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Becoming a king won’t end my showbiz career — Okey Bakassi

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Actor, comedian and traditional ruler of the Umuihuocha Autonomous Community in Imo State, Okechukwu Onyegbule, popularly known as Okey Bakassi, speaks to NAOMI CHIMA about how he is balancing his career with his role as a traditional ruler

You have spent over three decades in the comedy industry. At what point did you realise that comedy was no longer a hobby, but your life’s calling?

Comedy is just one aspect of what I do. I prefer to describe myself as an entertainer. My work is a blend of acting, stand-up comedy and public speaking; all wrapped into one package.

It began as a hobby during my university days. But when I moved to Lagos for my youth service, I had to confront a defining question: what next? Do I get a paid job or pursue my interest in entertainment? Initially, I wanted to do it part-time because it came naturally to me and brought me joy.

However, I soon realized that entertainment is not something you dabble in. The industry wasn’t as structured as it is today. Roles weren’t waiting for you; you had to chase them relentlessly. It demanded the same level of commitment and energy as any full-time profession.

Toward the end of my service year, after deep reflection, I decided to pursue entertainment fully before considering paid employment. I was driven purely by passion. It gave me happiness and felt effortless. I told myself that if I could also make a living from it, then this was what I was meant to do.

Growing up, did you ever envision that you were a funny person destined for entertainment?

Not at all. I grew up in a close-knit family where we gathered in the living room to gist. My mother was an excellent storyteller. My father, though a military man, had a cheerful side when he wanted to. From a young age, we were encouraged to express ourselves freely, speak our minds and joke around. That environment shaped me.

As a child, I actually wanted to be a military doctor. I eventually studied engineering and somehow ended up in show business. Life has an interesting way of unfolding. At some point, I simply looked at life and said, “Let me do this first.”

Growing up as the eldest in a disciplined military home, how did that shape your humour and work ethic?

Life in the barracks influenced me tremendously. Any “barracks pikin” will tell you it’s a mini Nigeria; a melting pot of tribes, languages and cultures. You grow up with friends from everywhere. That exposure gives you stories, accents, behavioural patterns and perspectives you won’t easily find elsewhere.

Everything was around me — drama, diversity and humour. It all became material without me even realising it.

You’ve spoken about arriving in Lagos with nothing and even experiencing homelessness. What kept you going?

When I left Port Harcourt (Rivers State capital), my family was going through financial difficulties. I’m the first of five children, and I had never even been to Lagos before youth service.

What kept me going was understanding how tough things were back home. I had to choose my own version of “tough”: stay home with a false sense of security while still struggling, or face the obvious hardship in Lagos and fight to survive. I chose to survive in Lagos rather than add to my parents’ burden.

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The comedy show, “Night of a Thousand Laughs”, was pivotal in your career. What stands out about its birth?

I was instrumental in creating Night of a Thousand Laughs. When I arrived in Lagos, I realised there was no defined comedy industry. There were travelling theatre groups and actors who did comedy within drama, but no structured platform for stand-up comedy.

Seeing comedians in Lagos who were as funny — or even funnier — than my friends in Port Harcourt made me realise talent was scattered across the country.

The question became: how do we bring them together?

At the time, I worked as Opa Williams’ production manager, alongside Reginald Ebere. We conceptualised a nationwide comedy reality platform to discover talent and bring them to Lagos to compete. Opa Williams embraced the idea. Reginald and I drafted the original concept, and it ultimately contributed significantly to the growth of stand-up comedy in Nigeria.

After acting opportunities slowed down, you reinvented yourself through stand-up. How crucial was that reinvention?

Reinvention was everything. Financial experts talk about multiple streams of income, but at that time, everyone focused on acting because stand-up wasn’t yet an industry.

After my first movie, I experienced what I’d call deliberate isolation from the acting space, and I didn’t understand why. It was a wake-up call. If one door closes, another must open.

