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I was once homeless in US — Nigerian-American politician

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A Nigerian-American tech expert and politician, Dr Juliet Agocha, tells BIODUN BUSARI about her childhood aspirations, challenges growing up, and current political ambition, among others

Why are you planning to run for an elective position?

To be very clear, I’m running to become the next councilwoman for District 4 in Prince George’s County Council in Maryland. My vision is what drives my political ambition, which is to serve my community. I want to be an advocate for families here in Prince George’s County.

What leadership experience do you have?

I have over 18 years of experience in leadership. I am the founder and the Chief Executive Officer of Ultimate Tech. It is a technology company situated here in Prince George’s County, and what we do is provide technology services. I founded that organisation during the pandemic when people battled uncertainties and were not clear on what direction to take. There was a lot of chaos, so in the midst of chaos, I transformed what was supposed to be dramatic into technology to solve problems. Secondly, I am the founder of One Voice Empower Her, a nonprofit organisation for women. I use the charity to serve people, empower women and girls, and lead with clarity, collaboration, resilience, and build a stronger America. I have both corporate and political experience before I came to run for this political position. I’m also the current Vice Chairperson Policy Council for Early Childhood Education for the Lawyers Centre. So, all my life I’ve just been serving and leading people.

What are the focal points of your campaign?

My campaign is focused on three major priorities. One is affordable housing. I want to share with you today that I was once homeless for two weeks in 2009, and that experience built me. That experience shaped who I am today. But it will surprise you to know that not much has changed in the housing programmes here in Prince George’s County from 2009 to 2025. Not much has changed. So, I am focusing on affordable housing, because housing is everything that we here in Prince George’s County is where we start with. Housing means stability. It provides safety and opportunity.

The second thing I’m fighting for is quality education for our children. I’m fighting for this because I’m very passionate about it. Education is how we keep our children out of trouble. When a child’s mind is not well occupied with good resources, they can become a problem in the community. So, I’m fighting for quality education because every child in Prince George’s County deserves access to quality education, no matter their zip code. And the third thing I’m fighting for here is a safe community. I want a safe community because we can’t continue to have the kind of chaos and crime that we have right now.

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Are there problems confronting aged people that drive your campaign for a safe community for them?

We owe them accountability, transparency, and action. And that’s what I’m bringing. I’m bringing programmes that support our seniors’ health care and to have a safe neighbourhood. Our seniors’ homes should not be robbed by maintenance people. So, I am here to support programmes that will place our seniors first. This is because our seniors need homes and a place connected with value and dignity. I’m here to fight for our seniors because they have paved the way for us. Their wisdom has paved the way for us. And they have fought for many assets that brought us where we are today. They are a very important piece of my campaign because I feel that we owe them action, not words.

You mentioned you were once homeless. How did that happen?

Well, it’s a long story, but to make it short, what happened was that I could not afford a house at that time. What is home when access is limited? What is the benefit of building new programmes and new housing when they are ridiculously expensive? So, I was homeless because I was not able to pay. The job I had at that time was not able to provide me with a one-bedroom apartment. For that reason, I wasn’t able to provide that and also keep up with my education, a student loan, and everything that I had to deal with. The affordability of houses became a challenge for me. And that is why I am very passionate about affordable housing here in Prince George’s County, because no family should experience what I experienced. No family should be able to choose between food and where to lay their head. No family should be put in that situation where they have to give up something just to have a home to sleep.

Did you face homelessness alone or with your family?

At that time, I was not married and had no children. And I thank God because if I were married with children, I don’t know how I could have handled it. So, I was able to handle it with resilience because I was single at that time. Think about it for families who have children, who have parents living with them, like aged parents. Imagine how they could handle that situation. So, it wasn’t able to break me because at that time, I didn’t have children. I was just worried about myself. But regardless of that, I was handling it by myself.

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How did you overcome that challenge?

It was a combination of both sleeping on the street and squatting with someone for those two weeks. I felt like I was not treated with respect. I was not treated with empathy. And that is what I’m fighting for. I remember I was going from McDonald’s stores, just trying to get something to eat because McDonald’s at that time was one of the most affordable places to eat a burger or chicken nugget. But people wouldn’t know that I was homeless because of how I handled it. Sometimes I went to Walmart to see if I could afford a cookie to buy. Access to phones and social media was very limited at that time. I didn’t have all the resources with me. However, a good Samaritan found me and accommodated me after I shared my situation with her, and she helped me until I was able to find a place for myself.

