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I was once homeless in US — Nigerian-American politician

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A Nigerian-American tech expert and politician, Dr Juliet Agocha, tells BIODUN BUSARI about her childhood aspirations, challenges growing up, and current political ambition, among others

Why are you planning to run for an elective position?

To be very clear, I’m running to become the next councilwoman for District 4 in Prince George’s County Council in Maryland. My vision is what drives my political ambition, which is to serve my community. I want to be an advocate for families here in Prince George’s County.

What leadership experience do you have?

I have over 18 years of experience in leadership. I am the founder and the Chief Executive Officer of Ultimate Tech. It is a technology company situated here in Prince George’s County, and what we do is provide technology services. I founded that organisation during the pandemic when people battled uncertainties and were not clear on what direction to take. There was a lot of chaos, so in the midst of chaos, I transformed what was supposed to be dramatic into technology to solve problems. Secondly, I am the founder of One Voice Empower Her, a nonprofit organisation for women. I use the charity to serve people, empower women and girls, and lead with clarity, collaboration, resilience, and build a stronger America. I have both corporate and political experience before I came to run for this political position. I’m also the current Vice Chairperson Policy Council for Early Childhood Education for the Lawyers Centre. So, all my life I’ve just been serving and leading people.

What are the focal points of your campaign?

My campaign is focused on three major priorities. One is affordable housing. I want to share with you today that I was once homeless for two weeks in 2009, and that experience built me. That experience shaped who I am today. But it will surprise you to know that not much has changed in the housing programmes here in Prince George’s County from 2009 to 2025. Not much has changed. So, I am focusing on affordable housing, because housing is everything that we here in Prince George’s County is where we start with. Housing means stability. It provides safety and opportunity.

The second thing I’m fighting for is quality education for our children. I’m fighting for this because I’m very passionate about it. Education is how we keep our children out of trouble. When a child’s mind is not well occupied with good resources, they can become a problem in the community. So, I’m fighting for quality education because every child in Prince George’s County deserves access to quality education, no matter their zip code. And the third thing I’m fighting for here is a safe community. I want a safe community because we can’t continue to have the kind of chaos and crime that we have right now.

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Are there problems confronting aged people that drive your campaign for a safe community for them?

We owe them accountability, transparency, and action. And that’s what I’m bringing. I’m bringing programmes that support our seniors’ health care and to have a safe neighbourhood. Our seniors’ homes should not be robbed by maintenance people. So, I am here to support programmes that will place our seniors first. This is because our seniors need homes and a place connected with value and dignity. I’m here to fight for our seniors because they have paved the way for us. Their wisdom has paved the way for us. And they have fought for many assets that brought us where we are today. They are a very important piece of my campaign because I feel that we owe them action, not words.

You mentioned you were once homeless. How did that happen?

Well, it’s a long story, but to make it short, what happened was that I could not afford a house at that time. What is home when access is limited? What is the benefit of building new programmes and new housing when they are ridiculously expensive? So, I was homeless because I was not able to pay. The job I had at that time was not able to provide me with a one-bedroom apartment. For that reason, I wasn’t able to provide that and also keep up with my education, a student loan, and everything that I had to deal with. The affordability of houses became a challenge for me. And that is why I am very passionate about affordable housing here in Prince George’s County, because no family should experience what I experienced. No family should be able to choose between food and where to lay their head. No family should be put in that situation where they have to give up something just to have a home to sleep.

Did you face homelessness alone or with your family?

At that time, I was not married and had no children. And I thank God because if I were married with children, I don’t know how I could have handled it. So, I was able to handle it with resilience because I was single at that time. Think about it for families who have children, who have parents living with them, like aged parents. Imagine how they could handle that situation. So, it wasn’t able to break me because at that time, I didn’t have children. I was just worried about myself. But regardless of that, I was handling it by myself.

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How did you overcome that challenge?

It was a combination of both sleeping on the street and squatting with someone for those two weeks. I felt like I was not treated with respect. I was not treated with empathy. And that is what I’m fighting for. I remember I was going from McDonald’s stores, just trying to get something to eat because McDonald’s at that time was one of the most affordable places to eat a burger or chicken nugget. But people wouldn’t know that I was homeless because of how I handled it. Sometimes I went to Walmart to see if I could afford a cookie to buy. Access to phones and social media was very limited at that time. I didn’t have all the resources with me. However, a good Samaritan found me and accommodated me after I shared my situation with her, and she helped me until I was able to find a place for myself.