I decided to take stand-up seriously, refine my craft and make it versatile. Eventually, I began earning more from stand-up than acting.

Which platform stretches your creativity the most?

Stand-up comedy. Acting and music are collaborative efforts. Radio is unique because you speak to people who can’t see you. But stand-up is just you, the audience and a microphone. There’s no safety net.

It requires presence of mind, sharp mental alertness and the ability to deliver a compelling and funny story in real time. Every audience is different. Their mood changes everything.

It’s intense. In my opinion, it’s the toughest art form.

You were recently crowned the Okwe II of Umuihuocha Obohia. How do you see yourself evolving with this role?

Life evolves in stages. You begin as a bachelor finding direction, then become a husband, a father, and now, in my case, a community leader.

When a community asks you to represent them, it means they see something in you. I see this role as an opportunity, not retirement. We’ve wrongly framed traditional leadership as something for people who are tired. It shouldn’t be.

While you’re strong and connected, you can leverage those connections to uplift vulnerable people and put your community on the map.

When I first “Googled” Umuihuocha, nothing came up. It felt like we didn’t exist. Today, there’s presence and visibility. By the time of the official coronation, the structures will be firmly in place.

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How will you balance comedy with the restraints of royalty?

Every stage of life comes with restraints. Marriage brings restraint. Fatherhood brings more. Public office demands another level of responsibility.

I have adapted through each stage. This is simply another phase. Change is constant. There’s nothing frightening about it.

Having spoken about the dangers of intolerance in leadership, how do you assess Nigeria’s present political climate, and what advice would you give both leaders and citizens?

Power reveals character. Give someone power or money, and you’ll see who they truly are.

Leadership should teach humility. History shows that many rise and fade quickly. The people who celebrate you today can withdraw their support tomorrow.

If you’re in leadership, your security matters, but the welfare of the people matters more. Don’t assume a God-like status. You’re not God.

Why do you think your people chose you to lead them?

Years in the public eye without scandal speak volumes. I have carried myself responsibly. I hold a degree in Agricultural Engineering, a diploma in Public Relations, and I’m committed to self-development.

I turn 57 this year. Life has prepared me. I have maintained a stable family life and remained grounded. People recognise consistency.

What role should government policies play in empowering entertainment?

Entertainment is one of the largest employers of youth. One creative person can support hundreds.

Government must create an enabling environment — stable power supply, security and grants for creatives. Without electricity, content cannot be consumed. Without security, creators can’t travel or research safely.

Partnerships can boost tourism, foreign exchange and cultural exports.

You have been married for over 25 years. What’s the secret of your enduring union?

Intentionality. I approached my career with focus and did the same with marriage. My wife is my childhood sweetheart. Early years were turbulent, but grace and intentionality built synergy.

Poverty puts immense strain on families, so working hard to provide is crucial. Respect, faith and shared vision matter.

As a husband, you must paint a future your partner believes in. Consistent progress keeps people together.

As a father, what are you intentional about passing down to your children?

Family values. Without values, a family collapses. We raise our children with the fear of God and a strong sense of identity.

They must understand that their achievements reflect on generations before and after them.

My wife and I operate as a team. The children see that unity and understand its seriousness.

You’ve spoken about polygamy. Would you consider it as a traditional ruler?

I believe polygamy is a valid African system of marriage. Every system has challenges; monogamy included. Divorce rates prove that.

Many modern arrangements are already functionally polygamous; we just don’t label them as such.

The key is responsibility. Marriage systems should protect families and children. The conversation should be honest, not emotional.

Has fatherhood changed you?

Completely. “Daddy” is the highest title a man can hold.

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Fatherhood makes you accountable. A traditional African father is wired to protect and provide, sometimes at the expense of emotional closeness. That’s something men must be careful about.

Can you compare parenting across generations?

Technology has changed everything. I won’t say this generation is worse, because every generation says that about the next.

