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A London-based British-Nigerian consultant urological surgeon, Prof Francis Chinegwundoh, speaks with BIODUN BUSARI on his childhood experience and journey into the medical profession, among other issues

How was your childhood experience?

My dad came to the United Kingdom in the 1950s. He and my mum got married in London. They didn’t plan to stay in the UK, but something happened, and they ended up staying. Eventually, their four children, including me, were all doing very well at school.

With our academic performance, they decided we would stay rather than return to Nigeria, as other family friends had done. My parents thought going back would disrupt us.

What was growing up like among white children?

There were no majority-black schools. Every school then was predominantly white, with some black and Asian children. In those days, we lived in the mixed area of Balham, a suburb in south London. There was a majority of white people.

However, there were still quite a few black families from the Caribbean, West Africa, Asia, India, and Pakistan, and this made it a mixed area, and my siblings and I didn’t feel isolated because there were others like us. We went to school in a general environment, and the same applied to shops. It wasn’t much of a problem. It may have been different if we were not in London. Then and now, London is the most diverse part of the UK.

Did your parents influence your choice of medical career?

I guess I was about eight or nine years old when I started concentrating on medicine. Initially, it didn’t appeal to me, but there were television programmes that drew my interest. I can recall a programme called Emergency Ward 10 and another one called General Hospital. These were weekly soaps and programmes.

I just enjoyed those soap operas. I enjoyed the characters, and I started imagining and portraying myself as a doctor in those TV programmes. Then I remember getting one of the plastic toy sets. Then I decided that was what I wanted to do.

Academically, I was very strong. What my parents were interested in was my doing well in school. They didn’t focus on whether I should be a doctor or not. Of course, they were happy when I said I wanted to do medicine, but it was not something they pushed me into or suggested that I do. That impetus came from me. They encouraged me because I had the idea quite early on of what I wanted to do.

Can you share ideas about how your education was?

After primary school, I was able to attend a grammar school. Grammar schools are schools for academically bright students. These are free as opposed to private schools, which my parents could never have afforded. Private schools generally have very high academic standards, but they are expensive.

Grammar schools were a means of social mobility. They have very competitive exams. If you managed to get into a grammar school, then you were assured of an outstanding education, should you choose to take advantage of the opportunity.

I went to a grammar school. It was actually a Catholic school in south London called Salesian College. I did very well. I was second in class throughout. Then I applied to get into medical school. That was very competitive. You must be very good, with what we used to call O-Levels at that time, which are now called GCSEs.

You must have good grades for A-level. Then the support of your headmaster or headmistress, who would write a letter of support to buttress your application to medical school, was very important. Thankfully, I was able to secure entry to St. George’s Medical School, part of the University of London. It was in Tooting, south London.

What inspired you to pursue urology as an area of speciality?

It is quite a long journey. After I qualified at medical school at the age of 23, I was either 35 or 36 before I became a consultant urologist. It’s a long journey to reach consultant status in a surgical speciality. When you qualify, you do a series of house jobs or internships.

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For two years, you rotate in general areas to have broad experience. After those two years, you then decide if you want to be a surgeon, physician, or general practitioner. You can even decide if you want to go to the army or the navy. There are exams to take for all these specialities.

For instance, if you want to be a surgeon, you must pass the exam of the Royal College of Surgeons. After passing the exam, you will enter a training programme. Under that training, you will still rotate in different areas. You might do some orthopaedics, cardiothoracic surgery, urology, or neurosurgery. This helps in getting experience in different surgical fields.

After these two or three years, you decide on the particular branch. It comes with competitive interviews, exams, written and published articles, journals presented, research, and so on, to secure a training post in your subspecialty.

I enjoyed urology as I found the consultants very amenable. I specialised in urology because it dealt with males and females as opposed to gynaecology, which deals with females only.

Based on your research, what is the correlation between black men and prostate cancer?

I have specialised in dealing with prostate cancer. I have been a consultant for almost 30 years. It was quite early when I took an interest in prostate cancer. I’ve seen a lot in my consultancy practice, and that led me to a lot of black men, making me wonder why I was seeing many black men with prostate cancer.

Then I decided to do some research in the late 1990s. I called the offices of the population census and surveys, basically the government statistical office in the UK, to know how many black men had prostate cancer. This statistical body said they didn’t know because there had not been any research into black men and prostate cancer in the UK.

