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The Name Given To Me By My Parents Was A Curse – Phyna

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Reality TV star, Josephina Otabor, popularly known as Phyna, has opened up about the struggles she faced while growing up and why she does not like the name given to her at birth.

During a recent interview with Ezinne Akudo on the show Beyond With Ezinne, the former Big Brother Naija winner said her parents named her Blessing, but she came to dislike the name because her life did not reflect its meaning.

It was reports that Phyna explained that as she was growing up, many parts of her life were very difficult.

According to her, she often felt like she was always begging for love from people around her, including family members, friends and even in relationships.

She said the situation made her feel as if the name Blessing did not match the experiences she was going through.

The reality star also spoke about the pain she felt after the death of her sister. She said the loss deeply affected her, and at one point, she even wished she could die because of the emotional burden she was carrying at the time.

She said, “The name given to me by my parents is Blessing. My reasons for hating that name was you don’t see sense of blessing in my life. Because you know, it felt like I was always begging for love, family love, friendship, even in relationships. In fact, Dem don use am curse me. All aspects of life for me, growing up was very crazy. Even when you’re a teenager, there are things you could get from parents, from friends, family I didn’t have that, but I knew for one that I was going to be big.

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“Then I always tell my aunts, everybody, even when they beat me or maltreat me, today, the next minute I will see when I go watch me for television, you know, I go get money. People always say negative things about me. Even when I’m trying my best, it affects me. It affects my workload. They are quick to broke shame me. In fact, when my sister died, I wanted to die. A lot was going on with me. It actually makes me feel God is with me because so many things have happened that I suppose don really run mad.”

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Why I Couldn’t Succeed In Nollywood – Ceec

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Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Cynthia Nwadiora, popularly known as Cee-C, has shared the reason she believes it was difficult for her to succeed in Nollywood after gaining fame from the reality television show.

It was reports that Cee-C became popular after she finished as the first runner-up in the 2018 edition of Big Brother Naija, where Miracle Igbokwe emerged as the winner.

However, she explained that the quick rise to fame that comes with participating in Big Brother Naija can make it hard for contestants to build the kind of relationships needed to succeed in the film industry.

Speaking in an interview with Vanguard, she said many participants move from being unknown to becoming famous within a short period.

According to CeeC, this sudden change may not give them enough time to build strong connections in the entertainment industry, especially in Nollywood, where relationships and networks often play an important role in career growth.

She explained that actors who enter the film industry through the traditional route usually spend years building contacts, working on smaller projects and developing strong ties with producers, directors and fellow actors.

This process helps them gain stability in the industry.

In contrast, reality television stars often gain popularity quickly but may not have the same professional network that helps many Nollywood actors grow and remain active in the industry.

Since leaving the Big Brother Naija house, Cee-C has appeared in a few films and television projects.

Despite these opportunities, she admitted that finding a stable place in the entertainment industry after reality television can be challenging, especially when the intense attention that follows the show begins to fade.

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In 2023, she returned to the Big Brother Naija platform as one of the contestants in the All Stars edition of the reality show.

During that season, she stayed in the competition for several weeks and eventually finished in third place before leaving the house shortly before the grand finale.

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Portable didn’t beat me; it was paid advert — Celebrity bodyguard, Kelvin Power

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Kelvin Atobiloye, popularly known as Kelvin Power, speaks with NAOMI CHIMA about his journey as a bodyguard, bodybuilder, and actor

How did the nickname, “Kelvin Power” come about?

They call me Kelvin Power because, lifting heavy things has always been my hobby. It’s not that I’m the strongest person, but I chose a very unique career. Lifting weights is something special, and I thank God for His grace. A friend of mine actually coined that name when he wanted to create another Instagram page for me. He suggested Kelvin Power, and that was how the name came about.

When you were growing up, did you always want to be a heavyweight lifter or bodyguard?

When I was in Ondo State, there was someone we called “the boss.” He used to bully us. There were three of us who played together, and the boss would challenge us, saying whoever lifted the heaviest weight would take the glory. Naturally, all of us wanted to win, so we kept lifting. At that time, I didn’t realise God was guiding me toward something bigger.

Later, when I moved to Lagos, I visited a friend and saw him lifting weights at the back of his house. I was physically bigger than him, so I thought I could lift the same. But when I tried, I couldn’t. Everyone laughed at me. I was angry and told him that the next time I came back, he wouldn’t come close to what I would lift. That anger pushed me to the gym. I could train eight times a day. Every opportunity I had, I was in the gym. That friend doesn’t lift anymore, but by the grace of God, I’m still keeping the glory.

Tell us about your childhood and family background.

I am from both Ondo and Ekiti states, and I claim both because I can’t tell a good story without mentioning them. I come from a well-known family in my hometown. I’m the sixth of eight children. Unfortunately, my parents have passed, but if they were alive, they would be proud of who I am today. My mum, however, lived to see me lifting weights before she passed.

Take us through your educational trajectory.

