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TikToker Jarvis confirms breakup with Peller, urges public support

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TikTok content creator, Elizabeth Amadou also known as Jarvis, has confirmed that she has ended her relationship with fellow influencer and livestreamer, Hamzat Habeeb, popularly known as Peller, while appealing to the public to stop mocking him following his recent car crash during a livestream.

Jarvis made the disclosure in a live video shared online on Tuesday, amid widespread reactions to Peller’s hospitalisation after the incident on the Lekki-Epe Expressway in Lagos.

Addressing online commentary surrounding the crash and the couple’s relationship, Jarvis said public ridicule was worsening the situation.

“It’s always people will mock me. Because I can see concern about this online. People will mock him, Stop mocking him. Stop shading him,” she said.

She insisted that the incident should not be used to define Peller’s character, stressing that she never portrayed him as a bad person.

Jarvis acknowledged that Peller struggles with emotional control, describing it as the core issue rather than malice.

“Yes, he cannot control his emotions. He cannot control. That’s the problem.

“I can control mine, but he can’t control his. We need to join hands together to help him,” she said.

Confirming that they are no longer together, Jarvis said the breakup was necessary and should not be misconstrued as abandonment.

“Peller is a sweet guy, I do not even want it to even end but it has happened, it has happened.

“The relationship is not the thing now. It’s not saying let’s go back to who we were.

“The solution is let’s put our heads together to work on him.

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“To be better. Not space of we not talking , it is space of this relationship thing. It is over for now,” the influencer said.

She further clarified that the separation was about giving space for healing.

Jarvis also appealed to supporters and social media users to stop what she described as harmful narratives and mockery.

“Stop your shading. How is it helping? It’s not helping.

“Don’t use it against him. Encourage him. Encourage us. Help us. Stop using our pain to mock us,” she said.

Expressing emotional distress, she said the online reactions had deepened the pain surrounding the situation.

Jarvis urged the public to focus on gratitude that no life was lost. She added that her priority was wellbeing for both herself and Peller.

“All you people should be saying is thank God for life. Thank God for Peller. Thank God nothing happened to him.

“I love him, but for now we need to be okay. I’m not okay anymore. I want to be okay.

“He needs to be okay, he needs to be fine,” Jarvis said.

She concluded by noting that breakups do not always stem from hatred but sometimes from a need for clarity and calm.

PUNCH Online had reported that Peller sparked concern on Sunday after crashing his car during a live Instagram broadcast titled “RIP Peller” on the Lekki-Epe Expressway in Lagos.

During the livestream, the influencer was seen driving alone in his newly acquired Mercedes-Benz while visibly distressed and crying during a phone conversation believed to be with Jarvis, amid rumours of a breakup.

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At several points, he appeared agitated and made alarming statements, including, “I will use this car and have an accident right now,” and later, “I’m scared. I’m scared.”

In another moment during the broadcast, he said, “If you break up with me, people will be mocking me… Thank you, I’m going to kill myself.”

Moments later, the vehicle was seen veering off the road before crashing into a stone barrier.

Subsequent videos circulating online showed Peller being assisted by bystanders before he was taken to a hospital.

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Freedom or Fashion? Why women are going ‘ bra less’…

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For many late millennials and early GenZ women, those in their early teens in the 2010s, wearing a bra is quietly adorned as one of the symbols of transitioning to womanhood, a growth stage marked by certain bodily changes girls long for.

Though not directly told, Damilola Adebayo said seeing how wearing bra for the first time usually laced ecstasy on the faces of older girls around her community made her consider it an important part of women’s growth.

“As a teenager, I used to see bras as a sign that you have entered another stage of life, and that made me eager to start wearing one too,” she said.

But the excitement she once longed for gradually faded. As time passed by, the 26-year-old Damilola said she became more exposed and wearing a bra felt less appealing and more restrictive.

“At this point, I feel more at ease without a bra. Wearing one can be uncomfortable for me most of the time,” she added.

What’s in a Braless world? More women speak…

Unlike Damilola, more women say their choices are increasingly shaped by how they feel rather than what they were told to expect or any beauty trends.

For Ngozi Okafor, a 23-year-old woman in Ibadan, ditching the idea of wearing a bra is simple. She said her decision filtered down to one conclusion: she “just wants to be comfy.”

However, Ngozi noted that social configurations and expectations make prioritising such comfort difficult, especially when stepping outside private spaces without a bra.

