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Don’t handle your family feud like I did, Phyna advises Imisi

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Reality TV star Phyna has offered words of encouragement to fellow Big Brother Naija winner Imisi amid a family feud between the latter and her mother.

In an X post on Monday, Phyna wrote,”To Imisi, @imisiofficial and to anyone walking through the same fire… I’m praying for your strength.

“My own experience broke me, but I’m slowly rising.

“And I’m rooting for you with everything in me, don’t handle it like I did, build strong and focus on you baby girl.”

The post comes against the backdrop of a family dispute in which Imisi’s mother accused her daughter of hatred and revealed the poor condition of the home where she currently lives, despite Imisi winning N150 million after her Big Brother victory.

Imisi replied in Yoruba,”This is why Aunty Debola said you should not show your face to the world. I can’t be saying all that now, you are in the midst of people. Just overlook everything and leave social media.

“Don’t worry, I will send you money to rent a new house. I am tired of all this drama. I am still recovering from the stress of Big Brother.

“Should I be facing another stress now? Please forgive me, I am your daughter.”

Recall Imisi’s mother has publicly expressed frustration on social media, saying she does not need her daughter’s money after being sidelined following the win.

She also blamed Imisi for recounting her childhood experiences, which she claims involve untrue allegations of parental neglect and sexual assault.

In a video, she showed the old house she currently resides in, saying she is content with her situation, a revelation that sparked online controversy.

In 2023, after Phyna’s BBNaija win, her father, Felix Otabor, revealed in an interview that he was distressed by his daughter’s actions following her BBNaija win.

Otabor said Phyna had asked him to stop working as a hearse driver and requested that he sell his cars, promising to improve the family’s life.

He said he later struggled financially after selling the vehicles, losing his business momentum and community position, and has not seen his daughter since her victory.

He described feeling sidelined while she enjoyed her wealth.

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Genevieve Nnaji slams viral tweet urging Igbo men to marry non-Igbo women

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Nollywood icon Genevieve Nnaji has fired off a sharp response after a man on X (formerly Twitter) advised Igbo men to stop marrying Igbo women and instead seek wives from other African countries.

The controversy began after a photo of a Rwandan woman said to be engaged to an Anambra man went viral.

Resharing the image, the user wrote, “Dear Igbo men, instead of marrying an Igbo woman who’ll falsely accuse you of r4ping your daughter, better look outside for a wife.

“Go to East Africa, especially Rwanda, and pick a damsel. They’re all over social media, and you can link up with them.”

Genevieve, who rarely comments on online drama, responded, “In other words, instead of checking yourself and taking accountability, go for the unsuspecting and carry on with your evil. Got it.”

Another user attempted to challenge her, claiming the original tweet was aimed at “false rape accusers” and that Genevieve was avoiding the real issue.

“His tweet was clearly against false rape accusers, but instead of holding the evil women accountable and demanding change, you chose to tweet this?”

But the actress hit back with equal clarity: “The same way a woman can’t tell an abusive man apart from a good one is the same way you shouldn’t say avoid all Igbo women. ‘Not all women’.”

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Ned Never Slept Outside Because I Held Him Well In The Other Room – Regina Daniels

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Nollywood actress, Regina Daniels, has opened up about her marriage to her estranged husband, Senator Ned Nwoko.

It was reports that the embattled wife revealed why their seven-year relationship remained faithful despite his polygamous lifestyle.

In a reply to a comment on her Instagram page, Daniels said that during their years together, Nwoko never slept with other women outside their home because she held him well in the other room.

She wrote: “Yes i think he loved me but a toxic one! Because tell me why a polygamous man forgot what it meant to be in polygamy, except for the media.

“Just because it boosted his ego of being seen with multiple women which is easy by me because anyone that sees a man as an odogwu sees the wife as what? He basically had to beg that he share days at ours and other days with his other wives because they begged for his attention.

“Y’all should pls forget this yeye social media comparison because my ex man never slept outside one day in our 7 years of marriage. You know why? Because as a delta babe, I hold am well for the other room ladies use your skills that’s all men want actually!”

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I was once homeless in US — Nigerian-American politician

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A Nigerian-American tech expert and politician, Dr Juliet Agocha, tells BIODUN BUSARI about her childhood aspirations, challenges growing up, and current political ambition, among others

Why are you planning to run for an elective position?

To be very clear, I’m running to become the next councilwoman for District 4 in Prince George’s County Council in Maryland. My vision is what drives my political ambition, which is to serve my community. I want to be an advocate for families here in Prince George’s County.

What leadership experience do you have?

I have over 18 years of experience in leadership. I am the founder and the Chief Executive Officer of Ultimate Tech. It is a technology company situated here in Prince George’s County, and what we do is provide technology services. I founded that organisation during the pandemic when people battled uncertainties and were not clear on what direction to take. There was a lot of chaos, so in the midst of chaos, I transformed what was supposed to be dramatic into technology to solve problems. Secondly, I am the founder of One Voice Empower Her, a nonprofit organisation for women. I use the charity to serve people, empower women and girls, and lead with clarity, collaboration, resilience, and build a stronger America. I have both corporate and political experience before I came to run for this political position. I’m also the current Vice Chairperson Policy Council for Early Childhood Education for the Lawyers Centre. So, all my life I’ve just been serving and leading people.

What are the focal points of your campaign?

My campaign is focused on three major priorities. One is affordable housing. I want to share with you today that I was once homeless for two weeks in 2009, and that experience built me. That experience shaped who I am today. But it will surprise you to know that not much has changed in the housing programmes here in Prince George’s County from 2009 to 2025. Not much has changed. So, I am focusing on affordable housing, because housing is everything that we here in Prince George’s County is where we start with. Housing means stability. It provides safety and opportunity.