That was why I embarked on doing the research. I was able to show and publish that black men were two times as likely to get prostate cancer as their white counterparts. I suspected something about our genetics, but exactly what we don’t know remains unknown.

So, having accepted the fact that black men have an increased risk of prostate cancer, we then focused on raising awareness in the community. For more than 25 years, I’ve been raising awareness that black men should be aware of their increased risk and therefore start getting themselves tested.

Unfortunately, prostate cancer is so common in Nigeria. I don’t think you’ll find any family where there are men over 50 and someone has not had prostate cancer. It’s the second most common cancer in men worldwide. In some countries, it’s number one, in others it’s number two. In fact, in the UK, more men get prostate cancer than women get breast cancer.

What should men, especially Nigerian men, do?

Get tested. Men should go for tests. I explain to men when I give talks that only men have a prostate gland, and it is usually the size of a small cherry or a walnut. It sits in front of the anus, in front of the back passage, deep inside the pelvis.

Its purpose is to produce the seminal fluid. So when a man climaxes, most of that fluid that comes out is prostate fluid. Some of it is sperm from the testicles, but most of that fluid is prostate fluid, which nourishes the sperm. So, it’s a sexual gland; it’s a sexual organ.

Secondly, the water pipe has to pass through it. So, the water pipe connecting the bladder to the penis, surrounding the exit of the bladder, is where the prostate lies. It surrounds the water pipe. As it gets bigger, which happens as you age, it begins to squeeze the water pipe.

So, most men will recognise that in their 40s, 50s, 60s onwards, the urinary flow becomes slower. When you’re very young, your urinary flow is very fast. As you age, the prostate begins to enlarge, and it squeezes the water pipe. Therefore, the flow becomes slow, and the bladder doesn’t empty as well.

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Most men over the age of 50 will have what we call benign prostate enlargement, where the prostate naturally squeezes the water pipe. Men will recognise this: the flow is slower; it takes them a longer time to pass urine. They have to go more often, and they have to get up at night. This is not to be confused with prostate cancer.

The problem with the prostate gland is that the symptoms of enlargement and squeezing of the water pipe are the same symptoms that may indicate prostate cancer, including difficulty in passing urine. It could be some sexual issues as well.

But very importantly, and I always emphasise this, you can have prostate cancer with no urinary symptoms whatsoever. So, if you’re waiting for urinary symptoms before you see your doctor, it may be too late.

Interestingly, in Nigeria, my colleagues tell me that 90 per cent of men with prostate cancer are already advanced. To find it when it’s early and still a small thing that can be dealt with very well, you have to have the blood test.

It’s a blood test called Prostate Specific Antigen. It’s like an early warning sign. So, I encourage men every year to have this blood test. If the blood test is raised, it leads to further investigations to see if the man has prostate cancer or not.

At what age is it advisable for men to have the test?

At 40 years of age. The reason is that you can have prostate cancer without any symptoms. In the UK, for example, I would say 80 to 90 per cent of men, when we find prostate cancer, it is still in the prostate. It has not spread anywhere.

Based on this, we can cure those men. Whereas in Nigeria, it is the opposite. About 80 to 90 per cent of men, by the time their cancer is diagnosed, it has already spread into the bones, into the pelvis, and into certain lymph glands.

One of the things we know about prostate cancer is that there is a hereditary element to it. So, if your father has prostate cancer, your risk is double. If your dad and maybe your brother have prostate cancer, your risk is quadrupled.

So, it’s very important to know your family history. Also, if it turns out that on your mother’s side, there is a history of breast cancer or cancer of the ovary, your risk as a male of getting prostate cancer is also high.

I emphasise this because when I was a child, various family friends would pass away. I would ask what they died from, and parents would say, ‘I don’t know’. So, there’s secrecy as to what they died from.

I encourage people to share their family histories. As a parent, if you have cancer of this or cancer of that, tell your children so they can start getting themselves tested earlier than they might otherwise have done. Family history is very important.

Can you briefly speak about your role as a medical legal expert?

It encompasses a whole range of things. For example, if you are riding a motorbike and you have an accident, maybe a car bumps into you, you fall over, and you might fracture your arm, leg, or pelvis, or even injure your penis or testicles, you will then seek compensation from the person who caused the accident.

