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Jim Iyke – Divorce doesn’t stop me from being a good father

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Actor James Ikechukwu, popularly known as Jim Iyke, talks to NAOMI CHIMA about his career, family and other issues

Tell us a bit about your background.

To start with, about 70 per cent of what you read online about me is false, and mostly from unreliable sources. My academic background is in Banking and Finance, and Psychology. I studied at the University of Jos, and before that, Federal Government College, Kwali, Abuja. Over the years, I have broadened my path. I am deeply invested in personal development, and my greatest education has come from unveiling myself as a student of the world.

How did you end up as an actor?

For most people, their field of study doesn’t usually align with their eventual career. Life is really a journey of self-discovery. Along the way, you find your true passion, as opposed to your parents’ dreams for you. For those of us from Eastern Nigeria, parents usually set the course of our journies right from childhood. By the time you’re three or four years old, they’ve already decided who will be a lawyer, doctor, or businessman.

Somewhere along the line, you realise that you’ve been living your parents’ dreams, not yours. Those who follow that path to the end are often not the happiest, because they discover too late that their true calling lies elsewhere. You could even be financially successful, but still feel a deep emptiness that no amount of money can fill.

For me, things shifted unexpectedly. One day, a friend and I were broke and looking for money to buy a few bottles of beer. Then, we heard about an audition. We decided to go, thinking we’d just get cameo roles and head to the lounge. But in the middle of it, I had a moment of epiphany. I thought: “this is what I want to do for the rest of my life”.

I didn’t come from an entertainment background. My family members were traders, businessmen, scientists and politicians; but never entertainers. Choosing acting was seen as a taboo— a waste of life. But I stuck to my guns. At that point, rebellion was necessary. I had done everything they wanted, including graduating early. I told them (parents) to give me a year or two to explore acting, then return for my Master’s and PhD.

Suffice it to say, I never went back. What was supposed to be a quick look became a lifelong pursuit.

How has acting influenced the course of your life?

People often warned that acting was a hopeless pursuit, because there was no financial stability, or job security. Their logic was sound, but I couldn’t let it go. My counter-argument was simple: Give me a chance.

My father instilled in me survival skills, including a pursuit of knowledge, self-confidence and accountability, which are foundations for success in any field. I believed acting would not be different. But, when our relationship deteriorated over my choice, I was kicked out (of the house). That became fuel for me to prove them wrong.

Eventually, when things began to turn around, we revisited the conversation. I told him my agenda was clear: I just needed his blessing. Reluctantly, he gave it, and taught me the importance of financial literacy and delayed gratification. He said if I mastered those, it wouldn’t matter what career I chose, I’d already be 50 per cent ahead.

What about your mum, how much support did you get from her?

My mum was the anchor of my dreams. Sadly, she’s no longer with us. Nothing rivals a mother’s intuition; she is irreplaceable.

When conflict arose between the two men she loved most—her husband and her only son—she took a remarkable approach. Instead of taking sides, she let things play out, trusting each of us to do the right thing. I will always be grateful to her for believing in me when I had nothing to show for it, and for giving me the emotional support I needed.

Later, when I became successful, she was also the one who kept me grounded. She reminded me: It’s the decisions you take now that will shape the next generation. Choose carefully. Her influence on me is immeasurable.

As the only son of your family, how did growing up among sisters shape you?

Growing up with women can shape you in two ways—you either become extremely tough or extremely soft. You can probably tell which side I fall on. I fought many battles, often defending my sisters, until one day my father’s boss warned him: “Train this boy; he’ll get badly hurt one day. He must learn the principle of standing alone.”

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That advice led me into early boxing and taekwondo, which taught me discipline, emotional control, and self-defense. At home, I wasn’t even allowed in the kitchen. That was part of the Eastern cultural belief system. My biggest regret today is not learning to cook.

When I left home, that became a real problem. I had to rely on others, sometimes even begging women to cook for me. Who knows what was put in my food (laughs) So, I always advise people to teach their sons how to cook. It’s a vital life skill every man should have.

You’ve played a range of characters over the years. What influences the choice of roles you take on?

I believe an actor should be open to interpreting a wide range of characters. In early Hollywood, typecasting was a thing, but thankfully, that era has passed. Interestingly, 90 per cent of the laurels and trophies I’ve received came from “nice guy” roles; not violent ones. People often assume we (actors) are the roles we play, but they rarely see the sensitive side— the deep person who can hold conversations on any subject under the sun.

My choices are influenced by my belief system, which is deeply rooted in God and fortified by my upbringing. When you play a character so well that people believe there’s a piece of you in it, that’s when you’ve truly succeeded as an actor.

What influenced the title of your latest movie, ‘Sin’?

The title is deliberate. Sin reflects the current global state of affairs. If anyone has ever wondered what “Sodom and Gomorrah” looked like, look around; we’re living in it. Everything described in that era is happening again.

We often sweep these things under the rug because we’re busy chasing dreams, watching football, or binging Netflix. But right before our eyes, there are drug epidemics, social experiments like lockdowns, and moral chaos.

Sin is a satire, a mirror to the life we live but refuse to confront. I don’t want to make slapstick films that only release dopamine. I want to create films that make you think, shift paradigms, and spark conversations about the order of life we exist in. It is an eye-opener. It hasn’t left the top three spot on Amazon Prime, and I’m very proud of that. It was a three-month production shot across three countries.

