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Inside Regina Daniels, Ned Nwoko’s troubled home

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For years, Nollywood actress Regina Daniels and her husband,  Senator Ned Nwoko, embodied the fantasy of fame and fortune.

But last week, that fairy tale cracked.

Millions of Nigerians on Saturday woke up to a viral video showing Regina weeping outside her Abuja mansion.

“In Ned Nwoko’s house, I am nothing. But in my house, I am a queen,” she said through sobs.

Moments later, men believed to be security aides appeared, trying to calm her and her siblings, while her brother, Sammy, resisted.

The emotional outburst, captured in video clips, shattered the glossy portrait of one of Nigeria’s most talked-about celebrity marriages.

Since then, social media has been awash with counter-allegations of violence, drug abuse, and manipulation.

From power couple to public scandal

Within hours of the video surfacing, Nwoko fired back.

In a lengthy online statement, he denied ever abusing Regina, instead accusing her of being “violent and destructive” due to alleged addiction to drugs and alcohol.

He wrote, “Regina was not always like this. Her current battle with drugs and alcohol abuse is the root of our problem. She must continue her rehabilitation program, or I fear for her life and safety.”

The senator also accused her of attacking his staff and damaging property in his Abuja home, adding that she needed rehabilitation “either in Nigeria or abroad.”

As of press time, Regina had not publicly responded, but her silence has only fuelled speculation and sympathy among fans.

The marriage that broke the Internet

When Regina married Nwoko in 2019, the wedding stunned Nigeria.

She was in her early 20s, a fresh-faced actress adored for her innocence.

He was 38 years older, a wealthy lawyer, businessman, and later a senator.

Their union instantly divided the public.

Critics accused Regina of marrying for wealth; supporters saw her as pragmatic.

Regina herself dismissed the noise.

In interviews, she described Nwoko as “kind and caring,” often posting affectionate photos of their luxury vacations and family life.

For years, the marriage was portrayed as a perfect blend of tradition and modern glamour.

A May 2024 feature by Modern Ghana titled, ‘Regina Daniels: A Beacon of Respectful Love Worth Emulating’ described their relationship as “built on mutual respect and understanding.”

But beneath the sheen, insiders say, tension had been brewing — the kind that can’t be hidden behind matching designer outfits and smiling Instagram posts.

Old patterns, new cracks

This is not the first time Nwoko’s domestic life has become a public spectacle.

In 2021, his Moroccan wife, Laila Charani, announced on social media that she had divorced him, warning the public to stay away from her private life.

“Hello guys. I have divorced already and there is nothing between me and him. Anybody who followed me because of him can unfollow me, please,” she wrote.

Nwoko’s team quickly countered, accusing Laila of “indecent conduct” during a London trip and undergoing plastic surgery without his consent.

Months later, Laila apologised publicly, saying she had “listened too much to outsiders.”

Their reconciliation was widely reported as proof of “maturity and forgiveness.”

Today, that cycle of conflict and public reconciliation seems to be repeating itself, this time with Regina.

A blogger, Ajemba Stanley, alleged that the current row began with a physical altercation, alleging that Nwoko slapped Regina first and she retaliated by smashing his Ferrari’s windscreen.

The claims remain unverified.

The Jaruma connection

Adding fuel to the chaos is popular kayanmata (aphrodisiac) seller, Hauwa Mohammed, aka Jaruma.

Once friends with Regina, Jaruma has resurfaced with explosive allegations, claiming the actress introduced her to drugs and alcohol.

“She was the one who gave me alcohol,” Jaruma said in an interview with blogger Stella Dimoko Korkus. “Even Ned said she must continue her rehabilitation. He knows she abuses substances.”

Jaruma also accused Nwoko of physically assaulting women he had dated, alleging she had spoken with “seven side chics” who claimed the same.

Family, friends drawn in

The senator’s accusations did not end with his wife. He also blamed Regina’s brother, Sammy West, and a friend, Ann, for influencing her.

“Sammy is Regina’s main drug supplier,” Nwoko alleged, describing Ann as “the tiny evil devil.”

Sammy hit back in a now-deleted post, writing, “No marriage is perfect. But Regina Daniels is not affiliated with any drug abuse or misuse.”

Checks by Saturday PUNCH showed that Sammy has long cultivated a bohemian image, with his music often referencing weed and street life.

Another friend, Antoinette Cassidy (known as @casie_snow), whom online users suspect is “Ann,” has remained silent, maintaining only family and business-related posts on her page.

NDLEA, police wave off allegations

Amid the noise, Saturday PUNCH reached out to law enforcement.