I didn’t originally plan to become a bodyguard. My educational background is in law, which is a highly respected profession. I am a law graduate from the Ekiti State University. But, as God would have it, here I am today. I am planning to complete my law school abroad soon, and that plan is almost within reach.

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After finishing law school, would you continue in entertainment or focus fully on being a lawyer?

Law and weightlifting are two separate things. Acting is another path entirely. For me, I believe it’s possible to combine different talents. I will continue to grow in the areas where God gives me opportunities, whether in law, security work, or entertainment.

What first drew you into professional security and bodyguard work?

My journey into professional security came naturally from my physique and my passion for lifting. Over time, I connected with people in the industry, including Kizz Daniel, and that shaped my career in bodyguard work. I have also worked with several notable personalities, including (billionaire businessman) Mike Adenuga.

How did you meet Kizz Daniel?

It was through a referral after I lost my job with Adenuga. A security company was asked to provide a bodyguard, but they rejected all the candidates they sent. Someone then recommended me, and that was how it started.

There were rumours that he relieved you of your job?

Can a body leave his heart? No! I still work with my boss (Daniel). I love him and we are good. People just like to talk.

Being a bodyguard means your life can be at risk. Does that worry you about your family?

My protection comes from God, and I always do my best. I love my family and children very much. It can be challenging because sometimes hanging out with them is difficult. Even when we go out together, I am still alert and protective. Balancing family life with my job isn’t easy, but I do my best.

How did you get into acting, and what roles are dear to your heart?

I had been creating skits but one day I got a call from Bolanle Austin-Peters’ personal assistant inviting me for a movie project. That was my first experience. When I arrived, I didn’t even know it was an audition. I saw many actors and bodybuilders. They gave me a script to read, and I did, unaware it was an audition.

Later, I was told I would be part of the movie. It was a big experience because I met established actors like Odunlade Adekola, Femi Adebayo, and Funke Akindele. I was unsure of what I was doing, so I spoke to a colleague on set. He told me to do my best, and that advice stuck.

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When it was my turn, I performed in my own way. Since I was to fight in the movie, I shouted, and by God’s grace, it was accepted. That marked the beginning of my acting journey. I return all the glory to God. The movie was House of Gaa.

What are some misconceptions about you as a professional security guard?

Many people think I’m a gym monster, that I eat flesh, or that I’m a vampire. No, I’m not. I have a life outside my job. If you know me outside work, you’ll see I’m a simple, lovely guy. I believe in family, friendship, and supporting others. People may look at me as a demon, but I know myself. I’m a sweet guy.

What skills are required to succeed as a celebrity bodyguard?

First, you must ignore material temptations. Your boss may leave money or expensive items around, but as a bodyguard, your job is to protect life and property. Don’t be greedy. Discipline is key.

Second, humility is essential. It doesn’t cost anything to be humble. Humility makes it easier to protect and work with people. And you must be professional. That’s how it works.

Have you ever handled dangerous situations on duty?

Many times. Every challenge reminds me of how loving God is. He has protected me through countless situations. I have faced guns, knives, and broken glass. This job is hard and dangerous, but I have no regrets.

How do you balance being protective while remaining approachable to fans?

I am a simple guy. I love meeting people. When fans approach me, it’s a blessing. I always return the respect, and give glory to God.

How do you maintain close relationships with your children and loved ones?

Kelvin is a sweet guy. Don’t worry, my people love me.

What comes naturally to you—performing on screen or working as security?

Wherever I’m paid to work, I give my best. It doesn’t matter the job.

Has your experience as a bodyguard helped your acting, especially in action roles?

Yes, it has. My security experience helps me perform action roles more convincingly.

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How do you prepare your body and mind to stay in top shape?

I stay ready at all times. Whether for acting or protection, preparation is key.

What values from your heritage do you carry into your professional life?

We are strong people who hate to be cheated. We are stubborn but not lazy or wicked. I embody these values daily.

Do you see yourself transitioning fully into acting, or will security remain part of your identity?

Yes, I see myself acting more, but being a bodyguard will always be part of who I am.

Do you have any desire to settle down, since you’re a lover boy with kids?

I don’t want to talk about that, but I’m already settled (laughs).

There was a rumour about you and Portable in the ring. What happened?

It was an advert for a real estate company. People said Portable beat me (laughs). When he saw he was supposed to wrestle me, he refused and said I should fight Anthony Joshua instead. I fell and pretended he beat me. We were both paid.

You’ve spoken a lot about spirituality. When did you embrace God fully?

Around 10 years ago. After leaving Adenuga’s compound, I was going to bury my mum. I had spent all my money and felt empty. I went to a (prayer) mountain to clear my head. That was the best decision I ever made. God has always been at the centre of my life, and He saved me.

How did you lose your job with the Adenugas?

I was working with Adenuga’s daughter, Bella, but it seemed nothing I did pleased her. One day, she sent me back to her father’s compound. I then started working with (Mike) Adenuga directly. But, she still had issues with me, so I eventually had to leave.