What advice do you have for young men who admire your craft?

Don’t look at Jim Iyke; look at yourself. To replicate another man’s journey is the wrong road to take. Everyone’s path is different. My successes, failures, and discoveries are not yours.

When I emulate, I don’t look at the person; I look at the substance of their life. Some pursue acting to feed their families, some see it as a divine calling, others as a stepping stone. Whatever it is, find your truth. Do it for the right reasons, because when everything else fails, it’s that truth that will sustain you.

Do you have any plans to revive your music career?

Doing music was a regrettable experience; not in a bitter way, but in a humbling one. At that point in my life, it was just fun. 2Baba and I had a great time with it. For me, it was a dare, a phase when I thought I could do anything.

God allowed it, but He also humbled me. I could have built a career from it, but I would have ended up as one of those mediocre acts still stumbling along because their early hits were just good enough to keep them afloat. That’s not me. I know my limits.

I don’t live with regrets though; only lessons and triumphs. Music gave me a glimpse into another world, and I enjoyed it. But when the fever calmed, I knew it was time to return to what I díd best.

Will I ever be a music executive? Absolutely. No experience is wasted. I can sign an act today, and no one would tell me I don’t understand the business.

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You’ve often spoken about your experience at the Synagogue where you seemingly fell into a trance. Looking back now, how does that experience make you feel?

I don’t want to dwell on that, and I’ll tell you why. It came with so much pain and disappointment. I only went there for my mother, and she has since passed.

Life gives us highs and lows. When you pass through your lows, you take the lesson, put it in a box, and tuck it away in your mental archive as a path never to walk again. Bringing it up now only stirs despair and bitterness. And my mother— the reason I went there— would never want me to live in that space.

Even the person I once felt antagonism toward is gone as well. So, what’s the point of holding on? I’ve let it go.

How would you describe your relationship with Gideon Okeke, who has constantly called you out online?

I don’t acknowledge it as a problem. If I ever recognise it as one, I’ll solve it. I don’t waste energy on things that don’t concern me. If anyone wants resolution in a place of logic and manhood, I’ll be there. I’ll state my grievances; listen, and resolve it. But I will never meet anyone in the court of public opinion. That space is a circus. It’s for entertainment, and I am not wired to be entertainment. I leave that to clowns.

Your message to Kate Henshaw on her birthday recently caused a buzz on social media. Why did you write it?

I have never looked at life the “normal” way. I live and express myself intensely; whether in laughter, friendship, love, or even hate. My ode to Kate was exactly that: an honest expression to someone I’ve known for over half my life. As a teenager, when I was hungry, she gave me money for food, made sure I got home safely, and guided me. She’s more than a friend; she’s a big sister and someone very special. Why would I not celebrate her?

Two hundred people read that poem. One hundred and seventy found it offensive or disrespectful. But the one person it was written for came online, hugged me electronically, blessed me, then called me for an hour-long conversation. I also sent her a beautiful gift; one many of my critics may never receive in their lifetime. So tell me, why should those 170 people matter? Too many people waste energy trying to be liked by strangers who don’t count. I don’t. I’ve been misunderstood all my life; why should it bother me now? I’ll keep doing what I want, whether it’s writing for Kate or penning a similar piece to the president tomorrow. Those who matter will understand; the rest need to upgrade their brain cells.

How long did it take to pen that “ode”?

Fifteen minutes. Writing is one of my strongest skills, perhaps even greater than my acting. It’s always been a deep passion, though acting took the spotlight. Yes, people often misunderstand my writing, but I no longer care. In the past, maybe it bothered me. Now, if anyone misinterprets my expression, I don’t owe them clarification.

How has your role as a father affected your life, career and relationships?

I am what you’d call an unorthodox father. I stand between the strictness of our fathers’ generation and the overly soft style of today. My children are not afraid of me in a way that prevents them from being open. I’m their father, friend, and sometimes big brother; but they also know that parenting is not a democracy. Leadership sometimes requires dictatorship.

Our parents were dictators, and we turned out resilient, able to face hardship. On the flip side, this modern overindulgent style has raised a generation that crumbles at the slightest adversity. My duty is to instill independence, resilience, and survival instincts. But, also compassion, emotional intelligence, and respect. That balance cannot come from one parent alone. That’s why I believe neither single mothers nor single fathers are fully equipped to raise complete men. Both masculine and feminine energies are needed for balance.

As a divorcee, how do you ensure that your children get that balance?

Divorce doesn’t change my role. Children don’t listen to words; they copy actions. My son mirrors me— how I dress, sit and even speak. That’s why I’m deliberate about the life I live. I avoid unnecessary drama in the media because I know he will soon access everything I’ve ever done. I want him to see a man of restraint, not a man consumed by battles.

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Sure, I could respond to insults online or match words with words; even break bones if I wanted to. But I don’t. I’m accountable to someone greater now— my son. He must look at me and see a man who won the war, not someone distracted by petty fights. My parenting order is simple: presence, example, sacrifice, and resilience without excuses.

Do you have plans to remarry?

No. I’m very clear about this: I took full responsibility for that union. She’s a great person, and I’m a great guy. But marriage and fame together are tough, so you must be intentional. Sadly, ours happened at my lowest point; just after I lost the most important person in my life (my mother). There were cultural differences and racial tensions; not just from strangers but sometimes even within the family structure. It drained me.

