “neutralise” 13,000 terrorists? What is the afterlife of the “neutralisation” programme and the “surrender” of these supposedly neutered terrorists? Do they return to their villages to beat their guns into farming implements, or do they later backslide for want of more thrilling things to do with their life? The figures of progress the government has been providing for us obscure the truth more than they clarify it.

The meaning of progress should not be morbidly measured by the percentage of deaths or the price of AK-47S, but by generating a vision of a terror-free Nigeria. What is a post-terror Nigeria supposed to look like? For us not to be condemned to circling the mountain of insecurity infinitely, we must reorient ourselves to think beyond death and dying to life and living.

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We must also be able to envision what life ought to look like without terror, banditry, and all the assorted ways Nigerians routinely get killed. All our efforts cannot—and should not—be about stopping deaths but enhancing life. When we get so fixated on how many dead bodies we pick up every month, we not only set a low bar of victory, but we also provide a cheap escape means for those who have the responsibility of reforming Nigeria. Their best efforts will simply be channelled into miscounting the dead just so they can claim some victory. That is why there is a discrepancy between the figures on which the government planks its victory and the actual real-life experiences of Nigerians who are regularly assailed with reports of violence and have to conduct mass burials and/or be moved to IDP camps.

Rather than being locked into an eternal bickering over what is true or false, we should set a different standard. The utopian vision that should motivate the fight against terrorism and other forms of insecurity should not be about the number of dead people but about how Nigerians would live in a post-terror Nigeria. What would our lives look like if we were able to eliminate terror? One thing we know for sure is that life in post-terror Nigeria cannot—and must not—be as we used to live it before all these started. No, we must be able to live much better lives. That, of course, means that the structural factors that gave rise to the present situation must be confronted. We must examine where the rain first began to beat us and continued to beat us.

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Nigeria is currently embroiled in a war, but is also incubating many potential conflicts simultaneously. If you think the terrorists and bandits are already a huge problem, please know that we have not seen anything yet, given the growing number of street urchins growing up outside the civilising force of family and community. This out-of-school population is maturing biologically, but is uneducated, unskilled, and unprepared for life. At a point, they will turn against the country that failed them, and we will never progress beyond counting dead bodies and pricing AK-47S. We must think differently about our problems and their solutions. The mindset that created these problems cannot solve them; we must consider the wholesale regeneration of our society, which has become stagnant and stale.

The endpoint of fighting insecurity in Nigeria must not be an endless chasing after the disillusioned people who have finally found a moral purpose that redeems their otherwise humdrum existence to disarm them. The goal must be to envision a new life full of abundant possibilities for Nigerians. We must stop thinking of death and start working towards making life. Our motivation for fighting insecurity should not be about reducing deaths by spurious percentages but about creating a life where people can flourish. People must have hope, faith, and the ability to exercise their free will. Our people in every part of the country must be able to live securely, in dignity and freedom, and with fear banished. We must be able to imagine ourselves living like the free and dignified subjects God made us to be, not the perennially pitiable subjects who are either dying or warding off death.

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Frank Edoho and estranged wife spill dirty extra-marital secrets

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Popular television host and media personality, Frank Edoho, has fired back at allegations of infidelity and financial irresponsibility levelled against him by his estranged wife, Sandra Onyenucheya, amid the messy online fallout trailing their failed marriage.

Speaking on the controversy after Sandra publicly accused him of cheating, emotional abuse and abandoning his responsibilities as a father, Edoho claimed that her alleged relationship with singer, Chike, was one of the final straws that led to the collapse of the marriage.

According to him, he initially attempted to salvage the relationship for the sake of their children despite allegedly discovering evidence of an affair between Sandra and the singer.

“Since December 2022 till January last year (2025), that news that came out is very true. I approached that stupid guy because this is my second marriage. I asked him if he knew who I was and he was shaking like a leaf. I asked him what he was doing with my wife. He had a serious girlfriend he was engaged to, Precious.

“I told him that if my wife was stupid enough to cheat on her husband, why would he encourage it? He said, ‘Is that what she told you?’ and I told him I have the recordings of him talking to my wife. I told him I have two boys with this woman and I want to raise them. Leave this woman alone and maybe, she will come to her senses. I will overlook it and take one for my sons but they continued,” he said.

Edoho further alleged that Sandra actively encouraged the relationship with the singer despite his efforts to preserve the marriage.