But today’s children face higher exposure to trauma and digital overload. Less outdoor interaction reduces empathy and connection.

That worries me. The world is different, and we must adapt wisely.

Beyond entertainment and a royal title, what legacy matters most to you?

My greatest legacy is the example I set for my children. My primary responsibility before God is to raise people who will become blessings to society, not curses. Every terrorist or criminal out there is someone’s child who was poorly raised and eventually became a scourge to society.

You cannot fail at home as a father and claim success as a leader. Charity begins at home. If you cannot manage your household, how can you lead a community?

At the end of the day, my personal mantra is the pursuit of happiness. I want to be remembered as a man who came, who saw and who was happy.

As a veteran, what is your advice on competition and rivalry in the entertainment industry?

Competition and rivalry are natural in any industry. The important thing is to keep it healthy. Someone else’s failure should not be the foundation of your success.

Rivalry can be intense, but there is no need to harm or sabotage anyone to move forward. Focus on improving your craft. Let your growth speak for you.

You recently served as master of ceremonies at an event in Imo State. How do you respond to those who question a traditional ruler continuing to work as an MC?

Nigerians are still learning to appreciate the dignity of labour. We tend to rank professions unnecessarily; looking down on some and placing others on a pedestal.

In other societies, janitors and fast-food workers are respected because they are earning an honest living and contributing to society. Anyone who works legitimately to serve humanity deserves respect and can aspire to any position.

That mindset is something I hope to challenge. Becoming a king does not mean retiring from meaningful work. As long as I can balance both roles effectively, I will continue. The only time I would reconsider is if one responsibility becomes so demanding that I need to scale back.

Besides, kings are public speakers, and that’s what I do professionally. So I’m well within my lane.

What’s your favourite food and sport?

Football, and I still play to this day. As for food, I enjoy swallow with any good soup.

How do you relax?

I relax by watching sports or movies and by reading. I set a goal to read at least three books a year.

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Read how Student commits suicide after Oyo police detention over N8,000 debt

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When Al-Amin Mohammed returned home from the Agodi Custodial Centre in Ibadan, Oyo State, on September 14, his family thought the worst was over.

The 30-year-old aluminium fixer and student of a polytechnic in Kwara State had spent days in police detention and prison custody following a dispute that began with an alleged N8,000 debt.

His parents had stood as sureties to perfect his bail.

He was finally home and free.

But his mother, Simiat Mohammed, said the son who returned to the family was not the same man who had left days earlier.

He barely ate. He withdrew from people. Again and again, she said, Al-Amin complained about the humiliation of being detained, taken to court and remanded in prison over an allegation he insisted was untrue.

“He kept saying that they wanted to tarnish his image because he came from a poor family and that he was sent to prison for a crime he did not commit,” the grieving mother told Saturday PUNCH amid tears.

Three days after his release, tragedy struck.

On September 17, Al-Amin ingested rat poison at his residence in Ibadan.

Before then, according to his family, he recorded a voice note expressing frustration and saying what would become his final words to his mother.

“He said the frustration was too much and asked his siblings to take care of me. He mentioned my name and apologised, telling me not to be angry with him,” Simiat recalled.

The family rushed him from one hospital to another in a desperate attempt to save his life.

His father, Habeeb Mohammed, said three hospitals rejected him before the family eventually got to the University College Hospital, Ibadan.

“We were asked to make some payments before he could be attended to. After we paid, the doctor came and told us that he was dead,” he said.

For the Mohammed family, the death brought a devastating end to a chain of events that they say should never have gone beyond a minor disagreement.

How N8,000 debt became police case

According to Simiat, her son had borrowed N23,000 from a Point-of-Sale operator identified simply as Kazeem.

Al-Amin had repaid N15,000, leaving a balance of N8,000.

But a disagreement subsequently broke out, during which Kazeem allegedly seized Al-Amin’s mobile phone over the unpaid balance.