When did you relocate to the US?

I moved from Nigeria to the United States at a very early age. And I came here to study. I got admission to the University of Maryland. I was very excited. It was just a very sweet story. Being a young girl at that time, I came with big dreams for myself. And I needed an advanced education for the kind of dreams I had for myself. And I think right now all those dreams are playing out. I also want to say thank you to America for providing me with a lot of essential resources to help me succeed. This is a very working country. The law is working. I’m grateful for the opportunities that have been provided to me here to excel and to be where I am today. I am an immigrant, but fighting for these people passionately. I want every family to succeed and flourish.

How has your academic background shaped your dreams?

I’m into information technology. To be quite honest with you, I was like the black sheep of the family back in the day because at that time, technology was not like this. Technology was like one of the things that nobody would talk about, but at that time, I had the vision of where my future was headed. I knew that we would get to where innovation would be prominent in every decision. My family wanted me to become a medical doctor or a nurse. They just told me to be in healthcare because my family is very centred in healthcare. However, I went my own direction into technology, so I got my associate’s degree in information technology. I got my master’s degree in cybersecurity, and then I went ahead and got my PhD in leadership with an emphasis in business management. Right now, academically, I feel very fulfilled and accomplished, but I still have work to do for my community with all this knowledge and education. I have tremendous experience and life lessons to pour into this trip forward.

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What is significant about Maryland as one of the popular abodes of African-Americans?

I would say Maryland is my great state. I’m very proud to be a Marylander. Maryland is rooted in a very deep historical black. It is for black and brown communities, and we carry a very strong history of generations from the struggle of slavery to the triumph of civil rights leaders that we have today. Maryland is a place for everyone, a state that accommodates immigrants. It also has a very strong educational foundation. It is very vibrant in cultural heritage and festivals, local businesses, and tradition. Maryland gives residents unique opportunities to engage and influence national decisions. It is a state for anyone who wants to flourish, and I feel very proud to be part of the history that we are making here.

What are your thoughts about Nigeria?

Nigeria is a country full of potential. I’m a proud Nigerian. I was born in Nigeria, so I have a deep love and passion for my country. I love our food, Jollof rice, culture, and I love being in Nigeria. I will clearly say that Nigeria has incredible potential, but leadership often struggles with corruption and short-term thinking. In my opinion, Nigerian leaders have a very short-term perspective. The country needs visionary leaders who empower the youth and hold themselves accountable. I feel like that is lacking within the Nigerian leadership. The country needs leaders who prioritise education. A country that is not educated is heading for doom. There are natural and human resources, so Nigeria needs leaders to blend these resources for the people to flourish. I must state that we need leaders who know transparency, trust, and building trust between leaders and citizens for sustainable progress and national unity. I think we need that in Nigeria.

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Catholic bishops’ inconvenient truth

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Politics and religion often conflate into a toxic brew. So, it is with the storm over John Onaiyekan’s comments after the recent meeting between President Bola Tinubu and the Catholic Bishops’ Conference of Nigeria. As the waves billow and swell, the encounter opens a window into the tremors in government rather than the cardinal’s intentions.

Instead of treating the bishops’ observations as sincere moral feedback from a respected institution, some of the administration’s vocal defenders responded with personal attacks, accusing the cardinal of partisanship and abuse of clerical privilege.

That reaction was unfortunate and avoidable.

No elected government claiming democratic credentials should treat independent criticism as hostility.

Yet the ferocious responses from the Minister of the FCT, Nyesom Wike; the President’s Special Adviser on Policy Communication, Daniel Bwala; and the SSA on Media, Temitope Ajayi, suggested Onaiyekan had committed a grave offence by saying the bishops told the President Nigeria was “bleeding,” that poverty was worsening, and many were struggling under economic reforms.

The cardinal’s fault was not fabricating facts but speaking publicly about an uncomfortable conversation.

He said the President disagreed, insisting the economy was improving and reforms were laying the foundation for recovery.

The bishops, he said, neither expected agreement nor sought to embarrass the President; they were discharging a moral duty to tell him what many Nigerians could not.

That should have ended the matter. Instead, critics turned a healthy exchange into a public quarrel. Bwala questioned the cardinal’s neutrality, alleging the church supported Peter Obi in 2023.

Ajayi dismissed the bishops as offering only one perspective. Wike argued that having taken sides in a past election disqualified the cardinal from impartiality and faulted the bishops for questioning INEC’s neutrality ahead of 2027 without stronger proof.