“In the audio, she was the one encouraging the guy. I don’t know what I did to deserve that. I sent her to school in 2010 and 2011 and I said she should do a business. We settled for interior design, and I found her first carpenter for her. I raised everything and studied interior design photography because of her for four years.

“I was doing all that for my wife until I raised her to the point that trouble started. She felt she was big and started an affair with this guy,” he added.

The veteran broadcaster also revealed that there was a period he walked away from the marriage for about three months before Sandra persuaded him to return.

Speaking further on the divorce proceedings, Edoho claimed Sandra initiated legal action after discovering that he had moved on emotionally.

“There was a point when she saw that I had moved on and she saw me with a beautiful girl and she took me to court that she wants a divorce. It was just like anger.

“She was asking me to pay her N4m every month for the children’s upkeep and I said that it’s not happening. When I brought my evidence to court, the judge just said please, you know there are children involved,” he said.

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He also stated that he will release evidences to back up his claims. He explained that he had used a technology to secretly record her calls with Chike after she promised to not return. In some of the audios which leaked online, Sandra admitted that the divorce was not Edoho’s fault.

Meanwhile, in an earlier call with Saturday Beats, Edoho had declined further public engagement over the controversies trailing the collapse of the second marriage

He had said, “I am not going to grant any interview because what is the gain for me in talking to PUNCH about my life?” he said.

The media personality also reacted briefly to claims made by his estranged wife regarding allegations of infidelity and financial responsibility during their marriage. Laughing off the claims, he said, “Indeed. And I left her two years ago and she is still sponsoring. Don’t worry, let people have that perspective.”

One X user identified as Danny of Owerri stirred further conversations when he pointed out that singer, Chike, had an affair with Edoho’s estranged wife.

“But why would Chike sleep with Frank Edoho’s wife. Why? I use to see Chike as a responsible guy,” the user wrote.

Reacting to the outpouring of sympathy from fans, Edoho revealed that he and Sandra had already been separated for almost two years before the current online uproar.

“I truly appreciate the empathy. While I understand that the public is only just becoming aware of this chapter, I have lived through it privately for quite some time now(almost 2 years) and have since made peace with it emotionally,” he stated.

Meanwhile, social media users continued to dissect online activities involving Sandra and Chike after both parties shared the same love themed song on Friday. The song, titled, “You’re The Closest To Heaven,” by an Australian singer, sparked speculation among fans who interpreted the posts as subtle messaging amid the controversy.

Attention also shifted to an earlier interview granted by Chike on The Unpack Podcast hosted by NAY, where the singer spoke about his preference for older women in relationships.

As conversations intensified online, Sandra also took to her Instagram page on Thursday, May 15, 2026, to share her side of the story in a lengthy post titled, “Surviving A Bitch Ass Nigga, Frank Edoho.”

In the post, she accused Edoho of infidelity, emotional abuse, neglect and financial irresponsibility during their marriage.

“Choosing to remain silent may give mixed signals to the narrative that a sadist and narcissist peddles, making everyone believe he is a victim.

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“Choosing to marry a man, raising our beautiful kids, single handedly building and growing a successful design business and giving myself wholly, undiluted and faithful through and through!

“Until you decided that while I am pregnant with our first child, you would rather have a prolonged affair that lasted years with an actress, Mbong Amata amongst other women.

“Where do I even begin? The nights crying on the floor begging that you see me, with you walking out and not returning for days!”

She further alleged that Edoho discouraged her from keeping their second child and accused him of abandoning his responsibilities as a father.

“Or the days you tormented me to abort our second child because you were in numerous relationships and not ready to be a father?!

“Throughout the emotional, physiological, mental and physical torture and abuse, I stayed committed, faithful, shielding you, carrying like egg. But you are a shell. Washed up and dried out. You live for validation of the Internet. So enjoy your 10 seconds of pity party.

“A dead beat! That is exactly what you are. I singlehandedly sponsored your lavish lifestyle.

“I singlehandedly paid all your bills, the trips, business class tickets, 5 star hotels, luxury trips, all the home bills including that of the other children from your previously failed marriage. I took your mum abroad to the United States, and she lived in my parent’s home for years! I tried to cover you.

“Have you ever paid school fees? Have you ever? All you did was abuse the financial access you had to my funds. Squandering my money on prostitutes and loose women.”

Sandra also named and tagged several women she alleged Edoho was romantically involved with during their marriage.

“So many numerous transactions in Lekki hotels, air bnb, lounges and bars. Sold my property without my permission for chicken change and still squandered the earnings from it within one week! On different girls. Documented evidence dey! Chai!