A senior official of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency said the agency would not act based on “social media speculation.”

“Our work is evidence-based. We don’t act on rumours,” the source said.

Similarly, FCT Police Command spokesperson, SP Josephine Adeh, said she had “no comment,” citing the private nature of the matter.

Social media clues and contradictions

While authorities remain silent, the Internet has turned into an unofficial court.

Videos and photos claiming to show Regina drinking and smoking have resurfaced online — some dating back to 2018, before her marriage.

One clip shows her smoking shisha at a club; another shows a Sprite bottle filled with a darker liquid.

Supporters say these are harmless youthful moments; critics see them as proof of deeper issues.

Celebrities take sides

The controversy has split Nollywood.

Actress Yvonne Jegede advised Regina to leave the marriage if violence was involved.

“Regina, you are still very young. If there’s violence in your marriage, please carry your bag,” she wrote.

Her comment sparked an online spat between actresses Angela Okorie and Doris Ogala, with Ogala accusing Okorie of hypocrisy.

“So na Gina wey suppose be your pikin you dey mock?” Ogala fired.

Former Big Brother Naija star Tuoyo also criticised Regina’s brother for speaking out “too late,” while actress Georgina Onuoha called for a formal probe into the allegations of both abuse and substance use.

“This recurring pattern points to control and power dynamics common when older men marry much younger women,” she said, also faulting Regina’s mother, Rita Daniels, for “not protecting her daughter.”

Experts weigh in

Clinical psychologist Dr John Eze said substance use among celebrities is often a maladaptive response to stress, fame, and marital tension.

“When people lose emotional connection in marriage, they sometimes turn to alcohol or drugs to cope,” he explained. “It gives temporary relief but causes lasting harm.”

Another psychologist, Kemi Akintoyese, noted that the constant public scrutiny of celebrities could heighten anxiety, insecurity, and poor decision-making.

“Coercive control in relationships — isolation, manipulation, or disguised care — can worsen substance abuse,” she said. “Low self-esteem and online shame also drive people to seek escape through substances.”

Between love, control, and public judgment

For many Nigerians, the Regina-Nwoko saga is more than celebrity gossip; it’s a reflection of how power, gender, and class play out in modern relationships.

What was once idolised as a Cinderella story has become a cautionary tale about fame and emotional collapse behind closed doors.

A social commentator, Ene Abba, told Saturday PUNCH that the public’s obsession with the couple reveals a deeper societal longing.

She said, “We project our fantasies onto them. When the fairy tale breaks, it feels like betrayal — as if their failure challenges our belief in love and success.”

Family calls for calm

Despite the uproar, sources close to the family say private reconciliation efforts are underway.

Nwoko’s brother, Michael, while appealing for restraint, said, “Whatever is happening between Senator Ned Nwoko and his dear wife is a private family matter. It will be resolved internally.”

But in the court of public opinion, the damage may already be done.

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Ned Never Slept Outside Because I Held Him Well In The Other Room – Regina Daniels

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Nollywood actress, Regina Daniels, has opened up about her marriage to her estranged husband, Senator Ned Nwoko.

It was reports that the embattled wife revealed why their seven-year relationship remained faithful despite his polygamous lifestyle.

In a reply to a comment on her Instagram page, Daniels said that during their years together, Nwoko never slept with other women outside their home because she held him well in the other room.

She wrote: “Yes i think he loved me but a toxic one! Because tell me why a polygamous man forgot what it meant to be in polygamy, except for the media.

“Just because it boosted his ego of being seen with multiple women which is easy by me because anyone that sees a man as an odogwu sees the wife as what? He basically had to beg that he share days at ours and other days with his other wives because they begged for his attention.

“Y’all should pls forget this yeye social media comparison because my ex man never slept outside one day in our 7 years of marriage. You know why? Because as a delta babe, I hold am well for the other room ladies use your skills that’s all men want actually!”

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I was once homeless in US — Nigerian-American politician

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A Nigerian-American tech expert and politician, Dr Juliet Agocha, tells BIODUN BUSARI about her childhood aspirations, challenges growing up, and current political ambition, among others

Why are you planning to run for an elective position?

To be very clear, I’m running to become the next councilwoman for District 4 in Prince George’s County Council in Maryland. My vision is what drives my political ambition, which is to serve my community. I want to be an advocate for families here in Prince George’s County.

What leadership experience do you have?