Eventually, the marriage ended, but we stayed friends. Today, we’ve built something rare— a great post-divorce family. My ex still picks me up from the airport sometimes, even with her new partner, and comes to me for advice. That’s intentional, because our child didn’t choose to be born. He deserves stability.

Don’t you get jealous or bitter seeing her with someone else?

No. Bitterness is useless. If I cut her off completely, she could end up with someone who mistreats my son, and that would haunt me forever. But her partner is a good man. Instead of jealousy, I see my son as blessed with two fathers.

We have different parenting styles. Her partner is a pleaser; the easy-going liberal type. I’m the disciplinarian; the one who teaches resilience and perspective as a successful black man navigating the world. Together, my son gets balance. He’s one of the happiest, most grounded kids I know.

What’s your favourite food?

My taste is global. I have lived in four countries and picked favourites everywhere. It changes constantly, so I can’t pin down just one.

How do you ease stress and relax?

God. Worship is my sanctuary. While others party on weekends, I play gospel music and roll on the floor asking for mercy. That’s my happy place— giving thanks to the One who brought me out of tunnels and defended me when I couldn’t defend myself.

After that, I love travelling. At the age of 26, I backpacked across 15 countries in Europe with a Swedish-German partner.

Having travelled widely, what changes do you think Nollywood needs at this stage of its evolution?

Consensus. Right now, the YouTube culture has everyone chasing their own corner with mixed-quality content. It’s chaotic. Worse, Netflix and Amazon have pulled back because of our missteps, and that should alarm us. Every five years, Nollywood finds itself back at square one.

What we need is government support. Look at California (United States): they invested in talent, created protective laws, and now, their creative industry is one of the richest in the world. Nigeria must invest in human resources, not just oil. Entertainment already contributes massively to GDP, so why ignore it? With AI, green energy, and alternative tech rising, we can’t afford to lag behind. What we need is structure, policy and vision.

What are you most grateful for?

Life itself. I don’t question where the wind blows me, because I trust my Maker. Place me anywhere, I will excel; not because of humans, but because of God.

What influences your fashion choice?

My fashion is drip, sense, swag; whatever you want to call it. However, style is different; you’re born with it. I got mine from my dad and his Lebanese business partner. Both were sharp dressers. Fashion can be bought with money, but style is innate.

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My mother died in court after NDLEA denied her care, demanded N2m — Son

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Samuel Akindele, son of Titilayo Funke Akindele, a 52-year-old Ondo woman who died at the Edo State High Court during proceedings over alleged drug offences, speaks with DANIEL AYANTOYE about her arrest, the circumstances of her death, and his ongoing efforts to secure justice

What kind of woman was your mother, and what was life at home like before her tragic passing?

I live in Oluku, while my mother stayed in the Egosa area of Edo State. My father, who had been supporting us, fell ill and passed away in 2017 when we were living in Ondo State. It was my mother later who moved us to Benin.

She was from Ifon, while my father was from Iju in Ondo State. She had five children, including me, but at the time of her passing, she was living alone with my youngest sibling, who is about 10 years old, while I am 24.

What jobs do you and your siblings do?

We don’t have specific jobs. We hustle daily. Life has been tough, but like my mother, we believe one day things will get better.

What led to her arrest?

She was arrested around the second or third week of January, accused of being in possession of Indian hemp. My mother didn’t have a formal job; she was simply trying to survive while caring for my youngest sibling. I believe she may have turned to selling it because she had no other means of support. She didn’t even have a shop.

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Where were you when she was arrested?

I was in Benin, but not at the place of arrest. I heard about it the next day and went to the office of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency. We tried to negotiate her bail, but they demanded N5m. I told them we didn’t have that kind of money. If we did, would this have happened?

It was said she was sick. Can you explain?

Yes. She told them she wasn’t feeling well while in custody, and they eventually took her for a check-up, but it was too late by then. We never saw the medical report. On the day of the court sitting, the judge asked for a doctor’s report, but the NDLEA lawyer claimed they had forgotten in the office. The judge instructed them to bring it the following day.

The next day, my mum’s condition had become critical. She told the NDLEA officers that she was not fit enough to appear in court, but they forced her into their van. I was there that day and begged them to let her stay behind, but they ignored me. I also appealed for her release so she could receive treatment, but they refused. After forcibly taking her to court, she collapsed and later died there. NDLEA officers even accused her of pretending, despite the fact that she had been dead for over an hour.

Were you aware that she was taken for a medical check-up?

No, and when we eventually found out, they did not allow us to see the report. One officer noticed her condition but said he did not have the power to help. Their commander refused to authorise her release. Another woman arrested with her was granted bail after paying over N2m. I used to visit the NDLEA office, which felt more like a company than a detention facility. I saw a lot during those visits.

Did you offer to pay her bail?

We offered N500,000, but they said it was not enough. They later demanded N2m. Initially, they had asked for N5m before reducing it to N3m.

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There was controversy over the corpse in a viral video. What happened?

I am the one seen in the white cloth in the video. After the NDLEA confirmed her death, they tried to leave with her corpse, claiming they had handed it over to us. While she was still alive, we had begged them to release her for treatment, but they refused. Lawyers and other sympathisers had to intervene before her body was eventually evacuated to the mortuary.

What did the judge do after she died?