“Disappearing for weeks on end! With loose women and whores like Adaeze Ugboaja at The Hardrock Cafe, or is it Tega Dominic @its_tegadominic the BBNaija girl, or is it Amaka Okeke @diaryofalionqueen, whom you claimed you were trying to get endorsement and sponsorship for Who Wants To Be A Millionaire who you brought into our home to sleep with on our matrimonial bed?

“Or is it the smelling prostitutes whom you led into our home? Where I had to video record you escorting her to the gate! Or is it the whore you had on your Snapchat frolicking in her bikini snapping with your own phone while you were there blowing kisses to her?”

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Explaining why she eventually walked away from the marriage, Sandra maintained that she remained faithful throughout the relationship but eventually decided to prioritise herself and her wellbeing.

“Where do I start? Where do I begin?

“I was a great wife, a faithful wife to the core.

“But a time comes when a woman must choose herself. I chose myself and walked away, filed for divorce too. As an adult woman, I am free to be friends with and date whomever I please. Please, move on with your life. To family and friends who have walked this journey with me and know the truth, thank you for your prayers and support,” she added.

Meanwhile, the women she called out debunked having any form of romantic relationship with Edoho.

Debunking the allegations, Okeke wrote on Instagram, “Over the past few hours, my name has been wrongly linked to false and baseless allegations currently circulating online.

For clarity, Frank Edoho and I met in 2024 on strictly business related matters and only became good friends in May 2025 when he was dealing with a personal matter which I will not bring up here for privacy reasons. Any narrative beyond this is completely untrue.

I am deeply disappointed to see my name attached to narratives that are malicious, baseless, and entirely inaccurate.

I kindly ask that people refrain from spreading unverified claims that may harm individuals, families, and reputations.

I remain focused on my work and will not be engaging further on this matter. My legal team have been informed accordingly and will take action in due course. Thank you to everyone who has reached out with support.”

Tega Dominic also posted a cryptic message on Instagram: “It’s all cap,” she wrote.

Sandra Onyenucheya is a Nigerian entrepreneur and interior designer known for her luxury interior brand, Vivabella Designs and VivabellaHome. Through her social media pages, she frequently shares projects, luxury home inspirations and travels across different countries in search of premium interior pieces and designs.

Edoho, on the other hand, remains one of Nigeria’s most recognisable television personalities. He gained widespread fame as the host of the Nigerian edition of Who Wants To Be A Millionaire and has also worked in broadcasting, events hosting and media production for decades.

This is not Edoho’s first failed marriage. Before his union with Sandra, he was married to broadcaster, Katherine Obiang. The marriage produced children before the couple eventually separated years ago. Their split also generated public attention at the time, though both parties later moved on with their lives privately.

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“I crossed Seme border on foot”, Dele Momodu recalls exile ordeal

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CEO and publisher of Ovation International Magazine, Dele Momodu, has given an account of his flight from Nigeria during the Sani Abacha military era.

He described crossing into Cotonou on foot in the early hours of the morning and weeping twice, once leaving his infant son behind, and again upon arriving in Benin Republic with no certainty of survival.

Momodu spoke on Morayo Afolabi-Brown’s programme, the Morayo Show on Wednesday, reflecting on what the experience cost him and what it ultimately produced.

He said his first son was less than a year old and lying beside his wife when he left, and that the weight of the moment was almost unbearable.

“The morning I was leaving, my first son was less than one year old. He was just lying beside my wife and I was looking at this innocent child and I was crying,” Momodu said.

He said he then made his way across the border alone and on foot, with no guarantee of what awaited him.

“I travelled by foot through the Seme border into Cotonou very early in the morning,” he said.

The grief did not stop there. He said arriving in Cotonou brought a fresh wave of uncertainty rather than relief.

“When I got to Cotonou, I started crying again because I wasn’t sure, where am I going? When will I get there? Will I get there? When will I come back? Will I come alive?

“I had this stream of consciousness, as we put it in literature, and it was just going through my mind,” Momodu said.

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He said the exile, which lasted from 1995 to 1998, had ultimately shaped everything that followed, including the founding of Ovation magazine and his decades of involvement in Nigerian public life.

“If I had not gone on that journey, there will be no Ovation today,” he said.

Momodu, who holds a bachelor’s degree in Yoruba and a master’s degree in English literature from Obafemi Awolowo University, said he drew on that period whenever people questioned his commitment to Nigeria’s democratic project.