Now, someone has to assess what injuries you’ve suffered and what the long-term effects of those injuries are. That’s where a medical legal expert comes in. So, I, as a urologist, would be asked to assess injuries to the testicles, injuries affecting one’s sex life. Maybe you’ve injured the kidney or something.

I would go through all the records, examine the man, and do a report. These are the injuries this person has suffered. This is going to be a permanent problem, or it’s a temporary problem, or we can get things better by doing this. That is one aspect: personal injury.

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The other aspect is clinical negligence. If you, as a patient, come to me as a urologist and you allege that maybe your operation was done wrongly or there was a delay in your particular diagnosis, you go to a solicitor because you are aggrieved.

The solicitor has to employ someone, an expert in the area, to look through the entirety of the case and come to some sort of opinion as to whether indeed it was negligence or whether it was just bad luck. I will look at whether they breached their duty of care to you and caused you harm.

How do you manage all these roles?

I haven’t even mentioned that I’ve been running a cancer charity for the last 26 years. There’s a charity organisation called Cancer Black Care, which is based in London. It supports black people throughout their cancer journeys, helping them with getting information, navigating the social services system, and a whole lot.

What it means is that you have to be very efficient with your time. At the same time, you have to enjoy your family and friends. I enjoy travelling but over the years, I’ve managed to blend all these things.

When I deliver lectures, it is academic. I’m very adept at using computers and the latest software. I’ve started using artificial intelligence in some of my work. I’ve been paperless for up to 10 years.

How do you explain the magnet pulling Nigerian medical experts to the UK?

It is the pay and conditions of work. That is what it is. Everything here is very orderly. Every health service has its challenges, but they are completely different in magnitude from what obtains in Nigeria. Some of my colleagues in Nigeria are frustrated by having to work extremely long hours.

In the UK, no long hours, the pay is good, the education system is good. You don’t have to worry about electricity, whether at home or in the hospital. You don’t have to worry about water or buying a generator. Everything is designed to make your life comfortable and easy.

Education is a big pull as well. Education is free in the UK. You can pay extra for private education. But I think about 90 to 93 per cent of children in the UK are educated in the state system, while seven to 10 per cent are in the private system. Primary and secondary education is free in the UK.

The only time you start paying is when you go to university. Even at that, it is heavily subsidised by the government if you become a British citizen. So, people leave for professional reasons.

Then think of security reasons—you get it in the UK. The thing about medicine and nursing is that they are transferable skills. You can go anywhere in the world with those skills.

How did you feel when you became a Member of the Order of the British Empire?

It was in 2013. These awards are given to recognise your contributions, and it’s not something you apply for. It means some people notice your work and appreciate you. About four or five people will get nominated and scrutinised by a committee.

If you merit it, you get a letter from the palace. You have to keep it quiet for the two months until it’s officially announced and it’s in the media. So, it’s a secret kind of thing.

I was blessed that both my parents were able to come to Buckingham Palace, where I received the medal from Prince Charles (as he was called then), now King Charles III. I have always believed that hard work, determination, and focus bring rewards, and that was what I experienced.

So, I always advise and encourage everyone, especially youths, that your diligence for great work will be honoured and rewarded at one point or another if you don’t relent.

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LIFE IS SWEET, BUT NOTHING LASTS FOREVER: WHAT ARE WE REALLY FIGHTING FOR?

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One day, someone will pronounce your name for the last time. The house you struggled to build will belong to someone else. The money you sacrificed your peace to acquire will eventually be spent by other people. And the world you thought could never exist without you will continue moving after you are gone.**

So, what exactly are we fighting for?

Life is beautiful, but it is temporary. This is one of the greatest lessons humanity must learn. Yet, many people spend their entire lives chasing wealth, power, fame, and recognition as if they will remain on earth forever.

In Yoruba wisdom, the expression *“Àṣán ohun ni adùn ayé, ohun gbogbo máa dé òpin”* reminds us that the pleasures of life are temporary and that everything eventually comes to an end.

## The Endless Pursuit of Wealth and Power

There is nothing wrong with working hard, building a successful business, owning a house, or providing a better future for your children. In fact, financial stability can bring security, dignity, and opportunities.

The problem begins when the pursuit of wealth becomes more important than the people around us.