When did you relocate to the US?

I moved from Nigeria to the United States at a very early age. And I came here to study. I got admission to the University of Maryland. I was very excited. It was just a very sweet story. Being a young girl at that time, I came with big dreams for myself. And I needed an advanced education for the kind of dreams I had for myself. And I think right now all those dreams are playing out. I also want to say thank you to America for providing me with a lot of essential resources to help me succeed. This is a very working country. The law is working. I’m grateful for the opportunities that have been provided to me here to excel and to be where I am today. I am an immigrant, but fighting for these people passionately. I want every family to succeed and flourish.

How has your academic background shaped your dreams?

I’m into information technology. To be quite honest with you, I was like the black sheep of the family back in the day because at that time, technology was not like this. Technology was like one of the things that nobody would talk about, but at that time, I had the vision of where my future was headed. I knew that we would get to where innovation would be prominent in every decision. My family wanted me to become a medical doctor or a nurse. They just told me to be in healthcare because my family is very centred in healthcare. However, I went my own direction into technology, so I got my associate’s degree in information technology. I got my master’s degree in cybersecurity, and then I went ahead and got my PhD in leadership with an emphasis in business management. Right now, academically, I feel very fulfilled and accomplished, but I still have work to do for my community with all this knowledge and education. I have tremendous experience and life lessons to pour into this trip forward.

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What is significant about Maryland as one of the popular abodes of African-Americans?

I would say Maryland is my great state. I’m very proud to be a Marylander. Maryland is rooted in a very deep historical black. It is for black and brown communities, and we carry a very strong history of generations from the struggle of slavery to the triumph of civil rights leaders that we have today. Maryland is a place for everyone, a state that accommodates immigrants. It also has a very strong educational foundation. It is very vibrant in cultural heritage and festivals, local businesses, and tradition. Maryland gives residents unique opportunities to engage and influence national decisions. It is a state for anyone who wants to flourish, and I feel very proud to be part of the history that we are making here.

What are your thoughts about Nigeria?

Nigeria is a country full of potential. I’m a proud Nigerian. I was born in Nigeria, so I have a deep love and passion for my country. I love our food, Jollof rice, culture, and I love being in Nigeria. I will clearly say that Nigeria has incredible potential, but leadership often struggles with corruption and short-term thinking. In my opinion, Nigerian leaders have a very short-term perspective. The country needs visionary leaders who empower the youth and hold themselves accountable. I feel like that is lacking within the Nigerian leadership. The country needs leaders who prioritise education. A country that is not educated is heading for doom. There are natural and human resources, so Nigeria needs leaders to blend these resources for the people to flourish. I must state that we need leaders who know transparency, trust, and building trust between leaders and citizens for sustainable progress and national unity. I think we need that in Nigeria.

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‘I have cancer,’ Nollywood actress Cynthia Anijekwu cries, calls for support

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Nollywood actress Cynthia Anijekwu has made an emotional appeal to Nigerians for financial assistance after revealing that she is battling cancer for the second time.

In a video circulating on social media on Tuesday, the actress disclosed that she was first diagnosed with cancer in 2023, when she underwent surgery followed by chemotherapy in a bid to halt the disease.

She maintained that doctors initially managed the condition after the treatment, but the cancer later returned and has since spread to her bones, requiring more intensive care, including radiation therapy and another surgery.

According to Anijekwu, recent medical examinations revealed that the cancer has spread to her bones, significantly increasing the cost and complexity of her treatment up to N600,000 every month.

The actress said doctors have recommended radiation therapy and another surgery as part of her ongoing care.

“I have cancer in 2023 (sic). I did my surgery and took chemotherapy, but later it came back again. I’ve been in and out of the hospital. The doctor recently told me it has reached my bones, and the treatment is now much more expensive,” she said.

“I need to live. I need to survive. I’m asking Nigerians to please help me. Anyone that can help, please, I need help. Even my hands have swollen. The cancer has affected both breasts. I need to live. Please help me. I need to survive.

“Your one naira, your two naira can add up to something reasonable for me to get the proper treatment for this cancer. I’m begging you, please help me,” she pleaded.

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Before her health challenge became public, Anijekwu built her career in Nollywood, featuring in several English- and Igbo-language productions.

However, there is no publicly verifiable record identifying a major blockbuster film or comprehensive filmography associated with the actress, as public attention has largely shifted to her battle with cancer in recent years.