Mention three things you love that people may not know about you.

I read, watch movies, and listen to music by my boss, Kizz Daniel.

What is your favorite food?

Pounded yam and egusi soup.

How do you relieve stress and relax?

I sleep.

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I expected twins, shocked four babies came out — Mother detained over N3m bill

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Twenty-eight-year-old native of Cross River State, Mrs Charity Anani, tells AYOOLA OLASUPO about how her expectation of twins suddenly became quadruplets in the labour room, the family’s shock and their struggle to pay N3m hospital bill

Can you tell us about yourself and your family background?

I am 28 years old, and we are from Cross River State. I teach in a private school.

What does your husband do for a living?

My husband rides an okada (commercial motorcycle).

When did you first learn that you were expecting four babies?

We weren’t expecting four babies initially because when I went for a scan, it showed that there were two. So, we were very surprised that they all came out as four. After I gave birth to the first two by myself, the doctor said he realised that two more babies were still in my belly, so I was very surprised that I did not even know what to say.

What was your husband’s reaction when he heard the news?

He was very surprised, especially now that things are very hard for the family. He was happy and also displeased at the same time because he was not expecting four babies. We already have a daughter, and he was expecting twins, but it was so sudden how it changed to four. I think he is thinking about how to cope now.

When exactly did you deliver the babies?

It was on Friday, February 27, 2026.

How did your distant relatives react the moment they learnt that you had four babies?

Everybody was shocked because they all knew we were expecting just two babies. They were also worried about the financial burden the situation would cost. They were just like, ‘How are we going to cope with this now?’ But they were also happy I was part of the family, delivered the babies without complications, and the four of them are alive.

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What is the gender of the babies?

There are three boys and a girl.

Why haven’t you been discharged until now?

I’ve been discharged, but it’s the hospital bills that are keeping us here. We were told that our bill is N3m.

How much have you been able to pay?

We have no money, and that is what is still keeping us here. We are very happy that we can help the children because the two babies that came out last were sick, and they are receiving oxygen, which costs N55,000 per one. The last baby was put in an incubator, and we pay N50,000 for that every day.

What happened to the last two babies?

They were very weak because I gave birth to the first two by myself, but the remaining two were through a caesarean section. It was after their birth that we found out that the babies were very weak, especially the last one, which is very small. So, we have to put him inside an incubator. All the babies are alive now, and they are fine.

What was the pregnancy journey like for you, carrying four babies at once?

It was very hard because I experienced a lot of pain, especially in my legs, which were swollen. It was as if the babies rested on my left leg, so I could not move properly, even though I was still going to school to teach when I was pregnant. I was still working and still doing some house chores.

My tummy was very big and heavy, but I was still trying to do some exercise; I used to move around. I used to feel both back and waist pain, so I could not walk very well.

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Were there moments during the pregnancy when you were worried or scared for your health or the babies’?

No. After I gave birth to the first two babies, I was grateful to God because everything was okay before we later found out that there were two more. I was very weak, but there were no complications except for the caesarean section that was carried out. Even during the pregnancy, I was not worried because there were no complications whatsoever throughout the period.

Did you feel any sense of fulfilment when the four babies arrived?

I was very shocked and excited at the same time. But I didn’t know what was happening at the hospital.

It was when I woke up and realised that they were four, I said, ‘Ah! These four children came out of whose tummy?’

I was surprised because the scan revealed to us that there were two, and we were expecting just two babies. How come they turned to four all of a sudden? I also felt that they were going to cost us a lot of money to take care of them. That was how I felt at that moment.

What were the doctors’ reactions when the babies arrived safely?

My case was the first time they would be experiencing someone giving birth to four babies at once in the hospital. It was a private hospital, so they were happy too that it happened for the very first time.

Have you given the babies names?

We haven’t been able to name the kids yet since we are still in the hospital.

Since they are a week old now, when do you plan to do their naming ceremony?

We need to get out of here before we can plan a naming ceremony. Although I’ve been discharged, we need to pay up the money before they can allow us to go, and the babies are still receiving treatment.

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Caring for one newborn can be challenging. What has it been like taking care of four babies at the same time?

We have been able to do some things. We bought baby food for the babies. We have been able to take care of them just as they are. People are also helping us with whatever they have. Some bought baby food for us.

When you are eventually discharged from the hospital, how do you plan to raise the children?

We are hoping for God’s grace. The important thing is for us to do our best to raise the children, and we believe that with God, everything is possible, and with the help of the people, we will be able to raise the children.

What has been the most joyful or memorable moment since you welcomed the babies?

I give glory to God, and I’m happy that they are alive and healthy. I’m also happy that I was able to give birth to them without any complications or stress, and with the way I’m seeing them, it is a thing of joy.

Do you plan to have more children in the future after this?

No! We are okay now. We have been blessed with five children already. We are okay with what He has given to us because it is only God who understands why He gave them to us, so we are fine with it.

Are you saying that you will do family planning?

Yes, after these ones, we will go for family planning.

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