Some people destroy family relationships over inheritance. Friends become enemies because of money. Neighbours fight over small pieces of land. People who once supported one another begin to compete endlessly over who is richer, more successful, or more powerful.

But have we stopped to ask ourselves whether these battles are truly worth the price we pay?

What is the value of a mansion if the person living inside it has no peace? What is the value of millions in the bank if the pursuit of that money destroys every meaningful relationship? And what is the purpose of power if it is used to humiliate people who have less?

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## One Day, Everything Will Change

Life has a way of reminding us that no position is permanent.

The person who is celebrated today may be forgotten tomorrow. The individual who enjoys enormous wealth may face unexpected difficulties. The powerful leader will eventually leave office, and another person will take their place.

Even the strongest among us cannot control every chapter of life.

That reality should not make us hopeless. Instead, it should encourage us to live with humility, gratitude, and compassion.

We should remember that the security, opportunities, and privileges we enjoy today are not guaranteed forever.

## What Will You Leave Behind?

When people remember your life, what will they say about you?

Will they remember you as someone who helped others when they were struggling? Will your children remember the love and wisdom you gave them? Will your community remember your contribution?

Or will your entire legacy be measured by the money you accumulated and the possessions you left behind?

Material wealth can improve lives, but character determines how we use it. A person’s influence is not measured only by what they own, but also by how they treat others.

Sometimes, a small act of kindness leaves a deeper mark than an expensive gift. Sometimes, a sincere apology saves a relationship that money could never repair.

## Live Well, but Remember That Life Is Temporary

The lesson is not to abandon ambition or stop pursuing success. It is to pursue those things without losing your humanity.

Build your house, but build relationships too. Make money, but do not make money your god. Protect your interests, but do not allow greed to consume you. Teach your children how to succeed, but also teach them compassion, honesty, and respect.

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Spend time with the people you love. Appreciate your parents while they are alive. Give your children memories worth keeping. Help someone who cannot repay you. And learn to enjoy the simple blessings that are often overlooked in the race for material success.

**Life is sweet, but nothing lasts forever. Everything has an end.**

Perhaps the real measure of a successful life is not simply how much we acquire before we leave this world, but how wisely we live and how positively we affect the lives of others.

### NEWSBREAK365 ASKS:

If we all know that we will eventually leave everything behind, **why do people allow money, power, pride, jealousy, and property to destroy their peace and relationships?**

Is the problem human nature, the pressure of society, or our desire to prove that we are better than others?

Share your opinion in the comments. Your perspective could make someone think differently about life.

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Family confirms death of gospel singer Toluwanisings

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The family of Nigerian gospel singer, Olayemi Bolaji, popularly known as Toluwanisings, has announced his death.

The announcement, posted on the singer’s TikTok account on Wednesday, noted that he died in the early hours of October 14, 2026.

The statement read, “With deep sorrow, the family announces the passing of Minister Olayemi Bayonile Bolaji, Toluwani Gospel Music Ministry (TOGOMM), who passed away in the early hours of 14 October 2026.

“A dearly loved husband, family member, and gospel minister.

“Please keep his wife, family, and loved ones in your prayers during this difficult time.”

The statement also noted that funeral arrangements would be announced by the family in due course.

The singer’s death has sparked concerns, with fans and colleagues expressing grief on social media.

The Convener of the Coalition of Public Interest Lawyers and Advocates, Pelumi Olajengbesi, expressed distress over the development in a post on Instagram, pleading for God’s mercy.

Sharing a picture of the singer, Olajengbesi wrote, “My God! What a life! No, Lord! We plead for Your mercy upon Toluwanisings.

“I am deeply troubled by the deaths of young men and women. This is not God’s plan for us.

“We say no to untimely death.”

An X user, Ennybets, also shared an account of the incident on Wednesday.

He stated that he was at a hospital when the singer was brought in.

He wrote, “Brought my wife to the hospital for antenatal, and some car rushed in here bringing a popular gospel man.

“Come and see how BBO and the rest are crying so bad, I pray he survives this though.”

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In a follow-up post, Ennybets expressed grief over the singer’s passing, saying he witnessed members of his band crying at the hospital.

He wrote, “I cried about this man’s passing. The fact that I was seeing over 10 grown men who are his band members, crying heavily in front of me is giving me trauma.”

Reacting to the news, gospel artiste Mega99 described the late singer as a rare talent.