The court dispersed when it became clear that she had died. Everyone ran out, and I do not know when the judge left. It was a very painful scene.

What do you want the government to do?

I need support from Nigerians to help me pursue justice for my mother. Through my lawyer, we have written a petition, but nothing concrete has happened.

Has the NDLEA contacted you since the incident?

No. They only transported her corpse to the mortuary. A female NDLEA officer stood by while my mother died and did nothing. They kept her in custody for about three months before bringing her to court. Government work must be carried out with humanity, with the understanding that officers are also human beings.

How are you coping since her death?

It has been extremely difficult. My father is dead, and now my mother is gone. These people have destroyed my life. Life has never been easy, and situations like this can push people toward crime.

What do you want the government to do for you?

I am calling on the government to ensure justice. We are not criminals, and we need answers. I do not want to take the law into my own hands. If nothing is done, more people may die, and others could be pushed into criminality.

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President, God of White Calling for All Souls Ministries, Prophet Odedoyin Ezekiel, in this interview with BOLA BAMIGBOLA, speaks on why pastors from the church embarked on the visit to the Osun-Osogbo shrine

Can you share a little about yourself and how you got into ministry?

I am Prophet Odedoyin Olawumi Ezekiel. I am an indigene of heavenly Jerusalem. I have had a divine call right from my young age. I belong to all tribes. As a full-time pastor, it’s been over 20 years since I started ministering. All these years, I have never been caught engaging in violence or a fight with anyone. My ministry is spotless.

What is the name of your ministry?

God of White Calling for All Souls Ministries. Our headquarters is in Ikotun, Lagos. We have branches all over Nigeria and abroad. Our headquarters were previously located in Modakeke. We later moved to Osogbo, and now, we are in Lagos.

Some pastors from your church in Osun State recently visited Osun-Osogbo grove, and the visit led to a disagreement. Can you tell us what actually transpired?

Recently, we organised a crusade in Osogbo, and we changed pastors who were working in our different branches. We have a new pastor posted to the Osogbo church. In the course of his work, the pastor was involved in the deliverance of people and crusades, and people kept mentioning the Osun-Osogbo grove. Because of that, the new pastor decided to visit the grove. He led other people, and they went to the grove.

At the entrance to the place, they were made to obtain a ticket. When those they met at the entrance asked them what their mission was, our pastors told them God directed them to the grove. After the security cleared them, they paid for the ticket and entered the groove. As they were going in, they saw some people there.

They proceeded. At one point, they observed a shrine. A chicken was killed, and its blood splashed on an object in the shrine. Men of the spirit are different from men in the flesh. The pastor who led them took notice of the shrine and stopped.

The pastor must have felt that the deity that could suck the blood of a chicken may also kill those people who accompanied him. He went to the shrine and prayed against any form of attack from it against those who followed him.

Immediately after concluding the prayer, he left the shrine with his people. What happened at the shrine was not the cause of the fight.

What led to it?

As they were moving towards the Osun River side, they were accosted by some women who insisted that they must pay them more money. Those women are traditionalists. But my pastors told them they won’t give money to any idol worshipper. The women insisted on collecting cash, whereas the money paid for the ticket at the entrance was transferred to an account. My pastors insisted that they didn’t have any money to pay again, having earlier paid before being allowed on the premises. Those women, however, insisted on collecting money from my pastors, and they (traditionalists) started calling people. Two buses that conveyed people who were colleagues of those women later arrived at the scene.

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What then happened when others arrived?

One man later came around. They called him Farinu. He asked his men what had happened. When they were narrating what transpired, they told Farinu, who is their Oluwo, that my pastor laid hands on the Esu deity; he was shocked. He was surprised that my pastor didn’t die after laying hands on Esu. Our own power is far stronger. We don’t fear such things. For him to be surprised that my pastor didn’t die after touching their deity, it means that some people must have died through that deity in the past.

Were you present at the scene when all that happened or were you told before those pastors left for Osun-Osogbo grove?

I was not there. I have not left Lagos in over one month. I was told everything that happened by my pastors. If you check my activities through our social media handles, you will observe that I have been to many places.

I have been to the Dead Sea, where I declared all spirits there powerless. I have been to the Sea of Galilee. Those who need liberation usually invite us to come and help them.

Did you approve the trip to the Osun-Osogbo grove by your pastors?

I didn’t tell them to go there, and I was not even told before they went there. It was the spirit of God that instructed them to visit the place. They had deliverance sessions, and those whom they were praying for possessed strange spirits. That led the pastors to the grove. They did not go there to cause problems or destroy anything. We did not attack the symbol of their faith.

When Farinu intervened and allowed my pastors to leave the area, their belief was that the pastors would die when they got home. But nothing happened to them. Videos were recorded at the scene. They simply wanted to implicate us. The pastor who led others to the shrine did not release any video. I don’t know how those videos got to the Internet. After paying the government, why were the traditionalists also demanding money from the people? The government owns that place. It is a tourist site.

The argument of the traditionalists is that your people attacked the symbol of their faith by declaring that deities are powerless. What is your take?

We didn’t attack their faith. After that incident, they wrote a petition to the DSS. Despite that, those traditionalists went to the branch of my church where they slaughtered a dog and harassed the pastors they met in church. Some monarchs are working with them. One Oyewole joined those who went to our church. He covered his face when they stormed our church, but he made a video earlier that revealed his identity.