He noted that he had shared the exile experience with Tinubu, the same man he now opposed in the political arena, but that the ordeal had not softened his conviction that Nigeria needed genuine opposition.

“I was in exile from 1995 to 1998 and I know what we went through. But I refused to join APC only for one reason, we must maintain that democracy which we suffered for,” he said.

Momodu added that hardship was not new to him, disclosing that he lost his father at 13 and began working odd jobs and teaching in his village before eventually rising to national prominence.

“That’s how I rose to where I am today,” he said.

Momodu had fled Nigeria on 22 July 1995, after his wife received a tip-off that security operatives were looking for him.

He had been accused of being one of the brains behind Radio Freedom, a pirate radio station that later became Radio Kudirat.

The accusation was tied to his open support for MKO Abiola, the presumed winner of the annulled June 12, 1993 presidential election, and his pro-democracy activities under the Abacha regime.

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From Cotonou, he made his way through Togo and Ghana before eventually reaching the United Kingdom, where he remained for three years.

While in London, he collaborated with fellow NADECO exiles including Bola Tinubu, working to publicise the regime’s human rights abuses and advance the cause of restoring civilian rule. It was during this period, in April 1996, that he founded Ovation International.

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Guinness World Record reacts to BBNaija Queen’s bread-inspired outfit at the 12th AMVCA

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Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Queen Mercy Atang, may be heading for a global record conversation after Guinness World Records reacted to her viral bread-inspired outfit worn at the 12th edition of the Africa Magic Viewers’ Choice Awards.

In a video shared on her Instagram page on Sunday, Guinness World Records reacted in the comment section saying, “Well, we do have a record for the largest cake dress … hmmm.”

Former Big Brother Naija Housemate, Queen Atang in her bread outfit at the 12th edition of AMVCA in Lagos…Photo Credit: Ig/ QueenMercyAtang

Reacting to the comment, the reality star wrote, “Hello @guinnessworldrecords, I see you in the comment section”

The development has further amplified conversations around her unconventional AMVCA appearance, which has continued to dominate social media and fashion discussions days after the event.

According to Guinness World Records, the current record for the world’s largest wearable cake dress stands at 131.15kg (289lb 13oz).

The record was achieved by Natasha Coline Kim Fah Lee Fokas of SweetyCakes GmbH in Bern, Switzerland, on January 15, 2023.

Former Big Brother Naija Housemate, Queen Atang in her bread outfit at the 12th edition of AMVCA in Lagos…Photo Credit: Ig/ QueenMercyAtang

Queen’s bread-themed costume had earlier sparked widespread reactions online after she appeared on the AMVCA red carpet dressed in an outfit designed to resemble loaves of bread, complete with a matching prop.

Explaining the inspiration behind the look, Queen said the outfit reflected her entrepreneurial journey in the food business.

“AMVCA 2026 ready. I come as an entrepreneur who runs a bread EMPIRE,” she wrote at the time, referencing her bakery brand.

Former Big Brother Naija Housemate, Queen Atang in her bread outfit at the 12th edition of AMVCA in Lagos…Photo Credit: Ig/ QueenMercyAtang

On Monday, the reality star also proposed the introduction of a special entrepreneurs-focused event at the AMVCA.

In an open letter addressed to MultiChoice Group and Africa Magic, she wrote, “Just a thought, since we already have the AMVCA Cultural Day and other special events before the main award night, would it be possible to create a special night dedicated to entrepreneurs in Nigeria to showcase their brands, creativity, and impact?

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“Imagine AMVCA Nigerian Entrepreneurs Night. Massive, classy, and inspiring.”

The bread dress has since attracted international attention, with foreign fashion influencers and media platforms reportedly discussing the concept.

Former Big Brother Naija Housemate, Queen Atang in her bread outfit at the 12th edition of AMVCA in Lagos…Photo Credit: Ig/ QueenMercyAtang

The trend has also inspired several entrepreneurs online, many of whom have used AI-generated designs to recreate brand-themed outfits and AMVCA-inspired fashion concepts.

While some Nigerians criticised the outfit as excessive, others, including PR and branding experts, described it as a strategic marketing move that successfully drew global attention to her business.

PUNCH Online had earlier reported that Queen’s appearance at the AMVCA generated mixed reactions, with videos from the red carpet showing her adjusting the elaborate outfit while interacting with guests and posing for photographs.

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