The 30-year-old later returned to retrieve his phone, leading to a struggle.

His mother said the confrontation was minor, but it set off events that eventually took her son through vigilante detention, a police cell, a courtroom and prison custody.

After the altercation, Al-Amin was allegedly detained overnight by a vigilante said to be the father of one of Kazeem’s employees.

The following day, September 9, he was allegedly handed over to officers at the Sanyo Divisional Police Station in Ibadan.

Simiat said she received a call the next day asking her to come to the station.

Like many mothers visiting a detained child, she went there carrying food.

“When I got to the station, I went with food for my son, but they did not allow me to give it to him. After some time, they brought him out of the cell and I spoke with him,” she said.

During that brief encounter, Al-Amin maintained his innocence over another allegation that had entered the dispute that he damaged a mobile phone belonging to Kazeem.

“He told me that he did not touch the phone, let alone spoil it. He said the only money he owed Kazeem was N8,000 and that he went to retrieve his phone after it had been seized, which led to the struggle,” she added.

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‘They said they would jail him’

What Simiat expected would be resolved as a dispute between two young men allegedly took a more serious turn.

She claimed that the Investigating Police Officer, identified as Adekeye, insisted that Al-Amin would be prosecuted despite the family’s appeals for a settlement.

According to her, the family was asked to provide N100,000 for bail and another N70,000 for the damaged phone.

“When Kazeem came to the station, I pleaded with him that we should settle the matter. I also pleaded with the DCO, but he later sent me out of his office.

“The IPO, Adekeye, also said she would ensure that my son was jailed. There was even a police officer pleading on our behalf,” she alleged.

The deceased’s father, Habeeb, gave a similar account.

He alleged that the matter was escalated because the complainant’s father was known to the Divisional Crime Officer.

“When I got there, I begged the DCO that the matter could be settled amicably. But because the father of the complainant was his friend, he said he would deal with my son and send him to prison,” he stated.

The family further alleged that Al-Amin complained of harsh treatment while in detention and said he was pressured to admit that he damaged the phone.

Saturday PUNCH could not independently verify those allegations.

From police cell to prison

On September 10, the family said Al-Amin was taken to court in the Mapo area of Ibadan.

His mother claimed nobody informed the family beforehand.

They only learnt that he had been taken to court after receiving a telephone call.

At the court, the family encountered a lawyer identified as Boluwatife, who, according to Simiat, offered to represent Al-Amin free of charge after hearing about the case.

The court granted him bail in the sum of N100,000 with two sureties in like sum.

But freedom did not come immediately.

Pending the perfection of his bail conditions, Al-Amin was taken to the Agodi Custodial Centre.

For four days, his parents worked to secure his release.

Eventually, Simiat and Habeeb stood as sureties, and their son walked out of custody on September 14.

The family had won his freedom, but his mother said something appeared to have changed.

‘He stopped eating’

At home, Al-Amin became withdrawn.

The young man who combined aluminium work with his studies and helped support his family stopped eating and talking to people.

His thoughts, the mother said, repeatedly returned to the police station and prison.

He felt humiliated by the experience and worried that his reputation had been destroyed.

Three days after his release, Al-Amin allegedly took the substance that claimed his life.

‘He was our shining light’

Al-Amin’s elder sister, Adenike, said the tragedy deprived the family of one of its major sources of support.

She described him as hardworking and ambitious a young man who earned a living fixing aluminium while pursuing his education.

“He was a hardworking boy. He was working as an aluminium fixer and also going to school. He was the pillar of this family and was taking care of our mother,” she said.

Al-Amin was unmarried and had no child.

“We have lost the shining light of our family,” Adenike added.

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A family friend and retired Deputy Superintendent of Police, Isiaka Ayole, said the circumstances surrounding Al-Amin’s arrest, detention and prosecution deserved an independent investigation.

He questioned why the vigilante who allegedly detained the deceased overnight before handing him over to the police was not also investigated.