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What happened on the day some traditionalists visited your church in apparent retaliation to what your men did at the Osun Osogbo grove?

A monarch had announced that he sealed our church. Only the government has that power, and before the government can do that, it will listen to all sides involved in the disagreement. The day they went to the church, they used lots of charms on our pastors, but it did not work. They destroyed chairs. They went there with a hot drink and drank it there, but my people did not react.

When the incident happened, the DSS invited our pastors, and from the headquarters here, we went there with our lawyers. When we got there, the DSS said those people had taken the law into their own hands by going to the church.

When the Olojudo visited the church, the pastor in charge was not around; he was in Akure for ministration and when he got the message, he called the monarch to say that he was not around but would show up once he came back. He also sent the monarch’s number to the headquarters, and we called him, but he did not pick up his calls. The monarch took sides with the traditionalists.

What do you intend to do regarding the sealing of your church?

For me, they did not seal the church because the monarch does not possess the power to shut the church.

The Osun State Government held a meeting with all those involved in the disagreement and CAN representatives were also present. After the meeting, the CAN chairman said he had invited you to a meeting. Do you plan to appear before him?

We are not under the Christian Association of Nigeria, and we are not Christians. We belong to White Calling Religion.

What are the differences between the two?

There are several differences between Christians and us. First, we serve the God who created heaven and earth. The God that created Christians, Muslims and other people. We believe in Jesus Christ as one of the messengers of God. That God is stainless. He doesn’t allow sin. In this ministry, we abhor sins. In our own religion, we are calling people to holiness. Jesus and other messengers belong to that holy God. I have been to Jerusalem, and there I displayed the power of God.

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In your own religion, do you use or believe in the Bible?

We have our own holy book, but we have not launched it. It is different from the Bible. We call it the Book of Words. The Bible that Christians carry is just a fraction of words. Our own book is called Book of Words.

When CAN wrote to us, the association said we should come immediately. We felt the letter was not properly written. They can’t just call us and direct us to report immediately. The leadership of CAN can’t just order us to come over. Also, our name is not on the CAN list. There is freedom of association. Their approach to the issues is very wrong.

The Osun State Police Command said a petition has been written against you. What is the way out of this situation?

We have absolute trust in the police. We believe in the leadership of President Bola Tinubu. The police command has called for a meeting, and we will be there. We are not fighting anybody, and we are for peace. Nigeria is our country, and we believe in the country. Regarding the monarch who shut our church, we will meet him and resolve the matter amicably. Our religion preaches peace.

In some of the videos you shared online, you were captured visiting rivers to cast out spirits and shrines. Don’t you feel your activities can expose traditional religion worshippers to ridicule?

I don’t see it that way. In the last video I posted that has gone viral, it was the monarch of that town who invited me, and when I got there, I prayed, and God ministered to me that there was a deity in the town that was hindering its progress. I delivered the message, and the monarch took me to the place. I removed it. We did not intrude. They permitted us to go there. I went to the Dead Sea and declared the spirit there powerless. People are inviting us. We don’t go anywhere without being called to come.

With what has happened after the visit to Osun-Osogbo grove, do you plan to visit more shrines and traditional region sites?

If anyone calls me tomorrow to say that a deity is disturbing them and I should come, I will go there. The visit to Osun-Osogbo grove was embarked upon after divine instruction was received concerning it. We have a church in Epe and some Oro adherents said we can’t open it because they wanted to observe their Oro festival. We rejected the idea and engaged them. We deliberately did not bring the matter online.

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Haunted wigs: Lawyers share mysterious courtroom experiences

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Although Nigeria’s constitution does not recognise witchcraft or the use of charms, long-standing rumours persist about alleged spiritual attacks on lawyers and the judicial system, writes CHIJIOKE IREMEKA

In many parts of the world, men in white wigs face undue pressure from political interests, powerful individuals and aggrieved parties while discharging their professional duties.

However, beyond the visible pressures of the courtroom, physical threats and assaults, some lawyers and judges told Sunday PUNCH that they face unusual spiritual attacks while handling certain sensitive cases.

Although diabolism or charms, popularly referred to as juju, have no place in Nigeria’s law and legal system, an unidentified lawyer, in a viral video clip on X and Instagram, while shedding light on such practices, appealed to litigants to stop directing spiritual attacks at opposing lawyers during court proceedings.

His experience became a widely discussed topic among religious and legal communities, where differing opinions were expressed on the place of juju and charms in Nigeria’s legal system.

The lawyer emphasised that lawyers are professionals carrying out their ethical duties and should not be targeted through spiritual means that could undermine justice.

“If you have a problem with someone and the case is already in court, and you still want to report the matter to your ‘juju’, leave the opponent’s lawyer out of it.

“Stop attacking the lawyers spiritually; attack your opponent only. Lawyers are just doing their job,” he said.

The video sparked widespread discussion online, highlighting the prevalence of beliefs in consulting spiritualists to influence court outcomes in Nigeria.

Following this, many Nigerians expressed support for the lawyer’s stance on social media, calling for an end to the practice of targeting lawyers with spiritual attacks, while others treated it with humour.

However, several lawyers who spoke to Sunday PUNCH recounted harrowing experiences they alleged were ‘spiritual attacks’ in the course of their profession.