These points merit consideration. Religious leaders, like journalists and civil society actors, should aim for fairness as credibility rests on intellectual honesty. Achievements by government should be acknowledged. But fairness works both ways.

The administration’s defenders owe Nigerians an honest engagement with the bishops’ substance rather than attempts to discredit the messengers.

Who the cardinal voted for is irrelevant to whether millions of Nigerians are suffering. Hunger and inflation do not check party membership before striking families.

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One of the weakest responses to public criticism is to attack motives while avoiding the issues raised. That strategy failed to convince many Nigerians. Therefore, it is no surprise that support for Onaiyekan flowed from across civic space.

The Northern Youth Council said he reflected lived realities; the Middle Belt Forum called the attacks unfair; the Catholic Laity Council defended the church’s pastoral duty to speak for the vulnerable.

Former governor and minister Rotimi Amaechi, himself a Catholic, reminded the Presidency that bishops have every right to criticise governments and urged responses based on evidence, not indignation.

Even Orji Kalu, APC senator and former Abia State governor, threatened to resign from the party if the bishops were insulted, noting their similar interventions across Africa.

The public backlash appears to have prompted moderation. Secretary to the Government of the Federation, George Akume, reaffirmed the administration’s respect for the Catholic Church and promised deeper consultations.

That is the mature response expected of a confident government, and it should have been the first instinct.

The episode exposes a deeper problem.

With the 2027 elections on the horizon, there is a growing tendency in official circles to interpret every criticism through a partisan lens.

Independent institutions that refuse to sing from the government’s hymn book risk being branded hostile. Such defensiveness serves neither democracy nor good governance.

Onaiyekan’s sharper point was that too many people around the President paint an overly rosy picture of the country. Whether entirely fair, the observation highlights a real danger that administrations insulated by courtiers and loyalists risk mistaking praise for patriotism.

Presidents need more than briefings, official statistics and flattering presentations. They need uncomfortable truths from independent voices including economists, labour unions, journalists, business leaders, traditional rulers and religious organisations.

Governments that refuse to listen lose touch with the people they govern. That is why criticism is not the enemy of reform; silence is.

The Tinubu administration can rightly argue it inherited an economy in deep distress and that difficult choices were necessary. Removing the petrol subsidy and liberalising the foreign exchange market were politically costly but, many economists agree, economically inevitable.

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The government has expanded fiscal space for states, created NELFUND, launched youth initiatives, and helped end the destructive cycle of prolonged ASUU strikes. These are notable achievements and deserve acknowledgement.

But governments are judged by citizens’ lived realities, not only by economic theory or improving macro indicators.

Foreign reserves have strengthened to $52 billion from about $3 billion, fiscal revenues rose to all-time highs, and the naira exchange rate has stabilised compared with the immediate post-reform shock.

Yet these gains have not delivered meaningful relief for the average Nigerian. Inflation remains punishing at over 15 per cent and above 37 per cent in at least 10 states; food and transport costs are soaring; healthcare and medication are costly; electricity tariffs and rent have escalated; small businesses struggle with high energy costs and expensive credit.

For too many families, over 70 per cent of income is spent on feeding alone. Multidimensional poverty affects 63 per cent of Nigerians, per the World Bank.

The bishops sought to communicate that reality. It cannot be dismissed by citing encouraging macro trends.

The reforms are also incomplete. A parallel foreign-exchange market persists, reflecting distortions and weak confidence.

Oil production remains below projections. Domestic refiners complain of inadequate crude supply even as the government extends Project Gazelle with a new $4.5 billion refinancing, raising concerns about future crude commitments while local refining capacity is planned to double.

External debt keeps rising, increasing exchange-rate exposure and debt-service obligations, which already consume half of revenues.

Terrorism, banditry and kidnapping continue to terrorise large swathes of the country, driving farmers from fertile lands and worsening food inflation.

Official and independent reports indicate that more than 628,000 people have been killed and over 2.2 million abducted since 2023, according to a BusinessDay report in June.

These are measurable national realities, not opposition talking points. Governments need independent voices to speak honestly about them.  No pushback can erase the fact that Nigeria is bleeding.

The Catholic Church has a long history of such moral witness. During military rule, bishops such as Olubunmi Okogie, an Emeritus Cardinal, condemned authoritarianism, corruption and human-rights abuses.

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Under democratic governments, the church continued to criticise administrations across the political spectrum over insecurity, governance failures and human suffering. Its loyalty has been to moral principles, not to any party.