“This was a simple matter that the police should have helped settle amicably instead of escalating it,” Ayole said.

“I don’t understand the type of policing where somebody is first detained overnight by a vigilante and then handed over to a police officer who is said to be a friend of the complainant’s father.

“The irony is that nothing was said about the person who took the law into his hands. Instead, the person owing N8,000 was taken to court.”

The retired police officer called on the Inspector-General of Police, Tunji Disu, to investigate the officers involved and establish whether there was any abuse of power.

Mother demands answers

For Simiat, however, the questions are more personal.

In just over a week, she watched her son go from an aluminium worker and student to a detainee, a defendant, a prison inmate and, finally, a young man she said became consumed by the stigma of what had happened to him.

The Mohammed family is now appealing to President Bola Tinubu, the IG and the Oyo State Government to investigate the circumstances surrounding Al-Amin’s death.

They want to know whether the dispute was properly handled and whether any police officer abused his authority.

Speaking through tears, Simiat said her family lacked influence or powerful connections but would continue to seek answers.

“Let them investigate what happened to my son. We don’t have anybody except God,” she said.

“We do not want him to die in vain.”

I only wanted my money, not drag any case – Kazeem

Reacting, Kazeem, who operates a phone-charging point and Point-of-Sale business around the Oni-Gaari area of Ayegun, Ibadan, told Saturday PUNCH that he was shocked to learn of Al-Amin’s death.

He insisted that he never intended to pursue the matter beyond recovering his money.

Kazeem explained that sometime last year, Al-Amin withdrew N7,000 from his apprentice, one Maryam, but allegedly failed to transfer the money to her as promised.

“Al-Amin started avoiding the area until Maryam returned to school without informing me about the incident,” he said.

Kazeem said Maryam later told him what happened when she returned from school few months later and asked whether Al-Amin had deposited the money with him.

“She and her sister traced him to his house and he told them he had given the money to me, so they left. Al-Amin later called me and pleaded that he only told Maryam and her sister that he had given me the money so that they would not embarrass him in his house. Later, his grandmother paid the money.”

On the recent incident, Kazeem said he employed another apprentice, one Iya Ajike.

He said he visited the shop on Tuesday, September 8, 2026, for monitoring and account balancing.

He claimed to have met some people pleading with the apprentice to release Al-Amin’s phone.

According to him, Ajike later explained that Al-Amin had carried out a transaction of about N23,000, collected the money and left his phone at the shop, promising to transfer the money after charging the device.

Kazeem said the deceased later returned, collected the phone and transferred N15,000, claiming he had exceeded his transfer limit for the day and would pay the balance the following day.

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He said when the balance was not paid, Al-Amin allegedly began avoiding the apprentice.

Kazeem explained that Ajike eventually traced him to a location where she found him sleeping with the phone beside him, picked up the device and returned to the shop.

He said Al-Amin later arrived with some friends to plead for the release of the phone, an encounter he witnessed.

According to Kazeem, he insisted that Al-Amin pay the outstanding money before the phone would be released.

He said the matter was later taken up by the landlord association after the deceased indicated that he would pay.

Kazeem said on Wednesday night, he was informed of an altercation involving his apprentice and Al-Amin.

“Iya Ajike called me around 10pm that Al-Amin had come to her house around 9pm that he wanted to collect his phone, that someone had sent money to him and he wanted to transfer the debt to her.

“Iya Ajike told me that she told Al Amin that the phone is in the shop and it is late already that he should come back the following day, but Al Amin said he wanted his phone that night. He tried to snatch an Airtel-branded phone we use for our business, which she was using as a torchlight.

“The phone fell down during the struggle and its screen was damaged,” he said.

Kazeem said the landlord association that night asked the parties to return the following morning to resolve the matter.

“In the morning, I was there; we couldn’t resolve the matter because other people also came forward with similar complaints against Al-Amin that he underpayed them whenever he came to withdraw money.”