 

A strange experience

A retired judge of the Federal High Court in Imo State, who asked to be identified only by her first name, Joyce, said, “Although juju has no place in Nigeria’s legal system, there are moments, both inside and outside the courtroom, when events unfold that simply defy explanation.”

The Imo State-born jurist said that on a few occasions, she had been subjected to what she described as spiritual attacks and intimidation during court proceedings, but she had always prevailed through her Christian faith.

The 76-year-old recounted several experiences during sensitive cases when she began to experience unusual moments.

The mother of three said that on one occasion, she arrived at court as usual, took her seat, and prepared to begin the day’s proceedings. After handling the first case without difficulty, the second became a problem.

“When the second case was called, I was preparing to listen to the submissions, and that was the last case for the day. I became unusually still and quiet, staring ahead without speaking for a long time.

“For several minutes in the courtroom, I was blank and confused. I did not know where such a feeling came from, but I was unable to proceed with the case, and I had to adjourn it to a later date.

“It was a murder case involving the only male child of his parents. I was lost in thought and struggled to proceed. I knew it wasn’t ordinary; I knew where it was coming from. But the law will always take its course. Litigants try to attack practitioners to derail their minds, but it does not last if you remain strong,” Joyce said.

According to her, such experiences are among the pressures faced by many legal practitioners, but they rarely speak about them because charms and juju have no place in the legal system, and since they cannot be proven, discussing them may appear irrational.

“In Nigeria, where people pray over everything and hold strong beliefs in God and certain ancestral powers, people commit their activities and challenges to prayers, irrespective of the supreme beings they believe in,” she added.

Joyce believed the strange occurrence was linked to spiritual attacks intended to distract or weaken her resolve in delivering a fair judgment.

For her, the experience became a test of faith rather than a moment of defeat. Instead of yielding to external pressures, she became more determined to carry out her judicial responsibilities with integrity and without fear or favour.

‘Spiritual attacks’ under judicial lens

Belief in supernatural intervention is not uncommon in parts of Nigeria, where spirituality and traditional beliefs often intersect with daily life.

Legal analysts often frame such accounts in broader terms. They noted that the real challenge facing judges is the intense pressure associated with high-profile cases, including threats to life, physical attacks, and other forms of intimidation.

They stressed that attempts to influence judicial decisions, whether through bribery, threats, or coercion, have long been recognised as challenges in many judicial systems worldwide.

Nigeria’s justice system, long regarded as the bedrock of law and order, is increasingly entangled in narratives that extend beyond the physical realm.

Across courtrooms and legal corridors, there have been claims of spiritual interference, ritual practices, and unseen forces that have become part of conversations within and outside the system.

From delayed judgments to controversial case outcomes, missing files, and absent witnesses, many insiders attribute irregularities not only to corruption or inefficiency but also to perceived metaphysical influences.

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These experiences, often dismissed yet widely believed, reveal a complex intersection of law, culture, and spirituality, raising questions about integrity, accountability, and the unseen pressures shaping the pursuit of justice in Nigeria and across Africa today.

Findings revealed that many legal practitioners believe in spiritual powers but are reluctant to openly discuss them because the subject is highly subjective.

Section 210 of the Criminal Code Act criminalises offences related to witchcraft and charms, stating that anyone involved in such acts is guilty of a misdemeanour and liable to two years’ imprisonment.

It provides that any person who, by his statements or actions, represents himself to be a witch or to have the power of witchcraft; or accuses or threatens to accuse any person of being a witch or of having the power of witchcraft; or makes, sells, uses, assists in making or using, or has in his possession any juju, drug, or charm intended to prevent or delay a person from doing what they have a legal right to do, or to compel them to do what they have a legal right to refrain from doing, commits an offence and is guilty of a misdemeanour.

It further states that a person who claims such items have the power to cause natural phenomena, diseases, or epidemics, or who directs, controls, presides over, is present at, or takes part in the worship or invocation of any juju prohibited by an order of the President or a state governor, is also culpable under the law.

Additionally, anyone who is in possession of or has control over any human remains used or intended to be used in connection with the worship or invocation of any juju; or makes or uses, or assists in making or using, or has in his possession anything whatsoever, the making, use, or possession of which has been prohibited by an order as being or believed to be associated with human sacrifice or any other unlawful practice, is guilty of a misdemeanour and is liable to imprisonment for two years.

 

‘Legally, ethically unacceptable’

Buttressing this legal provision, a popular Nigerian human rights lawyer, Deji Adeyanju, cited Sections 210–213 of the Criminal Code, which criminalise acts of witchcraft, sorcery, or juju when used to cause harm, fear, or deceive others.

“The idea of clients using ‘juju’ or supernatural means to target a lawyer on the opposing side is both legally and ethically unacceptable. Therefore, any attempt to use such means against a lawyer could constitute a criminal offence.

“However, while the Criminal Code criminalises such acts, the Supreme Court of Nigeria has consistently affirmed that juju, charms, rituals, or other supernatural practices have no objective legal effect or power in legal proceedings,” he said.

Adeyanju emphasised that Nigerian law is secular and evidence-based, arguing that courts decide cases on facts, witness testimony, documents, and applicable statutes, not on spiritual claims, curses, oaths with supernatural backing, or beliefs in the occult.

“The Supreme Court treats defences or claims based purely on witchcraft or juju as subjective and legally untenable. While such beliefs may sometimes be offered to explain motive, they cannot justify or excuse unlawful acts unless they meet strict objective legal tests, which they rarely do,” he added.

