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How we waited for 31 years before having our first child – Couple

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Laundry Manager at Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries, Prayer City, Mrs Kemi Omotinugbon, who welcomed her first child at the age of 56 after 31 years of marriage, shares with GRACE EDEMA how she overcame the trying periods

What do you do and how old are you?

I work at MFM Prayer City as a laundry manager. I am 57 years old. I was born on July 13, 1968.

When did you get married?

I got married in 1994.

When you got married in 1994, like most couples, you probably expected to have a child within a year or two. At what point did you realise there was a challenge with getting pregnant?

We realised it was a challenge about five years into the marriage.

What did you do after discovering that?

We started by praying. After that, we sought medical treatment and saw a doctor for possible solutions.

Was there any specific medical issue that was diagnosed?

No.

Did you try IVF at any point?

Yes, we did.

How many times?

We tried twice, as I mentioned in my testimony.

Did any of the attempts result in pregnancy?

No, they both failed, but we persisted in prayer and kept believing God. Whatever treatment or medication was required, we took it, and we continued trusting God. In His infinite mercy, God answered us.

That is why we are here today, thanking Him for what only He can do. This can only be God. It surpasses human imagination. It is purely God’s intervention.

How did you discover you were pregnant?

I was seeing a doctor at the time. When I began noticing some changes in my body, they ran some tests. It was through those tests that I discovered I was pregnant.

What year was that?

That was in May 2024.

Was it a natural delivery?

No, it was a Caesarean section because of my age.

Was the conception natural, or was there any medical procedure involved?

It was a natural conception. There were no injections or assisted procedures involved.

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I want you to share your experience during the waiting period. How was the waiting period of over 30 years?

The waiting period was very challenging. It was a mixture of pain and occasional joy. Sometimes, when people know you do not have a child, they react to you differently. Some may not fully accept you, even within family or friendship circles.

Not everyone understands what it means to wait. There were painful experiences, and I had to deliberately cast them behind me so they would not affect my focus. At a point, I was dwelling on the situation too much, but later I received the wisdom to ignore the distractions. I had to put them behind me.

When some people later heard that I had put to bed, they said, ‘Ah, so she had been passing through that challenge? We didn’t even know.’ Many people did not know because, after some time, I stopped talking about it.

When people would ask, ‘How are your children?’ I would respond politely, but when I returned to my place of prayer, I would say, ‘God, they are asking You, where are these children? Let these children manifest. Let them not be far away from us again.’ That became my regular confession.

The journey was not easy, but I enjoyed the grace of God throughout. Eventually, His power was made manifest. I cannot point to any particular experience now that still makes me feel bitter.

However, I remember moments when I thought, ‘If I had my own child, this wouldn’t have happened.’ For example, there were times I sent another person’s daughter on an errand, and the mother refused to allow her to go. That was painful.

At one point, some children were visiting us, and their mother later suggested they were not well taken care of. That hurt deeply because I had done my best for them.

However, each painful experience drove me back to God. I would say, ‘Lord, only You can do this.’

There were moments I did not even know how it would happen anymore. I simply held on to God’s promise that I would not fail. That assurance sustained me.

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Some of my friends later reminded me that during our conversations, I always told them that no matter how long it took, I would have my own child. I may not remember saying it, but two of them confirmed it.

In the end, the entire experience has been God-centred. God knew about it all along. His name alone deserves to be praised and glorified.

How did you go through all these and still remain psychologically strong?

Before I talk about how it feels now, let me add this: in such a situation, there are times you honestly do not know what to do. Sometimes, you lose interest in many things — even in going out or associating with people.

I remember one day, I saw a friend at a shopping mall. She didn’t see me, but I saw her — and I carefully dodged her. I avoided her because I didn’t want her to ask, ‘Where are your children?’ and start the conversation all over again. I didn’t want to explain anything. So I made sure she didn’t see me. That was one of the experiences I had.

At times, you become disinterested in outings because people will ask about your children. In our community, especially in the Black community, not having a child can come with stigma. You feel stigmatised. That was part of the experience.

On the other hand, I also had people who supported me throughout the journey — people who believed that since God had promised, it would surely happen.

Now that the baby has come, my interest in doing many things has been awakened. I feel more motivated. There is something pushing you, something more meaningful to live for.

What other painful experience did you endure?

There was another painful experience. Someone once asked me to give him money. I said I didn’t have any. He told me to go and bring my ATM card and then said, ‘What are you even using your money for?’ That day, I really felt hurt. I wondered, ‘Why would this person say that? Is it because I don’t have a child?’

