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Efunsetan Aniwura: Yoruba’s Most Powerful Woman That Ever Lived (PHOTOS)

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The story of Efunsetan Aniwura is perhaps one of the most motivating thrillers in Yoruba political history. It captivates, in the most astounding manner, the place of women in Yoruba political history. But all along, the story of Efunsetan had been written and foretold by her tormentors and painted grimly by mostly chauvinistic men.

It must be understood the context of Efunsetan’s coming into global fame, at least at this time, the World was defined as the circumference within which local people operated within a phenomenon.

The 1700s up to 1900 were centuries of great wars and arms build-up in the vast Yoruba country of old. It was a period of great revolutions and social upheavals across the Yoruba country. It saw the massive production of weapons and the importation of military hardwares by Yoruba leaders, from as far as Hambourg in Germany.

I visited the Ogedengbe of Ilesa few months ago and was thrilled by the amazing exploits of Ogedengbe, the war General who led the Ekitiparapo war and who by 1860s was importing military weapons from Europe in the prosecution of war.

To show the grandeur of the Yoruba nation, around 1880, it was reported that the then King of England had invited Ogedengbe for a state visit. England marveled at the military tactics of Ogedengbe, his command structure, his Spartan lifestyle, his mysticism and above all, his science of war which he largely derived from the painstaking study of the movement and behavior of animals in moments of ferocious encounters with death or engagement with trembling. It was at this period that a bomb was invented at Okemesi, which turned around the fortunes soldiers of Ekitiparapo war led by Ogedengbe. Contrary to widespread assumptions, the word KIRIJI actually emanated from the sound of the new weapon produced at Okemesi Ekiti. General Ogedengbe, who was in command of about 100,000 soldiers, had declined the request for a state visit to England, saying that he was too busy with state matters. In Ilesa, during my visit, I saw the picture of the then King of England which the later had sent to Ogedengbe as a mark of respect and honour.

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Back to the main topic. The story of Efunsetan Aniwura is intriguing. Her date of birth remains uncertain, but she must have been born around 1790s or around that period. Yoruba epic films and folklores portray Efunsetan as a very vicious woman, filled with prejudice, a woman who died in tragic circumstances. But there are hidden thrills and heroic feat that those who wrote his history continue to undermine. There is nothing as perplexing as having the story of a great woman being relayed by men, in a society credited for not giving women any chance in socio-political affairs, especially in the primordial times, where women were seen as objects consigned to the kitchen and on the mat top. It is to the glory of Moremi, that her story definitely ignited passion in subsequent Yoruba women, one of which was Efunsetan Aniwura.

This woman of substance has been consistently portrayed as a villain who ran a Gestapo of sorrow and blood, a blood-sucker who beheaded people’s head at will. No. We must deconstruct the narrative that veiled real stories under the cover of the superiority of men over the distinction of some brave women in our troubled history. Efunsetan was the son of an Egba farmer, Ogunrin, a native of Egba Oke-Ona. She rose to become the Iyalode of Ibadan. She was the first woman to set up a flourishing agrarian economy that employed no fewer than 2000 men and women. Around 1850, worried by the spread of war and combat in the Yoruba country, she introduced infantry military training into the midst of her workers. She was said to have had her own military training in urban and guerrilla warfare after which she requested that the same training be impacted on her slaves, about 2000 of them.

The workers mainly worked in the vast farmland. They produced cash crops, cotton, groundnuts, maize and beef. She was said to be in possession of a vast dairy farm that could feed the entire Yoruba country and beyond. She traded up to Ghana and the Hausa country and even exported her produce to Europe. In her book, A History of the Yoruba ,Prof Banji Akintoye wrote about Efunsetan who she described as a rich “woman trader” that ‘had more than 2000 workers employed on her farms.” This was at a time the industrial revolution was gaining strength in Europe and agriculture had become the most industrious enterprise in Yorubaland, being one of the service points for European products.

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David Hinderer, a missionary who wanted to erect a Church in Ibadan could not source human labour because all the men and women were engaged in large scale farming. The Generals of the Yoruba Army had also taken to farming to beat famine as a direct consequence of war. Hinderer wrote of his travel to Ibadan in 1853 with a caravan of traders and carriers “consisting of not less than 4000 people.” Prof Akintoye wrote “It is not unlikely that Efunsetan was the richest person in the whole of the Yoruba interior in about the late 1870s.” Efunsetan had her own pains and anguish. She had no child after several years of marriage. Unfortunately, her only daughter died in 1860 during child birth. She also adopted a son, Kumuyilo. Now, having lost her only daughter, she went into recluse and became suspicious of life and living. She even became an atheist, ignoring all the gods wondering why she should lose her only daughter.

She may have been pushed to some form of extremism. She ordered that no one among her 2000 workers must marry or have sex within and non of the girls must conceive. It came that one of the workers broke the law. She ordered that the woman be executed. No doubt that she carried out outrageous order of execution, but this was nothing compared with her heroic contributions to the economy of the Yoruba nation. Due to this act, the Aare ordered that she be brought to justice. This was just the proverbial hawk that was looking for every opportunity to clawlift the chicken.

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It is believed that her persecutors merely waited for her to carry out a dastardly act as an opportunity to seek revenge against her perceived emergence as a strong and influential woman, whose mutual rival was Madam Tinubu of Lagos who was also her friend. It was at a time her own army had become a threat to the fiery army of Latoosa. How could a woman raise such a vast array of armed soldiers? There are two varying accounts of her death. One claimed Aare Latosa led a strong infantry army to lay siege on her house and instead of being overpowered, she committed suicide by drinking the Hemlock.