From a professional standpoint, he noted that lawyers must be protected from threats, whether physical or otherwise, adding that legal practitioners owe duties to their clients, the court, and the justice system, and any attempt to compromise those duties through extra-judicial means is unacceptable.

According to him, disputes between clients should be resolved strictly through legal channels.

“To clarify, I have never experienced any such attacks from opposing parties. My focus remains on representing clients within the law and maintaining the integrity of the legal profession,” Adeyanju added.

 

Physical attacks and threats

Beyond alleged spiritual attacks, several legal practitioners recounted experiences of intimidation, harassment, and direct threats from opposing parties during high-stakes cases.

A human rights lawyer, Jude Ofokansi, said he had, on a couple of occasions, been followed by unknown persons and, at other times, received anonymous calls and threats to drop certain cases.

He noted that his experiences highlight the broader risks associated with legal practice, particularly in contentious matters involving powerful interests.

According to him, these encounters can be deeply unsettling and, in some instances, may discourage lawyers from fully pursuing justice for their clients.

“Many people have lost their cases because of these threats and intimidation. However, these accounts point to a troubling environment where legal battles are not only fought on the basis of evidence and law but are also shaped by fear, intimidation, and external pressures.

“I have had a case where the youth of a particular community attacked me and blocked my way after a court case because they felt I should not stand in their way of justice.

“They had a community land dispute, which I obtained an injunction to stop the allocation and plotting of the land meant to be shared among the community members. So, I was hired by the opposing community to defend them, and the first thing I did was to stop the plotting of the land,” Ofokansi said.

Strange occurrences

A Delta-based litigation lawyer with 13 years of courtroom experience, Emeke Omogiafo, was reported to have personally faced spiritual attacks during a land case in 2021.

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According to The Pointer of October 26, 2025, Omogiafo said he believed in sound logic and reasoning and never subscribed to spiritual warfare as a lawyer, until he collapsed in the courtroom and woke up in a hospital while making a case submission.

“I had been briefed by a client, whom I will not mention, in a Delta community over a land dispute that had lingered for almost 20 years. It was between two brothers. I knew it was going to be tough legally, but I did not expect it to turn into a battle of life and death,” he recalled.

According to Omogiafo, strange things began happening barely a week after he took the brief. He said the first sign was waking up in the middle of the night, feeling as though someone was sitting on his chest.

He said he would struggle to breathe, as if something was pressing him down, which he initially dismissed as stress, but became alarmed when it continued for days.

“Then, on the first hearing date, my car refused to start. I checked the battery, fuel, and everything was fine. I ended up using my wife’s car to go to court. The following night, my tyres burst in my parking lot. There was no explanation for that, and this pushed me to prayer.

“Meanwhile, I had already been warned that people don’t fight fair in that community once land is involved. I was told they can go to any length. My client even told me that the other side had gone to a native doctor, but I laughed it off until I collapsed in court.

“I collapsed in court, right in the middle of my submission. I felt dizzy, then blank. I lost consciousness and woke up in the hospital. The doctor said my blood pressure was extremely low and could not explain why I collapsed. But a pastor friend who visited me told me I was under spiritual attack. He prayed with me and advised me to fast for seven days,” Omogiafo said.

According to him, he obeyed and fasted, adding that after the spiritual exercise, things changed for the better, and the case eventually ended in his client’s favour.

“I used to mock colleagues who said they fortified themselves spiritually before major cases, but not anymore. Now I know better. Law may be a profession of logic and evidence, but in Nigeria, there are forces logic cannot explain.

“I still don’t visit any herbalist or traditionalist, no. I’m a Christian, and my faith is enough. But I don’t step into court without praying and covering myself with the blood of Jesus. I’ve seen too much to take chances again,” he added.

In another development, a legal practitioner, Chukwuemeke Ogbuobodo, affirmed that spirituality exists, saying if not, there would not be the word ‘spirit.’

He said that although its existence is abstract, some people think it does not exist, adding that on several occasions, he has seen situations where a lawyer slumped during court proceedings, which people often attribute to a rise in blood pressure or cardiac arrest.

“Again, sometimes, a lawyer can attend court to defend his client but end up not knowing what to say or do during the proceedings. People see such a lawyer as a quack who does not know his duty, but in reality, such a lawyer at that moment is under spiritual attack, which may have come from the opponent. Sometimes, lawyers forget to appear in court. All these are not ordinary; they are spiritual attacks,” Ogbuobodo said.

He revealed that sometimes clients on the opposing side can go the extra mile to eliminate a lawyer, thinking that once the lawyer handling a case is gone, the matter will close.

“However, in reality, this is not so, because other lawyers are readily available to carry on the case,” he noted.

Ogbuobodo affirmed that spirituality exists, but said he fears nothing in the process of discharging his legal obligations.

He further stated that spiritual protection is a general concept, in the sense that one prays to one’s God, adding that prayer serves as spiritual protection and is not restricted to Christians or Muslims alone.

Ogbuobodo urged legal practitioners to uphold the pride of the profession, as it remains the last hope of the common man.

Spiritual attacks stall cases

Across Nigeria and Anglophone African countries, allegations of spiritual attacks disrupting legal proceedings are gaining attention, as some lawyers claim unseen forces stall cases, raising concerns about justice, belief systems, and professional accountability within the judiciary.