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When I told my husband, he asked how I responded. I said I didn’t reply; I just looked at the person. My husband himself also had experiences — comments that could easily demoralise someone. But we thank God. Only God’s name can be glorified. This can only be God.

Do you think it was just divine intervention or medications that helped you?

Even if you go through treatments, unless God permits them to work, they will not work. That is the truth. So, I give Him all the glory.

How did you handle your in-laws who couldn’t wait any longer for you to have a child?

I tried not to overreact. I understood that they, too, might be anxious.

Sometimes, the pain comes from general comments people make without realising how hurtful they are — not necessarily from in-laws alone. We did not have fights.

They didn’t fight me, and I didn’t fight them.

What would you like to say to other women who have been married for five, 10, or even 15 years without a child?

What I would like to say to anyone trusting God for the fruit of the womb is this: please look unto God. Be steadfast and remain focused.

At the same time, do the needful. If you need medical treatment, seek treatment. If you need to interact with people and maintain healthy relationships, do so. Do not dwell too much on the pain — even though the pain can be overwhelming. Instead, dwell on the Word of God. Focus on His promises.

I also want to say that God greatly used Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries to bless me. I have been deeply involved in the prayer life, counselling sessions, and the teaching of the Word at MFM. I joined MFM in 1998, four years after I got married.

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53,000 dead, 50m sick yearly from unsafe food — FG

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The Federal Government on Monday raised fresh concerns over the growing burden of foodborne diseases in Nigeria, revealing that unsafe food causes more than 53,000 deaths and nearly 50 million illnesses annually across the country.

Minister of State for Health and Social Welfare, Dr Iziaq Salako, disclosed this in Abuja during a ministerial press briefing to commemorate the 2026 World Food Safety Day, themed “From Burden to Solutions – Safe Food Everywhere.”

Salako described food safety as a critical national development and health security issue, warning that the true cost of unsafe food extended beyond sickness and death to the loss of human capital, particularly among children.

According to him, Nigeria loses an estimated 4.26 million years of healthy life annually to foodborne diseases through illness, disability and premature death.

“Nigeria records nearly 50 million foodborne illnesses every year, and unsafe food causes more than 53,000 deaths annually in our country.

“Together, these illnesses and deaths result in a staggering 4.26 million years of healthy life lost to illness, disability or early death,” the minister said.

He noted that children under five account for more than 80 per cent of the country’s foodborne disease burden.

“Most of this burden falls heavily on children under five, who account for more than 80 per cent of all foodborne disease burden in Nigeria.

“The true cost of unsafe food in Nigeria is not only measured in sickness and death, but also in the lost cognitive, physical and developmental potential of our children,” Salako added.

The minister’s remarks came on the heels of newly released estimates by the World Health Organisation showing that unsafe food causes about 866 million illnesses and 1.5 million deaths globally each year, with Africa bearing the highest per-capita burden.

According to Salako, diarrhoeal diseases remained the leading cause of foodborne illnesses in Nigeria, with more than 40 million cases linked to pathogens such as Salmonella, Escherichia coli, Campylobacter, Shigella and rotavirus.

“Over 40 million diarrhoeal illnesses in Nigeria are linked to foodborne pathogens. These infections continue to be a major cause of hospitalisation, malnutrition and mortality among our youngest citizens,” he said.

He also warned of increasing exposure to chemical contaminants.

“Chemical hazards are also emerging as a serious concern, with lead exposure responsible for tens of thousands of healthy lives lost through contaminated grains, spices and water sources. These numbers underscore the urgency of strengthening food safety systems across the entire value chain,” he stated.

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Despite the challenges, Salako said Nigeria had made notable progress in building a stronger food safety system.

He said the country’s 2023 Joint External Evaluation recorded measurable improvements across all food safety indicators, while Nigeria’s 2025 State Party Annual Report score surpassed the World Health Organisation target for low- and middle-income countries.

“Nigeria is now one of the leading countries in the region in establishing functional systems for detecting, reporting and responding to foodborne disease events,” he said.

The minister, however, stressed that the latest figures should serve as a wake-up call.

“The new WHO estimates are a call to action. We must intensify surveillance for heavy metals and chemical contaminants. We must improve food safety practices in traditional and informal markets where most Nigerians buy their food.

“We must strengthen hygiene, water and sanitation infrastructure and ensure food business operators comply with national standards,” he said.

Salako also linked food safety to the country’s growing burden of non-communicable diseases, including hypertension, stroke, diabetes and obesity.

“Food safety is not only about preventing infections; it is also about ensuring that the food we eat does not contribute to the growing burden of non-communicable diseases,” he said.