The actress said the financial burden has become overwhelming for her family, prompting her to seek help from members of the public.

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It’s not easy, surrogate mother shares emotional journey

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A masked Nigerian surrogate mother has opened up about how financial hardship and what she described as an irresponsible partner led her to become a surrogate, saying the decision came after the loss of her second child.

The woman disclosed this during a new episode on Cruise TV published on YouTube on Sunday, where she recounted the emotional, financial and psychological realities of carrying children for other families.

She said becoming a surrogate was one of the hardest decisions she had ever made, describing the emotional attachment that develops during pregnancy despite knowing the child does not belong to her.

“Emotionally it’s not easy. Even when I started the journey, when the pregnancy was three months, I called my nurse that I don’t think I can cope again because it’s not easy to carry what is not yours.

“When you start having the emotional attachment, you keep reminding yourself that this is not mine. I tell myself it is a job, and that helps me cope, but the emotions still come and go.”

The woman explained that she became a gestational surrogate through IVF, meaning she had no biological connection to the babies she carried.

Speaking on what pushed her into surrogacy, she said her partner failed to provide for the family despite her efforts to support them.

“I had my first child. Unfortunately, my husband is not the person that is hardworking and he doesn’t take responsibility. I do work. There is no work I cannot do.

“When I became pregnant the second time, I could no longer work. We couldn’t even afford hospital bills.”

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She said complications during the pregnancy eventually led to the death of the baby, an experience that changed her outlook.

“That baby died, and that was the reason I made that decision. Instead of giving him another baby, I would rather help people who have the money to take care of me.

“If you don’t have the money to care for my health, I won’t do it for you.”

She disclosed that she initially declined financial compensation beyond medical care, accommodation and allowances, a decision she now regrets.

“I told them I didn’t want any compensation aside from the process, monthly allowance, wardrobe allowance and accommodation fee, but that was a mistake.

“I won’t do it again,” she said.

The surrogate mother also said she would not encourage her daughter to follow the same path because of the emotional and health risks involved.

“I cannot advise my daughter to be a surrogate.”

She added that she relocated during one of her pregnancies to avoid stigma and often told people the baby had died whenever they asked questions.

According to her, surrogate mothers also face psychological challenges after delivery despite undergoing counselling before and after childbirth.

While acknowledging that surrogacy has helped many couples struggling with infertility, she maintained that the process is far more demanding than many people realise.

“Surrogacy is not as simple as people think.”

She called for stronger regulation of the practice to protect surrogate mothers from exploitation and ensure adequate emotional and financial support.

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I waited 18 years before welcoming twins – Nollywood star Ricardo Agbor

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Veteran Nollywood actor, Ricardo Agbor, has opened up about his 18-year journey to parenthood, revealing that he and his wife waited nearly two decades before welcoming their twins.

The actor disclosed this during an interview with AfricanAList published on Sunday, where he reflected on his marriage, faith and the challenges he faced before becoming a father.

Agbor said he remained committed to his wife throughout the period, despite the long wait for children.

“I wanted to get married to a particular lady; I married her regardless of where she is from. She is not from my tribe. So ordinarily, we were supposed to have strife; no, it was very fair,” he said.

Speaking about the couple’s struggle with childlessness, the actor said he specifically prayed for twins and refused to give up despite waiting for 18 years.

“It took 18 years for me to have the twins. And I waited. God knows, 18 years and they are 14 now, so I told God I wanted twins.

“So while that wait was on, if it were someone else, he would cross. But at the end of the day, I have twins. I have a boy and a girl. I asked God what I wanted,” he added.

Agbor also recounted what he described as the most painful experience of his life — the death of his mother.

According to him, she had been receiving treatment for about three weeks without any improvement before doctors advised that she should be flown to South Africa for further medical care.

The actor said his mother requested to be moved to another private hospital in Surulere, but she died in his arms while he was helping her into the car.

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“My mom died right in my arms. At the hospital, they were bringing almost 10 doctors to do tests… the sickness was not improving after almost three weeks.

“It was after three weeks that they told me to come and carry my mom and take her to South Africa. I took my mom away and took her to another private hospital within Surulere. It was my mom that told me to take her away from that place. As I was carrying her into the car, she gave up,” he said.

Agbor said the loss left him devastated, noting that it was the first time he had cried outside acting.

“I think that was the first time I cried in my life. I don’t cry. If I cry, maybe it is in a movie and it is a role. So I cried. It was painful,” he added.

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