Last month, a human rights activist and social crusader, Festus Ogun, shared his experience on X (formerly Twitter).

The lawyer said he once became ill shortly after shaking hands with an individual who had filed a case against his client.

“I did a pre-election litigation in 2022. After successfully persuading the court to refuse his motion for joinder, the applicant jokingly approached and shook hands with me. That was how the sickness started. Thank you, Blessed Virgin Mary, for giving me a chance to tell the story,” Ogun wrote,” he wrote on his handle.

‘There’s no spiritual attack in law’

Reacting to what he described as extra-legal harm in litigation, a traditionalist and human rights lawyer, Malcolm Omirhobo, told Sunday PUNCH that the claim is deeply disturbing and professionally inappropriate.

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Omirhobo, who said the claim was dangerous to the administration of the justice system in the country, is also the Principal Partner at the Chambers of Chief Malcolm Omirhobo & Co., Lagos.

He said litigation in Nigeria is governed strictly by the rule of law, due process, and ethical standards, adding that the administration of justice must remain rooted in law, evidence, and reason, not fear, superstition, or intimidation.

“Any suggestion that expressly or impliedly indicates that a litigant may lawfully or acceptably resort to extra-legal means, including spiritual or traditional practices intended to harm an opposing party, is wholly inconsistent with Nigerian law and the ethical obligations of legal practitioners.

“Under Nigerian criminal jurisprudence, any act intended to cause harm to another person, whether directly or indirectly, constitutes a punishable offence. The law does not recognise ‘spiritual harm’ as a defence or justification,” Omirhobo said.

He noted that acts of intimidation, threats, conspiracy, or any conduct calculated to harm another person fall within the purview of criminal liability under the Criminal Code Act and other applicable laws.

“Furthermore, the Rules of Professional Conduct for Legal Practitioners (2007) impose a clear duty on lawyers to uphold the rule of law and maintain the highest standards of professional integrity.

“In particular, Rule 1 mandates that a lawyer shall uphold and observe the rule of law and promote and foster the cause of justice. Rule 15(1)(a) prohibits a lawyer from engaging in any conduct that is unlawful or incompatible with the legal practitioner’s duty to the court and the administration of justice.

“A statement that appears to disclaim involvement while failing to unequivocally condemn unlawful conduct may be construed as tacit approval or normalisation of illegality, which is unacceptable within the legal profession,” he noted.

Omirhobo argued that the Supreme Court of Nigeria has consistently emphasised that legal practitioners are ministers in the temple of justice, whose conduct must at all times reflect dignity, responsibility, and fidelity to the law.

He said, “In Legal Practitioners Disciplinary Committee v. Fawehinmi (No. 2) (1985) 2 NWLR (Pt. 7) 300, the Court underscored the central role of lawyers in preserving the integrity of the justice system.

“Therefore, the propagation of narratives suggesting that disputes may be influenced or resolved through extra-judicial or supernatural means poses a serious threat to public confidence in the judiciary, encourages fear-based litigation, and undermines the very foundation of justice in a constitutional democracy.

“It must be stated unequivocally: No litigant has the right to harm, threaten, or intimidate an opposing party by any means whatsoever, physical, psychological, or spiritual, and no lawyer should, directly or indirectly, lend credence to such conduct.”

Omirhobo noted that legal practitioners confronted with clients expressing such intentions have a duty to advise firmly against such conduct, distance themselves clearly and professionally, and, where necessary, withdraw from representation in line with ethical rules.

“The Nigerian Bar Association and relevant disciplinary bodies are urged to reiterate and enforce clear ethical guidelines on this issue to preserve the sanctity of the legal profession,” he added.

Buttressing Omirhobo’s point, the Managing Partner of an Abuja-based firm, Charles I. Ndukwe & Co., Barr Charles Ndukwe, who has been in the legal profession for over 35 years, said he had never witnessed or heard of a lawyer being attacked spiritually while handling a brief.

“I have not had any such experience since I started practising law 35 years ago. I have also never heard of this from colleagues who have been practising for decades. Such a claim is balderdash. If anyone loses a case, they should accept it and seek help if they wish.

“If such spiritual attacks were real, the majority of lawyers would have been destroyed or driven out of the profession long ago, because those with superior powers or charms would have dominated everyone,” he said.

However, he acknowledged that physical attacks do occasionally occur, usually because some individuals are unhappy or angry that a lawyer took up a particular case they believe should not have been accepted.

“They may become malicious or hostile because of that. But that is no reason to entertain claims of spiritual interference. Lawyers are doing their jobs, and anyone who says you shouldn’t take up a case should compensate you, not intimidate you.

“Apart from this, there is nothing like a spiritual attack in law. When you lose a case, accept it, learn from it, and restrategise,” he added.

Diablism has no place in law – NBA President
Strongly condemning allusion to spiritualism attacks on lawyers, a Senior Advocate of Nigeria and President of the Nigerian Bar Association, Afam Osigwe, said ‘juju’ and ‘charms’ have no role in Nigeria’s legal system.
“I have practised law for over 27 years and handled numerous critical and high-profile cases, yet I have never encountered juju or charms in court. They simply have no place in our legal system.
“This is not a topic we should be discussing in the 21st century. As NBA president, I cannot speak on juju because I do not believe in it. I have not seen it, and there is no such thing as spiritual attacks in our courts.”

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