At this period, her army had been divided and the loyalty fractured due to the execution of some of the 2000 workers for acts inimical to her authority. The other story said Kumuyilo was bribed by Latoosa to poison her but that the attack on her was carried out in the night by two of her slaves who sneaked into her apartment through the ceiling and clubbed her. There were events that indicated that the Ibadan chiefs were unhappy with the way Efunsetan was brought on her knees. Infact, with Latoosa there was a meeting on 8th of July when the Egba leaders came to Ibadan requesting for a Commission of Inquiry on the murder of Efunsetan.

The two slaves were subsequently brought before the Ibadan traditional court on 10th of July 1874. They were impaled right at the Basorun market. Efunsetan has been painted in forbidding pictures through Yoruba history. It is time to deconstruct and give her due honour as a heroine. At death, Efunsetan’s property was declared the property of the Yoruba country. `But there were other reports that she was indeed given a befitting burial with full military honours by Ibadan military rulers, after her enforced death.

Source by:By Akinlolu Damilare a.k.a Da-Vinci, Written By: Akinlolu Da Vinci

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Parents, Don’t Make Your Children Pay for a Broken Marriage

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A broken marriage can leave adults hurt and angry—but children should never become the victims of problems they did not create.

When a relationship falls apart, emotions can run high. There may be disappointment, resentment, arguments, betrayal, or years of unresolved problems between the couple.

But one thing should remain clear:

The children are not responsible for the failure of their parents’ marriage.

Children did not choose the arguments. They did not cause the separation. They did not make the decisions that brought the relationship to an end.

Yet, in some families, children can become caught in the middle of their parents’ conflict.

A frustrated parent may shout at a child because of anger toward the other parent. Another may use the child to pass messages, criticize the other parent in front of them, or pressure the child to take sides.

This can place an emotional burden on children that they are not prepared to carry.

Your Child Is Not Your Enemy

A child who misbehaves is still a child. They should not be punished for the mistakes, choices, or actions of another adult.

Before taking your frustration out on your son or daughter, take a moment and ask yourself:

“Is my child really the reason I am angry?”

If the answer is no, then don’t make the child pay the price.

Your child may not understand everything happening between the adults, but they can certainly feel the tension.

They need reassurance, stability, love and protection—especially when the family is going through a difficult period.

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Don’t Force Children to Choose Sides

Even when parents no longer live together, children should not be turned into weapons against one another.

Avoid making children feel guilty for loving both parents.

A child should be allowed to say, “I love my mother” and “I love my father” without feeling that they have betrayed either parent.

Adults may have serious disagreements, but children should not be forced to carry those disagreements.

Protect Their Hearts

You cannot always control how a marriage ends.

But you can control how you treat your children during and after the separation.

You can choose not to insult them because you are angry.

You can choose not to use them as messengers.

You can choose not to make them responsible for adult problems.

And you can choose to remind them:

“None of this is your fault. You are loved.”

A broken relationship does not have to create broken children.

Parents, deal with your pain without transferring it to the innocent children who still look to you for love and protection.

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Should parents completely separate their marital conflicts from their relationship with their children?

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YOUR MARRIAGE IS NOT A PUBLIC VOTING CONTEST!

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One of the biggest mistakes couples can make is allowing outsiders to become the voice of their relationship.

A friend hears one argument.

A relative hears one complaint.

Someone hears one side of the story—and suddenly they are telling you how to treat your spouse.

Before you accept someone else’s opinion, remember: they may know your spouse’s mistakes, but they may not know the full story.

Healthy couples should learn to communicate directly, protect their private matters, and resolve disagreements without allowing gossip and outside pressure to control the relationship.

That does not mean ignoring genuine concerns or refusing to seek help when a relationship has serious problems. Sometimes trusted family members, counselors, or professionals can provide valuable support.

But there is a difference between helpful advice and advice that creates hatred, disrespect, suspicion, or division.

❤️ Protect what you and your spouse are building.

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When Couples Turn Private Secrets Into Public Gossip

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Some couples are good at exposing their spouse’s secrets to other people—but what happens to trust when private matters become public conversation?

Marriage and relationships are built on more than love. Trust, respect, loyalty and confidentiality are also important parts of a healthy relationship.

Unfortunately, some couples reveal their partner’s private information whenever they have an argument. A disagreement that should be handled between two people can quickly become a story shared with friends, relatives, neighbours or even people on social media.

Your partner may have trusted you enough to share personal struggles, family problems, financial difficulties, past mistakes or emotional concerns. Turning those private conversations into gossip can cause serious damage to that trust.

Not Every Argument Needs an Audience

Every relationship has disagreements. Couples will not always see things the same way, and emotions can become intense.

But there is a difference between seeking genuine advice from a trusted person and deliberately exposing your partner simply to embarrass them or make yourself look like the victim.

Once private information is shared, you cannot completely control where it goes.

The people who hear the secret may remember it long after the couple has settled their disagreement.

Think Before You Speak

Before revealing something personal about your spouse, ask yourself:

“Would I want my partner to tell other people this same thing about me?”

If the answer is no, it may be worth reconsidering whether the information should be shared.

There are situations where seeking help is necessary, especially when there is abuse, danger, serious financial problems or other circumstances requiring professional or trusted support. Privacy should not prevent someone from getting the help they genuinely need.

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But ordinary relationship disagreements do not always need a public audience.

Protect the Trust

A relationship should be a place where both partners can feel safe discussing their fears, weaknesses and mistakes without constantly worrying that their private conversations will become tomorrow’s gossip.

Love is not only about what you say when things are going well. It is also about how you handle your partner’s vulnerability when things go wrong.

Before exposing your spouse’s secrets, remember that the argument may end, but the damage to trust can remain.

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