I have over 18 years of experience in leadership. I am the founder and the Chief Executive Officer of Ultimate Tech. It is a technology company situated here in Prince George’s County, and what we do is provide technology services. I founded that organisation during the pandemic when people battled uncertainties and were not clear on what direction to take. There was a lot of chaos, so in the midst of chaos, I transformed what was supposed to be dramatic into technology to solve problems. Secondly, I am the founder of One Voice Empower Her, a nonprofit organisation for women. I use the charity to serve people, empower women and girls, and lead with clarity, collaboration, resilience, and build a stronger America. I have both corporate and political experience before I came to run for this political position. I’m also the current Vice Chairperson Policy Council for Early Childhood Education for the Lawyers Centre. So, all my life I’ve just been serving and leading people.

What are the focal points of your campaign?

My campaign is focused on three major priorities. One is affordable housing. I want to share with you today that I was once homeless for two weeks in 2009, and that experience built me. That experience shaped who I am today. But it will surprise you to know that not much has changed in the housing programmes here in Prince George’s County from 2009 to 2025. Not much has changed. So, I am focusing on affordable housing, because housing is everything that we here in Prince George’s County is where we start with. Housing means stability. It provides safety and opportunity.

The second thing I’m fighting for is quality education for our children. I’m fighting for this because I’m very passionate about it. Education is how we keep our children out of trouble. When a child’s mind is not well occupied with good resources, they can become a problem in the community. So, I’m fighting for quality education because every child in Prince George’s County deserves access to quality education, no matter their zip code. And the third thing I’m fighting for here is a safe community. I want a safe community because we can’t continue to have the kind of chaos and crime that we have right now.

Are there problems confronting aged people that drive your campaign for a safe community for them?

We owe them accountability, transparency, and action. And that’s what I’m bringing. I’m bringing programmes that support our seniors’ health care and to have a safe neighbourhood. Our seniors’ homes should not be robbed by maintenance people. So, I am here to support programmes that will place our seniors first. This is because our seniors need homes and a place connected with value and dignity. I’m here to fight for our seniors because they have paved the way for us. Their wisdom has paved the way for us. And they have fought for many assets that brought us where we are today. They are a very important piece of my campaign because I feel that we owe them action, not words.

You mentioned you were once homeless. How did that happen?

Well, it’s a long story, but to make it short, what happened was that I could not afford a house at that time. What is home when access is limited? What is the benefit of building new programmes and new housing when they are ridiculously expensive? So, I was homeless because I was not able to pay. The job I had at that time was not able to provide me with a one-bedroom apartment. For that reason, I wasn’t able to provide that and also keep up with my education, a student loan, and everything that I had to deal with. The affordability of houses became a challenge for me. And that is why I am very passionate about affordable housing here in Prince George’s County, because no family should experience what I experienced. No family should be able to choose between food and where to lay their head. No family should be put in that situation where they have to give up something just to have a home to sleep.

Did you face homelessness alone or with your family?

At that time, I was not married and had no children. And I thank God because if I were married with children, I don’t know how I could have handled it. So, I was able to handle it with resilience because I was single at that time. Think about it for families who have children, who have parents living with them, like aged parents. Imagine how they could handle that situation. So, it wasn’t able to break me because at that time, I didn’t have children. I was just worried about myself. But regardless of that, I was handling it by myself.

How did you overcome that challenge?

It was a combination of both sleeping on the street and squatting with someone for those two weeks. I felt like I was not treated with respect. I was not treated with empathy. And that is what I’m fighting for. I remember I was going from McDonald’s stores, just trying to get something to eat because McDonald’s at that time was one of the most affordable places to eat a burger or chicken nugget. But people wouldn’t know that I was homeless because of how I handled it. Sometimes I went to Walmart to see if I could afford a cookie to buy. Access to phones and social media was very limited at that time. I didn’t have all the resources with me. However, a good Samaritan found me and accommodated me after I shared my situation with her, and she helped me until I was able to find a place for myself.

When did you relocate to the US?

I moved from Nigeria to the United States at a very early age. And I came here to study. I got admission to the University of Maryland. I was very excited. It was just a very sweet story. Being a young girl at that time, I came with big dreams for myself. And I needed an advanced education for the kind of dreams I had for myself. And I think right now all those dreams are playing out. I also want to say thank you to America for providing me with a lot of essential resources to help me succeed. This is a very working country. The law is working. I’m grateful for the opportunities that have been provided to me here to excel and to be where I am today. I am an immigrant, but fighting for these people passionately. I want every family to succeed and flourish.

How has your academic background shaped your dreams?