The second thing I’m fighting for is quality education for our children. I’m fighting for this because I’m very passionate about it. Education is how we keep our children out of trouble. When a child’s mind is not well occupied with good resources, they can become a problem in the community. So, I’m fighting for quality education because every child in Prince George’s County deserves access to quality education, no matter their zip code. And the third thing I’m fighting for here is a safe community. I want a safe community because we can’t continue to have the kind of chaos and crime that we have right now.

Are there problems confronting aged people that drive your campaign for a safe community for them?

We owe them accountability, transparency, and action. And that’s what I’m bringing. I’m bringing programmes that support our seniors’ health care and to have a safe neighbourhood. Our seniors’ homes should not be robbed by maintenance people. So, I am here to support programmes that will place our seniors first. This is because our seniors need homes and a place connected with value and dignity. I’m here to fight for our seniors because they have paved the way for us. Their wisdom has paved the way for us. And they have fought for many assets that brought us where we are today. They are a very important piece of my campaign because I feel that we owe them action, not words.

You mentioned you were once homeless. How did that happen?

Well, it’s a long story, but to make it short, what happened was that I could not afford a house at that time. What is home when access is limited? What is the benefit of building new programmes and new housing when they are ridiculously expensive? So, I was homeless because I was not able to pay. The job I had at that time was not able to provide me with a one-bedroom apartment. For that reason, I wasn’t able to provide that and also keep up with my education, a student loan, and everything that I had to deal with. The affordability of houses became a challenge for me. And that is why I am very passionate about affordable housing here in Prince George’s County, because no family should experience what I experienced. No family should be able to choose between food and where to lay their head. No family should be put in that situation where they have to give up something just to have a home to sleep.

Did you face homelessness alone or with your family?

At that time, I was not married and had no children. And I thank God because if I were married with children, I don’t know how I could have handled it. So, I was able to handle it with resilience because I was single at that time. Think about it for families who have children, who have parents living with them, like aged parents. Imagine how they could handle that situation. So, it wasn’t able to break me because at that time, I didn’t have children. I was just worried about myself. But regardless of that, I was handling it by myself.

How did you overcome that challenge?

It was a combination of both sleeping on the street and squatting with someone for those two weeks. I felt like I was not treated with respect. I was not treated with empathy. And that is what I’m fighting for. I remember I was going from McDonald’s stores, just trying to get something to eat because McDonald’s at that time was one of the most affordable places to eat a burger or chicken nugget. But people wouldn’t know that I was homeless because of how I handled it. Sometimes I went to Walmart to see if I could afford a cookie to buy. Access to phones and social media was very limited at that time. I didn’t have all the resources with me. However, a good Samaritan found me and accommodated me after I shared my situation with her, and she helped me until I was able to find a place for myself.

When did you relocate to the US?

I moved from Nigeria to the United States at a very early age. And I came here to study. I got admission to the University of Maryland. I was very excited. It was just a very sweet story. Being a young girl at that time, I came with big dreams for myself. And I needed an advanced education for the kind of dreams I had for myself. And I think right now all those dreams are playing out. I also want to say thank you to America for providing me with a lot of essential resources to help me succeed. This is a very working country. The law is working. I’m grateful for the opportunities that have been provided to me here to excel and to be where I am today. I am an immigrant, but fighting for these people passionately. I want every family to succeed and flourish.

How has your academic background shaped your dreams?

I’m into information technology. To be quite honest with you, I was like the black sheep of the family back in the day because at that time, technology was not like this. Technology was like one of the things that nobody would talk about, but at that time, I had the vision of where my future was headed. I knew that we would get to where innovation would be prominent in every decision. My family wanted me to become a medical doctor or a nurse. They just told me to be in healthcare because my family is very centred in healthcare. However, I went my own direction into technology, so I got my associate’s degree in information technology. I got my master’s degree in cybersecurity, and then I went ahead and got my PhD in leadership with an emphasis in business management. Right now, academically, I feel very fulfilled and accomplished, but I still have work to do for my community with all this knowledge and education. I have tremendous experience and life lessons to pour into this trip forward.

What is significant about Maryland as one of the popular abodes of African-Americans?

I would say Maryland is my great state. I’m very proud to be a Marylander. Maryland is rooted in a very deep historical black. It is for black and brown communities, and we carry a very strong history of generations from the struggle of slavery to the triumph of civil rights leaders that we have today. Maryland is a place for everyone, a state that accommodates immigrants. It also has a very strong educational foundation. It is very vibrant in cultural heritage and festivals, local businesses, and tradition. Maryland gives residents unique opportunities to engage and influence national decisions. It is a state for anyone who wants to flourish, and I feel very proud to be part of the history that we are making here.

What are your thoughts about Nigeria?

Nigeria is a country full of potential. I’m a proud Nigerian. I was born in Nigeria, so I have a deep love and passion for my country. I love our food, Jollof rice, culture, and I love being in Nigeria. I will clearly say that Nigeria has incredible potential, but leadership often struggles with corruption and short-term thinking. In my opinion, Nigerian leaders have a very short-term perspective. The country needs visionary leaders who empower the youth and hold themselves accountable. I feel like that is lacking within the Nigerian leadership. The country needs leaders who prioritise education. A country that is not educated is heading for doom. There are natural and human resources, so Nigeria needs leaders to blend these resources for the people to flourish. I must state that we need leaders who know transparency, trust, and building trust between leaders and citizens for sustainable progress and national unity. I think we need that in Nigeria.

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