He wrote, “A rare gem with a unique voice is gone. This life.”

The cause of his death remained unknown as of the time this report was filed.

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LIFE IS TEMPORARY — SO LEARN TO LIVE MEANINGFULLY BEFORE YOUR TIME RUNS OUT.

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One day, you will leave everything behind. Your money, house, cars, fame, position, and possessions will remain in this world. The important question is: what will your life have meant to the people you leave behind?**

We spend years chasing wealth, competing with others, fighting over religion, politics, ethnicity, and social status. We sometimes sacrifice our health, peace of mind, family relationships, and happiness just to acquire things we cannot take with us when we die.

Yet, life continues to remind us that nobody stays here forever.

The rich will die. The poor will die. The powerful will die. The unknown will die. No amount of money can make human life permanent.

Does this mean life is meaningless? Not necessarily. **Perhaps the fact that life is temporary is precisely why we should be more careful about how we spend it.**

If we have limited time in this world, how can we live meaningfully?

### 10 PRACTICAL WAYS TO LIVE A MEANINGFUL LIFE

**1. Put your health before unnecessary competition.**

Do not destroy your body trying to impress people. Eat wisely, exercise regularly, get enough sleep, manage stress, and seek medical attention when necessary. Wealth means little if you neglect the body that allows you to enjoy life.

**2. Spend quality time with your family.**

Your children need more than money, clothes, and expensive gifts. They need your attention, guidance, affection, and wisdom. Call your parents if they are alive. Check on your siblings. Make time for the people who genuinely care about you.

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**3. Teach your children their history and values.**

Tell them where they come from, the stories of their ancestors, their language, their culture, and the lessons of previous generations. Teach them critical thinking, honesty, responsibility, and respect for others. Do not leave their entire education about life to social media.

**4. Stop measuring your worth by material possessions.**

You do not have to own the biggest house, drive the most expensive car, or wear designer clothes to have value. Build financial stability, but do not make material wealth the only measure of your success.

**5. Treat people with humanity.**

Be kind to people who cannot reward you. Respect workers, the elderly, children, and those who have less than you. A person’s dignity should not depend on their bank balance, religion, tribe, nationality, or social position.

**6. Keep learning until the end of your life.**

Read books, learn new skills, ask questions, and challenge your assumptions. Do not allow age, tradition, or fear to prevent you from discovering better ways to live. An educated mind is better equipped to make informed decisions.

**7. Use your knowledge and resources to help others.**

Share useful information, mentor a young person, support someone who is struggling, volunteer, or help a neighbour in need. You do not have to be rich to make a positive difference. Sometimes, a little assistance can change someone’s entire day.

**8. Protect your peace and choose your battles wisely.**

Not every insult deserves a response. Not every disagreement requires a fight. Learn to walk away from destructive relationships, unnecessary arguments, and endless competition. Your peace of mind is worth protecting.

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**9. Think critically and make your own decisions.**

Do not blindly accept everything you hear from politicians, religious leaders, traditional authorities, celebrities, or social media influencers. Ask questions, examine evidence, and be willing to change your mind when you discover better information.

**10. Live with the awareness that your time is limited.**

Do not postpone every important thing until tomorrow. Apologise when you are wrong. Express love while you can. Pursue worthwhile goals. Repair relationships where possible. Write down the lessons you have learned and pass them on to the next generation.

Remember, living meaningfully does not mean abandoning ambition, money, religion, or personal success. It means putting these things into perspective and refusing to let them consume your entire existence.

You can build wealth without becoming arrogant. You can practise religion without hating people who believe differently. You can be successful without exploiting others. You can enjoy life without forgetting your responsibilities.

**THE REAL QUESTION IS NOT JUST HOW LONG YOU LIVE, BUT HOW YOU CHOOSE TO LIVE WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE.**

### A CHALLENGE FOR EVERYONE READING THIS

Starting today, choose three practical actions:

– Do one thing to improve your health.
– Do one thing to strengthen your family or help another person.
– Do one thing to increase your knowledge or become a better human being.

Repeat these actions consistently, and let your life reflect the values you claim to believe in.

💭 **LET US DEBATE: If life is temporary and everything we own must eventually be left behind, what should be the most important purpose of human existence — wealth, family, happiness, knowledge, service to humanity, or something else?**

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Share this message with someone who needs a reminder about what truly matters.

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