I’m into information technology. To be quite honest with you, I was like the black sheep of the family back in the day because at that time, technology was not like this. Technology was like one of the things that nobody would talk about, but at that time, I had the vision of where my future was headed. I knew that we would get to where innovation would be prominent in every decision. My family wanted me to become a medical doctor or a nurse. They just told me to be in healthcare because my family is very centred in healthcare. However, I went my own direction into technology, so I got my associate’s degree in information technology. I got my master’s degree in cybersecurity, and then I went ahead and got my PhD in leadership with an emphasis in business management. Right now, academically, I feel very fulfilled and accomplished, but I still have work to do for my community with all this knowledge and education. I have tremendous experience and life lessons to pour into this trip forward.

What is significant about Maryland as one of the popular abodes of African-Americans?

I would say Maryland is my great state. I’m very proud to be a Marylander. Maryland is rooted in a very deep historical black. It is for black and brown communities, and we carry a very strong history of generations from the struggle of slavery to the triumph of civil rights leaders that we have today. Maryland is a place for everyone, a state that accommodates immigrants. It also has a very strong educational foundation. It is very vibrant in cultural heritage and festivals, local businesses, and tradition. Maryland gives residents unique opportunities to engage and influence national decisions. It is a state for anyone who wants to flourish, and I feel very proud to be part of the history that we are making here.

What are your thoughts about Nigeria?

Nigeria is a country full of potential. I’m a proud Nigerian. I was born in Nigeria, so I have a deep love and passion for my country. I love our food, Jollof rice, culture, and I love being in Nigeria. I will clearly say that Nigeria has incredible potential, but leadership often struggles with corruption and short-term thinking. In my opinion, Nigerian leaders have a very short-term perspective. The country needs visionary leaders who empower the youth and hold themselves accountable. I feel like that is lacking within the Nigerian leadership. The country needs leaders who prioritise education. A country that is not educated is heading for doom. There are natural and human resources, so Nigeria needs leaders to blend these resources for the people to flourish. I must state that we need leaders who know transparency, trust, and building trust between leaders and citizens for sustainable progress and national unity. I think we need that in Nigeria.

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Oloi Esther Omoyenmwen Erediauwa: Senior Wife and Pillar of the Benin Royal Household

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Remembering the Eson N’Erie of Benin Kingdom and her Legacy

Early Life and Background

Oloi Esther Omoyenmwen Erediauwa (née Osunbor) was born in 1940 or 1941 (exact date not widely documented) in the Benin Kingdom, Edo State, Nigeria. Hailing from a distinguished family, she grew up immersed in the cultural and spiritual traditions of the Edo people, preparing her for a life deeply intertwined with the royal institution.

Marriage to Oba Erediauwa

Esther Omoyenmwen married Oba Erediauwa, who would later reign as the Oba of Benin from 1979 to 2016. Upon her marriage, she assumed the prestigious position of Eson N’Erie, traditionally the leader of the royal harem and senior wife of the Oba. In this role, she wielded considerable influence in palace affairs, ceremonial events, and the guidance of junior wives within the royal household.

Role and Influence in the Benin Kingdom

As Eson N’Erie, Oloi Esther Omoyenmwen Erediauwa played a multifaceted role:

Cultural Custodian: She upheld and promoted the rich customs and rituals of the Benin monarchy, particularly those involving women of the palace.

Palace Leadership: She was responsible for mentoring younger wives, managing the royal harem, and participating in key traditional ceremonies.

Public Representation: Her presence at festivals, coronations, and cultural events reflected the dignity and heritage of the Benin royal family.

Her coral bead regalia, traditional attire, and ceremonial accessories, often captured in photographs, remain iconic symbols of her high-ranking status within Edo royalty.

Later Life and Passing

Oloi Esther Omoyenmwen Erediauwa passed away on January 18, 2014, at the age of 73, after a lifetime of service to the palace and the people of the Benin Kingdom. Her death marked the end of an era in the royal harem, and she was mourned extensively both within the palace and among the broader Edo community.

Her legacy lives on through the continuation of royal traditions, the guidance she provided to palace members, and her role in sustaining the cultural heritage of Benin.

Significance and Legacy

She was the first wife and senior wife of Oba Erediauwa, serving as a model of leadership and dignity within the palace.

Her life exemplified the central role of women in maintaining the social, cultural, and ceremonial structures of the Benin monarchy.

The photograph of Oloi Esther Omoyenmwen Erediauwa, taken by Flora Edouwaye S. Kaplan in 2008, captures the richness of Benin royal regalia, reflecting her status and cultural significance.

References

1. Kaplan, Flora Edouwaye S. Benin Studies: Royal Family and Court Culture. 2008.

2. Nigerian Traditional Rulers Archive – Benin Kingdom Royal Families and Titles.

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