Tinubu should not regard himself as uniquely persecuted, nor should his supporters mistake clerical witness for partisan politics.

Religious leaders are, firstly, citizens. They bury terrorism victims, counsel unemployed graduates, comfort widows and feed hungry families. If such leaders cannot speak about poverty, insecurity and governance, democracy becomes a farce.

Political parties are also inconsistent. Many who now defend petrol subsidy removal opposed it when it was proposed under President Goodluck Jonathan. Those who benefited from the freedom to criticise must not deny others the same liberty when roles reverse.

One of the most perilous governance tendencies is believing that criticism weakens government. On the contrary, governments make worse mistakes when they become prisoners of official optimism.

They need independent feedback to test whether policies yield intended outcomes. Economic models and official reports are necessary but insufficient; they must be complemented by honest input from labour, business, academia, the media, civil society and faith leaders. Without it, governments risk governing statistical abstractions rather than human realities.

It is encouraging that the administration now appears to be recalibrating. Akume’s pledge of deeper engagement deserves commendation.

Consultation, not confrontation, marks mature democratic leadership. The Presidency gains nothing by quarrelling with institutions focused on the country’s welfare.

Tinubu has often said he welcomes constructive criticism. He insisted that he sought the job and should not be pitied. This episode is a chance to prove it.

Labelling respected clerics as partisan for voicing uncomfortable truths suggests the administration may lack confidence in the transformative power of its own reforms. That is diminishing.

Nigeria’s problems are too serious for official defensiveness. Reform is a journey requiring constant feedback. The bishops fulfilled their civic and moral duty. The Presidency must perform its constitutional role by listening, not by silencing dissent.

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LACK OF TRUST IN MARRIAGE

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A marriage can survive difficult times, financial struggles, and disagreements—but when trust disappears, the relationship begins to lose its foundation.

When a husband no longer trusts his wife, or a wife no longer trusts her husband, even innocent actions can become suspicious. A simple phone call becomes a question. Coming home late becomes an accusation. A private conversation becomes a source of fear and jealousy.

Lack of trust creates emotional distance.

It produces constant suspicion, arguments, insecurity, resentment, and sometimes secretive behaviour. Instead of feeling safe with each other, couples begin to feel like enemies living under the same roof.

Trust is not built by controlling your spouse, checking their phone every minute, or constantly demanding explanations. Trust is built through honesty, faithfulness, transparency, consistency, and keeping your word.

If trust has been broken, don’t pretend everything is fine. Talk about it. Admit mistakes. Forgive where possible. Set healthy boundaries. And be willing to rebuild what has been damaged.

Remember: love may bring two people together, but trust helps keep them together.

💔 Don’t allow suspicion to destroy what communication and honesty can repair.

BUILD TRUST. BE FAITHFUL. BE HONEST. PROTECT YOUR MARRIAGE.

“Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour.”
— Ephesians 4:25 (KJV)

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LACK OF OPENNESS IN MARRIAGE

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A marriage can look beautiful on the outside and still be struggling on the inside when there is no openness between husband and wife.

When couples stop communicating honestly, keep secrets, hide their feelings, or are afraid to discuss important issues, emotional distance begins to grow. What starts as “I don’t want to cause a problem” can eventually become mistrust, resentment, loneliness, and constant misunderstanding.

Openness does not mean telling your spouse everything in a hurtful or careless way. It means creating a safe relationship where both partners can honestly talk about their feelings, concerns, mistakes, finances, expectations, struggles, and dreams without fear of unnecessary humiliation or condemnation.

A strong marriage requires:

• Honest communication — Talk about problems instead of allowing them to grow in silence.
• Trust and transparency — Avoid unnecessary secrecy that can damage confidence in the relationship.
• Active listening — Listen to understand, not simply to respond or attack.
• Emotional vulnerability — Let your spouse know when you are hurting, worried, disappointed, or afraid.
• Respect — Honesty should never become an excuse for insults, threats, or emotional abuse.
• Forgiveness — When mistakes are acknowledged, work together toward healing and restoration.

The Bible says:

“Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.” — Proverbs 11:14 (KJV)

And:

“Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.” — James 1:19 (KJV)

Marriage should be a place where two people can feel safe enough to communicate, honest enough to admit their weaknesses, and humble enough to work through their differences.

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Don’t allow silence, secrets, and suspicion to build walls between you and your spouse. Talk. Listen. Understand. Forgive. Grow together.

❤️ Openness builds trust. Trust strengthens intimacy. And healthy communication helps build a stronger marriage.

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