Speaking to this reporter, Perpetual Eze said although she feels more comfortable going braless, aligning with social expectations is a challenge that usually compels her to trade comfort for averting social condemnation, especially when stepping out to the public eyes.

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For 21-year-old Barikat Adeosun, the stress of maintaining bras and health concerns influenced her decision to opt for bralessness.

“For me, it’s always stressful washing bras, and these days, you hear of cancer of the breast from all the things they use to make those bras. Aside from that, it’s always more comfortable to be without a bra, so I like going braless like this,” she told Tribune Online.

Monlisa Ngozi does it for love. Her  boyfriend believed wearing is a tool of deceit employed by women. The 25-year-old explained that she makes her own decisions, but not wearing a bra is partly influenced by her partner.

“My boyfriend prefers me braless rather than wearing a bra. He always says bras are deceptive,” she told Tribune Online.

Zainab Wasiu, a 28-year-old hijabite sister, said  wearing a bra would be a self-inflicted punishment due to her usual style of dressing.

According to her, choosing comfort was an easy decision for her, especially in hot weather.

“I’m always on hijab, covering everything. So, adding a bra to it is too much during this heat. I choose comfort since nobody will know,” she said.

Away from medical concerns and comfort, the 21-year-old Ease James, blames trends and attraction. According to her, while many women go braless copying their favourite celebrities, some do it to attract men.

“How would I attract good guys? You see those guys now, this is what they like,” Ease told our reporter.

“Besides, the world is changing. You see all these celebrities, they are always without bras, and they look sexier that way,” she added.

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However, Sophia Adeyemi disagreed with Ease James, describing wearing a bra as a sense of completeness in dressing that no reason is morally justified for anyone to ditch.

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“Ladies who intentionally go braless, especially for fashion, either have issues with their upbringing or their association,” the 42-year-old woman said.

“I have never felt comfortable going out without a bra. It is just not something I see myself doing,” she said.

Going bra-less; a silent global trend

While there’s currently no countries where women completely wear bras or go bra-free, a 2026 World Population Review report lists bralessness as common in global regions, with no fewer than 13 countries considered to have the common and or prevalent trend in 2026.

According to the report, Indian, United States and Brazil top the list while others include Japan, France, Canada, Peru, Hungary, Venezuela, Haiti, Afghanistan with the remaining two countries from Africa — Kenya and Tanzania.

Meanwhile, a IFOB study conducted between 2020 2022, which documented a spike in how women in France go braless due to COVID-19 pandemic, described the ‘No-Bra’ practice as a lasting social shift rather than a temporary lockdown fad.

According to the study, the number of those going braless rose among French women under 25 from 4% before the 2020 lockdown to 13% by 2022.

The study further reveals that 53% of the over 3,000 respondents cited physical comfort (avoiding pain or irritation) as the primary reason, while 32% of younger women viewed it as a rejection of the sexualization of female bodies.

However, a 15-year study from the University of Besançon, led by Professor Jean-Denis Rouillon, suggested that bralessness may improve breast firmness and support by allowing supporting muscles to develop naturally.

Medical experts weigh in

While more women who spoke to our reporter linked the shift in how they wear bras to desire for comfort, some expressed concerns over the health risks for wearing a bra.

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Speaking on the concerns, Taiwo Adebanjo, a retired Matron at General Hospital, Ijebu Ode, dismissed claims linking bra wearing to cancer risks.

“There’s no health risk associated with wearing a bra, especially breast cancer is not related to wearing a bra,” she clarified.

However, she believes wearing bras is important, especially for nursing mothers. “When breast milk starts sprinkling around, it makes the environment unfilthy… creating an unhealthy environment for the mother and even the baby.”

Reacting to a question on social constructs associated with how a woman dressed, she noted that men “would rather go for well-packed breasts rather than the ones going all round as if they were beating drums.”

Continuing, the retired matron agreed with the 42-year-old Sophia Adeyemi, likening not wearing bras to a “careless” signal that suggests a woman is not “dressing up completely.”

On the other hand, Dr Aliyu Shehu of the Federal Teaching Hospital, Birnin Kebbi, told our reporter that no medical rule confirmed not wearing bra causes any disease. He said, “No. There is no particular disease whose risk has been shown to increase by not wearing a bra.”