He disclosed that Nigeria had developed National Guidelines for Sodium Reduction, while the National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control had finalised draft sodium reduction regulations aimed at reducing salt levels in processed foods.

According to him, the country was also implementing industrial trans-fat elimination regulations and strengthening efforts to improve the sugar-sweetened beverage tax and front-of-pack food labelling systems to encourage healthier food choices.

Salako urged food manufacturers, regulators, researchers and consumers to support efforts aimed at ensuring safer and healthier food for Nigerians.

“Food safety is everyone’s business. It saves lives, strengthens our economy and protects our children. These numbers show that food safety is not optional; it is a national health security priority,” he said.

The Director-General of NAFDAC, Prof Mojisola Adeyeye, said strengthening food safety systems remained critical to reducing the country’s burden of foodborne diseases.

Represented at the event by the Director of Food Safety and Applied Nutrition Directorate, Eva Edwards, Adeyeye described food safety as a public health, socioeconomic and development imperative.

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“The theme for the 2026 World Food Safety Day, ‘From Burden to Solutions – Safe Food Everywhere,’ reminds us that food safety is not merely a technical issue; it is a public health, socioeconomic and development imperative. Behind every statistic on foodborne disease is a child, a family, a community or a business affected by preventable illness and loss,” she said.

The NAFDAC boss said the agency remained committed to reducing foodborne diseases through stronger regulation, surveillance and stakeholder engagement.

“At NAFDAC, we remain firmly committed to contributing to reducing the burden of foodborne disease through science-based regulation, effective surveillance, strengthened food control systems and robust stakeholder engagement,” she said.

She added, “Our efforts continue to focus on ensuring that foods manufactured, imported, exported, distributed, advertised, sold and consumed in Nigeria meet acceptable standards of safety and quality.”

Adeyeye stressed that safe food was central to achieving the country’s nutrition and health goals.

“We recognise World Food Safety Day as an added opportunity to situate food safety as a significant issue of public health concern, especially in the light of safe, wholesome food being important for boosting immunity and improving the body’s natural defence in fighting diseases.

“Where food is unsafe, our nutritional goals cannot be achieved,” she said.

The NAFDAC Director-General further noted that addressing food safety challenges would require stronger collaboration among government agencies, industry players, researchers, development partners and consumers.

“The challenge before us is significant, but so too is our collective capacity to address it through evidence-based policies, effective regulation, responsible industry practices and sustained public awareness,” she said.

Adeyeye reaffirmed the agency’s commitment to strengthening food safety systems nationwide.

“At NAFDAC, we remain resolute in our unwavering commitment to playing our role in strengthening the national food safety system, upholding standards and regulations, and promoting best practices within industry and across society to assure a safe food supply,” Adeyeye said.

Meanwhile, the Corporate Accountability and Public Participation Africa called for stronger regulatory measures to address the growing burden of diet-related diseases in Nigeria.

In a statement issued on Monday to commemorate the 2026 World Food Safety Day, CAPPA warned that millions of Nigerians were increasingly exposed to health risks associated with excessive consumption of sugar, salt, unhealthy fats and ultra-processed foods.

The organisation argued that food safety should extend beyond concerns about contamination and foodborne diseases to include protection against products that contribute to non-communicable diseases.

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CAPPA Executive Director, Oluwafemi Akinbode, said, “Food safety is not only about preventing food poisoning. It is also about ensuring that the foods and drinks available to Nigerians do not slowly undermine their health and well-being.”

He warned that weak regulatory safeguards and aggressive marketing of unhealthy products were contributing to rising cases of hypertension, diabetes, obesity, stroke, kidney disease and certain cancers.

According to him, diet-related diseases were placing a growing burden on families, the healthcare system and the economy.

“Public health policies must be guided by science and the public interest, not by industries whose profitability depends on unhealthy consumption patterns,” Akinbode stated.

CAPPA welcomed the recent passage by the Senate of a bill seeking to strengthen Nigeria’s Sugar-Sweetened Beverage Tax regime, describing it as a critical intervention in efforts to reduce excessive sugar consumption and curb non-communicable diseases.

The organisation also urged the Federal Government to adopt national sodium reduction targets, implement Front-of-Pack Warning Labelling on packaged foods and beverages, and strengthen restrictions on the marketing of unhealthy foods to children.

“Truly, safe food should not only be free from contamination but should also protect consumers from preventable diseases and support long-term wellbeing,” he added.

World Food Safety Day is observed annually to raise awareness and inspire action to prevent, detect and manage food-related risks. The 2026 edition marks the eighth global observance of the event.