He said the matter was subsequently referred to a vigilante group, which directed the parties to the Sanyo Police Station after it could not resolve the dispute.

“When we got to the station, the only thing I told the police was that I wanted Al-Amin to take responsibility for the damaged phone and how he was going to repair it. But Al-Amin denied responsibility for the damage, saying he was not responsible for the damaged phone.”

“So, the police detained him that day and asked us to come the following day. They took him to where the charge was read to him and he pleaded not guilty.”

He said the magistrate subsequently ordered that Al-Amin be remanded and adjourned the case until October 10.

Kazeem said he only learnt on Thursday that Al-Amin had been released on bail.

He maintained that he never intended to drag the matter into a legal dispute, adding that his primary concern was to recover the money owed to him.

“In fact, I was discussing with my lawyer that the money used for his bail, had they agreed at the station, this matter would not have got to court. The money I have spent on the case is more than the amount owed,” Kazeem said.

When contacted, the Public Relations Officer of the Oyo State Police Command, Ayanlade Olayinka, said he was not aware of the incident.

A subsequent message sent to him via WhatsApp had not been responded to as of the time of filing this report.

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Parents, Home Training Starts at Home

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When a child behaves badly in public, people may question the child’s upbringing—but good character begins long before a child steps outside the home.

Parents have a major role to play in teaching children how to behave, communicate and treat other people.

Children need to learn that respect, good manners, responsibility, kindness and self-discipline are values that should be practised every day.

Teach your children to greet people properly, speak politely, respect others, accept correction and understand that their actions have consequences. More importantly, teach them through your own example because children often learn by watching what adults do.

Home training is not about raising children who are perfect. It is about giving them the foundation they need to make responsible choices as they grow.

Parents should not leave the responsibility of teaching values entirely to schools, churches, mosques or society. The home is the first classroom, and parents are a child’s first teachers.

A well-trained child does not only bring pride to the family; good character can also help build a more respectful and responsible society.

What do you think is the most important value parents should teach their children at home?

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Read how Mother and four children died in Rivers inferno

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A mother and her four children were burnt to death on Friday morning in a fire outbreak at their residence in the Okochiri community, Okrika Local Government Area of Rivers State.

Although the cause of the inferno could not be immediately established, a source who spoke on condition of anonymity, said the incident occurred when an individual attempted to discharge petrol into a jerrycan, causing the product to ignite.

The source added that the petrol was suspected to be bad fuel.

Confirming the incident in an interview with our correspondent, the Commander of the Civilian Joint Task Force in Okrika LGA, Igwe Godswill, said details of the incident remained sketchy.

Godswill stated that the lifeless bodies of the woman and her four children were found when he and his team arrived at the scene.

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He said, “There are no proper details as to what happened. But when we got there, we saw that about four children and their mother, a total of five persons, were burnt and died.

“The police had already arrived and taken proper details of what happened. It is so disheartening that this is happening again in our community.”

Godswill added that local youths had extinguished the fire before his arrival, though the victims were believed to have died before the flames were put out.

He called for an investigation to determine the exact cause of the incident.

Meanwhile, a video of the incident seen by our correspondent showed a woman complaining about the cramped nature of the building, which had its roof and other parts severely damaged.

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When contacted, the spokesperson for the Rivers State Police Command, Blessing Agabe, confirmed the incident, saying the mother and three of her children died.

Agabe, an Assistant Superintendent of Police, also disclosed that other occupants of the building sustained injuries, while property worth thousands of naira was destroyed in the inferno.

She added that an investigation had begun to ascertain the immediate and remote causes of the incident.

“Yes, there was a fire incident in which a woman and her three children tragically lost their lives, while others sustained injuries.

“Property estimated at thousands of naira was also destroyed in the inferno. Investigation is ongoing to ascertain the circumstances surrounding the incident and determine the cause of the fire outbreak,” the state police image maker stated.

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