Speaking on breast sagging as a common concern among women, the medical expert told Tribune Online that “breast sagging is due to age, genetics, pregnancy, and weight,” adding that “There is no strong evidence that bras prevent sagging.”

While not wearing a bra is not harmful, another expert, Med Odukunmoju Oluwafemi of the University of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH) warned that it may also lead to discomfort because of the weight the body carries.

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Don’t go for Omugwo without your husband, Pastor tells women

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A Nigerian marriage counsellor, Pastor Bisi Adewale has cautioned women against spending extended periods abroad caring for grandchildren, warning that prolonged absence endangers marriages and leaves elderly husbands vulnerable.

Adewale who is the founder of Family Booster Ministry International and the College of Marital Success, issued the warning in a video posted on his Facebook page on Monday.

“Another thing I hate is for a woman to escape to Canada to go and do Omugwo for three years. Very bad. Very, very bad. Now a 75-year-old man is now going all around buying boli, buying groundnut, at his age. It is not good,” Pastor Bisi Adewale

Adewale said he had made a personal pact with his wife that they would always travel together, regardless of where their children lived.

“I told my wife, I said the children may move abroad. They can do everything. If you are going for Omugwo anywhere, we are going together. And I told my children — if your house is small, I have money. I will get a hotel. I will stay nearby,” he said.

The counsellor used medical scenarios to illustrate the importance of spousal presence at every stage of life.

“When you see a four-year-old boy with his doctor, what do you think the doctor will ask? Where is your mother? When you see an 84-year-old man before his doctor, what do you think the doctor will ask? Where is your wife?” he said.

Adewale also warned men who abuse their wives that they risk destroying their own futures, arguing that a wife’s role evolves from companion to caregiver as a couple ages.

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“When a man is young, his wife is his mistress. When a man grows to 50 or 60, suddenly the wife becomes his mother. That is why when you are beating your wife when you are young, you are destroying your old age,” he said.

“When a man is 80 or 90, suddenly the wife is no more a mistress, sex may not even take place again. She has now become your nurse. But that is the time we need each other most.”

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‘Someone Like You Cannot Correct Christians’ – Singer Testimony ‘Jaga’ Knocks Ex-VP Osinbajo

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Popular Nigerian gospel singer, Salau Aliu Olayiwola, also known as Testimony Jaga, has criticised former Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo, over his recent comments on the concept of “prosperity gospel.”

Osinbajo had stirred debate in religious and public circles after faulting what he described as the prosperity gospel, a development that has since drawn mixed reactions.

Reacting in a video that has gone viral online, the gospel artiste dismissed the idea of categorising the message of Christianity into different forms, insisting that the gospel remains one and indivisible.

“I saw a video where you were condemning the prosperity gospel. With due respect, there is no such thing as a prosperity gospel. There is only one gospel, the Gospel of Jesus Christ,” he said.

Jaga also challenged Osinbajo’s authority to criticise the Church, pointing to his time in public office and asking for evidence of impact.

“If anyone wants to correct the body of Christ, it should not be someone like you. Show Nigerians what you did while you were vice president,” he stated.

The singer’s remarks introduce a political dimension to the debate, as he called on the former vice president to account for his stewardship while in government.

The artiste further highlighted Nigeria’s socio-economic challenges, stressing that poverty remains a pressing issue that must not be ignored in religious teachings.

“Do you understand what poverty does to people? As a politician, what have you done to address it?” he asked.

According to him, messages preached in churches should address real-life struggles and provide hope to adherents.

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Jaga emphasised that the central message of Christianity is one of hope, transformation, and encouragement, rather than condemnation.

“The gospel is good news. If people are struggling, they should hear a message of upliftment, not condemnation,” he said.

The singer also questioned Osinbajo’s influence as a pastor during his time in office, urging him to demonstrate tangible results both in ministry and governance.

“Show us the people whose lives you transformed. Show evidence of support for the poor or meaningful development, even in your own community,” he added.

While defending the broader message of the Christian faith, Jaga admitted that abuses exist within religious institutions but warned against using such cases to discredit the gospel.

“There are fake pastors, yes, but the gospel itself remains a message of hope and transformation,” he noted.

He concluded by urging Osinbajo to embody the values he advocates, particularly in supporting the less privileged.

“If you truly believe in what you are saying, then lead by example. Give back, support the poor, and demonstrate the values you preach,” Jaga said.

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