While food safety discussions have traditionally focused on microbial contamination and foodborne disease outbreaks, public health experts are increasingly drawing attention to the role of unhealthy diets in driving non-communicable diseases such as hypertension, diabetes, obesity, cardiovascular diseases and certain cancers.

In Nigeria, authorities have intensified efforts to strengthen food safety governance through the National Food Safety Management Committee, the National Integrated Guidelines for Foodborne Disease Surveillance and Response, sodium reduction initiatives, industrial trans-fat elimination regulations and improved food surveillance systems.

However, health advocates continue to push for stronger nutrition-focused policies, including enhanced sugar-sweetened beverage taxes, front-of-pack warning labels and tighter restrictions on the marketing of unhealthy foods to children.

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PHOTOS: William Kumuyi Celebrates His 85th Birthday Today

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Birthday: William Kumuyi Turns 85 Today!

Happy 85th birthday to Deeper Life Pastor, William Kumuyi.

We thank God for your life of unwavering dedication to Christ, sound biblical teaching, and faithful leadership.

Your impact on countless lives across generations remains a testimony to God’s grace and faithfulness.

May the Lord continue to strengthen you, grant you good health, renewed vigor, and greater fruitfulness in His service.

Wishing you a joyful and blessed birthday celebration.

Happy Birthday, Sir!

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How rescued orphaned elephant highlights Nigeria’s conservation fight

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As dawn breaks over Okomu National Park in Ovia South-West Local Government Area of Edo State, an exhausted wildlife caretaker prepares milk formula for Agbaibor, a month-old orphaned forest elephant rescued after wandering out of the rainforest alone.

“The baby elephant has to take two litres of this per meal,” said Joshua Aribasoye, one of those responsible for feeding and monitoring the calf around the clock in a makeshift pen at a ranger outpost inside the park in southern Edo.

Forest elephants, smaller and more elusive than their savannah cousins, are endangered and their population has collapsed in recent decades largely because of habitat loss and poaching.

Agbaibor—named after the ranger who helped rescue him—was found near a palm oil plantation bordering the protected forest late last year after being separated from the herd.

Rangers and conservationists tried to reunite the calf with its family by taking it back into the forest, but it soon wandered out again.

Fearing it would die alone or be attacked, park authorities and conservation group African Nature Investors (ANI) launched an emergency effort to nurse the animal, flying in elephant rehabilitation specialists from Zambia and assigning caretakers to raise him.

It has become a costly operation. ANI spends between four and five million naira (about 3,600) a month on his care, including 77 kilograms of milk powder, alongside oats and nutritional supplements.

Conservationists expect the rehabilitation process to take another three to five years. They are building a new enclosure deeper inside the park, within elephant habitat, where the calf will gradually be exposed to the sounds and movements of wild herds before an eventual reintroduction.

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“The calf will be cared for there… until it is integrated into a group,” said ANI project manager Peter Abanyam.

200 remain

The International Union for Conservation of Nature (IUCN) lists forest elephants as critically endangered, with conservationists estimating only around 200 remain in the country.

Roughly 40 are believed to live in and around Okomu—one of Nigeria’s last remaining rainforest ecosystems, covering about 24,000 hectares.

“Okomu is critical for conservation in Nigeria,” said Abanyam.

“In a small ecosystem like this, housing 40 elephants is a huge number, and it needs to be protected at all costs.”

But pressure on the forest is intensifying.

Logging, poaching, farming and expanding human settlements have fragmented large parts of the reserve, shrinking elephant corridors and increasing contact between wildlife and nearby communities.

Godstime Christopher, 26, once helped transport illegally logged timber out of the forest before being recruited as a ranger by ANI.

Today, he works with the organisation’s biomonitoring team, using camera traps to track elephant movements and identify poachers.

“When I became a ranger, I thought I would use that to exploit logging,” he admitted. “But the training changed our mentality.”

‘Preserve what we have’

Conservation groups say engaging local communities is essential if endangered wildlife is to survive in one of Africa’s fastest-growing countries, where economic hardship often drives people deeper into protected forests in search of land, timber or bushmeat.

While the ranger programme appears to have helped drive down poaching in the area, hunting for other species still disturbs the elephants and degrades their habitat, Christopher warned.

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Back at the rehabilitation centre, Agbaibor splashes in the mud, nudges his handler for attention and drinks from oversized bottles of milk formula.

For Aribasoye, the demanding work has become deeply personal.

“We are supposed to be like a mother to him,” he said.

“Seeing him eating and playing is part of the joy… because I know we are working to preserve what we have left.”

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